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Nothing about being able to opt out of DNA testing?

197 replies

BlueJuniper94 · 27/06/2025 17:19

So why is there no mention of being able to opt out of this? Isn't this just going to encourage some people to avoid engaging with HCPs altogether?

www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c1ljg7v0vmpo

OP posts:
smallglassbottle · 27/06/2025 17:26

It'll be like organ donation where they've made it difficult to opt out and everyone is automatically opted in. I opted out a few years ago, then found out through my driving licence card that I'd been opted in again. I've had to go through two different websites to opt back out.

The state believe they own your body, living or dead.

Nevertrustacop · 27/06/2025 17:33

I'm in two minds about this.
Should a parent be able to opt a baby out of something so potentially important to the childs health?

Greencustardmonster · 27/06/2025 17:52

Nevertrustacop · 27/06/2025 17:33

I'm in two minds about this.
Should a parent be able to opt a baby out of something so potentially important to the childs health?

Well we let them opt out of vaccines…

MauriceTheMussel · 27/06/2025 18:01

smallglassbottle · 27/06/2025 17:26

It'll be like organ donation where they've made it difficult to opt out and everyone is automatically opted in. I opted out a few years ago, then found out through my driving licence card that I'd been opted in again. I've had to go through two different websites to opt back out.

The state believe they own your body, living or dead.

Sorry to derail, but you have these websites to hand, please?

TipsyMaker · 27/06/2025 18:06

smallglassbottle · 27/06/2025 17:26

It'll be like organ donation where they've made it difficult to opt out and everyone is automatically opted in. I opted out a few years ago, then found out through my driving licence card that I'd been opted in again. I've had to go through two different websites to opt back out.

The state believe they own your body, living or dead.

Not relating to the topic, but out of curiosity would you accept an organ donation for yourself if needed?

HoskinsChoice · 27/06/2025 19:22

smallglassbottle · 27/06/2025 17:26

It'll be like organ donation where they've made it difficult to opt out and everyone is automatically opted in. I opted out a few years ago, then found out through my driving licence card that I'd been opted in again. I've had to go through two different websites to opt back out.

The state believe they own your body, living or dead.

Like another poster, I'm also intrigued. Why did you opt out? And would you accept a donor if necessary?

muddyford · 27/06/2025 20:02

smallglassbottle · 27/06/2025 17:26

It'll be like organ donation where they've made it difficult to opt out and everyone is automatically opted in. I opted out a few years ago, then found out through my driving licence card that I'd been opted in again. I've had to go through two different websites to opt back out.

The state believe they own your body, living or dead.

It ceased to be a donation once the state was entitled to take bits. I had a donor card but when that change came in I withdrew. Others obviously feel differently.

HoskinsChoice · 27/06/2025 20:08

muddyford · 27/06/2025 20:02

It ceased to be a donation once the state was entitled to take bits. I had a donor card but when that change came in I withdrew. Others obviously feel differently.

That is simply not true! Anyone can refuse to donate as you have obviously done. Let me guess, you also believe 5g is going to kill you, covid was a way to control us and the royals are actually lizards? 🤣

muddyford · 27/06/2025 20:15

HoskinsChoice · 27/06/2025 20:08

That is simply not true! Anyone can refuse to donate as you have obviously done. Let me guess, you also believe 5g is going to kill you, covid was a way to control us and the royals are actually lizards? 🤣

Donation is giving, not something being taken without consent.

mutinyonthetwix · 27/06/2025 20:16

It's just a pre-announcement of a plan which is getting unveiled next month. It might or might not have some opt outs but I wouldn't expect that sort of detail to be out yet.

BusMumsHoliday · 27/06/2025 20:18

I would be extremely surprised if you couldn't opt out, just like you can refuse consent for any of the usual newborn tests currently.

noctilucentcloud · 27/06/2025 20:24

smallglassbottle · 27/06/2025 17:26

It'll be like organ donation where they've made it difficult to opt out and everyone is automatically opted in. I opted out a few years ago, then found out through my driving licence card that I'd been opted in again. I've had to go through two different websites to opt back out.

The state believe they own your body, living or dead.

The organ donation is nothing to do with the state owning your body. It was to try and increase the number of organ donors as there are more people needing transplants than organs available. It was well publicised and you can opt out at any time and change your mind at any time too if you've previously opted in. I've just checked and have found the online form to opt out in less than 30 seconds. Personally though I think if you are willing to accept an organ for yourself or a loved one, then you should be willing to also donate.

smallglassbottle · 27/06/2025 20:39

MauriceTheMussel · 27/06/2025 18:01

Sorry to derail, but you have these websites to hand, please?

Google 'opt out of organ donation'. You fill in the NHS one opting out, then they send you a letter a few days later and you go onto another site in the letter and opt out again. The first one is a notice to opt out and the second is actually opting out. When you renew your driving licence they must revert it to opting in again because I definitely opted out, but must have missed the box to tick when renewing the licence. It's difficult to find apparently and I thought you'd only need to opt out once in your lifetime. Crafty sods.

smallglassbottle · 27/06/2025 20:41

noctilucentcloud · 27/06/2025 20:24

The organ donation is nothing to do with the state owning your body. It was to try and increase the number of organ donors as there are more people needing transplants than organs available. It was well publicised and you can opt out at any time and change your mind at any time too if you've previously opted in. I've just checked and have found the online form to opt out in less than 30 seconds. Personally though I think if you are willing to accept an organ for yourself or a loved one, then you should be willing to also donate.

