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Aware of Head Teacher and Teacher affair

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GlitterGold7 · 08/07/2025 12:06

Name changed for this. I’ve become aware that the HT of my DC’s primary school is having an affair with one of the teachers. Both are married.

Would you do anything with this information? It feels utterly morally bankrupt that the HT is abusing his position like this, and I feel so sorry for the partners involved.

OP posts:
Gloriia · 10/07/2025 20:31

'Took you long enough to realise'

I haven't realised anything I've said from the start meetings need to be had to establish the facts, see if HT is a sleaze or not.

Fetaface · 10/07/2025 20:37

Gloriia · 10/07/2025 20:31

'Took you long enough to realise'

I haven't realised anything I've said from the start meetings need to be had to establish the facts, see if HT is a sleaze or not.

Edited

So meetings need to be had for every single meeting for every single member of staff?

So you are saying I need to call a meeting for the head having a beauty procedure done last week with her junior who has her own business?

For what purpose?

I have no concern the head is sleazing when having her nails done!

Gloriia · 10/07/2025 20:40

Fetaface · 10/07/2025 20:37

So meetings need to be had for every single meeting for every single member of staff?

So you are saying I need to call a meeting for the head having a beauty procedure done last week with her junior who has her own business?

For what purpose?

I have no concern the head is sleazing when having her nails done!

Edited

No, we've been through this. Not the ones chatting in Tesco, not the ones in Costa. The married boss meeting a married junior in a service station motel ones.

Fetaface · 10/07/2025 20:43

Gloriia · 10/07/2025 20:40

No, we've been through this. Not the ones chatting in Tesco, not the ones in Costa. The married boss meeting a married junior in a service station motel ones.

The head is married as is the junior. Both are married. No we haven't been through the two females meeting. You kept ignoring it.

So two married females meeting give cause for concern. Yes or no?

If not, why not?

If so, why so?

Just the ones on a training course? Those ones.

AquarianGirl · 09/09/2025 19:56

I think expose it. It's unethical and dishonest. He's clearly not fit for his job since as a (head) teacher he is expected to demonstrate trustworthiness and good character by law. How can he be expected to make honest judgements about staff capabilities and pay rewards which is his domain when he is sleeping with a subordinate employee?

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