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To absolutely not want closer ties to Europe

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Viviennemary · 19/05/2025 14:07

What is the matter with Stammer toadying up to the EU. We voted Out. Has he forgotten. I switched the TV off when I heard the word contribution and free movement. Here we go again. Shafted and ripped off at every turn and following their dumb rules. It's groundhog day. I'm furious.

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LuvACustardCream · 19/05/2025 21:07

I completely disagree with you and hope everyone who voted out gets stuck at the back of every passport queue. You took away my, and my kids, right to free movement. For what? It's pathetic.

Crikeyalmighty · 19/05/2025 21:09

@TheGrimSmile it’s also causing a huge lack of big scale job creating investment , because unless you had a purely uk centric business would you invest here if you wanted easy access to the EU market rather than say Eire or Netherlands ?? - I wouldn’t - we basically handed the best business opportunities to our neighbours on a plate

lifeonmars100 · 19/05/2025 21:10

Viviennemary · 19/05/2025 14:13

I just object to being governed by EU laws and the fact they could overturn decisions made in our courts. I don't want that.

Can you give an example of an EU law that we will now have to obey rather than just making a sweeping statement

ruethewhirl · 19/05/2025 21:11

TheGrimSmile · 19/05/2025 21:03

We voted out - but only just. And only because people were lied to and had no idea what they were actually voting for. It was years ago now. It's been a fucking disaster on every level. In democracies people can change their minds. I'm delighted about closer ties but don't think it goes far enough. I think we need a re-vote and we should rejoin.

Completely agree. And when you factor in the Leave votes some morons cast for ‘shits and giggles’, plus those other morons who were all ‘oh no, I didn’t really mean it, I never thought we’d actually leave!’, it does make you wonder how much of the UK genuinely wanted Brexit.

Clavinova · 19/05/2025 21:14

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The majority are in favour of rejoining now and it would not be a wafer thin majority

That's debateable:

6–8 May 2025 BMG Research for The i -
Rejoin 41%
Stay Out 40%
Neither 18%

QuiteUnbelievable · 19/05/2025 21:17

Unfortunately the eu wasn't then and still isn't now a success in anyway. It's a large bloated burocratic nightmare. It can't agree on anything and some states do stuff get fined and don't care.
The black hole of corruption where billions gets lost is hard to follow or comprehend because it's all so removed.
They can't implement decrees because again some countries just lie and do their own thing
I found this out when I looked into pig farming standards years ago when I was repulsed by a pack of danepack bacon. They couldn't enforce the so called standards.

I just can't think of one success? It's an all around disaster.

  • if it had been a roaring success uk wouldn't have voted to leave
Crikeyalmighty · 19/05/2025 21:18

@lifeonmars100 she can’t - she’s just going on ‘feels’ - like my relative - thing is sovreignity doesn’t put cash in wallets ( unless you are the royals!! ) it doesn’t create much investment, it doesn’t provide much needed tax take for social funding - it does appeal though to those who hate foreigners , flag wavers and the rule Britannia crowd of which there is a lot .

Lilactimes · 19/05/2025 21:20

According to the CEO of Morrisons this deal will ease pressure on food prices @Viviennemary
that is a good thing surely?

bert3400 · 19/05/2025 21:26

You need to put the Daily Mail down and realise we need our neighbors . We need Europe, not the EU, as you wrongly have pointed out, "don't want their laws". Why not ? They were mainly protecting us..if we are not aligned with Europe will we are left with US and all the shit storm that that brings. Thanks to Brexit, so many young people have lost the ability for free movement... Working in Europe... something you had ...it's fucking shameful. Fortunately I have an Irish passport and so do my kids but millions aren't so lucky. I honestly hate people like you bigoted, ill-informed and damned stupid.

Lilactimes · 19/05/2025 21:26

Umbilicat · 19/05/2025 21:01

Why? What's your problem?

And not voting for them will just allow Reform or Tories to get in. If you are the person you say you are, Labour have the nearest value set to you so may be worth trying to lobby them on issues where you don’t agree - rather than let a party get in whose values are hideous to you. That helps none of us.

