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I couldn’t sleep last night, worrying about a Reform government

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Cluborange666 · 01/08/2025 09:15

I am really worried. I think they’ll wreck the economy. I’ve got a few years left to pay off my mortgage from my job that deals with immigrants. I don’t want our pensions to tank. I don’t want my sons’ lives to be messed around. I worry about more racism, the more ‘voice’ that Reform get. I live in a very multicultural city and non-white people tell me that they are experiencing more overt racism. It makes me feel very insecure about the future.

wish Labour would do more to show that they are on the side of ordinary people as I think that’s what is driving this (I’m a Labour voter). I don’t think the creation of Your Party will help, just give Reform more advantages.

Sigh. Happy to be told I’m unreasonable as I think the future looks bleak.

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ThePhantomoftheEcobubbleOpera · 02/08/2025 09:58

BIossomtoes · 02/08/2025 09:58

Then the answer is not to retaliate, isn’t it? The people who report personal attacks are simply abiding by the site guidelines. Your posts wouldn’t be reported and deleted if you did the same.

I'm not retaliating. I'm just highlighting my observation.

Quirkswork · 02/08/2025 09:58

MiloMinderbinder925 · 02/08/2025 09:18

WTF do you mean by the majority of the UK are Reform voters? There are FOUR Reform MPs. And you're calling people simple.

Well PR does give strange results re votes cast/MP

We shall have to wait and see whether the majority of the UK are reform voters so that's reasonable.

BIossomtoes · 02/08/2025 09:59

ThePhantomoftheEcobubbleOpera · 02/08/2025 09:58

I'm not retaliating. I'm just highlighting my observation.

Nuthatch said that was the motivation. 🤷‍♀️

EasternStandard · 02/08/2025 10:00

PandoraSocks · 02/08/2025 09:58

Good God. If only there was so much outrage about the racism on this site as there has been to my (checks notes) childish posts.

Carry on putting the boot in. I really don't care.

Eta: my slightly silly posts from last night are still there. None of them were offensive or personal attacks. They were just silly. Do report them if you disagree.

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Meh maybe people have had enough with the bot and not in good faith accusations trying to drive anyone off if they’re not Labour enough.

Bumblebee72 · 02/08/2025 10:02

PandoraSocks · 02/08/2025 09:43

Exactly.

If Farage gets in, one of two things will happen:

Reform will find a way to to stop the boats (unlikely). Ordinary people will find their lives are not improved one jot by the boats stopping. They will realise they have been sold a pig in a poke.

Reform don't stop the boats. Again, pig in a poke.

And they might focus on reducing the size of the state and getting our tax bills down. It isn't just small boats that need to change.

Labour have borrowed against further growth and then taken actions to prevent it happening. It's like taking a payday loan and then quitting your job so the payday doesn't come. People aren't seeing this because they like the jam today.

EasternStandard · 02/08/2025 10:02

Dontcallmescarface · 02/08/2025 09:56

Reform won't "stop the boats" because if they did they'd have nothing left and the party would be finished.

Well no this doesn’t apply when in power.

No party would run on overturning it though.

Bumblebee72 · 02/08/2025 10:06

It is not racist to think that the number of people coming this country needs to be curved.

Julen7 · 02/08/2025 10:06

ThePhantomoftheEcobubbleOpera · 02/08/2025 09:45

And yet Keir said that he would smash the gangs with an elite task force and they would reduce illegal migration and made it part of his manifesto and yet we have seen the highest number of small boat migrants in history.

I wish someone would ask Starmer what happened to ”smashing the gangs”

SilenceOfTheTimTams · 02/08/2025 10:10

Bumblebee72 · 02/08/2025 10:02

And they might focus on reducing the size of the state and getting our tax bills down. It isn't just small boats that need to change.

Labour have borrowed against further growth and then taken actions to prevent it happening. It's like taking a payday loan and then quitting your job so the payday doesn't come. People aren't seeing this because they like the jam today.

The only economic policies so far floated by Reform have been promoting populist handouts. I can’t see that their angry voter base would swallow prudent public spending cutbacks.

BIossomtoes · 02/08/2025 10:17

SilenceOfTheTimTams · 02/08/2025 10:10

The only economic policies so far floated by Reform have been promoting populist handouts. I can’t see that their angry voter base would swallow prudent public spending cutbacks.

This is an indication of Reform’s fiscal policy. It’s the absolute definition of jam today.

https://ifs.org.uk/news/response-mornings-reform-uk-policy-announcements

MiloMinderbinder925 · 02/08/2025 10:21

Quirkswork · 02/08/2025 09:58

Well PR does give strange results re votes cast/MP

We shall have to wait and see whether the majority of the UK are reform voters so that's reasonable.

They'd have to get an absolute landslide to go from four seats to over 300.

Shakeoffyourchains · 02/08/2025 10:22

ThePhantomoftheEcobubbleOpera · 02/08/2025 09:32

Yes, I also think Labour supporters are significant in the Labour party's lack of support.

Rolling out insults in response to genuine concerns. Or making lawyer like answers which are technically correct - illegal immigrants don't get benefits - to distract from the burden on the state from the 25,000 new illegal arrivals so far this year - is the kind of arrogance that people find infuriating. Othering voters of other parties by suggesting that they are a different kind of lesser people - is a tactic boringly familiar to Conservative voters.

