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Nothing about being able to opt out of DNA testing?

197 replies

BlueJuniper94 · 27/06/2025 17:19

So why is there no mention of being able to opt out of this? Isn't this just going to encourage some people to avoid engaging with HCPs altogether?

www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c1ljg7v0vmpo

OP posts:
Soontobe60 · 28/06/2025 08:03

Morgenrot25 · 28/06/2025 07:52

That's clearly sad, and great if donation can save lives, but nobody should be forced to donate. Attempted guilt trips aren't the way forward.

Luckily nobody IS ‘forced to donate’ in this country. Everyone has the option to opt out, and even if they have not done so, the families of the donor are consulted before organs are removed and if they disagree about the donation it doesn't take place.
To reiterate, no one is ‘forced’.

Boomer55 · 28/06/2025 08:04

No one needs their organs once they’re dead. I seriously don’t understand why you would begrudge the possible gift of life to someone that could use that organ. 🙄

Parker231 · 28/06/2025 08:04

Morgenrot25 · 28/06/2025 07:52

That's clearly sad, and great if donation can save lives, but nobody should be forced to donate. Attempted guilt trips aren't the way forward.

when you’re dead, why not plan to do something good with your organs? You won’t need them!

alexalisten · 28/06/2025 08:07

Genevieva · 28/06/2025 08:00

People have always live past 30. I assume you exaggerated on purpose. The Industrial Revolution reduced average life expectancy among the poor to the 30s because of spelling working conditions, pollution and the disease epidemics caused by rapid urbanisation and globalisation (diseases like cholera being brought from warmer climes).

At present we DNA profile when there is a clinical need (family history or symptoms). There is absolutely no personal medical benefit to be gained from DNA profiling healthy people.

Have you not read why they are doing it they have new technology to enable personalised health care and will be able to prevent certain illnesses before even symptoms begin. It also means people will not have to try 5 different drugs before they find the one that works for them. Iv had genetic testing due to a rare condition and it meant they knew what medication would work for that specific gene. I find medicine and science fascinating.

MoominUnderWater · 28/06/2025 08:09

I also believe they will only test for treatable conditions. So no concern about giving someone a devastating diagnosis of Huntingtons as a newborn.

i must admit im a fan of whole genome sequencing. I’ve had mine done and this led to a diagnosis for which I can start treatment. It also means I now have answers to why I have quite a few issues…if I’d had these answers earlier I’d have avoided unnecessary surgery.

dd has also had her whole genome sequencing done. Surprisingly hers came back with no issues. Which is obviously good news and now means she has more information to help her come to an informed choice about whether or not she stops taking the medication she’s currently on. Her medication has risks to it. Before she got her results giving her the all clear she was adamant she’d take the medication for life. Now I think she might at some point feel brave enough to try stopping it.

evelynevelyn · 28/06/2025 08:12

Soontobe60 · 28/06/2025 07:50

What utter nonsense! You really are a conspiracy theorist aren’t you? Do you also wear a tin foil hat?

To me it sounds like she’s saying:

i) there a fair chance we end up with an insurance-based system in future,
ii) in insurance-based systems, profit considerations affect what treatments get approved,
iii) especially in cases that are marginal, like a borderline-unsurvivable crash.

I don’t share her worries in the same way, but I also don’t think any of the above is a tin-foil belief. Which of them do you think is so?

Parker231 · 28/06/2025 08:13

Boomer55 · 28/06/2025 08:04

No one needs their organs once they’re dead. I seriously don’t understand why you would begrudge the possible gift of life to someone that could use that organ. 🙄

I agree - why be so selfish to not help someone else who is in desperate need of an organ when you no longer need it

LlynTegid · 28/06/2025 08:16

I agree that opting out should be something you need to do only once.

As for DNA testing, if this had been mooted when Boris Johnson was Prime Minister, you can imagine what his view would have been given that he went to court to try to stop public knowledge of one of his many children.

