My brother in law tried to be sexual with me for years. He and my sister were swingers and he was a sex pest, jokingly encouraged by my sister as soon as I was 16 legal age.
I loved my sister and fended for myself for the sake of family unity. She knew I didnt want my wedding filmed. I was more than happy having my photographer who I knew was top class.
Bil turned up with super 8 cine camera and filmed the arriving in the car, walking to church and all the proceedings afterwards. He was mostly in the background and we just smiled for the photographer.
The cine camera disappeared after the wedding, was lost for around 3 years, till my parents emptied their cloakroom and found the leather case with camera inside, hanging on one of the illusive back coat hangers
The film was developed and made into a video.... which didnt come into my possession till my son was a year old, 6 years after the wedding.
My sister and bil had done everything possible to keep the truth hidden, but finally I received the video and in no particular rush to see it I finally settled in, turned on the TV and began to watch.
My bridesmaids, my sisters daughter and my cousins daughter, looked lovely, happy smiling and every shot was in full head to toe view.
Then the car rolled into view, the shot of me looking out of the car window showed the car door and my chest but I was headless. Every single frame of my father and I, cut off at the neck! And same all way through the video.
Bridesmaids and family shots, perfect but any with bob and I, headless!
I watched a few minutes before I fast screened and got the gist of the thing then I took the video out of the machine and stored it at the back of the cupboard for future recriminations.
When a year later I met the woman who transferred the film to video, she laughed hard, that she finally saw my face.
You can guess how low I rated her, that she dismissed the fact he had operated the camera many times correctly. It wasnt a fault.
Frankly it rankled that the pair of them did such a thing, I clearly saw it as retribution for not allowing him to defile me, and her for the fact that I didn't allow her to overtake my wedding. Much as she tried to do so and imply she was the organiser.
He died young with a brain tumour. Pretty much all you can say about just deserts, having had such putrid designs.
It taught me to beware who I honour, a relative isn't always who they should be.
So back to your video. If you don't want to watch it, just park it, there may come a time, when one of you passes, that it will be just what you need to see.
As for mine. When I finally kicked my sister to the kerb the video went in the burner. The heat was the only good thing that came of the pair of them.