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I couldn’t sleep last night, worrying about a Reform government

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Cluborange666 · 01/08/2025 09:15

I am really worried. I think they’ll wreck the economy. I’ve got a few years left to pay off my mortgage from my job that deals with immigrants. I don’t want our pensions to tank. I don’t want my sons’ lives to be messed around. I worry about more racism, the more ‘voice’ that Reform get. I live in a very multicultural city and non-white people tell me that they are experiencing more overt racism. It makes me feel very insecure about the future.

wish Labour would do more to show that they are on the side of ordinary people as I think that’s what is driving this (I’m a Labour voter). I don’t think the creation of Your Party will help, just give Reform more advantages.

Sigh. Happy to be told I’m unreasonable as I think the future looks bleak.

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Strumpetpumpet · 01/08/2025 19:22

I share your concern OP and I struggle to understand how anyone who claims not to be a racist finds Reform appealing. Brexit has been and continues to be an economic disaster, it hasn’t reduced immigration and yet people still want to vote for the brexit party. It would be funny if it weren’t so serious. The only saving grace is I think reform would struggle to form a government- they’re struggling to run councils as they don’t have enough half way competent councillors, and Farage doesn’t like hard work so I can’t for one second imagine him as PM. If you ask them about policy they are utterly clueless.

WhereIsMyJumper · 01/08/2025 19:52

genesis92 · 01/08/2025 18:35

😂😂😂

Im sorry, but that is hilarious. You literally couldn’t sleep because you’re worried about a right of centre government getting elected in a few years?!

Some people really need to get a grip. You don’t even know they are going to destroy the economy, or even do a terrible job? You want them to though, clearly.

If certain problems in the country aren’t sorted, and Labour certainly won’t then what do you suggest? You have no idea what an actual “far right” party could look like, because Reform certainly isn’t that.

Why is this country full of so many shivering pansies these days.

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Love4both · 01/08/2025 20:05

Do you really think Reform would be worse than this government that has no idea how to govern

PandoraSocks · 01/08/2025 20:14
Summer Flower GIF

I'd rather be a "shivering pansy" than a supporter of a bigoted grifter and his rich mates.

Goldenbear · 01/08/2025 20:31

Love4both · 01/08/2025 20:05

Do you really think Reform would be worse than this government that has no idea how to govern

Do you even have to ask - 100% yes!

Shedmistress · 01/08/2025 20:35

PandoraSocks · 01/08/2025 20:14

I'd rather be a "shivering pansy" than a supporter of a bigoted grifter and his rich mates.

Aren't they all bigoted grifters with richmates?

PandoraSocks · 01/08/2025 20:42

Shedmistress · 01/08/2025 20:35

Aren't they all bigoted grifters with richmates?

Are all Reform supporters grifters? No.

Do all Reform supporters have rich mates? I don't think so, tbh.

TheNuthatch · 01/08/2025 20:51

Shedmistress · 01/08/2025 20:35

Aren't they all bigoted grifters with richmates?

Starmer fits that description too.

PandoraSocks · 01/08/2025 21:14

I suppose most MPs grift to a certain extent, to be fair. But I don't think Starmer is a bigot.

Quirkswork · 01/08/2025 21:30

PandoraSocks · 01/08/2025 21:14

I suppose most MPs grift to a certain extent, to be fair. But I don't think Starmer is a bigot.

He does think most of us are far right though. That does seem a little bigoted.

Teanbiscuits33 · 01/08/2025 21:31

twistyizzy · 01/08/2025 14:17

No, I think more about education, free speech, the economy, jobs for young people, taxation, food security, conservation of our woodland and countryside etc. All of which are going to shit under Labour.
Personally immigration doesn't impact me (yet ) but I understand why many people who are experiencing the impact in their towns + cities do focus on it. I don't decry them as rascist or obsessive, I seek to understand their concerns.

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‘’Free speech’’- here you go again with your hypocritical projection. Farage is a massive hypocrite when it comes to free speech, he only advocates for it while it benefits him.

He threw a hissy fit over what Peter Kyle said the other day. Do you want free speech or not? His councillors are banning books they don’t agree with out of libraries. Free speech or not? He supports a man who is banning student protests and who is detaining people at the borders who have spoken out against him. Free speech or not? It doesn’t only go one way.

Freedom of speech does not mean freedom from consequence.

Quirkswork · 01/08/2025 21:34

Teanbiscuits33 · 01/08/2025 21:31

‘’Free speech’’- here you go again with your hypocritical projection. Farage is a massive hypocrite when it comes to free speech, he only advocates for it while it benefits him.

He threw a hissy fit over what Peter Kyle said the other day. Do you want free speech or not? His councillors are banning books they don’t agree with out of libraries. Free speech or not? He supports a man who is banning student protests and who is detaining people at the borders who have spoken out against him. Free speech or not? It doesn’t only go one way.

Freedom of speech does not mean freedom from consequence.

Free speech that isn't defamatory though. Peter Kyle said what he said outside the H of C so Farage can sue. He should. He effectively accused Farage of supporting paedophiles. Just shows how terrified Labour are of Reform.

Teanbiscuits33 · 01/08/2025 21:37

Quirkswork · 01/08/2025 21:34

Free speech that isn't defamatory though. Peter Kyle said what he said outside the H of C so Farage can sue. He should. He effectively accused Farage of supporting paedophiles. Just shows how terrified Labour are of Reform.

But people who advocate for free speech mean that that free rein to be as racist, ableist, and misogynistic as they like, incite violence and hatred as much as they like and they should be allowed to do so without any consequences. That’s fine, is it?

