@Barr77
I agree that its not true that Catholics/priests have not spoken out on this but it is historically recent. Its also true that as recently as the The McAleese report there was significant pushback both from religious and laity insisting it was all anti Catholic bigotry.
I’m a 60s born baby and I remember families sending daughters to England because the alternative was one of the horrific mother and baby homes where the baby was removed and given to a naice MC Catholic familly (resulting in a generous donation). There was still huge social pressure from ordinary friends and neighbours, long after girls in England had started to keep their babies.
But mainly do you not see the problem with this paragraph?
My own grandmother was a midwife in Ireland in the 1950s and 60s. She wasn’t allowed to visit the girls in the mother-and-baby homes or laundries — hardly anyone was — but she was well aware of what was happening. Everyone was. And she was absolutely horrified. But the truth is, people didn’t feel like they could do anything. The Church had too much power back then. Challenging it could cost you your livelihood and your place in the community. That doesn’t mean they supported what was happening — it means they were scared. That’s what systemic control looks like.
This suggests that everyone found it shocking and really wanted to do something but couldn’t.
Like every other abuse scandal it wasn’t just the good people wringing their hands. People made a choice to protect their own position because the girls were not important and some actively used the laundries to exercise their own grievances - my own WC Great Grandmother was a victim of this. It wasn’t the priest or even the Garda who reported her for “low morals”. It was the family of a boy she rejected (she was actually married but an “outsider” and even worse, a foreigner).
That was in Dublin, she escaped only because her mother was able to get her on a boat to England and told her never to come back for her own safety. Had she been somewhere more rural she would likely have died in the laundries at that time. She never went back, she begged her children never to go back either and none of them did. It scarred her for her entire life.
That wasn’t helpless good people wringing their hands in horror at the Church - it was ordinary people abusing the rules for personal gain or vindictiveness whilst their good peers looked the other way. Its the story of every outbreak of abuse and control be it gangs, social institutions or wholesale political movements like Nazism or Stalinism or the witchhunts.
It is really, really important that when we look at these events we do not present ourselves as good but helpless but focus on understanding why we as individuals failed to take action or even exploited the situation. It is why we have to assume it could easily be us failing or exploiting and these situations will happen again. Looking the other way for personal benefit in a church setting was still happening when my 90s born children were school age.
In context of the grooming gangs here- yes the specific cultural aspects about the Mipuri ethnic gangs matter - but they matter to investigating those specific gangs, just like the cultural specifics matter when dealing with other gangs of any ethnicity. Its equally important to understand the common patterns which apply to all grooming/trafficking gangs, the failings of the MC professionals who refused to act and the community members who failed to challenge.
The common feature in Rotherham, as with every other gang was not the girls’ whiteness and to repeat that claim (as has happened on this thread) is to deny the experience of all the Mipuri, SIkh, Hindu and other victims.
The common features are the vulnerability of the girls, professionals who simply don’t care about them or value them and the peers who look the other way. Even where the girls had a family member to speak for them the police, the social workers, the schools and the politicians told them to sod off and refused to help.
I’d wager a sizeable amount that the nurse upthread told in training that abuse was to be ignored in Mipuri families because it was “cultural” was told that by MC professionals, just as my mother’s friend was told the same
in 50s London about WC victims of abuse.
Lets face it, there are still professionals who will insist that child marriage and FGM are acceptable where its “cultural”.
It is however much easier to identify a “them” (which when I was young in England was ethnic Irish Catholics) and carry on our merry way.