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AIBU to agree with Diane Abbott

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Elephantiner · 17/07/2025 14:18

I cannot stand Diane Abbott, she has a lazy, patronising manner which riles me, but she has said that people visiblybof a different race (e.g. black people) experience a different sort of racism than those who’s race is not visually obvious (travellers, Jewish people etc). She has a point, doesn’t she? Am I missing something here?

Obviously all types of racism are utterly abhorrent.

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Dangermoo · 20/07/2025 12:14

I did used to enjoy her stint with Portilo.

Edited to correctly spell Portillo. Apologies as I've incorrectly spelt Abbott's name, in places.

MrsSkylerWhite · 20/07/2025 12:20

Mr. Portillo has very successfully reinvented himself, hasn’t he?

Dangermoo · 20/07/2025 12:21

MrsSkylerWhite · 20/07/2025 12:20

Mr. Portillo has very successfully reinvented himself, hasn’t he?

He has, to be fair, Skyler.

AuntyHistamine · 20/07/2025 12:25

MrsSkylerWhite · 20/07/2025 12:20

Mr. Portillo has very successfully reinvented himself, hasn’t he?

I suppose it’s surprising what distancing yourself from your previous political views can achieve.

Dragonflea28 · 20/07/2025 12:25

soddingspiderseason · 17/07/2025 14:25

I don’t think there should be a hierarchy of racism. In terms of history, the Jewish community has experienced racism for thousands of years - the colour of their skin is irrelevant. I really don’t like this type of comparison, and it feels intrinsically wrong.

I agree with this. All racial/ethnic/nationality based bigotry needs stamping out. We all bleed red. No one is above another.

Dangermoo · 20/07/2025 12:26

AuntyHistamine · 20/07/2025 12:25

I suppose it’s surprising what distancing yourself from your previous political views can achieve.

Well, he did some great train journeys 😉

MrsSkylerWhite · 20/07/2025 12:29

AuntyHistamine · 20/07/2025 12:25

I suppose it’s surprising what distancing yourself from your previous political views can achieve.

Was never entirely sure they were his views. All of that macho posturing as Defence Secretary felt very much like an act.

ForrinMummy · 20/07/2025 12:29

EasternStandard · 20/07/2025 11:58

Why mention Jewish people? If you think she is correct why bring another group into it, especially when it’s their experience not hers

You see, my starting assumption is that Diane Abbott (like Meghan Markle) can’t do right for doing wrong.

If she had not mentioned Jewish people, I can imagine that being seen as an example of Antisemitism and that she thinks the Holocaust is less worthy of mention than ‘Gingers’.
People who are visibly Other get attacked for that Otherness more than people who are less visibly Other. Antisemitism exists- those who are visibly Jewish (e.g. through their clothing or hairstyle) receive more hassle than secular Jews, all else being equal.
There is no way for a person to be ‘secularly’ Black. That’s all she is saying.

Dangermoo · 20/07/2025 12:31

MrsSkylerWhite · 20/07/2025 12:29

Was never entirely sure they were his views. All of that macho posturing as Defence Secretary felt very much like an act.

One foot in, one foot out of the Tory party, I always felt.

BCBird · 20/07/2025 12:31

Mixed race female who has not experienced much direct racism. I don't think there should be a hierarchy of racism. I do think if racism is based on skin colour it is immediately obvious to the racist idiot than perhaps someone being racist to someone else who is not wearing something distinguishing their ethnicity.

EasternStandard · 20/07/2025 12:39

ForrinMummy · 20/07/2025 12:29

You see, my starting assumption is that Diane Abbott (like Meghan Markle) can’t do right for doing wrong.

If she had not mentioned Jewish people, I can imagine that being seen as an example of Antisemitism and that she thinks the Holocaust is less worthy of mention than ‘Gingers’.
People who are visibly Other get attacked for that Otherness more than people who are less visibly Other. Antisemitism exists- those who are visibly Jewish (e.g. through their clothing or hairstyle) receive more hassle than secular Jews, all else being equal.
There is no way for a person to be ‘secularly’ Black. That’s all she is saying.

That takes some twisting.

No she didn’t need to try to sum up the experiences of Jewish people. How would she know what their experiences are?

