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Nigel Farage on abortions- slippery slope?

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Ph2028 · 28/05/2025 01:13

Following the speech, Farage was also asked about his view on abortion limits. He replied that he was pro-choice but that it was "utterly ludicrous" for abortion to be allowed up to 24 weeks, when a hospital would "move heaven and earth" to help a baby born at 22 weeks survive.

Aibu to think it may be a slippery slope to reducing the number of weeks until it is effectively banned...

Anyway it's a bit of a non issue on Nigel's part given nearly 94% of reported abortions happen before two and a half months of pregnancy.so very few abortions happen at 24 weeks.

Now i remember why I requested a tubal ligation when I was pregnant with first baby as I didn't want anymore in any circumstances. It was predictably denied so dh got a vasectomy instead.

OP posts:
FatherFrosty · 29/05/2025 13:53

It’s just the sheer level of judging that gets me. Where people think they can police the reasonings and judge if it’s bad enough or not to warrant one.
it’s just awful

Tessiebear2023 · 29/05/2025 17:26

FatherFrosty · 29/05/2025 13:53

It’s just the sheer level of judging that gets me. Where people think they can police the reasonings and judge if it’s bad enough or not to warrant one.
it’s just awful

Exactly, this is why politics, religion, and personal morals or "feelings" need to butt the hell out.

Abortion is about medical ethics, so it can only be decided by medical experts who have the wide-ranging experience of medical practice treating women, and knowledge of science to make these decisions (along with women's groups, who understand the real outcomes of those decisions).

vivainsomnia · 29/05/2025 20:07

Codlingmoths · 28/05/2025 22:44

Rubbish though. Whatever they’ve ticked on paper, we all know women who had abortions because they didn’t want the baby. Their mental health was fine in every way and you’re doing women no favours to say wanting an abortion is only done if it’s making you mentally unwell. You’re doing society a huge wrong to support this language of ‘i don’t like that outcome therefore I have mental health issues’ , although you are in a large cohort there.

It is rubbish indeed, but legally, it is true.

Funny how the detrimental to mental health of having an unwanted baby doesn't apply to men. Tough, they have to deal with it!

I wish the law was more honest. Abortions are legal because we want women to have a choice.

vivainsomnia · 29/05/2025 20:51

It’s just the sheer level of judging that gets me. Where people think they can police the reasonings and judge if it’s bad enough or not to warrant one
You can have an opinion on the morality of a choice without judging those who make a choice.

I think for many their opinion of abortion under 10 weeks is very different to after 20 weeks.

There was a total of about 2500 abortions between 20 and 24 weeks in 2022.

Coatsoff42 · 29/05/2025 21:06

vivainsomnia · 29/05/2025 20:51

It’s just the sheer level of judging that gets me. Where people think they can police the reasonings and judge if it’s bad enough or not to warrant one
You can have an opinion on the morality of a choice without judging those who make a choice.

I think for many their opinion of abortion under 10 weeks is very different to after 20 weeks.

There was a total of about 2500 abortions between 20 and 24 weeks in 2022.

Oh my gosh, I got really into the NHS stats on abortions in 2022 on the back of this. Fascinating! What is going on in the NW England? Why are abortion rates so high?
Thank goodness they are falling for under 18s generally across the Uk, that’s a lot of familial struggle avoided.
why are rates going up for over 35s? Are there more divorces? Are women over 35 in better health and having more risky sex? Or are they in worse financial situations and can’t afford a baby? Or have they all assumed they are in menopause and gone off their contraception?
It is fascinating.

CurlewKate · 29/05/2025 21:06

You are being ironic/joking with our comment about men’s mental health, aren’t you? Tell me you are….

pointythings · 29/05/2025 21:10

vivainsomnia · 29/05/2025 20:07

It is rubbish indeed, but legally, it is true.

Funny how the detrimental to mental health of having an unwanted baby doesn't apply to men. Tough, they have to deal with it!

I wish the law was more honest. Abortions are legal because we want women to have a choice.

Men have their moment of choice when they decide whether or not to insert their penis into a woman's vagina. The moment they choose to do that, they need to accept that they are taking the risk of an unplanned pregnancy.

And honestly, that's choice enough - men don't need to go through any of the very real hardships a woman goes through in pregnancy and birth.

vivainsomnia · 29/05/2025 21:10

You are being ironic/joking with our comment about men’s mental health, aren’t you? Tell me you are….
Nope, I'm not at all 😁 As in I don't think it's a 'good excuse' for men nor women!

pointythings · 29/05/2025 21:14

vivainsomnia · 29/05/2025 21:10

You are being ironic/joking with our comment about men’s mental health, aren’t you? Tell me you are….
Nope, I'm not at all 😁 As in I don't think it's a 'good excuse' for men nor women!

I agree. The solution is to have abortion on demand up to whatever limit is chosen (I would suggest the NZ limit of 20 weeks) and after that the decision is taken between the woman and her physician. Abortion should be removed entirely from the domain of criminal justice. I hope the proposed bill to achieve just that passes and becomes law.

And Nigel Farage can fuck off with his natalist crap.

someonehastoberight · 29/05/2025 21:58

I agree it’s late and should be earlier (unless there are complications with mother or foetus's health )

thenightsky · 29/05/2025 22:03

dontcomeatme · 28/05/2025 02:53

I always thought it was 24 weeks because of the 20 weeks scan? If it shows something "wrong" with the baby then the parents can use that information to decide whether to terminate, is that not the case?