But yes, this superiority complex is pushing people to Reform. I'm sure Nigel is very grateful.

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Why is it OK for right wingers to call the left all sorts of derogatory names, dismiss their genuine concerns, and completely ignore facts, evidence and reality but not for anyone else to do the same?

solando · 02/08/2025 10:24

I must admit like PP's way back in the thread I'm missing Rishi, even if I didn't agree with Eat out and spread it about. At least he seemed to know what he was talking about.

EasternStandard · 02/08/2025 10:24

Great speaker on Times radio rn on liberal intellectualism and the real fury and rage people are feeling on migration. This can be seen in other EU countries. Look at Greece rn and others flare up.

Eventually it’ll be through votes when an electoral system isn’t inhibiting enough.

FreezeDriedStrawberries · 02/08/2025 10:26

I've voted YABU, but only because I think your worrying is excessive and not healthy.
I agree with you that Reform would be a nightmare if they got in (to put it mildly) but there's no point in worrying about it so much. Sounds simple, but turn off the news, step away from screens for a while and try and engage in getting out into nature /outside more to try and clear your head a bit.

SilenceOfTheTimTams · 02/08/2025 10:27

solando · 02/08/2025 10:24

I must admit like PP's way back in the thread I'm missing Rishi, even if I didn't agree with Eat out and spread it about. At least he seemed to know what he was talking about.

Ah, but his wife is very rich. So therefore he was bad, bad, bad. And he was up to all sorts of corrupt shenanigans. According to Labour. 🙄

EasternStandard · 02/08/2025 10:28

SilenceOfTheTimTams · 02/08/2025 10:27

Ah, but his wife is very rich. So therefore he was bad, bad, bad. And he was up to all sorts of corrupt shenanigans. According to Labour. 🙄

People go on about the media and Labour but they did a far bigger number on Sunak. A pity as his policies were better than Labour’s.

Of course the blind belief in Starmer, smash the gangs and anti growth policy was part of it.

Bumblebee72 · 02/08/2025 10:29

SilenceOfTheTimTams · 02/08/2025 10:10

The only economic policies so far floated by Reform have been promoting populist handouts. I can’t see that their angry voter base would swallow prudent public spending cutbacks.

Have you read their policy document? They would like unemployment benefit to those who don't take up jobs they could do, tighten sickness benefits, and incentive businesses to run apprenticeships for the long term unemployed. The majority of the plans read like what the conservatives would have done before they turned into labour.

Goldenbear · 02/08/2025 10:31

ThePhantomoftheEcobubbleOpera · 02/08/2025 09:54

No, I don't have an itchy report finger. I prefer posts to stand. But the entitlement to insult people while reporting those who do the same is characteristic of Labour supporters on MN.

I'm not being funny but welcome to Mumsnet, "it was ever thus", it has never been a case of walking like a cat around hot porridge, that was for the other site!

ThePhantomoftheEcobubbleOpera · 02/08/2025 10:33

Shakeoffyourchains · 02/08/2025 10:22

Why is it OK for right wingers to call the left all sorts of derogatory names, dismiss their genuine concerns, and completely ignore facts, evidence and reality but not for anyone else to do the same?

I haven't done anything like this. And. if others are, and I rarely see it, then it isn't serving only to push people to vote for the people they disagree with the most. Reform are on course to get a majority, something needs to change but it won't be achieved with sanctimonious finger wagging and insults

Bumblebee72 · 02/08/2025 10:35

ThePhantomoftheEcobubbleOpera · 02/08/2025 09:54

No, I don't have an itchy report finger. I prefer posts to stand. But the entitlement to insult people while reporting those who do the same is characteristic of Labour supporters on MN.

That is a real life version of the traditional difference in political views through isn't it? Labour voters expect "Nanny" to sort out their lives, Conservative voters expect the state to stay out of what they do as much as possible.

ThePhantomoftheEcobubbleOpera · 02/08/2025 10:36

Goldenbear · 02/08/2025 10:31

I'm not being funny but welcome to Mumsnet, "it was ever thus", it has never been a case of walking like a cat around hot porridge, that was for the other site!

You are right, you aren't being funny. And I have been here long enough to know there was a time when people would play the ball and not the woman, even in political discussions.

SilenceOfTheTimTams · 02/08/2025 10:36

Bumblebee72 · 02/08/2025 10:29

Have you read their policy document? They would like unemployment benefit to those who don't take up jobs they could do, tighten sickness benefits, and incentive businesses to run apprenticeships for the long term unemployed. The majority of the plans read like what the conservatives would have done before they turned into labour.

Yes, I have. It patently avoids anything about bringing down the welfare bill or state pension reform.

Many Reform target areas have high numbers of benefit claimants and state pension dependents. Cutting taxes without cutting social expenditure is a recipe for disaster.

BIossomtoes · 02/08/2025 10:43

ThePhantomoftheEcobubbleOpera · 02/08/2025 10:36

You are right, you aren't being funny. And I have been here long enough to know there was a time when people would play the ball and not the woman, even in political discussions.

I’ve been here for years and I don’t remember that. There’s been rudeness and name calling for as long as I can remember but it’s next level now. I personally won’t tolerate it and have no hesitation in reporting offensive posts regardless of their source. It would soon stop if it was a policy adopted more widely.

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