Grammarnut · 20/07/2025 12:40

She has a point but not a very important one. Jews have experienced racism for millenia, not necessarily based on colour but on religion and religious practices. Most recently an act of racism was perpetrated against Jews resulting in c.1200 people dead and 250 hostages being taken (many now dead) not to mention that the racism included gang rapes and burning people alive. I have been appalled by many who seem to think this sort of racism is ok - as at Glastonbury a couple of weeks ago.
I do not believe in hierarchies of racism. All racism is bad. My problem with Diane Abbott (despite her being a trail blazer) is that she does have hierachies of racism and is racist herself in many of her utterances.

Reugny · 20/07/2025 12:46

ForrinMummy · 20/07/2025 12:29

You see, my starting assumption is that Diane Abbott (like Meghan Markle) can’t do right for doing wrong.

If she had not mentioned Jewish people, I can imagine that being seen as an example of Antisemitism and that she thinks the Holocaust is less worthy of mention than ‘Gingers’.
People who are visibly Other get attacked for that Otherness more than people who are less visibly Other. Antisemitism exists- those who are visibly Jewish (e.g. through their clothing or hairstyle) receive more hassle than secular Jews, all else being equal.
There is no way for a person to be ‘secularly’ Black. That’s all she is saying.

The issue is she didn't say that.

Everyone is explaining her stance when as an MP who is degree educated she should be able to say that clearly herself.

Incidentally this is a link to the article she was replying to:
www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2023/apr/15/racism-in-britain-is-not-a-black-and-white-issue-it-is-far-more-complicated

SharonEllis · 20/07/2025 13:23

And above at 12.54 Owolade's response to her latest doubling down.

ToWhitToWhoo · 20/07/2025 13:23

Hotflushesandchilblains · 19/07/2025 21:17

She was the education secretary at the time! And if she had explained it, I would have had more respect. I.E. the provision in my area for people like my son is not where I want it to be as education secretary and I will work tirelessly to get it there, but in the meantime, I am also a mother who must do the best by my child.

Or

My sons individual needs could not be adequately met at the state schools in my area. I will work towards this for everyone, but in the meantime I cannot in good conscience put him in a situation which will be wrong for him.

I would have had so much more support for her. But in her arrogance, she just refused to discuss it. THAT was the problem for me.

She was never Education Secretary. I think you may be thinking of Ruth Kelly.

Hotflushesandchilblains · 20/07/2025 13:30

ToWhitToWhoo · 20/07/2025 13:23

She was never Education Secretary. I think you may be thinking of Ruth Kelly.

Yes, my mistake. She was on the exec committee I think, not in the cabinet. But still prominent enough to be interviewed on the Today programme and to simply refuse to answer questions she did not want to discuss.

ForrinMummy · 20/07/2025 13:45

EasternStandard · 20/07/2025 12:39

That takes some twisting.

No she didn’t need to try to sum up the experiences of Jewish people. How would she know what their experiences are?

Edited

She did not try to sum up the experiences of Jewish people at all. She gave one specific example of a detriment that black people were subjected to, that Jewish (and other) people were not.

And that’s a problem for you why specifically? I am not going to try to guess why, and would prefer that you tell us, rather than hinting.

EasternStandard · 20/07/2025 13:59

ForrinMummy · 20/07/2025 13:45

She did not try to sum up the experiences of Jewish people at all. She gave one specific example of a detriment that black people were subjected to, that Jewish (and other) people were not.

And that’s a problem for you why specifically? I am not going to try to guess why, and would prefer that you tell us, rather than hinting.

I’ve been direct on this, no hinting. I think the experiences of Jewish people should be for them to say, not Diane Abbott.

There have been a couple of posters on this thread for example who have talked about what they’ve faced, you’ll see if you scroll back. @Longingdreameris one poster if you’re not sure who has done so.

There’s no ambiguity, the first thing people should remember is it’s for people within a group to determine the language used and to talk about their own experiences. Not for others to do that.

SharonEllis · 20/07/2025 14:06

ForrinMummy · 20/07/2025 13:45

She did not try to sum up the experiences of Jewish people at all. She gave one specific example of a detriment that black people were subjected to, that Jewish (and other) people were not.

