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I hate anti-vaxxers

838 replies

An89 · 04/07/2025 02:33

How can anyone in this day and age be an anti-vaxxer? London and West mids currently suffering from a meassls outbreak. DS is under 1 so cannot yet have vaccine, I know of someone whose 10momth old contracted measels as they were too young for vaccine.
Ridiculous that reckless and tardy parents are putting all our children at risk. Actually terrible.

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ThejoyofNC · 04/07/2025 09:14

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What a disgusting thing to say.

GentleSheep · 04/07/2025 09:14

Ineedcoffee2021 · 04/07/2025 03:21

My only concern is me and my family honestly
I wont do stuff to my body or my kids body for anyone elses feelies

You've contradicted yourself - your only concern is yourself and your family, yet in the next sentence you say you won't do 'stuff' to your body or your kid's body? You need to protect your family by vaccinating them, not leaving them to get sick when you could have protected them with an extremely safe vaccine! I just don't understand that attitude. And by the way you do 'stuff' to your body every single day by eating, breathing and drinking! Perhaps give that some thought?

GreenGully · 04/07/2025 09:14

Depends on the vaccine. People should have all the regular ones that have been around for decades. However, not wanting the Covid jab didn't make someone an anti vaxxer, it just made them anti that 'vaccine.'

Being sceptical about a vaccine that wasn't actually a vaccine and got pumped out in record time therefore had no long term latent side effects research was not something I was ever going to take willingly, despite the media scaremongering and peer pressure.

Unfortunately we are seeing those delayed effects coming home to roost.

I'd add you are either all for bodily autonomy or you aren't. I've seen men online going insane about potential vax mandates during the pandemic, whilst still supporting the abolition of abortion rights.

OP are you pro choice by any chance? If so you have to accept the decisions people make with their own bodies otherwise it is hypocrisy.

PinkTonic · 04/07/2025 09:15

Ineedcoffee2021 · 04/07/2025 03:21

My only concern is me and my family honestly
I wont do stuff to my body or my kids body for anyone elses feelies

And yet other people’s families are impacted by your grossly ignorant belligerence.

curtaintwitcher78 · 04/07/2025 09:16

HazelBite · 04/07/2025 08:50

I am of an age that these vaccines were not available when I was a child. I remember having measels, it was hideous I was extremely ill and have suffered permanent damage to my ears, a friend of mine has her sight affected. I am glad the vaccine was available for my DC's and they didn't have to go through what I did.

Someone very close to me is deaf because of an illness in childhood that they hadn't been vaccinated against.

meatyryvita · 04/07/2025 09:16

Ineedcoffee2021 · 04/07/2025 03:21

My only concern is me and my family honestly
I wont do stuff to my body or my kids body for anyone elses feelies

Yet here you are, using the internet, created by scientists, seemingly without concern. Let me guess, if your kid gets really unwell, you wouldn't hesitate to benefit from science then, would you?

cloudyblueglass · 04/07/2025 09:17

Ineedcoffee2021 · 04/07/2025 03:04

others medical choices are none of your concern

Not true.

Anti-vax ears are making it dangerous for everyone, particularly those who cannot gave vaccines for medical reasons, those who are vaccinated but they didn’t work, those who are vaccinated but it’s not as effective due to medical reasons. All of those above rely on herd immunity as a protective factor: anti backers are decimating herd immunity.

TheNoonBell · 04/07/2025 09:19

Slightyamusedandsilly · 04/07/2025 06:57

I agree.

No flying without vaccinations.
No public schooling.
No childcare (unless the provider is also anti vaxx and it needs to be publicised so parents make an informed choice).
No state funded medical care.

It's fine to have an extreme opinion. But if you don't want to function as part of society, you need to be prepared to go it alone. There are always people that do reject society and social standards. But it's a choice to set yourself aside and you shouldn't get to benefit from herd immunity while being a risk to others.

The pushback would be massive if you blocked one in four adults from the NHS and travel. You would possbily see an insurgency or open rebellion in some areas.

VirginaGirl · 04/07/2025 09:19

HazelBite · 04/07/2025 08:50

I am of an age that these vaccines were not available when I was a child. I remember having measels, it was hideous I was extremely ill and have suffered permanent damage to my ears, a friend of mine has her sight affected. I am glad the vaccine was available for my DC's and they didn't have to go through what I did.

Same. My brother had Whooping Cough so badly that my mother thought he might die.

When my youngest son was admitted to Kings College Hospital as a baby for an infection, the first question they asked us was whether his immunisations all up to date? I was very relieved that they were, and so were they.

Firealarm1414 · 04/07/2025 09:19

Every country has differing vaccine schedules so this blind hatred of "anti vaxxers" is a bit ridiculous. My child was born in London and received the bcg vaccine, then we moved back to Ireland where that wasn't the standard. Are the irish authorities anti vaxx? Then we moved to the US and my child received several vaccines that aren't on the schedule in the UK or Ireland, such as the chicken pox one and had to take extra ones of some she already had due to differing formulations. Does the fact that the UK doesn't vaccinate against chicken pox as standard make them science deniers? Anyway, now I'm an "anti vaxxer" and derided because I chose not to get any covid shot despite the fact that I'm clearly not due to all the aforementioned shots my kid has received. Make it make sense

Pasithean · 04/07/2025 09:21

GarlicMetre · 04/07/2025 03:33

Absolutely this. Some countries don't allow unvaccinated children to attend school & nursery, unless they've got an exemption certificate. I think they're sensible.

Also, I keep hearing the Covid Cough out and about. I've managed to put a rapid distance between myself and the coughers so far, but am really fucked off that everyone's merrily going around 'living with it', spreading their spiky germs. I had my jab last winter, but it will have worn off by now and catching Covid's quite likely to kill me.

