You can crticise my argument by all means but posting nasty insults attacking my intellect says a lot more about your lack of a coherent argument.
To go back to your "knitting club" scenario.
You are obviously too young to remember the EEC and have to rely on second-hand skewed pro European accounts that have re-written history somewhat.
As I recall we didn't join a "knitting club", we actually joined a crochet club which, without our full knowledge and consent morphed into a "knitting club".
One minute we were happily crocheting d'oilies and bonnets for babies then the next minute we found ourselves subject to a set of rules imposed by people we didn't appoint.
We had to stop making d'oilies. and knit jumpers and cardigans. Not only that but our needles had to be a certain size and our wool a certain colour and be bought from a certain supplier. There were rules made up about buttons and how they should be attached for H & S reasons.
I could go on but you get my drift.
Moving towards Europe was always a bone of contention.
The crucial Parliamentary votes in 1971-2 were only narrowly won. In 1975, a new Labour government held a first in/out referendum. This seemed to produce a clear-cut result with 2/3 of the British population voting to stay within the EEC.
Yet the argument continued, with Labour fighting the 1983 general election on a platform of withdrawing from the Community.
Then Labour would subsequently move towards a pro-European position during the later 1980s and 1990s, this was counterbalanced by the slide of the Conservative Party into ever-stronger Euroscepticism
Brexiteers didn't invent Euroscepticism, it had been alive and well for decades.
Just realised I have crossposted with @LynneTheseAreSexPeople who makes similar valid points.