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Hot weather.

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JohnTheRevelator · 17/06/2025 17:45

Anyone else just want this hot weather to fuck right off? I've had enough of it already and apparently we're in for at least another 2 weeks of it. 🤬 I'm made out to be a killjoy when I say I'm not enjoying it. Does everyone else really love it,or are they just saying it for fear of being thought odd (like me!).

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frozendaisy · 17/06/2025 18:40

Mymanyellow · 17/06/2025 18:34

That’s a great post. 70 or 80 summers. I’ve already had 60.

So make the next 10/15/20/30 fabulous and disgraceful!

frozendaisy · 17/06/2025 18:41

Rosesonroses · 17/06/2025 18:30

I’m 38 weeks pregnant and hating it! I like the hotter weather but up to about 24/25 is hot enough for me in this country, anything more is too sweaty and stuffy

38 weeks pregnant you get a total pass for hating it

Amba1998 · 17/06/2025 18:41

Usually adore it. But I’m 40 weeks pregnant. The thought of the post natal ward in this or the drama over how to dress a newborn at night is giving me all sorts of anxiety

PomeloOud · 17/06/2025 18:42

The only thing I’m worried about out is that it will break before we are having a huge party in 2.5 weeks. We always have a do around the 5th of July and it’s almost always pissing with rain.

It’s absolutely gorgeous outside right now - a perfect temperature, warm but not hot. We’ve just had a sundowner sitting in the garden and it was bliss. I wish all our summers were long and hot and lasted longer than 2 weeks.

gingercat02 · 17/06/2025 18:42

God no! Can be like this until October for me (with a bit of rain obviously so we don't dry up and blow away)

Lovetosurf · 17/06/2025 18:43

Love it!

Can spend so much more time outdoors. Don't have to wear layers of clothes and the clothes you do wear are so much lighter.

Can eat lighter meals and salad grown in the UK. Try to grow a bit myself (with variable results!)
Can go swimming in the sea and dry off naturally after in the sun.
I really feel the cold through autumn, winter and chilly spring days and my mood is lower, so summer is my happy place.

humptydumptyfelloff · 17/06/2025 18:44

Love it.
I am peri menopausal and have been for a couple of years now so in readiness for the flashes of heat I have ceiling fans in the lounge and bedrooms,bedroom blinds salt at shut on the south side and open on the north during the day then I swap it around in the evening.

I leave the lounge windows open in the evening and the back door and it creates some air flow.
I have a really lightweight kaftan that I chuck on after a cool shower when I get in from work

I sit in the garden some evenings with a book which is lovely

i try to eat outside most days when I’m not working late

my work clothes are really think loose midi length dresses from h and m and a pair of crocs on my feet.

my workplace gets hot so I have a sail outside the door up high to keep shaded and I do have a really good fan in there for when it’s stifling.
I leave the windows open all night so it’s fresher first thing.

oh I also bought some hand fans on a recent holiday and they’re marvellous.

drink plenty of cold cold water and I love not wearing much make up because of the summer glow,just a slick of mascara and some highlighter it’s great.

We are in the darker colder months for such a long time you’ve got to make the most of the vitamin d while you can

frozendaisy · 17/06/2025 18:45

All the heavily pregnants get a pass clearly
It was a hot august I was heavily pregnant and spent about 16 hours a day crunching ice cubes.....H said it was like being married to a horse!

Ice cubes and swigging gaviscon

Mademetoxic · 17/06/2025 18:45

frozendaisy · 17/06/2025 18:39

Totally agree

I like the sound of ice chinking in a drink. It can be anything from a fizzy water to a perfect G&T
I like when H finishes work we can sit outside and chat, do the crossword, it's still light. We spend a lot of time indoors in the UK it's nice to not do it and by evening it's warm not hot.
I like seeing the build up photos of Glastonbury online, still not sure if we should go as it's a young person's game but it remind me of my 18-30 years when Glastonbury was stress free, full of un and dancing and it good to see other youngers enjoying the same
I have a soft spot for sweet peas, surprise entry in my life and like the randomness of a butterfly (or flutterby as they should be called)
People watching is so much better in the hotter weather, people are happier (on the whole), slower, stop to chat.
Cooking is easy, it's chopping basically, with a fancy salad dressing.

And you can please a lot of people with a sliced chilled watermelon, god they taste good on a summer's day, and they are so pretty, that vibrant pinky red with black seeds, one good looking statement fruit :-)

I mean we live in a rather temperature country, we all have safe cold water piped into our homes, we can shower when we like, we can grow lush gardens and have shops and houses that can accommodate frozen produce. We are so lucky just having that. But for some they still moan, it's very odd.

Let me know where you live I'll be right over! I love all the positively in your post.

Brits moaning about the weather whether it's baking hot to snow, there is no pleasing some people!

Everyone else, stop moaning and look at all the colours around with the flowers and the nature/wildlife.
Make the most of it whilst we can as in 2 weeks be back to pissing down with rain and the constant posts of 'when will it ever stop raining'

CoubousAndTourmalet · 17/06/2025 18:46

Hate heat, I officially have summer SAD. Heat & bright sun gives me asthma and persistent headaches. We live in the north west, but our garden is a suntrap and we struggle to keep the dogs comfortable. Neither of us can stand the stinky burnt plastic smell of barbecues or the sound of bouncing footballs.
We love the quiet and stillness of autumn & winter.

the80sweregreat · 17/06/2025 18:47

I hate hate hate it so much
wish it would do one

GinnyandGeorgia · 17/06/2025 18:51

Amba1998 · 17/06/2025 18:41

Usually adore it. But I’m 40 weeks pregnant. The thought of the post natal ward in this or the drama over how to dress a newborn at night is giving me all sorts of anxiety

always remember that babies born in much warmer countries, and without air con everywhere, do just fine.

