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To absolutely not want closer ties to Europe

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Viviennemary · 19/05/2025 14:07

What is the matter with Stammer toadying up to the EU. We voted Out. Has he forgotten. I switched the TV off when I heard the word contribution and free movement. Here we go again. Shafted and ripped off at every turn and following their dumb rules. It's groundhog day. I'm furious.

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Clavinova · 19/05/2025 18:04

Jane958
Unfortunately, and I do not know who was pulling his strings, David Cameron made a very poor decision of judgement to hold a referendum

Caroline Lucas thought it was a good idea in 2011;

I support a referendum on our membership of the EU because I am pro-democracy, not because I'm anti-EU - and because I want to see a radical reform of the way Europe operates.

https://www.carolinelucas.com/latest/yes-to-an-eu-referendum

PlanetJanette · 19/05/2025 18:05

dogmandu · 19/05/2025 17:46

what pisses me the most off about the EU is when Angela Merkl decided BY HERSELF to open the borders of all the countries in The EU in 2015 and thereby opening a can of worms as can be seen now. There was a study done by a university in North Germany I think showing that most of the leaders that supported her and went along with that decision were not happy about it. I read that report and have been trying to find it since but I think it was taken down.
I don't like the way that ONE PERSON can seemingly make huge decisions that affect us all. The countris In Europe are all different and have different cultures and different histories that influence their cutlures,

Look up on youtube the 'election' of Martin Selmayer to one of the top jobs in the EU. His job was not even posted, he was just 'chosen' and was responsible for making some decisions affecting the whole of Europe. These kind of goings on are very important but most people don't know about them.

It's weird that opponents of the EU then also have a problem with a member of the EU deciding its own immigration policy, as Merkel did for Germany.

And you comment about Martin Selmayer sounds great until you realise that of course he wasn't elected - because he was appointed the Secretary General. Which is a civil service job within the European Commission.

Can you think of any other civil servants who are 'elected'? If not, why do you think this one should be?

GoldenGail · 19/05/2025 18:07

Viviennemary · 19/05/2025 14:19

You can ask as often as you like. I do not want to live under EU law.

because you don’t have an answer and you don’t have a clue what you are talking about. We never lived “under EU law. Maybe go read up on the facts???

Islandgirl68 · 19/05/2025 18:07

@Viviennemary but this was the lie that was told, yes there were EU laws that predominately had protections that were to our benefit, but we still had a say and we still had English law and scottish law. They weren't all EU laws that we were governed by. And you do realise that the freedom of movement went both ways, we may have had people coming here to work, but we also have loads of brits going to live and work in Europe. Still waiting to see what has improved, since credit. People were lied to.

Crikeyalmighty · 19/05/2025 18:08

@Clavinova I think you need to balance that up with the trending post the day after the referendum ‘what is the single market’ ? You know what it is, but plenty voting Brexit didn’t , including my aforementioned relative who basically said I’ve got no idea of the detail or economics I just don’t like Eastern Europeans or Muslims ( although what that had to do with the EU on a large scale I have no idea) my close relative is high up in the security forces and voted for it and now says it was a load of corrupt baloney with zero advantages for the average person anda disaster for the economy and investment and it cost a fortune too .

Frugalgal · 19/05/2025 18:08

You horrible ignorant idiots have impoverished this country beyond belief. It's costing us £149 billion a year and led to the small boats issue and for absolutely no gain.

You got nothing that the lying scamming brexiters promised and only negative consequences for the country.

Time to sit down and shut up and let the grown ups try to start fixing your horrific mess.

moveoveralice · 19/05/2025 18:09

BatchCookBabe · 19/05/2025 16:41

I'm rejoicing in how the staunch Remainers are not only letting their masks slip, but are letting them fall on the floor and smash. They really can't see how bad their attitude is on here, and how rude and vitriolic their posts are. They act like they're superior to Leavers, yet they constantly show much more rudeness, arrogance, and ignorance in their posts, than anyone who voted Leave. Clearly pure bitterness..

And trying to make out that all the beaches in the UK have shit on them, and used condoms and used sanpro, 'because Brexit' is farcical. 😆A couple of biased articles on it does not make all the beaches full of shit - or the rivers full of ecoli. Wink And even if there ARE some beaches and rivers that are polluted, why act like this was never a thing before BREXIT?! 😆

BREXIT is not responsible for the beaches that have all kinds of cack over them. You keep telling yourselves that though, if it makes you feel better about the UK NEVER returning to the EU. Smile

As I said earlier, I am happy to be friends with the EU/do trade deals with them etc, and have closer ties... But rejoin the EU? LOL, no way!

