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I couldn’t sleep last night, worrying about a Reform government

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Cluborange666 · 01/08/2025 09:15

I am really worried. I think they’ll wreck the economy. I’ve got a few years left to pay off my mortgage from my job that deals with immigrants. I don’t want our pensions to tank. I don’t want my sons’ lives to be messed around. I worry about more racism, the more ‘voice’ that Reform get. I live in a very multicultural city and non-white people tell me that they are experiencing more overt racism. It makes me feel very insecure about the future.

wish Labour would do more to show that they are on the side of ordinary people as I think that’s what is driving this (I’m a Labour voter). I don’t think the creation of Your Party will help, just give Reform more advantages.

Sigh. Happy to be told I’m unreasonable as I think the future looks bleak.

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EasternStandard · 02/08/2025 09:31

PandoraSocks · 02/08/2025 09:25

Yep. I really hope MN doesn't end up.like Twitter. It would be a shame.

What was your post to @LevoitPotato? Just mn version of Twitter?

ThePhantomoftheEcobubbleOpera · 02/08/2025 09:32

Yes, I also think Labour supporters are significant in the Labour party's lack of support.

Rolling out insults in response to genuine concerns. Or making lawyer like answers which are technically correct - illegal immigrants don't get benefits - to distract from the burden on the state from the 25,000 new illegal arrivals so far this year - is the kind of arrogance that people find infuriating. Othering voters of other parties by suggesting that they are a different kind of lesser people - is a tactic boringly familiar to Conservative voters.

But yes, this superiority complex is pushing people to Reform. I'm sure Nigel is very grateful.

LakieLady · 02/08/2025 09:34

ThePhantomoftheEcobubbleOpera · 02/08/2025 08:00

What you are saying amounts to a sleight of hand. Most illegal small boat migrants apply for temporary asylum, they are then housed and fed and given a stipend by the state. That seems like a benefit to me - even if that isn't 'benefits' though some evasive specificity.

Prisoners are housed and fed, too, would you say that they "get benefits"?

PandoraSocks · 02/08/2025 09:34

SilenceOfTheTimTams · 02/08/2025 09:24

I can see why you feel that. There are some hateful posts on this site about Muslims. And those posters should be ashamed.

But I’d hope you can also see the revolting antisemitism that is proudly and frequently displayed by so many on MN. There seems to be no shame among those people.

I absolutely can and have challenged it where I have seen it. Although I don't go on the CITME section much. The anti-semetism seems to be mainly concentrated there rather than on AIBU etc.

SilenceOfTheTimTams · 02/08/2025 09:35

LakieLady · 02/08/2025 09:26

Reform bang the drum about stopping the boats. How will they do that? The tories were prepared to waste millions and how are they going to solve it? I am genuinely interested because no one has solved this yet Reform will magically do this?

I'd very much like to know how they will do it, too.

The last time I looked into the policy, I could only find a proposal to take them back to France. I think that would bring the UK govt into conflict with the French.

Even if it succeeded, I'm sure desperate people would soon find another way.

Spot on. No party can stop asylum seekers. It’s just not possible.

The political damage is done by bogus promises being exposed. The Tories suffered from that, Labour exploited it and is now in deep shit itself because of its “smash the gangs” bullshit.

Reform would suffer the most if it got into power because it’s a one-trick pony party. And its single trick is a barefaced lie.

EasternStandard · 02/08/2025 09:39

LakieLady · 02/08/2025 09:34

Prisoners are housed and fed, too, would you say that they "get benefits"?

I would say the taxpayer funds this and the asylum process. People mean it’s at a cost. So the it’s only £7 response (not sure how much) doesn’t really stop the view it’s a high cost.

EasternStandard · 02/08/2025 09:42

SilenceOfTheTimTams · 02/08/2025 09:35

Spot on. No party can stop asylum seekers. It’s just not possible.

The political damage is done by bogus promises being exposed. The Tories suffered from that, Labour exploited it and is now in deep shit itself because of its “smash the gangs” bullshit.

Reform would suffer the most if it got into power because it’s a one-trick pony party. And its single trick is a barefaced lie.

It can be done as other countries have done it. I’m not sure which EU country will get there first, or UK, but the pressure will increase.

PandoraSocks · 02/08/2025 09:43

SilenceOfTheTimTams · 02/08/2025 09:35

Spot on. No party can stop asylum seekers. It’s just not possible.

The political damage is done by bogus promises being exposed. The Tories suffered from that, Labour exploited it and is now in deep shit itself because of its “smash the gangs” bullshit.

Reform would suffer the most if it got into power because it’s a one-trick pony party. And its single trick is a barefaced lie.

Exactly.

If Farage gets in, one of two things will happen:

Reform will find a way to to stop the boats (unlikely). Ordinary people will find their lives are not improved one jot by the boats stopping. They will realise they have been sold a pig in a poke.

Reform don't stop the boats. Again, pig in a poke.