Ladydish · 28/06/2025 08:17

smallglassbottle · 27/06/2025 20:39

Google 'opt out of organ donation'. You fill in the NHS one opting out, then they send you a letter a few days later and you go onto another site in the letter and opt out again. The first one is a notice to opt out and the second is actually opting out. When you renew your driving licence they must revert it to opting in again because I definitely opted out, but must have missed the box to tick when renewing the licence. It's difficult to find apparently and I thought you'd only need to opt out once in your lifetime. Crafty sods.

I’d hardly say this is ‘crafty’, have you ever spent time on a renal ward?
I really wish that by opting out of giving your organs you also opted out of receiving.

AnyoneWhoHasAHeart · 28/06/2025 08:17

People clearly have no understanding of opt-out.

if your are not opted out then it is presumed that you are ok re organ donation, but the decision rests with your family who can decline even if you carry a donor card, so it’s important to discuss your wishes with them. nobody removes anything without consent.

ps. I am 5 weeks post transplant.

evelynevelyn · 28/06/2025 08:17

Boomer55 · 28/06/2025 08:04

No one needs their organs once they’re dead. I seriously don’t understand why you would begrudge the possible gift of life to someone that could use that organ. 🙄

You’ve slept with him before. Why are you causing a fuss now?

”Because I don’t feel he respects consent” is a pretty powerful answer.

(I’m a donor, and I’m OK with an opt-out system, but I totally see why someone might feel strongly different. Especially if they’ve found themselves on the list when they had already opted out once).

Genevieva · 28/06/2025 08:17

alexalisten · 28/06/2025 08:07

Have you not read why they are doing it they have new technology to enable personalised health care and will be able to prevent certain illnesses before even symptoms begin. It also means people will not have to try 5 different drugs before they find the one that works for them. Iv had genetic testing due to a rare condition and it meant they knew what medication would work for that specific gene. I find medicine and science fascinating.

I have and it pathologises well people. It should be used when clinical need arises. Eg to help decide which medicine to use if there is a choice that is DNA dependant (which is rarely). The fact you have had it rather proves the point. It’s available at the point of need. There is no need at birth.

Ladydish · 28/06/2025 08:19

smallglassbottle · 27/06/2025 22:39

I have religious and personal reasons for opting out, not that it's any of your business, but do not misrepresent me.

Hopefully those reasons will also prevent you from receiving an organ transplant?

Allthegoodnamesarechosen · 28/06/2025 08:22

‘I’m assuming then that you would refuse an organ donation if medically required?’

I certainly would! Because I have seen at first hand the appalling side effects and possibly even worse, the disappointment and despair caused by the failure to deliver the longed for ‘improvement’ to a wished for state of ‘normal’ health. I wouldn’t subject myself to that, and I would be very upset if anyone else I knew was putting themselves or more significantly DC through this process.

Life at any price? No thanks .

Btowngirl · 28/06/2025 08:23

Morningsleepin · 28/06/2025 00:20

Early detection of incurable diseases would have a disastrous effect on anyone needing private health insurance in the future. A friend of my sister's was diagnosed with an incurable disease and had to give a job offer in the USA because of it

Surely health is more important than a job overseas?

PeriJane · 28/06/2025 08:27

I have zero respect for anyone deliberately opting out of organ donation. There is NO justifiable reason for it. That’s why people always cop out with ‘personal reasons’ when discussing it. The ‘reasons’ are usually complete nonsense. No religion forbids organ donation. Have your ‘reasons’ but don’t expect or demand respect for them.

alexalisten · 28/06/2025 08:29

Genevieva · 28/06/2025 08:17

I have and it pathologises well people. It should be used when clinical need arises. Eg to help decide which medicine to use if there is a choice that is DNA dependant (which is rarely). The fact you have had it rather proves the point. It’s available at the point of need. There is no need at birth.