Frenchbluesea · 19/05/2025 21:28

Hwi · 19/05/2025 20:12

Found it - it was called To want Brexit reversed and the specific poster BeKookySheep - was writing that his/her reasons for wanting it reversed is because her talented 16-year old son wants to study languages abroad. This is such stupendous nonsense! I

Why is it nonsense to study languages abroad? Surely it makes sense to study the language in the country it’s spoken in? Why shouldn’t parents want their children to be able to do this? I’m just baffled

TeenLifeMum · 19/05/2025 21:30

Viviennemary · 19/05/2025 14:07

What is the matter with Stammer toadying up to the EU. We voted Out. Has he forgotten. I switched the TV off when I heard the word contribution and free movement. Here we go again. Shafted and ripped off at every turn and following their dumb rules. It's groundhog day. I'm furious.

It’s kind of common sense to have a good relationship with neighbouring countries. Even people who voted for Brexit still understood the importance of trade deals and benefit of free movement.

Lilactimes · 19/05/2025 21:31

GoldenGail · 19/05/2025 20:54

And as a Scot it really boils my piss that little Englanders like this dragged my country out despite us overwhelmingly voting to remain x

I really feel for you @GoldenGail - the majority of people living in large cities also voted to Remain. I heard the farmers were grumpy about Brexit too now - so am not sure who exactly voted for it. I only know one person IRL! And she’s now as embarrassed as hell!

StandFirm · 19/05/2025 21:34

BitOutOfPractice · 19/05/2025 19:35

So what do you want then @Viviennemary? glorious isolation? Maybe return to the 6th century. That was surely the last time we knew about keeping ourselves to ourselves?

And even then... it seems the Dark Ages were more sophisticated than we thought.
I think some people would just love to take their country to a whole different planet. Like Trump. He'd love to sail away in glory from the nasty nasty earthlings who've been 'ripping off' his MAGA base...

Sadcafe · 19/05/2025 21:35

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 19/05/2025 16:33

Well, let's look at the facts, shall we?

We had a referendum to decide if we wanted to stay in the EU or leave the EU. We voted to leave the EU. And we left.

Then we had a general election in which one party stated very clearly in its manifesto that, if elected, it would renegotiate our relationship with the EU. We elected that party to form a government. And the elected government went on to renegotiate our relationship with the EU, as set out in its manifesto.

Which part of the above do you consider to be unacceptable, exactly?

Or is it that you only believe in democracy when it produces a result that you like?

Just stating a point which in a democracy is permitted, or don’t you accept that unless it’s the point youwant,fyi, voted to stay in the referendum, absolutely didn’t vote labour in the election

Sadcafe · 19/05/2025 21:39

Whoarethoseguys · 19/05/2025 15:09

I don't think you understand what the deal is, it's nothing to do with rejoining. The Labour manifesto said they would negotiate closer ties with the EU and that is just what they have done. They have a mandate to do it because they won the election and it was s Manifest committment.

We also have a deal with the USA and with India has anyone suggested we are going to be become part of the USA and India?

This is a very necessary trade and defence dealt with our closest neighbours.
And they are looking at a visa programme for young people . The same as we have with Australia I haven't heard anyone complain about that.

All the nonsense that was spouted by the leave campaign almost 10 years ago has made some people lose all sense of perspective when anyone says Europe.

I said it’s a move towards rejoining, which many believe it is, a trade deal doesn’t include freedom of movement and screwing the fishing industry

ToWhitToWhoo · 19/05/2025 21:39

QuiteUnbelievable · 19/05/2025 17:04

@ToWhitToWhoo really?
How so...

And if kier was really bad what can we do with him?

What if a trump like figure heads up the eu soon?
What can the eu do then? What could we do?

We could get rid of a British Prime Minister much more easily than we (or even the Americans, given the fixed 4-year term) could get rid of Trump.

