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Starmer is about to reverse Brexit

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TheQuirkyMaker · 19/05/2025 11:27

Is is right that an unpopular govt can reverse the democratic wishes of the UK to have nothing to do with Europe?

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TheQuirkyMaker · 23/05/2025 09:32

RufustheFactuaIReindeer · 23/05/2025 09:19

Oooo

where should i put people who voted for brexit but didn’t actually think we would leave…there were a few of these interviewed after the vote

they are third I reckon

I personally know a few. They just wanted to give the middle finger to the govt. They were shocked by the outcome. Mind you, it was close, wasn't it?

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cantkeepawayforever · 23/05/2025 09:34

My grandfather used to say ‘If you don’t vote, you are not allowed to complain about the result’. I think that’s fair.

MrsKeats · 23/05/2025 09:34

TheQuirkyMaker · 23/05/2025 08:27

Haha! It wasn't that I couldn't be arsed, I was just supremely confident we would vote Remain. As was all the press, polls and the Prime Minister. Don't blame us non-voters, blame the Remain campaign.

What a ridiculous thing to say.

DuncinToffee · 23/05/2025 09:35

Alexandra2001 · 23/05/2025 09:30

Cameron is responsible for Brexit... he called the referendum, with no min % margin, such as you have in any sports club, to change its rules.

He is a weak odious excuse for a man.

Farage Bojo et al all played their part too but ultimately Cameron handed them the gun.

And then he ran away

And plenty of brexiteers who wanted to leave the EU because of 'unelected, unaccountable elites". now sit as unelected members of the HoL

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 23/05/2025 09:36

TheQuirkyMaker · 23/05/2025 09:13

I'm to blame for the UK leaving the EU? Haha!

If people like you had bothered to vote we wouldn't have left. So yes.

BustingBaoBun · 23/05/2025 09:36

Just going back... we joined the EEC in 1973 from a parliamentary decision, then there was a bit of a hoo haaa as to whether we should stay in. So it was put to the people.

I'm old, I voted to stay in, in 1975 and I have just looked. 67% of the votes across all nations were to stay in, 33% not. I can remember voting and being so pleased with the result. Even back then.

fixingmylife · 23/05/2025 09:36

TheQuirkyMaker · 22/05/2025 22:23

I didn't bother to vote in the 2016 referendum as I thought it would be inconceivable we would vote to leave what was a very agreeable and profitable collaboration with our own continent.
I was stunned at the result. I spoke to a few others (I was living in a Premier Inn due to a house fire) and some said they had voted Leave but just to give the finger to the govt- they were similarly upset (polls has said we would Remain).
Interestingly, the hotel staff (who relied on Eastern European workers to work as chambermaids etc), thought it was wonderful as they wouldn't have to hear Hungarian voices any more.

It's so important to vote in a referendum as every vote counts. I know others who didn't vote because they couldn't be arsed! Shame.

HRTQueen · 23/05/2025 09:42

TheQuirkyMaker · 23/05/2025 08:27

Haha! It wasn't that I couldn't be arsed, I was just supremely confident we would vote Remain. As was all the press, polls and the Prime Minister. Don't blame us non-voters, blame the Remain campaign.

At least be gracious and own your mistake

in the last few weeks the polls were often very close it was not so clear cut as initially predicted

anyone who has an interest in politics and doesn’t just listen/discuss politics with those they agree with was well aware that Leave campaign had won over many voters and people were not being quiet about it either

HRTQueen · 23/05/2025 09:44

And of course David Cameron appeared confident he knew especially once Boris Johnson headed leave what a massive stupid gamble he has started he was hardly going to say sorry guys I shouldn’t have called the Referendum

he placed the blame on voters

SocialEvent · 23/05/2025 09:52

cantkeepawayforever · 23/05/2025 09:30

Those who voted Leave as ‘a harmless protest vote because they weren’t that happy with the Government’ were always amongst my favourites.

Considering how shit the Cameron government was I imagine this group who ‘just wanted to stick two fingers up at the government’ because Cameron was out as a Remainer, to be a very large group. But unfortunately that’s not how voting actually works and they really really fucked up there.

SocialEvent · 23/05/2025 09:54

TBF in the UK we are not used to having referenda (?) referendums and so didn’t have the safeguards that regular referendums countries have. No minium turnout, no benchmark % for a clear result, no clear legal mandate to act on the outcome

SocialEvent · 23/05/2025 09:59

The whole shitty mess of Brexit is based on Tory party infighting for internal power some of it going back to Bullingdon club days and then a load of other already very rich people hopping on the bandwagon hoping to make a quick million or five out of other people’s political naivety and desperation for something to change economically.

I genuinely can’t imagine how Cameron and Johnson and Gove and Osborne and Rees Mogg and all those other self serving grubbers sleep at night having done this to the UK

RufustheFactuaIReindeer · 23/05/2025 10:02

Mind you, it was close, wasn't it

don’t take the piss mate 😀

it would not have been close if voters who voted leave as a protest had voted remain

and it wouldn’t have been close if voters who couldn’t be arsed to vote remain, cos they thought other people would vote remain….