I mean South of France or Italy, Spain.. just like the UK but warmer. Read their advice if you worry, but the mums there are not!

TheHouseElf · 17/06/2025 19:04

Every time I get to the point where I might start complaining about the weather we are currently enjoying, I remember how bloody cold, dark, grey and never-ending winter was, and I remember to count my blessings.

So no, I'm going to enjoy every moment of it.

QuartzIlikeit · 17/06/2025 19:06

Absolutely love it. Makes me feel so much better when its hot. Love waking up to a bright sunshine filled day with heat. It improves my mood massively. Id be happy if it was 26 degrees from Feb to November every year

greengreyblue · 17/06/2025 19:07

I’m sitting in my rusty old swinging egg chair down the end of my garden, in the shade, watching the robin family going in and out of their nest. Bliss.

GentleSheep · 17/06/2025 19:07

Enjoying it for now, but I'm not in a city, I'm rural. I dislike the cold as it makes my bones and joints ache so this is a lovely respite. As long as the temperature doesn't get too much higher that is!

Chipsahoy · 17/06/2025 19:10

Perfect in NE Scotland today. We’ve had warm sunshine, some rain and now it’s cool enough for a blanket to while we watch tv. I think highs of 25c on Friday. Suits me fine.

Plump82 · 17/06/2025 19:12

Ihad2Strokes · 17/06/2025 18:17

Really? Bloody hell. I'd happily send you some heat/sun.

This temperature would have be ok for me prior to the strokes. But now I'm finding it hard to cope with.

Not helped by the fact my stoke affected side feels freezing cold. But I can't do anything to 'warm it up' as it just makes the rest of me hot enough to pass out.

can't take cool showers for the 'ok' side as the 'not ok side' is already hurting with 'the cold'

during the winter I thought summer would help...I was SO wrong. 🙇🏻‍♀️🙇🏻‍♀️

I am enjoying the long light hours though 😊

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Please do!! I love the heat so am very jealous of you guys down south. Although Friday and Saturday are looking very positive before back to rain the following week.

Bloatstoat · 17/06/2025 19:14

YANBU I hate it. The only think keeping me going is that the days start getting shorter from Saturday - just few heatwaves to get through and it'll be autumn before we know it!

cardibach · 17/06/2025 19:15

I totally get that, in the same way being cold makes me miserable and I can5 warm up whatever I do, some people hate being hot and can’t cool down. I empathise.
However it’s been literally days and it’s unlikely to be more than a couple of weeks. We have cold for a good 9 months. Can’t you accept that you have the advantage in terms of hating the weather here?

JohnTheRevelator · 17/06/2025 19:19

Somethingsnapped · 17/06/2025 18:22

Can you find something/s you like about the summer, and try to focus on that? I really struggled with the heat when I first moved down from the north to the south; I absolutely dreaded the summers. But I found things I liked (drying washing outside, summer flowers and hedgerows, summer clothes, kids playing in the garden, beach holidays), and bit by bit I started to tolerate it all, and now finally, I actually quite like it.

I agree with a pp that it's the humidity that can be horrible in Britain. Today is not humid though... It's a pleasant dry heat with a nice breeze. When it does get very hot, I take a good fan everywhere with me, and a wet scarf! This helps massively. I sleep with the windows wide open and the curtains open too, so I can feel the night air.

The only positives I can think of about hot weather is not having to spend a fortune on gas for heating,not taking ages to get dressed and undressed with so many layers that I wear in hot weather (I'm disabled plus I have a frozen shoulder so dressing and undressing is always a bit of a chore for me) and laundry drying in next to no time. I do feel sorry for my poor cat though. Imagine wearing a fur coat in this heat and not being able to take it off! I'm sure she thinks it's me that's making it so hot just to piss her off!

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frozendaisy · 17/06/2025 19:19

QuartzIlikeit · 17/06/2025 19:06

Absolutely love it. Makes me feel so much better when its hot. Love waking up to a bright sunshine filled day with heat. It improves my mood massively. Id be happy if it was 26 degrees from Feb to November every year

Move to Greece :-)

Mymanyellow · 17/06/2025 19:20

frozendaisy · 17/06/2025 18:40

So make the next 10/15/20/30 fabulous and disgraceful!

Will do!

JohnTheRevelator · 17/06/2025 19:21

cardibach · 17/06/2025 19:15

I totally get that, in the same way being cold makes me miserable and I can5 warm up whatever I do, some people hate being hot and can’t cool down. I empathise.
However it’s been literally days and it’s unlikely to be more than a couple of weeks. We have cold for a good 9 months. Can’t you accept that you have the advantage in terms of hating the weather here?

Agree. I m not a fan of freezing cold weather,but as long as it's between 12 and 22 degrees,I'm happy. As you say,it's easier to warm up than to cool down.

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feellikeanalien · 17/06/2025 19:21

Grey and a bit chilly in Northumberland today.

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