Edited

Why are the articles biased @BatchCookBabe ?

For someone so animated and often hyperbolic, it is very telling that when presented with facts you so quickly eschew them, or dismiss using high octane language but never properly addressing anything.

Anyway, how about an article from our own state broadcaster instead. Logically, it should pass your bias detector 🙄

www.bbc.com/news/articles/c201rz925nyo

Snickersnack1 · 19/05/2025 18:09

dogmandu · 19/05/2025 17:46

what pisses me the most off about the EU is when Angela Merkl decided BY HERSELF to open the borders of all the countries in The EU in 2015 and thereby opening a can of worms as can be seen now. There was a study done by a university in North Germany I think showing that most of the leaders that supported her and went along with that decision were not happy about it. I read that report and have been trying to find it since but I think it was taken down.
I don't like the way that ONE PERSON can seemingly make huge decisions that affect us all. The countris In Europe are all different and have different cultures and different histories that influence their cutlures,

Look up on youtube the 'election' of Martin Selmayer to one of the top jobs in the EU. His job was not even posted, he was just 'chosen' and was responsible for making some decisions affecting the whole of Europe. These kind of goings on are very important but most people don't know about them.

So? What terrible consequences has this brought to your life?

I think it’s pretty clear that ultimately there are powerful people out there who will take decisions that will affect our lives (or not, as the case may be) regardless of whether or not we chose them. Look at Elon Musk!

And the end of the day we sink or swim as a country, long term, depending on making savvy relationships with countries that broadly speaking share our interests. And that’s Europe. Maybe we won’t be 100% totally independent in every decision made, but so what, the alternative is to be squashed underfoot as bigger actors take over the stage. Rule Brittania isn’t an option any more.

Crying about wanting complete independence and not operating within any umbrella rules at all is like a stroppy teenager who wants to have all the benefits of living in her parent’s house without making any contributions or following any rules. That’s a metaphor we should all understand on here I think!
Brexit was us leaving in a huff, determined to ‘make it on our own’. But the world is a dangerous place, we can’t defend ourselves alone, we’ve very little money and we’re not nearly as capable of doing it alone as we thought we were… it’s taken us till now to realise we’re actually better off as part of a household, even with the conditions and slight (minimal) loss of autonomy that brings. The same as being the member of any larger group or society.

Clavinova · 19/05/2025 18:10

NavyWriter · 19/05/2025 18:04

The EU are not daft, the freedom of moment is always a UK concession.. - Something the EU push for.

They get to offload hundreds of thousands of poor people from Eastern & Central Europe onto us and in return a handful of Brits get to work in the EU handing out "free shots" leaflets in Magaluf.

Indeed - and so much for Peter Kyle going on about up-skilling social care and raising aspirations in the sector for British workers if the government intend to import hundreds of thousands of people from the EU to fill those vacancies.
(Question Time last week).

Efrogwraig · 19/05/2025 18:10

Which EU laws have upset you? Didn't MEPs vote on them ie your democratically elected representatives.

It's been great having Polish plumbers. And glad that so many Brits have gone to Spain & France. Hope the rules for travel for young people will be changed so that they can experience other cultures & opportunities.

MrsArcher23 · 19/05/2025 18:14

Relax, the EU isn’t looking to strong arm the UK back in. You’re safe OP, UK won’t be taken back for at least a generation.

nearlylovemyusername · 19/05/2025 18:14

Viviennemary · 19/05/2025 17:22

Yes Reform will be cheering at today's news. I will vote Reform if only to keep us out of Europe's clutches. They bullied us long enough.

You would vote Reform anyway? based on your posts on other threads

Crikeyalmighty · 19/05/2025 18:14

@Snickersnack1 yep - it has left us very vulnerable and why we have to be careful with relations with ( in my opinion) unhinged people like Musk and Trump instead of having the weight of the EU standing together- and these people know this and will play on that weakness. There is very little the US want or really need from us too .

CorbyTrouserPress · 19/05/2025 18:14

Viviennemary · 19/05/2025 17:30

The old leftie argument. You're too thick to agree with us. Sorry I voted Labour last time. I won't again.

This makes no sense.

Lilactimes · 19/05/2025 18:15

4444223e · 19/05/2025 17:29

But presumably, if a better deal had been available, the previous government would have negotiated that?

the expectation of the industry was that the govt would negotiate a deal that was better for them than the one they were currently in because that is what they were told. ie. take this deal, suck it up work with it and give us time to get you something post brexit that is better.

But they were told that by a government that didn't (presumably couldn't) negotiate a better deal themselves, and couldn't stay in office. I'm not discounting the distress of communities, but I'm not sure it's fair to blame a PM for not being able to materialise the potentially unachievable promised by a former government that was itself unable to deliver.

