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Bonnie blue 1000 men and me

499 replies

tangerinemagic · 31/07/2025 09:05

I watched last night (don’t ask me why) I wish I didn’t. Woke up feeling dirty. Pure greed is where her motivation comes from. ‘Bonnie’ aka Tia boasted throughout she is a multi millionaire, where she started making £50k/month and went up to £2m/month before OF shut her account down. Now she’s back to making £600k/month on her new site, selling her body. The men queing up for her 1000 men stunt were just arriving from the street, no one had vetted them and the ones who were on show looked far too old for her and frankly, disgusting in old tracksuit bottoms and huge beer bellies. I’m so concerned by the internet. The young women on the show were ‘Only Fans creators’ and were 18-21, seemed nervous, shy and about to film a porn scene with Bonnie, completely for free but by Bonnie tagging them they would be earning money through new subscribers. These young girls, like Bonnie were stating it’s better than sitting behind a desk.

AIBU to wake up feeling anxious, disgusted, concerned with the damage and short cut to money Only Fans is creating for young women.

OP posts:
Whiningatwine · 02/08/2025 12:02

Given the fact she basically uses rage bait to increase her profile I wouldn't be surprised if OP was part of the Bonnie Blue PR machine...

cyvguhb · 02/08/2025 12:35

Whiningatwine · 02/08/2025 12:02

Given the fact she basically uses rage bait to increase her profile I wouldn't be surprised if OP was part of the Bonnie Blue PR machine...

Doubt it, I can't imagine anyone posting here would ever be one of her subscribers. BB only cares about driving traffic, negging her on Mumsnet isn't going to do that

And having views on her is pretty mainstream in the week a documentary is released

70isaLimitNotaTarget · 02/08/2025 13:24

IfThisIsProgressGodHelpUs · 01/08/2025 20:42

I thought the young woman interviewing her here was excellent. She doesn't let her off, stands her ground, holds firm and, apart from the DNA/energy weirdness towards the end, makes some very salient points. No idea who she is but she's like a young Paxman. She also doesn't interrupt and it is a proper flow of ideas/back and forth (unlike the Tate monologue troll).

I found this interviewer a bit rude , going on about "A Child"
Yes an 18yo is Barely Legal but child they are not
18 is an adult . She was corrected many times by Bonnie but kept gnawing the same bone .

18= Legal Adult
Possibly Vunerable Adult but not a Child .

70isaLimitNotaTarget · 02/08/2025 13:27

I watched the 1000 men C4 programme yesterday .

BB going on about how she loves to please them but 40 seconds is hardly a sleeping with someone scenario Hmm though judging by the floor strewn with condoms they got the result they wanted ?

Crushed23 · 02/08/2025 15:42

user1471538283 · 02/08/2025 10:50

Like posters up thread I don't believe she's making anywhere near the amount of money she claims to make and I don't believe there were 1000 men. I also believe she's a sociopath and this will collapse very soon. It's not feminism or empowering, it's as old as time.

Women like her and the other one and Katie Price as just exhausting and insufferable.

Before her ban, she had 600k subscribers on OnlyFans, so I think the figures quoted are not far off. Plus I believe she’s on TikTok and whatnot which could be another revenue stream.

I’m baffled as to why she needs to keep going? If you’re worth £20m+ at 26, you can jack it all in and still live a very, very comfortable life. Why the need to come up with more and more ‘stunts’ and self-promote on this scale?

IfThisIsProgressGodHelpUs · 02/08/2025 15:54

She allegedly wants to go on I'm a celeb, so notoriety/becoming infamous is the goal.
Wouldn't put it past ITVX to use her, family show or not, because like people at the pillories and stocks there'll be many out there happy to see her being "punished" by facing trial after trial.

tangerinemagic · 02/08/2025 15:57

Crushed23 · 02/08/2025 15:42

Before her ban, she had 600k subscribers on OnlyFans, so I think the figures quoted are not far off. Plus I believe she’s on TikTok and whatnot which could be another revenue stream.

