Another neighbour post

[Lesleyann25]

I am having an ongoing problem with my downstairs neighbour. My daughter and I moved into a large apartment in December it’s a really good area and we like it here.

It started as soon as we moved in, there is a lady in her 60s with her adult son about 20. It appears the son stays up all night and sleeps all day and games under my room until around 4am shouting at the screen. I spoke to lady she was very nice said she would tell him to keep it and down and went on a long spiel about him having mental health problems and waiting for a diagnosis for autism so I have tried to cut them a bit of slack but it really isn’t on I have to listen to podcasts to sleep. What has really annoyed me is that my daughters bedroom door is a bit stiff so it makes a bit of noise when she closes it in the mornings but I am talking about 8am, we are out all day and go to bed by 10 as I have work too.

Now the son has started slamming doors at 4am I am assuming in revenge so I have reported them to the council. Autism and mental health is not a reason to keep other people up all night surely? I think it’s completely out of order. She said he has insomnia too. Anyone else dealt with this?

I don’t want her evicted I want her son to shut the fuck
up at all hours of the night. Go away. I am not goading and I don’t think I am better than anyone in social housing I live in fucking social housing.

you’re the bigot.

his mother says him so I am saying him out of respect. You’re a nasty one.

You more you respond the more vile you sound

It’s just that you said “I don’t care about his gender” and I wondered what you meant/how it was relevant.

Oh FFS you don't know this
You have beef because they make noise and you not used to living in a shared area but you are coming across so nasty and rude

When you live in an apartment and shared property you have to get used to some sounds

Oh FFS what ever

For someone who "just moved in" you seem to have alot of intel on your neighbours

I'm calling absolute bull shit

Do you start every post with “Oh FFS”? 🤣

“Sling your hook” 🤣🤣
That escalated quickly. This thread is becoming quite entertaining. 😄

Im relaxing now to the wonderful smell of skunk listening to a shit load of verbal abuse. Sorry but I think I must live in a parallel universe bevause I have lived in plenty of shared spaces in my younger years and never known the likes.

Oh I see you’re back? Finished the wine have you? Because you seem like you must be drunk.

Call police, tell them they're screaming and shouting and high on drugs. If it gets them to attend, I'd even imply they might be dealing.

Then think up creative ideas for revenge, that you probably won't do but really want to. Like glitter through the letterbox, followed up with can of compressed air for maximum dispersal.

Little trickles of milk through south facing window vents. Stink to high heaven.

Hidden Bluetooth speakers around the building that blast annoying songs wherever they go.

Spend a ridiculous amount of time and energy to DoS their network every night until he gets the fucking hint.

Call it whatever you want. Would you like to come visit? You’ll quickly change your mind believe it.

Yeah maybe a nicely packaged dog turd might do the trick🤣

Sorry think I quoted the wrong person. Don’t think you’re one of the insane 6% that thinks I am unreasonable. Can’t abide that kittenmittens or whatever it’s called

And listen Botanybaby (odd name) you know nothing of this situation. You don’t listen to it and smell it every night. This is very abnormal.

To be fair, you know what was in the deleted post! You were abusive towards another poster. Not a good look if you are trying to present yourself as the injured party. No one is saying you have to put up with drug taking and noise, but you lose the sympathy vote if you come across as the “ unreasonable “ person.

Now you’re misquoting people - my earlier post was in support of you! You should probably have some wine yourself.

I just said that I apologise

What deleted post is that. Dont be so weird

Maybe I should. It might drown out hearing someone shouting you fucking bitch. Nice eh

You know what, there is absolutely no point to this. I have a job interview tomorrow and by the sounds of it I ain’t going to get much sleep because the perfectly rational people getting stoned shouting and screaming are completely in the right and I am
totally in the wrong I just need to be quiet pay rent and let them get on with it. In what world may I ask. Good night and thanks to the supportive people.

It sounds like the man has complex needs. How does the mother sleep? I doubt you are likely to get anywhere using formal complaints routes (not that you can't try) if he's a vulnerable person.

You shouldn't have to move but, given the level of distress this is causing you, maybe it's worth just doing it?

The only other real options are for you to try dampening the noise with things like thick rugs on the floor, white noise, etc.

Don't blame the mother though. She can't make her son do anything and is unlikely to ask a vulnerable child, even if adult, to move out.

Yes, because launching a harrassment campaign on someone who may have a disability and be experiencing mental health issues is soooooo fun girl!

Actually I haven't voted.

But keep throwing the abuse in the hopes of getting your own thread deleted so others can't see how abusive you are being 😘