I got married yesterday and I can't stop crying.

[MoreThanOverwhelmed]

DH has cancer. (Diagnosed Jan 2024)
We were supposed to get married - at simple 2+2 ceremony at the end of the month but his Dr's etc encouraged us to bring the date forwards, so we got married yesterday in the hospital where my DH is being cared for.
I'm a week post major abdominal surgery.
We have 2 primary aged DC
It's our youngest DCs birthday this month.

I don't know what I want from this post but I can't stop crying.
I don't think that I know how break it to the DC that Daddy isn't going to get better and come home.
My head is swimming & I don't know what to do.

Sending lots of love

So sorry for you and your children. Wishing you strength going forwards.

I’m so sorry to read this. So heartbreaking. No words will be enough. I’m so sorry 💐

I'm glad you have family around you to support you.

I'm so, so sorry; I can't imagine the pain of loss after all that love xx

Just to say I read your update and I'm so very very sorry.

So sorry to read your update 💐

I’m so sorry for your loss and what you are going through. I hope the love you and your children have for each other, and the love of those around you can help you all through these hardest of days. You got through the funeral. One day at a time. They must all take so much courage at the moment. I hope you are getting some bits of time for yourself to process and rest. Sending hugs

I'm so so very sorry.

I am so sorry, sending you strength x

Bless you. I’m so sorry. Sending a hug and a handhold. X

I'm so sorry 💔

Sending you much love and sympathy, OP. This is a terrible time for you and DC, and you just have to keep going as best you can till the pain eases. I hope you can comfort each other, and that you have loving people around you to help you get through it all, day by day xxx

Oh op, you have been to hell and back darling.
I'm so sorry 😞
Be kind to yourself In the coming days/weeks.
With lots of love to you all ❤️

I'm so sorry, OP. Hope you can get some rest, life is very cruel sometimes. 💐

I am so sorry. Look after yourself.

Horrible disease. Sorry

OP, this is so hard and unfair. Sending sympathy and strength your way, and to your family.

@MoreThanOverwhelmed I am so sorry for your loss. Please know that you have MNers here when you need us. Sending you strength, love and many {{HUGS}}.

Oh op, it is a living hell that you are in. Just focus on one step at a time. Be kind with yourself, you are strong. Don’t expect to feel ok now, and when you do feel ok, don’t feel guilty. Things will get easier with time I promise. They will never go away but they will get easier. Sending lots of love and hugs your way x

Reported ⬆️

Widowed and Young are a good resource

https://www.widowedandyoung.org.uk/

So very sorry for your tragic loss. Your love shines through every post.
Sending you lots of love and strength ❤️

I'm so very sorry for your loss x

Congratulations on your wedding. I know it wasn't the ideal scenario but two people coming together to be married should be celebrated :) , tell us about it, make it something nice to remember. I'm sure your husband loved making you his wife, and you will always have this memory that even in this late stage you have something brilliant. Your children will be fine. They are more resilient than you think at that age. It's you that needs looking after now on every way. Do you have family around you that can look after you post surgery as well as practically supporting you with your children and emotionally with what you are going through ?

Edit just seen the update.
I'm so sorry , please reach out for support, you are not alone

Love and best wishes to you @MoreThanOverwhelmed take time for yourself and your lovely children and family. So sorry for your loss of your lovely husband. Is it worth seeing your GP for some support?