Quirkswork · 01/08/2025 21:42

Teanbiscuits33 · 01/08/2025 21:37

But people who advocate for free speech mean that that free rein to be as racist, ableist, and misogynistic as they like, incite violence and hatred as much as they like and they should be allowed to do so without any consequences. That’s fine, is it?

No I'm fairly sure Nigel Farage advocates staying within the law.

Teanbiscuits33 · 01/08/2025 21:44

Quirkswork · 01/08/2025 21:34

Free speech that isn't defamatory though. Peter Kyle said what he said outside the H of C so Farage can sue. He should. He effectively accused Farage of supporting paedophiles. Just shows how terrified Labour are of Reform.

Farage isn’t interested in safety of women and girls like he says he is unless it’s an opportunity to incite hatred towards immigrants. He never mentions SA when it’s committed by white men, never even mentioned the time when his own nephew got done for upskirting and supports a rapist who said he’d date his own daughter, lurked in the changing rooms at beauty pageants, thinks it’s fine to ‘grab ‘em by the pussy’ and is in the Epstein files. Of course Farage is whiter than white 😂. Judge ‘em by the company they keep.

Teanbiscuits33 · 01/08/2025 21:45

Quirkswork · 01/08/2025 21:42

No I'm fairly sure Nigel Farage advocates staying within the law.

Yeah course he does.

Quirkswork · 01/08/2025 21:47

Teanbiscuits33 · 01/08/2025 21:44

Farage isn’t interested in safety of women and girls like he says he is unless it’s an opportunity to incite hatred towards immigrants. He never mentions SA when it’s committed by white men, never even mentioned the time when his own nephew got done for upskirting and supports a rapist who said he’d date his own daughter, lurked in the changing rooms at beauty pageants, thinks it’s fine to ‘grab ‘em by the pussy’ and is in the Epstein files. Of course Farage is whiter than white 😂. Judge ‘em by the company they keep.

Yes all that's as may be. I don't know. But its a seperate issue not to do with free speech.

Peter Kyle defamed him on TV.

Quirkswork · 01/08/2025 21:48

Teanbiscuits33 · 01/08/2025 21:45

Yeah course he does.

Well he's hardly going to advocate the law being broken when he's an MP and leader of a political party.

Teanbiscuits33 · 01/08/2025 21:54

Quirkswork · 01/08/2025 21:47

Yes all that's as may be. I don't know. But its a seperate issue not to do with free speech.

Peter Kyle defamed him on TV.

Free speech isn’t it? The whole reason this Free speech debate came in was because the far right didn’t like it when the rioters and those who egged them on got their comeuppence, quite rightly.

People are allowed free speech but people also have to accept the consequences of it and people are also allowed, under that same logic, to tell people they don’t agree with their ‘’free speech’’ without them then screaming, ‘’there’s no free speech in this country’’. It’s absolute bullshit.

You want Farage in, fill your boots. Don’t complain when things go exactly the way they are in the USA, then it will become more apparent what a lack of free speech actually is

TheNuthatch · 01/08/2025 21:56

Quirkswork · 01/08/2025 21:47

Yes all that's as may be. I don't know. But its a seperate issue not to do with free speech.

Peter Kyle defamed him on TV.

I hope NF does sue Kyle.
Whatever you think of Reform, suggesting that Farage would support one of the worst pedophiles the UK has ever seen is disgusting. It's also insulting to the victims to use it as a political weapon.

Teanbiscuits33 · 01/08/2025 21:57

TheNuthatch · 01/08/2025 21:56

I hope NF does sue Kyle.
Whatever you think of Reform, suggesting that Farage would support one of the worst pedophiles the UK has ever seen is disgusting. It's also insulting to the victims to use it as a political weapon.

He already does support a paedophile and a rapist 😂

Quirkswork · 01/08/2025 21:59

Teanbiscuits33 · 01/08/2025 21:54

Free speech isn’t it? The whole reason this Free speech debate came in was because the far right didn’t like it when the rioters and those who egged them on got their comeuppence, quite rightly.

People are allowed free speech but people also have to accept the consequences of it and people are also allowed, under that same logic, to tell people they don’t agree with their ‘’free speech’’ without them then screaming, ‘’there’s no free speech in this country’’. It’s absolute bullshit.

You want Farage in, fill your boots. Don’t complain when things go exactly the way they are in the USA, then it will become more apparent what a lack of free speech actually is

Whether "I" want Farage in is irrelevant. I just don't think MPs should go round accusing other MPs of supporting a necrophiliac paedophile. It's not very good and I don't understand his intention. MPs have been murdered remember.

TheNuthatch · 01/08/2025 22:07

Yes, take the party politics out of it. It's just wrong on every level.
Savile was a prolific sexual predator.

Teanbiscuits33 · 01/08/2025 22:14

I might agree with NF if he said that the reason he disagrees with the Online Safety Act was because of data protection concerns, but he didn’t. He said it went against free speech, so basically he is fine with children being able to access harmful and extremist content. Why is that? Hmm 🤔

Yabberwok · 01/08/2025 22:17

You're worried about reform fucking the country... Your honour I give you Liz Truss, Gordon Brown, James Callahan, Henry Palmerston, Lloyd George et al. The thing is the economy always recovers and grows even higher.

If reform/Farage come to power, like trump, they will actually grow the economy because, unlike Labour and the Tories, they are actually business people who run businesses not some spotty twat who's studied PPE and never actually had a real job

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