But i suffered a lot unnecessarily before I had it. Also something as simple as antidepressants can be decided what's best for an individual through dna testing.

AnyoneWhoHasAHeart · 28/06/2025 08:35

Allthegoodnamesarechosen · 28/06/2025 08:22

‘I’m assuming then that you would refuse an organ donation if medically required?’

I certainly would! Because I have seen at first hand the appalling side effects and possibly even worse, the disappointment and despair caused by the failure to deliver the longed for ‘improvement’ to a wished for state of ‘normal’ health. I wouldn’t subject myself to that, and I would be very upset if anyone else I knew was putting themselves or more significantly DC through this process.

Life at any price? No thanks .

How offensive.

SunsetandCupcakes · 28/06/2025 08:41

smallglassbottle · 27/06/2025 20:43

Personal reasons, and no, I wouldn't accept an organ.

Thank you. I think anyone who wants to should be allowed to opt out. But then, like you, they should refuse to accept an organ.

AngelinaFibres · 28/06/2025 08:43

smallglassbottle · 27/06/2025 17:26

It'll be like organ donation where they've made it difficult to opt out and everyone is automatically opted in. I opted out a few years ago, then found out through my driving licence card that I'd been opted in again. I've had to go through two different websites to opt back out.

The state believe they own your body, living or dead.

Presumably you'd happily accept an organ donation if you were in desperate need. You just don't want to donate organs that you have no need of anymore that could change another persons life. Nice.

Parker231 · 28/06/2025 08:51

Allthegoodnamesarechosen · 28/06/2025 08:22

‘I’m assuming then that you would refuse an organ donation if medically required?’

I certainly would! Because I have seen at first hand the appalling side effects and possibly even worse, the disappointment and despair caused by the failure to deliver the longed for ‘improvement’ to a wished for state of ‘normal’ health. I wouldn’t subject myself to that, and I would be very upset if anyone else I knew was putting themselves or more significantly DC through this process.

Life at any price? No thanks .

My parents neighbour and the daughter of a friend have both had kidney transplants after years of living a restricted life. Post transplant, they are living a near normal life - particularly my friends young daughter.
What would you prefer - they suffer and then die unnecessarily?

Theroadt · 28/06/2025 08:55

I have no issue with dna tests per se provided you are not required to disclose innorder to get rg insurance or loans, and dna data is not shared with other agencies eg police. And frankly vaccnations should be compulsory for children so if there’s no opt out for dna but retained opt out for vaxxthat is madly inconsistent.

Morgenrot25 · 28/06/2025 08:59

Parker231 · 28/06/2025 08:04

when you’re dead, why not plan to do something good with your organs? You won’t need them!

If that's your choice, crack on. 👍

Morgenrot25 · 28/06/2025 09:01

Soontobe60 · 28/06/2025 08:03

Luckily nobody IS ‘forced to donate’ in this country. Everyone has the option to opt out, and even if they have not done so, the families of the donor are consulted before organs are removed and if they disagree about the donation it doesn't take place.
To reiterate, no one is ‘forced’.

I didn't say anyone was forced, however some posters on here are coming across as quite judgmental of anyone who even mentions opting out. 🫣

ttcat37 · 28/06/2025 09:01

Allthegoodnamesarechosen · 28/06/2025 08:22

‘I’m assuming then that you would refuse an organ donation if medically required?’

I certainly would! Because I have seen at first hand the appalling side effects and possibly even worse, the disappointment and despair caused by the failure to deliver the longed for ‘improvement’ to a wished for state of ‘normal’ health. I wouldn’t subject myself to that, and I would be very upset if anyone else I knew was putting themselves or more significantly DC through this process.

Life at any price? No thanks .

So you’d rather your kids die than accept an organ donation and potentially live a normal life again? Riiiiight…

I’m also interested in what all those opting out of organ donation plan to have done with their organs when they’re dead and won’t care about whether they save a life of a child or get chucked in a skip.

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