When my 20 week came back abnormal, that's exactly what I was told.

Edited for missing word.

StandFirm · 30/05/2025 06:37

Nigel Farage can f off with his natalist crap for sure.

And with his crypto plans! This is going to invite SO MUCH CORRUPTION into UK politics and into the UK at large. And again, not even an original idea - it's already being done by the Donald (his boss):
https://www.theguardian.com/politics/2025/may/29/reform-uk-to-accept-donations-via-bitcoin-nigel-farage-says

Reform UK to accept donations via bitcoin, Nigel Farage says

Party leader says he wants UK to be a ‘crypto powerhouse’ during speech at Las Vegas conference

https://www.theguardian.com/politics/2025/may/29/reform-uk-to-accept-donations-via-bitcoin-nigel-farage-says

Glowingup · 30/05/2025 07:56

thenightsky · 29/05/2025 22:03

When my 20 week came back abnormal, that's exactly what I was told.

Edited for missing word.

Edited

The 24 week limit is based on potential viability, not around the 20 week scan. And as abortion for serious abnormalities is permitted up to term the two are not directly tied.

Glowingup · 30/05/2025 07:59

vivainsomnia · 29/05/2025 20:07

It is rubbish indeed, but legally, it is true.

Funny how the detrimental to mental health of having an unwanted baby doesn't apply to men. Tough, they have to deal with it!

I wish the law was more honest. Abortions are legal because we want women to have a choice.

Oh yeah I forgot how men have a fetus growing inside them for months and then have to go through either pushing it out through their body or invasive abdominal surgery. I forgot about how their bodies’ hormonal balance alters massively as a result and can even end up with severe depression or psychosis just because they have been pregnant. And then men also have their breasts engorge with milk as well to feed the baby. So yeah given that, we definitely should take account of their mental health if they don’t want a baby 🙄

Dangermoo · 30/05/2025 09:16

StandFirm · 30/05/2025 06:37

Nigel Farage can f off with his natalist crap for sure.

And with his crypto plans! This is going to invite SO MUCH CORRUPTION into UK politics and into the UK at large. And again, not even an original idea - it's already being done by the Donald (his boss):
https://www.theguardian.com/politics/2025/may/29/reform-uk-to-accept-donations-via-bitcoin-nigel-farage-says

More irrelevance to the OP.

StandFirm · 30/05/2025 09:19

It is relevant inasmuch as you should look at a party through their overall agenda. This helps paint a picture of the direction a Reform government would go. Those things may not look connected but they should not be looked at in isolation.

CurlewKate · 30/05/2025 09:22

Glowingup · 30/05/2025 07:59

Oh yeah I forgot how men have a fetus growing inside them for months and then have to go through either pushing it out through their body or invasive abdominal surgery. I forgot about how their bodies’ hormonal balance alters massively as a result and can even end up with severe depression or psychosis just because they have been pregnant. And then men also have their breasts engorge with milk as well to feed the baby. So yeah given that, we definitely should take account of their mental health if they don’t want a baby 🙄

Yes-they should 100% have a say. After all-their lives are going to change so much if they have a baby.

Dangermoo · 30/05/2025 09:28

StandFirm · 30/05/2025 09:19

It is relevant inasmuch as you should look at a party through their overall agenda. This helps paint a picture of the direction a Reform government would go. Those things may not look connected but they should not be looked at in isolation.

The constant reference to Trump is very much irrelevant. How on earth are state abortion bans in the US going to affect the UK? There would have to be a lot of leap frogging of parliamentary sovereignty and judicial precedence to even arrive there. Trump has also rejected the pressure for a national ban. Farage is talking common sense on this. The only reason this poll goes in favour of the OP is that it's Farage who is the proponent. When it comes to Reform, there is nothing more than moral panic, most often led by the Guardian.

StandFirm · 30/05/2025 09:31

Honestly, if you don't see the glaringly obvious link between MAGA and Reform you are truly and wilfully blind.

StandFirm · 30/05/2025 09:32

It's not just Reform by the way, it's all the similar parties around the world that aim to take over from liberal democracies. It's a franchise.

CurlewKate · 30/05/2025 09:33

What @StandFirm says.

Dangermoo · 30/05/2025 09:33

StandFirm · 30/05/2025 09:31

Honestly, if you don't see the glaringly obvious link between MAGA and Reform you are truly and wilfully blind.

Care to explain how Trump can influence the UK on implementing an abortion ban - aside from (laughably) using Farage as a conduit?

StandFirm · 30/05/2025 09:34

Why would he bring up abortion, eh? Since when has that really been a topic in British society (apart from a few fringe extremist Christians, and NI which I know has its own history here)

StandFirm · 30/05/2025 09:35

Dangermoo · 30/05/2025 09:33

Care to explain how Trump can influence the UK on implementing an abortion ban - aside from (laughably) using Farage as a conduit?

By actively putting pressure (already now as we speak) on the British government. Constantly banging on about 'free speech' and use trade links/ economic interests as leverage. Happening every single day. Right now.

Dangermoo · 30/05/2025 09:37

StandFirm · 30/05/2025 09:35

By actively putting pressure (already now as we speak) on the British government. Constantly banging on about 'free speech' and use trade links/ economic interests as leverage. Happening every single day. Right now.

Hmmm...well he would have to lead by example and implement a national ban in the US first.

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