I wouldn't accept an organ. I did opt out a few years ago, but they opted me in again because I must have missed ticking the opt out box on the driving licence renewal form.

I have very good reasons for opting out.

smallglassbottle · 27/06/2025 20:43

HoskinsChoice · 27/06/2025 19:22

Like another poster, I'm also intrigued. Why did you opt out? And would you accept a donor if necessary?

Personal reasons, and no, I wouldn't accept an organ.

TomatoSandwiches · 27/06/2025 20:44

I'm sure it will be something covered in your midwife assessment at booking or similar.

Regarding organ donation they can take any and every bit of me they find useful for others when I'm gone.
I think if you opt out and wouldn't accept an otgan then that's fair.
I'd like to see people who opt out not have the choice to accept one tbh.

verycloakanddaggers · 27/06/2025 21:26

HoskinsChoice · 27/06/2025 20:08

That is simply not true! Anyone can refuse to donate as you have obviously done. Let me guess, you also believe 5g is going to kill you, covid was a way to control us and the royals are actually lizards? 🤣

Comparing views on organ donation to conspiracy theories is nonsense.

People have varied reasons for wishing to opt out, and differences of view should be respected.

Policy changes related to organ donation are free votes for a reason, people's ethical/religious views and their views about health, the state and human bodies all come into play.

MauriceTheMussel · 27/06/2025 21:50

muddyford · 27/06/2025 20:15

Donation is giving, not something being taken without consent.

This.

What pisses me off is the sneakiness and underhanded manner of it all.

HoskinsChoice · 27/06/2025 22:23

verycloakanddaggers · 27/06/2025 21:26

Comparing views on organ donation to conspiracy theories is nonsense.

People have varied reasons for wishing to opt out, and differences of view should be respected.

Policy changes related to organ donation are free votes for a reason, people's ethical/religious views and their views about health, the state and human bodies all come into play.

I'm not comparing conspiracy theories with 'views', I'm comparing conspiracy theories with factually incorrect drivel. Posters are claiming that the government owns your body and take your 'bits' without consent. That is factually incorrect drivel and very much scaremongery, dangerous conspiracy theory stuff!

InfoSecInTheCity · 27/06/2025 22:26

mutinyonthetwix · 27/06/2025 20:16

It's just a pre-announcement of a plan which is getting unveiled next month. It might or might not have some opt outs but I wouldn't expect that sort of detail to be out yet.

Exactly this. It says in the article “Parents will be able to…..” not parents will be forced to….. so from that we could infer that there will be an opt in/out to this testing but it’s a few hundred words announcing an idea not a formal proposal or procedure document.

Genevieva · 27/06/2025 22:29

Nevertrustacop · 27/06/2025 17:33

I'm in two minds about this.
Should a parent be able to opt a baby out of something so potentially important to the childs health?

Yes.

m The more pertinent question is should the state be permitted to do this before the child is old enough to consent for themselves?

wWe already do genetic testing when there is a family history or symptoms that indicate a clinical need. There is no proven clinical need for the wholesale genetic profiling of the entire nation.

Heyheyitsanotherday · 27/06/2025 22:33

smallglassbottle · 27/06/2025 17:26

It'll be like organ donation where they've made it difficult to opt out and everyone is automatically opted in. I opted out a few years ago, then found out through my driving licence card that I'd been opted in again. I've had to go through two different websites to opt back out.

The state believe they own your body, living or dead.

Not true. The law changed yes. But your organs will always be safely with you unless your nok agrees to donation. You can still opt in but your nok can say no.
to be a donor you have to die in icu. Either from being neurologically dead. Or because life sustaining treatment is being stopped and you are going to die imminently. you are therefore statistically more likely to need an organ than you ever are to be in a position to donate them. If you are able to donate your family is approached by a specialist nurse and given the information to make a fully informed decision. If they say yes then a formal consent form is signed.

but rest assured now you’ve opted out your organs will be left to rot in the ground or be cremated, instead of saving the life of someone else. All because you don’t want the government telling you what to do. (For what it’s worth most reasons people give for saying no to donation I respect…. Just not such an uninformed one)

Ninkynonkpinkyponks · 27/06/2025 22:33

Absolutely whole heartedly think anyone opting out of organ donation should be refused any organs should they need them

smallglassbottle · 27/06/2025 22:36

HoskinsChoice · 27/06/2025 22:23

I'm not comparing conspiracy theories with 'views', I'm comparing conspiracy theories with factually incorrect drivel. Posters are claiming that the government owns your body and take your 'bits' without consent. That is factually incorrect drivel and very much scaremongery, dangerous conspiracy theory stuff!

So making it difficult to opt out and having to do it numerous times isn't a problem? They clearly believe that they're entitled to something they're not.

InWalksBarberalla · 27/06/2025 22:39

smallglassbottle · 27/06/2025 17:26

It'll be like organ donation where they've made it difficult to opt out and everyone is automatically opted in. I opted out a few years ago, then found out through my driving licence card that I'd been opted in again. I've had to go through two different websites to opt back out.

The state believe they own your body, living or dead.

What carry on because you stuffed up filling in a form.