I’m baffled as to why she needs to keep going? If you’re worth £20m+ at 26, you can jack it all in and still live a very, very comfortable life. Why the need to come up with more and more ‘stunts’ and self-promote on this scale?

Seems like her last stunt with 100 porn stars was too much, she alluded that she had to stop because they were too big and trying to outdo one another and thought she would be ok because she did 1000+. Even if they had 2 min each then 100 guys is still 3+ hours, just can’t be nice for her. Sick really.

OP posts:
IfThisIsProgressGodHelpUs · 02/08/2025 16:01

IfThisIsProgressGodHelpUs · 02/08/2025 15:54

She allegedly wants to go on I'm a celeb, so notoriety/becoming infamous is the goal.
Wouldn't put it past ITVX to use her, family show or not, because like people at the pillories and stocks there'll be many out there happy to see her being "punished" by facing trial after trial.

Actually, scrap that, she's banned from Australia for three years, isn't she?

Whiningatwine · 02/08/2025 16:31

IfThisIsProgressGodHelpUs · 02/08/2025 15:54

She allegedly wants to go on I'm a celeb, so notoriety/becoming infamous is the goal.
Wouldn't put it past ITVX to use her, family show or not, because like people at the pillories and stocks there'll be many out there happy to see her being "punished" by facing trial after trial.

I wouldnt actually be surprised if in 5 years time you see her as a pundit on GB News. Katie Hopkins style.

Beetlebumz · 02/08/2025 20:23

Whiningatwine · 02/08/2025 12:02

Given the fact she basically uses rage bait to increase her profile I wouldn't be surprised if OP was part of the Bonnie Blue PR machine...

Definitely seeing as in every post the op managed to drop in how much money she makes, her designer bags etc etc

Beetlebumz · 02/08/2025 20:25

IfThisIsProgressGodHelpUs · 02/08/2025 15:54

She allegedly wants to go on I'm a celeb, so notoriety/becoming infamous is the goal.
Wouldn't put it past ITVX to use her, family show or not, because like people at the pillories and stocks there'll be many out there happy to see her being "punished" by facing trial after trial.

Can’t see them letting that scummer on I’m a celeb.

Swirlythingy2025 · 02/08/2025 20:27

tangerinemagic · 31/07/2025 12:39

For me it’s the fact she was making £50k/month but had to keep going and going. There is a difference between being broke and being damn right greedy.

Monthly earnings of 50k can be seen as a baseline, particularly in areas like the Hamptons. Hedge fund traders often make significantly more, which suggests that perceptions of greed may vary based on individual interpretations of an appropriate salary.

Swirlythingy2025 · 02/08/2025 20:28

Crushed23 · 02/08/2025 15:42

Before her ban, she had 600k subscribers on OnlyFans, so I think the figures quoted are not far off. Plus I believe she’s on TikTok and whatnot which could be another revenue stream.

I’m baffled as to why she needs to keep going? If you’re worth £20m+ at 26, you can jack it all in and still live a very, very comfortable life. Why the need to come up with more and more ‘stunts’ and self-promote on this scale?

why did only fans pull the account ?

northernballer · 02/08/2025 20:39

I'm halfway through the programme and she has a husband?! WTF?

Brendahollowayreconsider · 02/08/2025 20:49

Swirlythingy2025 · 02/08/2025 20:28

why did only fans pull the account ?

I think it was something to do with being locked in a cage and the weirdos could do what they liked or some such thing iirc.

HunnyPot · 02/08/2025 20:54

northernballer · 02/08/2025 20:39

I'm halfway through the programme and she has a husband?! WTF?

Keep watching 😉

70isaLimitNotaTarget · 02/08/2025 23:29

Swirlythingy2025 · 02/08/2025 20:28

why did only fans pull the account ?

