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To absolutely not want closer ties to Europe

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Viviennemary · 19/05/2025 14:07

What is the matter with Stammer toadying up to the EU. We voted Out. Has he forgotten. I switched the TV off when I heard the word contribution and free movement. Here we go again. Shafted and ripped off at every turn and following their dumb rules. It's groundhog day. I'm furious.

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BatchCookBabe · 19/05/2025 15:26

I am glad we left the EU, but I have to say YABU @Viviennemary There is nothing wrong with being close allies with our European cousins. Why would we not? I'm glad things are getting on friendly terms again. It was so uncomfortable when they hated us, and shunned Teresa May. Blush

Of course the inevitable BREXIT bashing, and attacking anyone who voted for it posts are coming in... Now THAT is groundhog day! 🙄

Caplin · 19/05/2025 15:27

We need to find trade routes, especially now. It should come as no surprise that if we want to export to Europe we need to abide by their rules, like everyone else in the world has to. We aren’t special. In the same way there are rules for what we export to other parts of the world and what we put on labels etc.

If you think we can pull up the drawbridge, not trade at all then you will find yourself very poor and very hungry very quickly.

The difference under Brexit is that we now have to simply accept the rules rather than create them, you don’t get a say anymore. Pretty sure this was all pointed out before the Brexit vote, but people naively listened to multi millionaire Nige.

LBFseBrom · 19/05/2025 15:27

Shuttered · 19/05/2025 14:10

The consequences of Brexit have been predictably damaging, and significant numbers of those who voted for it did so on poor or misleading information, and have realised that a UK nirvana hasn’t ensued. The same referendum today would get a different result.

Exactly. I don't think it will be easy to rejoin the EU but it's worth pursuing and I think the majority of people want it.

RedToothBrush · 19/05/2025 15:27

Didshejustsaythatoutloud · 19/05/2025 15:21

I just feel for the fishermen, ooops sorry, I meant fisherfolk. 😀
was this not a big part of Brexit for them, that the waters surrounding this island would not be overfished by the French and suchl like.
Are they not back to square one?

Fishing
A new deal will keep the current status quo giving EU boats continued access to UK waters until 2038
The 2020 Brexit deal, which saw the UK regain 25% EU fishing quotas, was due to run out next year
The UK will continue to agree yearly quotas with the EU and Norway and issue licences to control who fishes in its waters
A £360m "fishing and coastal growth fund" to invest in new technology and equipment

The deal merely continues a post Brexit deal on fishing agreed by (checks notes) a Brexiteer, that needed renewing next year anyway.

Koalafan · 19/05/2025 15:28

I most definitely think the best countries to forge cordial links with are our nearest neighbours.

MrsTerryPratchett · 19/05/2025 15:29

Madcatdudette · 19/05/2025 15:11

I think the issue is that the ECHR and post Brexit European Law is not understood in the context of British law.
As I understand it’s only parliament that can overturn a UK Supreme Court’s ruling.
Some European laws were put into uk law in Brexit.
Law is complicated, I certainly don’t have anything beyond an extremely basic ‘understanding’.
It would be nice if posters could get off their high horses and explain the pros or cons to the OP rather than just insult them 🤷‍♀️
Try ‘Trade = Good because you will get cheaper stuff’ rather than ‘You’re a fuckwit’

Everyone spent hours and hours of time doing just that before Brexit. Explaining trade and law and a million other things. Being told it was patronising to be right, Project Fear to extrapolate, disgusting to talk about xenophobic. Anti-democratic to talk about supermajority votes, direct democracy, advisory votes and tampering. Snobs to talk about the state of the media.

In the end people stuck their hand in the mincer anyway and complained when it wasn’t lovely for them. Now, because they’re still miserable, they want Reform. In order to be more miserable. As long as other people are miserable too.

It’s not worth it.

nomas · 19/05/2025 15:29

Viviennemary · 19/05/2025 14:19

You can ask as often as you like. I do not want to live under EU law.

What, like the regulation to keep beaches clean?

Hope you’re enjoying your local beach now you’ve left the EU and they’re riddled with sewage and sanpro.

TheBadLuckOfTeelaBrown · 19/05/2025 15:29

You did not, ever, at any point live under EU Law. Clearly you don't know enough about either EU law or that of England & Wales.

AlwaysAGoodDayForCake · 19/05/2025 15:29

HangryLikeTheHulk · 19/05/2025 14:29

How is a trade deal “living under EU laws” ?

We have a trade deal with the USA. Are we
”living under US laws” ?

We have a trade deal with India. Are we
“living under Indian laws” ?

It’s about time we got back to trading smoothly and efficiently with our nearest and dearest neighbours instead of being weird grumpy isolationist island monkeys.

OP has been gifted a new username! WeirdGrumpyIsolationistIslandMonkey Grin Grin Grin (I'd take it myself, but I didn't vote Brexit.)

