It’s not a specific comment, I think it’s the tone of the thread, implying that UK grads are automatically better than IMGs. Although I do apologise, as a lot of the comments I don’t agree with are from the other poster here, not you.
However, you have to admit (again, this comment wasn’t made by you, but to highlight why people are disagreeing with the thread) but saying “IMGs can buy their way into training” is inherently offensive. Yes, it has happened in the past, but UK grads can also cheat.
Some of the discussion around this sounds like you’re both implying that this is why the IMGs are getting jobs, when in the vast vast majority of cases, they’re just stronger applicants. Again, I get it’s disappointing to accept that someone you love who worked hard just wasn’t as good an applicant as others, but it’s the truth. It’s also true (as everyone has stated) that the UK should prioritise UK grads. We can’t, however, change this policy.
You don’t need to disclose your profession at all. But it obviously makes a difference to your credibility on this matter, especially when several other doctors (including the main person you have an issue with) is. I’m not, but I am a psychologist (the NHS also paid +£250,000 to train me, I faced 10/1 odds of getting onto training and I also couldn’t get a job after I qualified, so I honestly do understand the position your child is in).
You have the right to think something else is going on, but I think, based on probability, people probably don’t want to comment on a thread where two people seem to be having their own discussion and being rude (e.g calling people vile) to anyone who disagrees.
Especially when it’s (at least) the 4th thread on this topic. What more is there really to say? It’s shit that people are in this position. You also said on your last thread (to someone whose husband is a consultant and who was sharing her opinion) “why are you on this thread if you DC are not doctors?). So you don’t really seem want peoples opinions unless they agree with you.
It’s worth thinking about whether responding to people in a different way might help you to get your point across more.
The reality is this is not likely to be changed before October 2025. It will take several years for any policy changes made now to take affect.
If you do have time to find that comment I would appreciate it as it would change my view a bit. Obviously it’s not right to disregard people’s opinions in that way (and is quite sexist).