Bonnie blue 1000 men and me

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I watched last night (don’t ask me why) I wish I didn’t. Woke up feeling dirty. Pure greed is where her motivation comes from. ‘Bonnie’ aka Tia boasted throughout she is a multi millionaire, where she started making £50k/month and went up to £2m/month before OF shut her account down. Now she’s back to making £600k/month on her new site, selling her body. The men queing up for her 1000 men stunt were just arriving from the street, no one had vetted them and the ones who were on show looked far too old for her and frankly, disgusting in old tracksuit bottoms and huge beer bellies. I’m so concerned by the internet. The young women on the show were ‘Only Fans creators’ and were 18-21, seemed nervous, shy and about to film a porn scene with Bonnie, completely for free but by Bonnie tagging them they would be earning money through new subscribers. These young girls, like Bonnie were stating it’s better than sitting behind a desk.

AIBU to wake up feeling anxious, disgusted, concerned with the damage and short cut to money Only Fans is creating for young women.

Yep, I agree.
Should have taken Prep before, Pep after and condoms/as recent a clear bill of health as humanly possible for ALL participants.
That's just common sense.
That said, Lily Phillips was surprised in her video that HIV can be carried in seminal fluid and passed on orally (even though this is considered rare) compared with vaginal/anal.
She was right in thinking ejaculate to the eye transmission is negligible but incorrect in thinking it's all and only about p in v.
This is a performer who went onto talk about anal next time, the most common transmission route because of potential for cuts/tears.
BB has avoided anal this far and had avoided porn stars prior to the recent 100, because she knew the former is even more of an endurance/physically damaging and the latter are well endowed.
God help these women and the men watching them because this is where they get the idea of "smashing" and "destroying" a woman from.
I've heard teen lads say colloquially "smash or pass?" and talk of smashing her back doors in.
Lily's first punter said he'd go again and destroy her next time, as if this is a goal they were all aspiring to.
If that is what young people are being exposed to, then their idea of sex is going to be warped.
Iron grip/sensitivity from porn is one thing but assuming all girls want it hard/rough is damned dangerous, same as the choking niche or the expectation on women to do anal.
This is not kink-shaming. It's future safeguarding of our young people. When I have to try and teach about healthy relationships and respect and consent and avoiding unwanted pregnancy/STIs, it is all of the above I am trying to rail against as opposed to the idea that young women want to be railed.
It is so sad now that so many of our young adults base their esteem on clicks and likes. It is so sad that WAP and other songs of supposed sexual liberation/sex positivity claim to show sex as female empowerment/women having agency and sexual desire/so-called pussy liberation when in the next breath, they're talking about liking pain.
Women are neither hos nor disposable. They should not be regarded as bitches or whores or bad or nasty.
And yes, I am no doubt falling for the ragebait but nobody should be aiming to have their insides rearranged, their back doors smashed in or their ass torn in two. Language matters. The drip effect incites misogyny.

WAP is a completely Gold Digger of a song " Ask him for a car while you're riding his dick" is not empowering or female liberation it is prostitution by any other name .

I watched the Lily Phillips documentary , she was laughing like she was doing a world record for sitting in a bath of baked beans .

but then there are many people in society that would be willing to swap a quickie for eg a car ect

bravo on you comment.

I actually think we should kink shame a little, it’s gotten completely out of hand. BDSM is not everyone’s cup of tea and full of risk, the shaming of a normal, healthy, nonviolent sex as ‘vanilla’ is really worrying.

Personally, I actually it wouldn’t surprise me if she rates highly on the psychopathy test. BB herself says that she thinks she thinks differently to other people.

So if Bonnie Blue was a man presenting in the same way, enticing barely legal female virgins and sleeping with 1000+ balaclavad women in one day without batting an eyelid we'd have massive problems with them.

Because she's a woman we're not seeing it and seeing her as a victim. She's literally hiding in plain sight, something is not right - switched off in there and like others I wonder why she is being given this platform.

Just watched this documentary, and found it utterly grim. 'Bonnie' (and her mother) said that there is nothing wrong, there are no daddy issues, she has not suffered any kind of abuse when she was younger etc etc, but there is something inherently and deeply wrong with a woman who wants to do this. It's fucking revolting.

She seems proud of what she does, and uses horrible language 'come and re-arrange my insides' and 'smash me up,' and shit like that. Now she wants to be in a box in public, tethered and gagged, and members of the public can do what they want to her. WTF is actually wrong with her?

As has been said, this whole narrative of making out that normal healthy sex is 'vanilla' and 'boring,' is extremely dangeous, as more men are expecting violent sex, choking, anal, smacking and hitting, and other things too grim to post about on here. And girls will think they have to do this or they are 'boring.'

