Bonnie blue 1000 men and me

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I watched last night (don’t ask me why) I wish I didn’t. Woke up feeling dirty. Pure greed is where her motivation comes from. ‘Bonnie’ aka Tia boasted throughout she is a multi millionaire, where she started making £50k/month and went up to £2m/month before OF shut her account down. Now she’s back to making £600k/month on her new site, selling her body. The men queing up for her 1000 men stunt were just arriving from the street, no one had vetted them and the ones who were on show looked far too old for her and frankly, disgusting in old tracksuit bottoms and huge beer bellies. I’m so concerned by the internet. The young women on the show were ‘Only Fans creators’ and were 18-21, seemed nervous, shy and about to film a porn scene with Bonnie, completely for free but by Bonnie tagging them they would be earning money through new subscribers. These young girls, like Bonnie were stating it’s better than sitting behind a desk.

AIBU to wake up feeling anxious, disgusted, concerned with the damage and short cut to money Only Fans is creating for young women.

You know idea what people go through to protect their family. You’re very entitled

Interesting. Her derogatory stance on women is likely stemmed back to her arrogance and thinks she’s above them. ‘Why are you so boring’ and ‘I’m a millionaire’, ‘if she is in bed period, she has a throat’. She’s also said before she’s very happy never getting married. Seemingly she sees it as a win to sleep with other women’s husbands, justifying it with ‘women aren’t giving the men what they want in the bedroom’ but what about what the man isn’t giving his wife? Starting with faithfulness.

@SwedishEdith she licked some Chalfonts ? I am speechless

I've not heard that expression in many a year, made me chuckle. I must watch it now!!

You seriously think that people are jealous of her? That's so bizarre, the number of adult women who want to do what she does must be in single figures in the whole country and I'd bet none of them are posting on this thread?

I think we shouldn’t know who she is and the fact we do is partly a fault of mainstream and social media giving her attention. At the end of the day, she is highly damaged and the men involved are grim. I just honestly can’t understand what possesses her or the men that are part of it. It’s not like they’re even going to be getting particularly great sex - I’m genuinely baffled as to why they’d risk disease for it.

There is then the wider societal issues of only fans and mainstreaming of porn and what that’ll be doing to teens and young adults as they have their first and early relationships.

I don’t think they are jealous of what she does, but more her success and not following mainstream career choices

If you feel so strongly about this woman, ask yourself why? Really reflect on why you feel such a way. It’s almost always projection.

I'm interested to hear if anyone posting on here is jealous of any aspect of her life imo you can't separate the fact that she doesn't have a desk job with the job she does have and would anyone trade having a life dictated by constantly having to come up with more and more extreme content for the money she says she earns

Maybe I'm giving the Mumsnet demographic more credit than they deserve, is anyone commenting out of jealousy, please fess up

No I am not jealous. I also feel sorry for someone who owns so much flashy designer clobber. I earn a very good wage and so does my husband but I wouldn’t dream of spending £15k on a handbag, let alone dozens. She is wrapped up in her own hype and thinks she is some kind of Hollywood superstar. I’d bet my bottom dollar your Reese Witherspoon’s and Jenifer Anniston’s have far less designer gear than her.

i wouldnt mind having someone wash and blow dry my hair once a week though.! Maybe I will start.

Just think - somewhere some poor sod is going home to one of the blokes who had sex with BB.

I wonder if they know? 🤮

I would love to earn the money she does, however I wouldn’t do what she does for a million pounds. I would literally be gagging at the state of them all. If they all looked like Brad Pitt and I wasn’t married then I’d perhaps reconsider it 😂

Joking aside, many of us on here could do that or could have done it when they were the same age, but they wouldn’t make that choice. She’s nice enough looking but she’s a good average at best, so she doesn’t have anything ‘better’ than many of us on here. Anyone of us could make that choice and be equally as ‘successful’ but we wouldn’t want to degrade ourselves.

You think that unless you're willing to have sex with 1,000 random men forming a queue, then a person can’t know what being broke is!

Saying I’m entitled doesn’t even make sense. Have you had sex with 1,000 men queuing up for it, if not then why not?

Why do you find it degrading?

How could anyone be jealous? It’s literally something any woman could do (just put an SM ad out there and see). Most of us don’t and if you read MN, just doing it with your spouse is more than enough thank you. Imagine the ‘quality’ of men queuing up, the absolute dregs of society. Give me a desk job any day.

What has she done wrong exactly? I can only assume there is jealousy at play here

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How low do you have to be to aspire to fuck 1000 men?

Me too. Without the 1000 willing male participants there would have been no film/event to sell. And none received a fee, as far as I'm aware, so wanted to participate and give away that 'time' in their day for free and for someone else to profit from.
And it wouldn't have been 40 seconds as there would have been ID checks, queuing etc etc.
I haven't seen it yet but I've read both articles and they were offered the choice to wear a balaclava so could be incognito. Even worse but maybe they didn't think they'd get enough participants to get the 1000 if they didn't offer this option.
So there's a whole swathe of men out there happy to do this kind of event as long as they are anonymous.

Why? Why on earth does anyone have to reflect on why they find it disgusting? if it was ok why isn’t it a viable career choice in family and school discussions? You would be happy for your daughter to do this? People don't need your advice/suggestion to reflect on why it’s vile and why she’s seen as damaged. I couldn’t care less about BB, I’ve never seen a photo of her and wouldn’t know her if she knocked on my door but I’d be horrified if my daughter did this, I would have failed as a mother.

What made me a bit sad was her parents are happy to benefit from it all. Her mum literally said something to the tune off everyone claims to have high morals but tf they could earn a million a month they would do it so. Which instantly said she doesn’t have high morals and as long as she is gaining from her daughter being in this industry, then shes happy! If my daughter went down this path I would love her endlessly but I wouldn’t ever accept a single penny from her because I wouldn’t want her to think that I agree with it.

@cosietea You seem to have some kind of invested interest in this being seen as acceptable, and anyone who doesn’t applaud her is lacking. Any particular reason why?

I would prefer to watch a documentary on the kind of men that line up to take part and pay for her content.

I agree.

The documentary on YouTube interviewed one of the men. He was a young teenager and was frightened he’d be made homeless by his dad if he found out what he had done.

She has a disgusting fetish for exploiting young men, who don’t see any of the millions she rakes in from filming them.

I know one journalist exploring this at the moment.

Why is it ‘low’?

But also, does he really believe that men are coming to her because their wives aren’t having sex?

Does it occur to her that men lie?

Lots of men will cheat just because they can. They could be having sex every night with the hottest woman on the world and they’d still cheat and pretend it’s because they’re lonely/their wife doesn’t understand them if only to justify the cheating to themselves.

I don’t hate Bonnie, if she has the stomach for what she’s doing and is willing to take the risk with her safety and health I don’t think she’s any different to any other sex worker.

But I think she’s absolutely horrible the way she talks about other women. Even if she’s just doing it for attention it’s wrong.

Interested to know why people find sex work like this ‘vile’ ‘disgusting’ ‘low’ ‘degrading’ etc and why people are so emotionally loaded in their comments.

What are you finding so difficult to comprehend? Are you one of those tiresome people who think every woman should be championed by every woman, no matter what?