New neighbour sunbathing in the nude

[ZooHannah]

We moved in to our dream home last month, we have a corner plot with only one direct neighbour who is a (I believe) single man and has always been polite and friendly in our initial conversations.

DH looked out of our bedroom window today to see our neighbour sunbathing completely starkers. He came downstairs to tell me and I couldn’t believe it when I went upstairs and saw for myself.

I want to go round to say something however DH has told me I am being ridiculous and he is on his own property so can go what he wants.

AIBU? I appreciate neighbourly relations but I am absolutely repulsed by this.

Yes, I understand that.

However, most people I know have read a book, kicked a ball about etc but not many people I know sunbathe naked in their not very big, not very private garden.

Big, private garden do what ever you want. Infact, I might try it at the weekend as it's forecast lovely weather.

That's very MN to use a thread to let people know you have a big garden

He's as entitled as you to go au naturel and his garden sounds fairly private if the neighbours have to go to an upstairs window to see him.

😂

I probably won't go au naturel this weekend. I was just joking. I'm not taking this thread half as serious as some of you.

The best post on here was to shout Morning, I can see your nob.

I also liked the post where one woman hangs her washing out naked sometimes.

I'm just a pants on kinda girl unless I'm with the DH.

YABU. He’s just naked, he’s not doing anything sexual so why does it matter if your kids see him? Really don’t understand why you are bothered 🤷‍♀️

It’s our natural state, imo kids instinctively recognise this and are either not bothered (the way young kids will happily run around clothes free if allowed to) or once they are older and have been taught that they are supposed to cover up when anyone can see them, they will get the giggles if they see someone naked instead. I really don’t think your kids will be shocked or traumatised by this blokes naturism.

You are being a bit prudish

And I was comparing the NEED to do something...

Not prudish at all, trust me.

And yet you can't handle a man just laying there naked

Love it when my DH does it, I have no interest in seeing my neighbours. It wouldn't upset me, I'd find it funny.

Lol that could be dangerous when pruning.

Seriously though I can't see the issue.Ans what if one of the kids did glance out of the window and see a naked body? It's a body. We all have them. Why is it so terrible.

Unless he's laying there banging one out at the tine

Naked Attraction makes me laugh. When they get rejected and they have to do the walk of shame after they've they've had their body scrutinised. Why would you?

Probably as the naked man in that case would be in a school playground not his private garden

😂

Wish they'd bring back the laughing emoji

Finding it funny is a bit infantile

I don't care. I'm not going to be the only one laughing.

🤭 No, you shouldn't do that.

You certainly couldn't complain about his nakedness after if you did 🤣

This !

Let him know that he can be seen as he might not realise and he could put a screen up if he wanted to. It won’t be nice weather for long so won’t be a problem

Just wondering if next door neighbour went on the London Naked Bike Ride 🤔😉🤣

Does the vote mean most of us are envious?

Simple

Quite possibly. I definitely would if I was brave enough.

Of neighbour or the OP?

Assume it means most voters agree with OP's husband

''Methinks the lady doth protest too much''

I bet the first time must be a bit daunting.