DH not changed bedding for 4 weeks

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He's in a separate bedroom. Flithy f**ker not changed his bed for 4 weeks, so this morning I asked him if he was thinking of changing his sheets as he's been in them for 4 weeks.....he doesn't have a clue how long they've been on....If I had not mentioned it, I wonder how long he'd have kept them on.
He's in our son's room and he's coming back end of July so have ordered some nice new bedding for him 😄

My DH has been in same sheets since October last year

In his own bedroom

Not changing your sheets for weeks is revolting and I can’t abide the whole ‘you don’t have to sleep in it so leave him to it’ rubbish. I wouldn’t tolerate anyone stinking up any room in my home and I guarantee that bedroom is absolutely bowfin. No one would be using the same damp, fusty towel for a week either.

I am beginning to understand why so many of you have separate bedrooms....

I can't comprehend. Somebody uses a towel once and washes it?

I sometimes use it for more than a week. But it’s isn’t damp as I hang it up to dry properly every day.

Well definitely we do!
y husband is a sweat box and he’s bold, so his pillows are very frequently washed too!!M

I’m with the sleep in PJs (and socks as I have bad circulation in my feet) and change those frequently, so the bedding doesn’t really get body sweat and oils. I sleep alone as single in a king size bed. Don’t change bedding as often as many people here. Bedding gets washed more in summer when I can get it out to dry as I don’t have a dryer.

So do I!
I wash 2 bath sheets every day and also a hand towel, a flannel and tea towels!

Yeah, that is OCD level of cleaning.

Why are your towels so damp and fusty? Do you live in a rainforest? I’ve never had a damp and fusty towel in my life. I use them, I hang them up, they dry. Once a week I wash them.

I mean it might be made up but not by me
it was trending on twitter for a while

https://storypick.com/white-people-washing-legs/amp/

I was my covers every 2 weeks , it’s just me in my bed , single , & shower every day ..
Why do you guys sleep in separate rooms ?

@beforetherain20 YOU may not have made it up, but it's still a load of nonsense. (And like most others here, I have never heard this garbage before.)

Meh. DH has been in charge of laundry for the last month while I’ve been working two jobs so I have no idea how long it’s been. When I’m in charge it’s every three weeks. I quite like our stinky pit. No one else sleeps in it so WGAF?

Yeah washing towels that infrequently is both filthy and unhealthy

https://www.bbc.co.uk/future/article/20250110-how-often-you-should-wash-your-towels-according-to-science

I wash the bedding twice weekly.
my husband would expect me to

he works hard, it’s the least I can do for him

I believe in looking after my man

Well. Thank you for the 10pm vomit.

😂😂😂😂

Sorry I’m a bit bored
i actually live alone and dislike men 😄😄😄😄

I wash stuff when it smells. Not on a rota.

Cute.

For me, weekly sheet changes are done because getting into a fresh, clean bed in a clean nightie after a bath/shower is one of my favourite things.

There's no need for all this defensive 'people who change often must be really, really sweaty' bs or all the 'I will report you to Greta for ecocrime!'. Nor is there a need for the less frequent to be called all sorts of names. We could all do more for the environment, we all sweat and we all do something that others might find unpalatable. None of us are perfect.

This!

I never said they did!

I am too tired to look at it now but she said something like she changes them when they get 'icky & greasy'