And that’s a problem for you why specifically? I am not going to try to guess why, and would prefer that you tell us, rather than hinting.

She said

'Tomiwa Owolade claims that Irish, Jewish and Traveller people all suffer from “racism” (“Racism in Britain is not a black and white issue. It’s far more complicated”, Comment). They undoubtedly experience prejudice. This is similar to racism and the two words are often used as if they are interchangeable.
It is true that many types of white people with points of difference, such as redheads, can experience this prejudice. But they are not all their lives subject to racism. In pre-civil rights America, Irish people, Jewish people and Travellers were not required to sit at the back of the bus. In apartheid South Africa, these groups were allowed to vote. And at the height of slavery, there were no white-seeming people manacled on the slave ships.'

My emphasis on the key part. That line and otherd are a complete distortion of history and denial of the reality of racism for those groups.

Racism in Britain is not a black and white issue. It’s far more complicated | Tomiwa Owolade

A report on ethnic inequality reveals that that Irish, Jewish and Traveller people are among the most abused

https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2023/apr/15/racism-in-britain-is-not-a-black-and-white-issue-it-is-far-more-complicated

inamarina · 20/07/2025 14:23

ForrinMummy · 20/07/2025 13:45

She did not try to sum up the experiences of Jewish people at all. She gave one specific example of a detriment that black people were subjected to, that Jewish (and other) people were not.

And that’s a problem for you why specifically? I am not going to try to guess why, and would prefer that you tell us, rather than hinting.

She said in her original letter: “Tomiwa Owolade claims that Irish, Jewish and Traveller people all suffer from “racism”. They undoubtedly experience prejudice. This is similar to racism and the two words are often used as if they are interchangeable.
It is true that many types of white people with points of difference, such as redheads, can experience this prejudice.”
So she’s basically saying the prejudice and hostility Jews (and other groups) encounter is comparable to people being singled out for having red hair.
How is that not “summing up the experience of Jewish people”?

Longingdreamer · 20/07/2025 14:27

Thank you, @EasternStandard . This is what I have said too. She has every right to talk about her experiences as a black woman, but she cannot talk for Jewish people. Her comments were shocking, and wholly appropriate.

Thank you @SharonEllis for highlighting her exact words, in case others have forgotten. I am dismayed that so many people support her views, and are comfortable enough being openly Anti-semitic. The world is a very dangerous place if you are Jewish at present.

ForrinMummy · 20/07/2025 14:42

inamarina · 20/07/2025 14:23

She said in her original letter: “Tomiwa Owolade claims that Irish, Jewish and Traveller people all suffer from “racism”. They undoubtedly experience prejudice. This is similar to racism and the two words are often used as if they are interchangeable.
It is true that many types of white people with points of difference, such as redheads, can experience this prejudice.”
So she’s basically saying the prejudice and hostility Jews (and other groups) encounter is comparable to people being singled out for having red hair.
How is that not “summing up the experience of Jewish people”?

What she said is that, the detriments experienced by people, due to their skin colour, (racism) are not the same as those detriments experienced by other groups.

OK, she didn’t know her place, and see that only the prejudice experienced by white people counts. You are appropriating her experiences and demanding they are irrelevant to the experiences of Jewish people. I would suggest that’s racist.

AuntyHistamine · 20/07/2025 14:42

Dangermoo · 20/07/2025 12:26

Well, he did some great train journeys 😉

After getting caught with his pants down yes. 😉

Dangermoo · 20/07/2025 14:49

AuntyHistamine · 20/07/2025 14:42

After getting caught with his pants down yes. 😉

Did he? I quite fancied him when I was in my 30s. I never could tell what his sexual orientation was - not that it was any of my business.

Dangermoo · 20/07/2025 14:50

ForrinMummy · 20/07/2025 14:42

What she said is that, the detriments experienced by people, due to their skin colour, (racism) are not the same as those detriments experienced by other groups.

OK, she didn’t know her place, and see that only the prejudice experienced by white people counts. You are appropriating her experiences and demanding they are irrelevant to the experiences of Jewish people. I would suggest that’s racist.

Other way round.

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