HAD ACTUALLY VOTED REMAIN

RufustheFactuaIReindeer · 23/05/2025 10:05

No minium turnout, no benchmark % for a clear result, no clear legal mandate to act on the outcome

yes it was ridiculous….but Cameron et al should have done due diligence and put these things in place, it really shouldn’t matter that we aren’t used to them

inkognithia · 23/05/2025 10:34

TheQuirkyMaker · 23/05/2025 08:27

Haha! It wasn't that I couldn't be arsed, I was just supremely confident we would vote Remain. As was all the press, polls and the Prime Minister. Don't blame us non-voters, blame the Remain campaign.

By not voting you pretty much forfeit, at worst, your right to an opinion on the outcome or, at best, the expectation that your opinion on the outcome will hold any merit whatsoever.

I have read previously that some people think abstention is in itself a political statement. These people are wrong.
If you disagree with the vote at hand, which is absolutely your right, then going to the booth and spoiling your ballot paper is a valid political statement; abstaining is not.

inkognithia · 23/05/2025 10:43

"I genuinely can’t imagine how Cameron and Johnson and Gove and Osborne and Rees Mogg and all those other self serving grubbers sleep at night having done this to the UK"

You are assuming a level of self-awareness that simply doesn't exist.

It's one of the reasons that, with seemingly increasing frequency in our modern world, you sometimes have to accept that the 'other side' simply cannot be reasoned with as they lack the fundamental tools that allow most of us to take the position we do.

DuncinToffee · 23/05/2025 10:54

SocialEvent · 23/05/2025 09:59

The whole shitty mess of Brexit is based on Tory party infighting for internal power some of it going back to Bullingdon club days and then a load of other already very rich people hopping on the bandwagon hoping to make a quick million or five out of other people’s political naivety and desperation for something to change economically.

I genuinely can’t imagine how Cameron and Johnson and Gove and Osborne and Rees Mogg and all those other self serving grubbers sleep at night having done this to the UK

I genuinely can’t imagine how Cameron and Johnson and Gove and Osborne and Rees Mogg and all those other self serving grubbers sleep at night having done this to the UK

They have no worries, doing very well for themselves

celticnations · 23/05/2025 11:01

Good.

Reverse Brexit asap.

Crap decision; massive disaster.

Alexandra2001 · 23/05/2025 11:34

DuncinToffee · 23/05/2025 10:54

I genuinely can’t imagine how Cameron and Johnson and Gove and Osborne and Rees Mogg and all those other self serving grubbers sleep at night having done this to the UK

They have no worries, doing very well for themselves

TBF to Osbourne over this (not anything else!) he told Cameron NOT to have a referendum... was ignored.

I think the person who started this thread, is actually a Leave supporter.

TheQuirkyMaker · 23/05/2025 12:17

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 23/05/2025 09:36

If people like you had bothered to vote we wouldn't have left. So yes.

If voting in a referendum is supremely important we could have another one. Nothing to stop us, we live in a democracy not a dictatorship. We could call it "advisory" like the last one.

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MissScarletInTheBallroom · 23/05/2025 12:21

TheQuirkyMaker · 23/05/2025 12:17

If voting in a referendum is supremely important we could have another one. Nothing to stop us, we live in a democracy not a dictatorship. We could call it "advisory" like the last one.

What would be the point in having a referendum on something which is no longer within our control?

We have left. We can't get back in. We certainly can't get back in on the special terms we had before, and we most likely can't get back in at all, since any one of 27 other countries could veto our re-accession, and in four of those countries it would have to be put to a referendum, meaning that individual voters in those countries have more say in whether we rejoin than we do. It doesn't even matter whether Emmanuel Macron says yes if voters in la France profonde say, "fuck off".

This is why it was in fact supremely important for voters like you to get off your arses and vote. Because it's too late now.

TheQuirkyMaker · 23/05/2025 12:44

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 23/05/2025 12:21

What would be the point in having a referendum on something which is no longer within our control?

We have left. We can't get back in. We certainly can't get back in on the special terms we had before, and we most likely can't get back in at all, since any one of 27 other countries could veto our re-accession, and in four of those countries it would have to be put to a referendum, meaning that individual voters in those countries have more say in whether we rejoin than we do. It doesn't even matter whether Emmanuel Macron says yes if voters in la France profonde say, "fuck off".

This is why it was in fact supremely important for voters like you to get off your arses and vote. Because it's too late now.

That is very negative. The UK is still an important European country, and I think the biggest military power. We would not have to accept the euro either, several members have retained their own currency.
We would be accepted back- the biggest problem would be getting a consensus to do so. So we would need a binding, not an advisory, referendum this time.

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randomchap · 23/05/2025 13:02

brexitbarbie · 21/05/2025 11:30

So you point me to an unbiased source.

Private Eye is a good start

But if you can't find unbiased ones, read the biased ones with the understanding that they are biased

StandFirm · 23/05/2025 13:28

TheQuirkyMaker · 23/05/2025 09:13

I'm to blame for the UK leaving the EU? Haha!

Well you and everyone who wanted to remain but didn't feel the UK's future was important enough to change whatever plans you happened to have on that day.

BIossomtoes · 23/05/2025 13:35

TheQuirkyMaker · 23/05/2025 12:44

That is very negative. The UK is still an important European country, and I think the biggest military power. We would not have to accept the euro either, several members have retained their own currency.
We would be accepted back- the biggest problem would be getting a consensus to do so. So we would need a binding, not an advisory, referendum this time.

In your dreams. @MissScarletInTheBallroom is absolutely right.

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