And, to to be fair, Labour did openly campaign on closer ties, and won.

👏👏👏👏👏 absolutely true.

PlanetJanette · 19/05/2025 18:17

Clavinova · 19/05/2025 18:10

Indeed - and so much for Peter Kyle going on about up-skilling social care and raising aspirations in the sector for British workers if the government intend to import hundreds of thousands of people from the EU to fill those vacancies.
(Question Time last week).

Hundreds of Thousands?

Where have you got this figure from? And where have you got the idea that they will be coming here to work in the care sector? Have the multiple other youth mobility schemes that the UK has with other countries also attracted hundreds of thousands of care workers?

4444223e · 19/05/2025 18:17

Katherine9 · 19/05/2025 17:54

If you read back through the history, you'll see the emojis and vitriol started with the remain comments.

Trying to engage in good faith, I did go back and didn't read the comments, but scrolled for emojis. There were a few, but @BatchCookBabe was the first to roll out a post full of them, while arguing demonstrable facts as #fakenews, which does not, to me, demonstrate good faith discussions.

I do think @Viviennemary has come in for a bit of a bashing, but she (or they, or whoever) often engages in goady posts, and I do think lots of posters attempted to get her to articulate some specifics on her position, but she declined to, as she generally does.

There was a poster early on chiding Remainers for not listening to Leavers, and this is an opportunity - tell me something fact based and worth hearing, and I'm all there for listening. Base your position on unarticulated 'dumb rules' and, not so much.

Orsolovelyy · 19/05/2025 18:17

LemonLimeOrangeKiwi · 19/05/2025 14:59

Brexit was a mistake. We have all the negatives of leaving, and none of the positives.

I don’t feel this was conveyed adequately when people voted, and many voted because of manipulative articles read in the rags.

So I don’t agree with what you are saying personally. Being part of the EU was more beneficial to us than leaving.

Exactly this.

Clavinova · 19/05/2025 18:19

moveoveralice · 19/05/2025 18:09

Why are the articles biased @BatchCookBabe ?

For someone so animated and often hyperbolic, it is very telling that when presented with facts you so quickly eschew them, or dismiss using high octane language but never properly addressing anything.

Anyway, how about an article from our own state broadcaster instead. Logically, it should pass your bias detector 🙄

www.bbc.com/news/articles/c201rz925nyo

Sorry, but what's stopping the Labour government from sorting this out themselves?

Although I see that Thames Water point to 'one of the wettest years on record' as part of them problem. That would be good if Keir Starmer can negotiated less rain from the EU.

Crikeyalmighty · 19/05/2025 18:20

@Viviennemary you are very wrong - not everyone voting remain or thinking it was an incredibly poor decision if looking at the economics and totally disagreeing with you is ‘a leftie’ - plenty of lefties were indeed ‘lexiters’ - Johnson himself only turned that way when he saw an opportunity for personal power himself - months before he was busy saying it was a stupid idea.

LegallyLoopy · 19/05/2025 18:20

GoldenGail · 19/05/2025 18:07

because you don’t have an answer and you don’t have a clue what you are talking about. We never lived “under EU law. Maybe go read up on the facts???

What makes you believe we never lived under EU law?

Orsolovelyy · 19/05/2025 18:21

Frugalgal · 19/05/2025 18:08

You horrible ignorant idiots have impoverished this country beyond belief. It's costing us £149 billion a year and led to the small boats issue and for absolutely no gain.

You got nothing that the lying scamming brexiters promised and only negative consequences for the country.

Time to sit down and shut up and let the grown ups try to start fixing your horrific mess.

Agree 💯

Catsandcheese · 19/05/2025 18:23

NavyWriter · 19/05/2025 18:04

The EU are not daft, the freedom of moment is always a UK concession.. - Something the EU push for.

They get to offload hundreds of thousands of poor people from Eastern & Central Europe onto us and in return a handful of Brits get to work in the EU handing out "free shots" leaflets in Magaluf.

What does this even mean?

LT1233 · 19/05/2025 18:25

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Clavinova · 19/05/2025 18:26

PlanetJanette · 19/05/2025 18:17

Hundreds of Thousands?

Where have you got this figure from? And where have you got the idea that they will be coming here to work in the care sector? Have the multiple other youth mobility schemes that the UK has with other countries also attracted hundreds of thousands of care workers?

I thought the EU were asking for 70,000 visas per year with a stay of up to 4 years, although obviously to be negotiated. I didn't mean to suggest they would all work in social care but tens of thousands might.

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