ThePhantomoftheEcobubbleOpera · 02/08/2025 09:43

...if people walked into prisons each day to be housed and fed and given a stipend then the housing and the food would be a benefit of walking in to a prison. The cost to the state of that willingness is picked up by the taxpayer - some of whom are struggling to feed and house themselves.

TheNuthatch · 02/08/2025 09:44

EasternStandard · 02/08/2025 09:23

How does this help anyway? Surely it puts more off Labour.

It seems some pps can be as offensive as they like. Then they report when it is reciprocated.

solando · 02/08/2025 09:44

PandoraSocks · 02/08/2025 09:25

Yep. I really hope MN doesn't end up.like Twitter. It would be a shame.

Just because posters don't agree with you it doesn't mean they are not valid posters, you can AS all you like to try to find Bots, Tory HQ(that's an old one), new posters, but the majority will be perfectly normal posters, just not labour supporters.

ThePhantomoftheEcobubbleOpera · 02/08/2025 09:45

And yet Keir said that he would smash the gangs with an elite task force and they would reduce illegal migration and made it part of his manifesto and yet we have seen the highest number of small boat migrants in history.

EasternStandard · 02/08/2025 09:45

TheNuthatch · 02/08/2025 09:44

It seems some pps can be as offensive as they like. Then they report when it is reciprocated.

Bizarre isn’t it.

Julen7 · 02/08/2025 09:49

solando · 02/08/2025 09:44

Just because posters don't agree with you it doesn't mean they are not valid posters, you can AS all you like to try to find Bots, Tory HQ(that's an old one), new posters, but the majority will be perfectly normal posters, just not labour supporters.

Yes and just because you don’t like what some posters say (when relating a personal experience) doesn’t mean they are making it up (Pandora)

PandoraSocks · 02/08/2025 09:50

solando · 02/08/2025 09:44

Just because posters don't agree with you it doesn't mean they are not valid posters, you can AS all you like to try to find Bots, Tory HQ(that's an old one), new posters, but the majority will be perfectly normal posters, just not labour supporters.

Most posters are valid.

But very occasionally one will pop up that is so obviously not in good faith. Yes I should keep my big gob shut when that happens and will do so in future.

EasternStandard · 02/08/2025 09:51

PandoraSocks · 02/08/2025 09:50

Most posters are valid.

But very occasionally one will pop up that is so obviously not in good faith. Yes I should keep my big gob shut when that happens and will do so in future.

You don’t know that about @LevoitPotatoso better off not implying it’s so obviously not in good faith.

BIossomtoes · 02/08/2025 09:51

TheNuthatch · 02/08/2025 09:44

It seems some pps can be as offensive as they like. Then they report when it is reciprocated.

Then report offensive posts and don’t reciprocate. It’s not difficult.

TheNuthatch · 02/08/2025 09:54

BIossomtoes · 02/08/2025 09:51

Then report offensive posts and don’t reciprocate. It’s not difficult.

I don't take it upon myself to act as thread police. Others do. Complete with childish gifs and emojis.

ThePhantomoftheEcobubbleOpera · 02/08/2025 09:54

No, I don't have an itchy report finger. I prefer posts to stand. But the entitlement to insult people while reporting those who do the same is characteristic of Labour supporters on MN.

Julen7 · 02/08/2025 09:54

TheNuthatch · 02/08/2025 09:54

I don't take it upon myself to act as thread police. Others do. Complete with childish gifs and emojis.

Edited

Yeah it’s a full time job for some

EasternStandard · 02/08/2025 09:56

ThePhantomoftheEcobubbleOpera · 02/08/2025 09:54

No, I don't have an itchy report finger. I prefer posts to stand. But the entitlement to insult people while reporting those who do the same is characteristic of Labour supporters on MN.

Same and agree.

Dontcallmescarface · 02/08/2025 09:56

Reform won't "stop the boats" because if they did they'd have nothing left and the party would be finished.

ThePhantomoftheEcobubbleOpera · 02/08/2025 09:57

Dontcallmescarface · 02/08/2025 09:56

Reform won't "stop the boats" because if they did they'd have nothing left and the party would be finished.

So, if Keir delivered what he promised in his manifesto and could smash the gangs, there'd be no reform party?

BIossomtoes · 02/08/2025 09:58

ThePhantomoftheEcobubbleOpera · 02/08/2025 09:54

No, I don't have an itchy report finger. I prefer posts to stand. But the entitlement to insult people while reporting those who do the same is characteristic of Labour supporters on MN.

Then the answer is not to retaliate, isn’t it? The people who report personal attacks are simply abiding by the site guidelines. Your posts wouldn’t be reported and deleted if you did the same.

PandoraSocks · 02/08/2025 09:58

Good God. If only there was so much outrage about the racism on this site as there has been to my (checks notes) childish posts.

Carry on putting the boot in. I really don't care.

Eta: my slightly silly posts from last night are still there. None of them were offensive or personal attacks. They were just silly. Do report them if you disagree.

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