Yes the "Bonnie Blue Petting Zoo"

Brendahollowayreconsider · 02/08/2025 23:36

That was it for the life of me I couldn't remember the name of the stunt comes to something when OF pull the plug.

bumblenbean · 03/08/2025 02:02

I wonder if there’s an element of ‘saving face’ to it whereby, through some twisted logic, she’s caught on this treadmill of trying to convince everyone she enjoys it, hence the ever more extreme stunts. Almost like if she stopped now it would seem like admitting she was wrong?

obviously she has an immense need for attention / validation, but it’s hard to see how it’s worth it when she hasn’t left the house alone in 6 months and lives in fear of acid attacks …

there was a clip of her ‘rival’, Lily something, saying she was planning to do anal with (I think( 500 men. Pretty sure excessive/ rough anal can cause incontinence issues later down the line 😱

IDontHateRainbows · 03/08/2025 07:14

northernballer · 02/08/2025 20:39

I'm halfway through the programme and she has a husband?! WTF?

Hubby is holding out for pay day which is why they're separated but not divorced. When they finally divorce he'll get half of everything so may as well wait it out a bit.

IDontHateRainbows · 03/08/2025 07:18

Having watched the documentary she's enabling pedophiles and rapists with some of the content, the freshers thing she did st first was a bit yuk but I didn't really have a moral judgment on that.

The classroom orgy and box thing are going too far , but she's run out of more moderate content now so just shagging freshers ain't gonna cut it any more.

The girl in that classroom scene claims to be 21 but looks about 12.

70isaLimitNotaTarget · 03/08/2025 18:11

tangerinemagic · 02/08/2025 15:57

Seems like her last stunt with 100 porn stars was too much, she alluded that she had to stop because they were too big and trying to outdo one another and thought she would be ok because she did 1000+. Even if they had 2 min each then 100 guys is still 3+ hours, just can’t be nice for her. Sick really.

Ah , now I found the concept of the 100 Male Porn Stars more "honest" as they all (including BB) knew what they were getting into . It is literally their profession.
The "Freshers" and the "Come Along and Fuck a PornStar" - some of the men might see it as a laugh , or a "Why Not" , get themselves on OF .
But she was whittering about making the first time of a male virgin easier , they didn't need to worry about doing it wrong or offending her , consent not an issue .
Her manager said it was like she's been beaten up for three hours - WTF did she expect , I;m guessing she knows what happens in these films Hmm

There was something about the adverts on C4 that didn;t want to have their products associated with it (I must admit I didn't pay much attention to the particular adverts but they did repeat them ) I didn't think "You durty bastards that's the last time I buy XYZ"

If 18 is the legal age to be filmed and 16 is the legal AoC , would BB have a 16yp (off camera obvs) . That would be grim !

navybeans · 04/08/2025 11:18

Just watching this now. A bit concerned that she fell ill with a really bad "flu" after her 1000 man stunt. Isn't flu symptoms how initial infection with HIV shows up? I know the men taking part were required to use condoms but its not a 100% guarantee of protection especially in the kind of conditions in which she operated. The discarded condoms all over the floor as well which she then lay down in and "starfished".

A quick google suggests she doesn't take Prep to protect her from HIV infection and she has previously stated that risking HIV infection is worth it to her.

I know she claims to be happy about her life choices but risking your physical health like that doesn't seem to be a very healthy mentality. Something is amiss and the documentary maker didn't really push to hard to find out more.

70isaLimitNotaTarget · 04/08/2025 11:29

The stress of organizing the event and having 1000+ blokes breathing over her then she flew out to the USA ........... very likely to be struck down by flu if they're carrying it .

She uses condoms but does she do oral without ?

navybeans · 04/08/2025 11:49

@70isaLimitNotaTarget Thats also possible but it doesn't rule out HIV or other sexually transmitted disease. She used condoms but using them is only about 80% effective against HIV infection. Condoms can break or slip. In addition to that transmission is possible from other tiny cuts or abrasions on the body something that is a lot more likely if she is having sex with literally 100's of men in a short space of time or as you suggest if she is doing uncovered oral sex with these men. Hopefully she hasn't been infected with HIV but she should definitely be using Prep to protect herself and future partners from HIV infection.