Trying to make out that women who are working a 9 to 5 job in an office, or are working in a shop/restaurant/factory etc are 'not living' and have dull and mundane lives is fucking nasty. This is the life many women live, and to sneer at it because she is making much more money from living the vile and trashy life she lives is shitty.

Her mother said 'anyone who could get a million pounds for showing their bits would do it, and anyone who says they wouldn't is lying.' Well first of all she can fuck off telling people what they would and wouldn't do. Also, I would never do it, for all the tea in China. PLUS, 'Bonnie' doesn't just show her minge off does she? She does a LOT more than that. Nasty shit. Really nasty shit!

She's not savvy or clever or a smart business woman. She is grim. Extremely grim. And what she does does not take any brains, or intelligence, so she needs to hop off her high horse and make out she is living a better life than many other women, and is sooooooo clever ... 🙄 As has been said, I predict an early demise for her, and I don't think she will live much past 40. I am glad OnlyFans has banned her. Means the vile shit she makes won't be seen as much as she would like it to be.

So odd, what is wrong with her???!!

IACGMOOH South Africa is being advertised ..............

I watched some of it, it's not pleasant viewing. I did laugh out loud when she said 'I'll give you something your wife can't' and I thought yeah, a fucking STD.

It's not so much porn as a freakshow.

@zov oh, the mother is a piece of work. There's literally not enough money in the world that would entice me to do her daughter's choice of 'work'.

Not that anyone would want to see me in the buff never mind anything else.

I not buying the mh card or the trauma card she knows what she is doing and openly says she wants to rile up other women so don't let her get on with your life let her get on with hers her body her choice in my book

Can we talk about her 'creative director' or whatever he claims to be, who was working with vulnerable children when he met Bonnie Blue?

Given his role in exploiting these 'barely legal' lads I sincerely hope his former employer/ Local Authority have done detailed safeguarding reviews on the children he worked with.

Couldn’t agree more.

Bonnie Blue and Lily Philips will regret it if they end up with HIV or a vaginal/ anal prolapses. Life won’t be such a barrel of laughs then no matter how much money they make. They have no idea about the damage they are doing to themselves or to society as a whole.

The queues of men are stuff that nightmares are made of. Dirty, vile lowlife bastards! Do they acknowledge / talk to each other while waiting their turn? Fucking disgusting! Shame on them.

Agree. Sometimes shaming has a purpose,

What I struggle with is she gets judged, fine. By men and women. Like many women I’ve spent being raped or pressurised into sex from age 14. I do have no connection or care for sex. I’ve given it away freely in the past as I don’t care. Then these men complain to me that I spoilt things by not making them work more for it. It seems to me men put a massive big deal on having sex but they want to earn it either through payment or manipulation. They don’t value her but I suppose if she makes her money and gives up she might be ok. Some trauma must’ve happened for her to do this, it takes a bit to disconnect so much. I don’t get it we sexualised women at a young age, men push for casual sex and now women and men judge her. Through sexual trauma she’s created a complete disconnect caused by men (who presumably want to marry virgins). I didn’t have sex once for over a decade and didn’t miss it and then had sex and it was crap. I’ve now done two years and couldn’t look and feel better, that’s my empowerment! I can’t be bothered with these silly rules round sex and men thinking shagging you gives them the upper hand and you must really like them, when you don’t, I’ve been told this in many a lecture from men. The thing is the sexual revolution changed things but men still want to feel sex by any means gives them power. Who and why does it bother others that they are insignificant johns?

but why should anyone be shamed if its legal ?

You think it’s morally ok???

but morals is subjective, eg religion has one set of morals, and some of the religion morals would be different from societies morals etc. so unless there were a set of morals that applied to all etc

otherwise why is it morally acceptable to drink even when it causes x health issues and people drink and drive

or why is it not morally wrong for people to eat fast food when its linked to various health factors

I think we both know this is a different thing and definitely not morally good

well i get what your saying but the greeks and romans had their orgys etc and society survived

Well…the Roman society didn’t. I often say to DH that it feels like the last days of Rome at the moment 😂

true.

I agree with you, it's def not always about money and fame. I remember reading Jenna Jameson's auto biography and few years ago and it was quite clear why she chose a career in porn. Very low self worth, loss of mom at a young age and a lot of abuse. I think it's more psychological than material usually and maybe some of it has to do with taking back control, though I myself would much rather prefer to figure that out without a d in the b, let alone a revolving door of ds in the b, but diff strokes and all that.