WestwardHo1 · 19/05/2025 15:29

Climate change, which I'm fairly certain posters like @Clavinova and @Viviennemary dispute because they know more about it than fisheries scientists, means there are more and more invasive species in our waters which, particularly in southern Britain, are displacing traditional catches. E.g. the so called octopus invasion. The people of the UK have no appetite for octopus. It therefore makes enormous sense for those who catch the octopus to be able to export easily to countries where they do like eating octopus, instead of relying on the lobsters which are being displaced.

Small example.

LakieLady · 19/05/2025 15:29

Lockdownsceptic · 19/05/2025 14:55

Starmer and others like him never accepted the Brexit vote. They don’t really believe in democracy. In their minds we are not bright enough to decide for ourselves, we have to be told what is best for us.

Reform et al never accepted the result of the first EU referendum in 1975.

republicofjam · 19/05/2025 15:30

Bless you OP, your posts demonstrate the eloquence, factual reasoning, comprehension and grasp of geography that we have come to expect from so many of those who voted Leave.

RedToothBrush · 19/05/2025 15:31

How many times on this thread do you reckon I'm going to need to paste the fishing quote?

Audiprettier · 19/05/2025 15:31

MammaTo · 19/05/2025 14:18

We’ll ask you again, what law didn’t you like? Not just some vague sweeping statement related to sovereignty.

'We'll ask you again...!'
CF!
Starmer's selling us out!

Notonthestairs · 19/05/2025 15:32

RedToothBrush · 19/05/2025 15:31

How many times on this thread do you reckon I'm going to need to paste the fishing quote?

A tenner says half a dozen.

mutinyonthetwix · 19/05/2025 15:33

Havanananana · 19/05/2025 15:15

The UK was very active in drawing up EU laws when the country was a member - and no EU laws were ever enacted in the UK without first having been approved by the UK Parliament.

The ECHR (which is the court that Brexiters seem most concerned about) has nothing to do with the EU. It is a body under the Council of Europe, which has 46 member countries (including the 27 EU countries).

This is not entirely true. EU Regulations (as opposed to Directives) had direct effect on the UK. Even Directives basically had to be transposed by Parliament, although they occasionally gave us some scope for "creative" implementation.

However it is true that the UK's influence in EU law making was massively downplayed and where we fell short it was generally a result of our own incompetence rather than anything to do with the EU.

BeizenderKarneval · 19/05/2025 15:33

Viviennemary · 19/05/2025 14:19

You can ask as often as you like. I do not want to live under EU law.

Can you let us know which oppressive EU laws you've lived under that you personally object to? Take your time; we'll wait.

WestwardHo1 · 19/05/2025 15:34

RedToothBrush · 19/05/2025 15:31

How many times on this thread do you reckon I'm going to need to paste the fishing quote?

Lots more times I'm afraid

It's amazing the number of people in Cornwall (where I live) who voted for Brexit "because of the fishermen" without actually knowing the tiniest thing about the fishing industry.

Yatuway · 19/05/2025 15:34

LakieLady · 19/05/2025 15:29

Reform et al never accepted the result of the first EU referendum in 1975.

Indeed, and what with living in a democracy neither they nor those of us who didn't get the result we wanted in 2016 have to. I know some people were under the impression that they were voting to finally settle the issue in 2016, but their misapprehension has no impact on anyone else's democratic rights.

Northerngirl821 · 19/05/2025 15:34

OP doing a marvellous job of answering the question “why does everyone think Brexit/Reform voters are stupid?” 🤦🏻‍♀️

Snorlaxo · 19/05/2025 15:35

A trade agreement brings possibilities for British firms to make money and consumers to be offered more choice and hopefully quicker. This isn’t some attempt to secretly get rid of the pound and return to the EU.
It’s common sense to have good diplomatic relations with our geographic neighbours in the same way that European countries who aren’t members of the EU have. We should be looking at how they benefit from being in Europe but out of the EU not sulking in the corner pretending that all is fine.

ZoeCM · 19/05/2025 15:35

Viviennemary · 19/05/2025 14:19

You can ask as often as you like. I do not want to live under EU law.

Why not just answer the question? It's not as though it's out of the blue; you started a thread about this. It's a completely valid question. Why won't you answer which specific laws you object to?

StartEngineStop · 19/05/2025 15:35

Hoppinggreen · 19/05/2025 14:11

Some shit about bendy bananas I imagine

No, she’s just really excited about all that money that came into the NHS afterwards, you know, that money that Nigel Farage promised before he pissed off the first time. He’s left it long enough now that the fools have forgotten.

LBFseBrom · 19/05/2025 15:36

TheBadLuckOfTeelaBrown · 19/05/2025 15:29

You did not, ever, at any point live under EU Law. Clearly you don't know enough about either EU law or that of England & Wales.

That is right.

Lilifer · 19/05/2025 15:36

Shuttered · 19/05/2025 14:10

The consequences of Brexit have been predictably damaging, and significant numbers of those who voted for it did so on poor or misleading information, and have realised that a UK nirvana hasn’t ensued. The same referendum today would get a different result.

Not necessarily. I was a remainer back then but now would vote leave, I certainly wouldn’t vote to re join, I am completely disillusioned by the EU at this point in my life.

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