Bonnie blue 1000 men and me

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I watched last night (don’t ask me why) I wish I didn’t. Woke up feeling dirty. Pure greed is where her motivation comes from. ‘Bonnie’ aka Tia boasted throughout she is a multi millionaire, where she started making £50k/month and went up to £2m/month before OF shut her account down. Now she’s back to making £600k/month on her new site, selling her body. The men queing up for her 1000 men stunt were just arriving from the street, no one had vetted them and the ones who were on show looked far too old for her and frankly, disgusting in old tracksuit bottoms and huge beer bellies. I’m so concerned by the internet. The young women on the show were ‘Only Fans creators’ and were 18-21, seemed nervous, shy and about to film a porn scene with Bonnie, completely for free but by Bonnie tagging them they would be earning money through new subscribers. These young girls, like Bonnie were stating it’s better than sitting behind a desk.

AIBU to wake up feeling anxious, disgusted, concerned with the damage and short cut to money Only Fans is creating for young women.

As usual the first response nails it.

I won’t be watching it. She’s clearly a very damaged woman, who values notoriety and the attention of men over anything else. I did unfortunately catch a clip of her talking to Andrew Tate of all people 🤢 where she said ‘well women are stupid’ amongst other lovely quotes. He said all women are whores and just don’t get paid for it, and she agreed. If I didn’t laugh I’d cry!

Men are also on OF you know before you start with your sexist claptrap.

I watched this with my daughter and I said to her that this documentary is a bad move for Bonnie blue because she admitted that it’s mostly rage bait and that increases engagement which increases views and money and once people know she is doing it for a reaction they are more likely to ignore.
The way everyone was going on like she is a genius and very clever annoyed me a bit because surely everyone knows that sex sells and she hasn’t invented anything new, it’s just the outrage that has made her big but as I said before she admitted that’s her selling point and as soon as I know someone is purposely trying to wind me up I ignore them (not that I watch her lol I’m just saying in general) it was quite sad to watch and it’s just attention seeking behaviour

All she is, is a glorified WHORE

That is all.

Uh? What does that even mean. Sexist claptrap? You're nit even being clear about what you mean..

I don't understand how she makes money from it
Did the 1000 men all pay to have sex with her
If it was filmed,and she made money that way ,where is broadcast..don't the men get paid for their services
I can just about fathom only fans where you pay to watch it ,but she's not on that now

I'm watching this now.

And genuinely upset. I'm up to the school student scene and I just can't believe that these young people are okay.

One creater: 'do you think your fans like you because you look under age?'
'yes'

BB: 'I really want to do a disabled gamgbang'

Wtf. I have watched other documentaries about BB, and LP, and this one is really affecting me. I didn't think it would.

The world is terrifying for young women.

She said multiple times that she is looking to exploit ‘ barely legal’ teenagers and enjoys being a teens first sexual encounter. Imagine a man saying the same thing on a C4 documentary.

The 1000 men she claimed to have slept with didn’t get paid a penny.

Of course it was said multiple times that she was a marketing genius and a good business woman.

Most successful people I meet in business don’t have a thong round their ankles.

Andrew Tate " all women are whores".
Bonnie Blue" women are stupid".
No, let's get something very straight and very clear here.
Andrew Tate and Bonnie Blue are two very psychologically disordered individuals who should not be normalised in any way.
Please let's not have society start going down a rabbit hole of treating these people as 'creators ' introducing viable 'possibilities '. to others. These people dont pass the smell test. Simple as.

Besides the impact on young women in particular watching her, being a young, hot woman has such a shelf life, as any of us who have been there will know. She's got a handful of years of this left, once said youth and hotness fades and, frankly, everybody gets bored.

What then? She's got a ton of money, nice clothes and house, probably. She's likely got some long, loooong decades to sit looking at those. Good luck to her with that, I guess.

People change, their wants and priorities change. And she is no exception.

Yes discuss pornography. And yes discuss the normalisation of Only Fans and Cam Girls and similar as career " choices"

Im all for that.

The more discussion about the dreadful pornography industry, and the sex industry in general, and it's affect on both users and those participating in it the better as far as I'm concerned.

It's the thread after thread about this woman, and at one point Lily Philips, that I object to. Giving these individuals publicity when they are only a part of the big issue

Everything about what BB does and the men surrounding her makes my stomach turn, it’s just all bloody gross imo.

As I understand it your OP isn't entirely correct.

Many of the men were vetted, but she couldn't get the amount of men that she wanted so some of them were "straight off the street" and this is after she was going round universities to try and get men involved.

An interview with Janice Turner told us that she discovered earlier in her life she probably can't conceive. I thought this was so revealing

To feed her ego. Her ego is huge in this. The footage in the documentary shows Chanel handbags strewn around, she’s wearing a LV cardigan/blazer, dripping in designer jewellery. Everything is to feed her ego, even calling normal hard working people ‘boring’ like she is something special. I’m sure as someone who is fascinated by human psychology, that her family have told her she is special her entire life, she has had no boundaries and she genuinely believes it. Male attention hasn’t been due to low self worth, rather to boost her inflated ego. Being able to walk into Chanel and buy handbags at £15k a go is fuelling her arrogance. As is fame and attention. The ‘rage bate’ of 200 videos a day released to wind women up is not genius marketing, it’s attention seeking.

As far as I am aware, Henry Tudor only had six wives ( and one of those was an annulment as they never consummated the marriage).

Catherine of Aragon was shipped off at fifteen to marry a foreign Prince, and then married his younger brother after several years of semi destitution, being abandoned by her father and shunted to the sidelines by her FIL, not a great deal of volition there.

The articles in the Times with Janice Turner and review of programme from Carol Midgely were both very interesting and thought provoking.
Neither were in any way encouraging

It’s sad that this is seen as something to aspire to. It’s not contributing anything positive to society, is it? What’s empowering for her is not empowering for others, by and large.
I wish as a previous poster mentioned that people like Bonnie Blue and Andrew Tate would stay on the fringes where their damaging views would have less of an impact.

That was the crux of my post. Read the final line about AIBU.

I completely agree with you but I think the train has left the station

Sex sells.

I think women often underestimate other women. She is performing an act that many women do daily in marriage—they probably don’t like it. So why do they get married? I think mostly for financial stability and societal pressures about raising kids.

Sex can have negative emotional effects on women; it’s not for everyone. She seems to be in control of doing things for money—she gains fame and fans, of course.

The negative impact on her—only she will know how it affects her after a few years.

Yes it’s quite telling isn’t is. Most of us don’t care if we have endless cash for endless designer goods and a team of people on a payroll to run around after us. If we do then great but she thinks she has won in life due to it. As others have said, the novelty of being rich will wear off, the shock factor will fade, her earnings will curtail and she will be left with a dent in her ego. Dangerous life to lead. At least CEOs of companies work hard and sacrifice a lot to earn their money, retirement is then a novelty as they have the gift of time and family to enjoy.

It’s just grim.

Yes
I am diagnosed autistic and the sex part of my marriage is difficult, because of the emotions..the having a husband wanting intimacy and love as part of sex ..it's to overwhelming
I've often secretly thought I'd be much better at sex as a sex worker
Getting paid would give me a reason to do it ,I can mask like there's no tomorrow so could do things I didn't like
And no emotion involved just transaction.
I wonder if BB and others are trying to avoid the emotions of sex