Your point about bad EU leaders is a valid one, given the likes of Orban, Meloni, LePen, etc, But no such leader would be likely to have the level of power over the EU that an American president has over the USA, and over the rest of the world. I don't think that even Orban or LePen would, for example, pose the same threat to our food standards or our NHS as Trump or a similar future American president could.

Ottersmith · 19/05/2025 21:42

Viviennemary · 19/05/2025 14:13

I just object to being governed by EU laws and the fact they could overturn decisions made in our courts. I don't want that.

Oh blah blah blah blah.

HeartyViper · 19/05/2025 21:42

Yes, because the alternatives are stellar. Like the US and China.

What Brexit has shown is that Great Britain is in fact not so great, and we NEED to have allies in other countries.

Given the current options, the political climate and which buffoons have their fingers on the nuclear weapons buttons, I’d say the EU is a sensible choice.

All Brexit has done is shown everyone that you can’t have your cake and eat it.

NHS is still on its knees and now understaffed as lost thousands of staff, the British public is not queueing for the jobs ‘they stole from us’, the immigration is still a problem, just now it’s illegal, the trade deals are shocking .. and so on and so on.

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 19/05/2025 21:44

Sadcafe · 19/05/2025 21:35

Just stating a point which in a democracy is permitted, or don’t you accept that unless it’s the point youwant,fyi, voted to stay in the referendum, absolutely didn’t vote labour in the election

You are permitted to state a point. Of course I accept that, regardless of whether or not I agree with you. As you say, that's part of living in a democratic society.

But equally, another aspect of living in a democratic society is that I'm permitted to point out when your point is flawed or stupid.

HTH

GuevarasBeret · 19/05/2025 21:52

QuiteUnbelievable · 19/05/2025 21:17

Unfortunately the eu wasn't then and still isn't now a success in anyway. It's a large bloated burocratic nightmare. It can't agree on anything and some states do stuff get fined and don't care.
The black hole of corruption where billions gets lost is hard to follow or comprehend because it's all so removed.
They can't implement decrees because again some countries just lie and do their own thing
I found this out when I looked into pig farming standards years ago when I was repulsed by a pack of danepack bacon. They couldn't enforce the so called standards.

I just can't think of one success? It's an all around disaster.

  • if it had been a roaring success uk wouldn't have voted to leave
Edited

I can think of EU successes.

  1. GDPR Regulations.
  2. European Medicines Agency, avoiding the same work being carried out in all member states, a really efficient time and money saving organization.
  3. The single market
  4. Freedom of movement.

Perhaps others can think of more successes, but if you can’t think of even one, Maybe you haven’t been thinking very hard.

BitOutOfPractice · 19/05/2025 22:08

DoraSpenlow · 19/05/2025 19:41

This post reminds me of a rather boozy night in Austria a few years ago. Around the table were French, Germans, Dutch, Norwegians and us from the UK. The topic got round to the EU. After much discussion it was decided that the French make the rules but then ignore them: the Germans pick out the rules which are good for Germany and disregard the others but that the UK implements absolutely everything whether it is in our best interests or not. The Dutch were neutral and the Norwegians didn't understand why we needed an EU at all.

Much laughter and too much beer. A brilliant night that I will always remember.

That’s what a meme would’ve been in 1997 though. A truism not the truth. And also didn’t happen.

BitOutOfPractice · 19/05/2025 22:14

CE marking and the Regulation of product performance. Universally accepted across the EU.

Post Brexit. UKCA marking was adopted. British manufacturers spent tens of thousands of pounds testing to UKCA before it was quietly dropped in 2024 and CE marking once agAin recognised as the standard. British companies pointlessly and needlessly penalised to no advantage to anyone. Thank you Brexit.

Imbusytodaysorry · 19/05/2025 22:14

Shuttered · 19/05/2025 14:10

The consequences of Brexit have been predictably damaging, and significant numbers of those who voted for it did so on poor or misleading information, and have realised that a UK nirvana hasn’t ensued. The same referendum today would get a different result.

Exactly this !

Aprilrainagainagain · 19/05/2025 22:21

@Viviennemary Such as? Which decisions didn’t you like? If you have to use Google they don’t count.

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