Having the Covid jab nearly killed me. In hospital for 4 month.

despairofbadscience · 04/07/2025 09:21

Scottyme · 04/07/2025 08:16

Many doctors and nurses I know, refuse to get vaccinated or choose only have some vaccinations, for one reason or another. If you go to your GP surgery or Hospital, do you actively ask their vaccination status before they treat you?

You cannot say a medical consultant is ignorant or uneducated in this field. Quite the contrary.

btw I and my children have had all our vaccinations

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Any actual evidence of this! Or just what you heard from someone who heard it from someone

southerngirl10 · 04/07/2025 09:21

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A lot of anti vaxxers are doctors

anniegun · 04/07/2025 09:21

Wait till Polio re-emerges. The anti vaxxers are going cause real suffering as they are already managing in the US

Abhannmor · 04/07/2025 09:22

Seems to be a generational thing. My mum spent months in a sanatorium with TB. She was treated with antibiotics - which hadn't long been invented. The very first TB patient to get them was George Orwell but the disease was too far advanced alas. My mother's first sweetheart died of TB , he was 21 I think. It was a death sentence back then. So as you can imagine she and our dad were big supporters of vaccination.
But it's a long time since people in Europe died of measles or TB so maybe we've just got blasé about it. We may be in for a nasty reminder.

HouseholdBudget · 04/07/2025 09:22

I had my first baby just after the Wakefield scandal first started. So many people were utterly convinced by it. MN was a hotbed of antivaxxers and conspiracy theorists lobbying against parents who were continuing to vaccinate.

I am heartened by this thread that there appear to now be so few with that mindset here.

CommissarySushi · 04/07/2025 09:22

ThejoyofNC · 04/07/2025 09:14

What a disgusting thing to say.

It's disgusting to put yours and other people's children at risk of dying from preventable illnesses because you're too stupid to vaccinate them. It's child neglect.

viques · 04/07/2025 09:26

forthispostonly · 04/07/2025 03:37

It's not for someone else's "feelies".
It's to prevent outbreaks of dangerous diseases that we had eradicated in the UK until recently.

Exactly this. I am old enough to remember what was possibly the last large scale polio outbreak in the UK, and how terrified our parents were, I can also remember that luckily the polio vaccine, which was not at that time routinely offered, was rushed into production and distribution, and probably saved thousands of lives and countless more from devastating lifelong illness and disability.

Polio, smallpox, TB ( before they stopped making the vaccine widely available), diphtheria, all killer diseases that have largely been eliminated in the Western world because of vaccination. Smallpox is now thought to be extinct as a disease, though the virus is still held by many countries.

But because some deranged man with an issue and an agenda spouted lies about measles which have since been indisputably proved to be deliberate falsehoods we are now seeing a killer disease that can cause blindness, brain damage or death creepback into our lives.

Google images of severe measles infections. It is a sobering experience. Personally I would not want to be reliant on the herd immunity effect protecting my child, I would rather have the assurance that as a parent I had taken control of my child’s present and future health.

cryptide · 04/07/2025 09:27

Ineedcoffee2021 · 04/07/2025 03:04

others medical choices are none of your concern

They are if they cause diseases to spread unnecessarily and put vulnerable people at risk.

TeenLifeMum · 04/07/2025 09:27

BlueJuniper94 · 04/07/2025 09:13

Exactly none of us are. But those who are, are also bound by the incentive structures of their organisations that guarantee we don't hear the full truth. Profit trumps safety wherever they can get away with it.

In the uk we have NICE who are not for profit and critical analysis of multiple papers are taken on board before any medication passes for use. Might be different in other countries but in the UK we have robust checks and transparency (I had to read such papers for my post grad - they are hugely detailed with evidence and full details of the research which is then scrutinised).

cryptide · 04/07/2025 09:28

Ineedcoffee2021 · 04/07/2025 03:15

You know you would interact daily with unvaxxed people

Literally the only place i see this hate for the unvaxxed is online, IRL, people dont give a shit

Im glad we all have a choice as to what we put in our bodies

People certainly give a shit if, for example, their small babies catch measles off unvaccinated idiots and are left with lifelong disabilities.

TeenLifeMum · 04/07/2025 09:29

southerngirl10 · 04/07/2025 09:21

A lot of anti vaxxers are doctors

In our hospital the doctors were at the front of the queue for the Covid vaccine whenIt was first released. It was fascinating and reassured me to have mine. I’ve yet to meet a doctor who’s an anti-vaxer in my whole trust.

cryptide · 04/07/2025 09:30

Ineedcoffee2021 · 04/07/2025 03:21

My only concern is me and my family honestly
I wont do stuff to my body or my kids body for anyone elses feelies

What harm do you imagine a measles vaccine will do to your bodies as compared with the harm a measles virus will do to them?

VioletandMauve · 04/07/2025 09:31

Ineedcoffee2021 · 04/07/2025 03:21

My only concern is me and my family honestly
I wont do stuff to my body or my kids body for anyone elses feelies

Oh dear lord 😩

Firealarm1414 · 04/07/2025 09:33

To add, if I had a newborn now I absolutely would reconsider just blindly taking every vaccination that is offered at such a young age, especially here in the US, there are so so many at such a young age. This is 100% because of the covid vaccine fiasco.

One of my child's friends from kindergarten years ago was an og non vax kid, and no one cared. This is because his uncle was left severely disabled by one, to the point where the family received millions in compensation from the US government as it was acknowledged that this was the cause. I used to think the mom was slightly kooky for this but not anymore. Her brother passed away a few years ago before the age of 40 after never living an independent life.

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