DH told me not to make plans so I didn’t then he did and wondered why I was annoyed

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DH and I have had a busy weekend, he explicitly said that he wanted Sunday free then announced that our friends were “passing” so would be “popping” in at 4pm, I wasn’t too happy but thought they’d be gone by 6pm and we could then settle down and chill watching TV for the evening. He then says “oh they say it’ll be 5pm” which got my back up a little and we exchanged words, then suddenly it was going to be 5.30pm and I confess I lost my temper a little, we argued and in the end he messaged them telling them not to come round and then proceeded to tell me what an awful person I am for not wanting to see our “friends”.
I disagree, I took it on the chin when they were coming at 4pm, I even accepted 5pm even though I thought it was rude to be a hour late but 5.30pm was the straw that broke the camels back. HE was the one who said he wanted the day kept free, HE said they could come without consulting me and HE then put them off coming. I apologised for losing my temper and he refused to accept it and is now giving me the silent treatment. So AIBU?

So much disparagement of the OP, criticising her for watching TV, trying to pretend that's the only way she spends her spare time, feeling so sorry for her sulking DH etc. etc.
There's a pile on like this happening in so many threads and its getting more and more common. And the phrases they come out with seem to have been repeated on other threads, really seems like its co-ordinated. Sadly they are particularly vicious when its an OP who is already vulnerable.

Literacy and comprehension are in very short supply.

Latching onto inane details, attacking the OP, misogynistic derailing of the thread with ridiculous abstract points, interrogation of minutiae, and relentlessly excusing the most awful male behaviour, is the way most threads go these days.

Completely moronic.
Beyond tedious to read.

You'd want to be utterly desperate to open a thread

Exactly what I was going to say. Jeez

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This will be my last time posting, some people have been absolutely lovely, others unbelievably spiteful, it appears that if you are a bully, this is the perfect site to disparage and insult with no consequences, if you love unexpected visitors and despise tv watchers then you are apparently very virtuous and better than everybody else. Thank you to all who took time to offer kind words or well meaning advice, I really appreciate it.

I feel sorry for yours.

I’m so sorry OP, you seem to have found the keyboard warriors today. You may find ‘chat’ and ‘30 days only’ less brutal.

Jesus, OP hasn’t skipped their wedding to watch a rerun of The Weakest Link. She just fancied a night in! And as so many people seem to have forgotten - it was HER PARTNER who cancelled in the end.

Urgh! I'd be annoyed too! No way I'd want to host guests on a Sunday evening. That sounds awful. I'd have been really unhappy if they'd delayed by an hour and half too. Sunday evening is for relaxing and getting everything ready for work/ school next day.

Yep, Sunday nights are for gearing up for the coming week

YANBU, OP, and I'd ignore the people looking for a fight. It's not boring or unreasonable or any cause to feel sorry for OP's husband that she didn't want friends stopping by (or making a special trip to visit) when they'd already mutually agreed to have a quiet night alone. OP's husband (or their friends, or both) kept changing the parameters of the visit. It's no wonder she was annoyed.

There's nothing wrong with preferring TV to friends, every once in a while (or even always, depending on the friends).

I’m not sure why you’re sounding so excited. Rest is very important for many before the start of another hectic week. I would personally not be pleased at having guests on a Sunday evening - particularly ones who overstay their welcome. In any case, you need to calm down in your responses. It’s weird to get so jumpy because of a difference in opinion.