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Why is Alice Evans Gruffudd homeless?

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Englishsummerblues · 14/05/2025 23:19

Doesn’t she have any famous friends? Where has all her money gone? Does she have to live in L.A? It just all seems bizarre, just move somewhere cheaper.

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MissScarletInTheBallroom · 17/05/2025 09:51

ArtTheClown · 17/05/2025 09:46

And Ioan loved Alice, every night I should imagine as they made love to make two beautiful girls who are turning out to be real stunners, just like their mother when she was younger.

Bloody hell 😂

Lol. Is it safe to assume that poster isn't Alice since Alice knows her daughters were conceived in a petri dish?

Caligirl80 · 17/05/2025 09:53

ladygindiva · 17/05/2025 08:52

Thing is, I've been in her shoes. Along with millions of women. It's a story as old as time, man leaves wife, gets a new girlfriend. What the rest of us don't do though, is spend four years being vengeful and spiteful and turning the kids against their father and begging for money. We roll our sleeves up, get a job, swallow our own hurt feelings and try to develop a decent co parenting relationship with our ex for the good of the children. Because the kids lives matter more than our hurt feelings....

You are absolutely right!! Relationships end, people move on. And even those of us who have suffered from horrific domestic abuse/being cheated on/being physically hurt MOVE ON. The only times I mention my abusive ex are on the odd occasion he might try to show up to a place where I am also planning on being (at a university reunion is a good example) in which case I'll just make sure the people I am with know that I don't feel safe and that I might be a bit anxious/worried. But why on earth would anyone who has been cheated on want to waste any time whatsoever blathering on about being cheated on? It happened - there's nothing one can do to change that fact, so you pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and get on with life. In my case I found that work was a welcome distraction and gave me a great opportunity to meet new people, learn new skills, and feel a tremendous sense of additional purpose (my job involves helping other people - which will really put your own problems into perspective).

Uricon2 · 17/05/2025 10:07

The bullet that Olivier Picasso dodged when she left him for IG is the size of a large artillery shell. Imagine this debacle playing out with the other party having mega $$$ and a very famous name.

Alice, if you're still reading, move on, if not for your own sake for that of your daughters. Noone who has even a passing aquaintance with the (documented) facts of all this supports you and that isn't going to change.

Caligirl80 · 17/05/2025 10:18

Uricon2 · 17/05/2025 10:07

The bullet that Olivier Picasso dodged when she left him for IG is the size of a large artillery shell. Imagine this debacle playing out with the other party having mega $$$ and a very famous name.

Alice, if you're still reading, move on, if not for your own sake for that of your daughters. Noone who has even a passing aquaintance with the (documented) facts of all this supports you and that isn't going to change.

or, to borrow from a previous poster, it's the size of a large sausage roll 😂😂Poor chap - he must get cold sweats every time he sees what could have happened if he'd gotten hitched to her/had kids with her!!! He must thank his lucky stars that she ran off for, as AE likes to rant, a "younger model".

Maybe all her histrionics about her ex allegedly leaving her for a "younger model" are in part a form of projected guilt about the fact that she did exactly the same thing when she ditched Mr. Picasso and ran off with IG - who is clearly younger than the both of them. Except that would require a modicum of self-awareness and the capacity to feel guilt/regret - and anyone who does what she did to Mr. Picasso and then has a massive melt down when someone else does the exact same thing to her (allegedly) clearly has some "do what I say not what I do" issues.

TheRoses · 17/05/2025 10:34

ladygindiva · 17/05/2025 08:52

Thing is, I've been in her shoes. Along with millions of women. It's a story as old as time, man leaves wife, gets a new girlfriend. What the rest of us don't do though, is spend four years being vengeful and spiteful and turning the kids against their father and begging for money. We roll our sleeves up, get a job, swallow our own hurt feelings and try to develop a decent co parenting relationship with our ex for the good of the children. Because the kids lives matter more than our hurt feelings....

He cheated, failed to pay ANY support for over a year and forced the whole family out of the home the girls grew up in and felt safe. Now he is forcing them to move AGAIN. Who would want to see a father who does that to his family?

Laoise542 · 17/05/2025 10:38

TheRoses · 17/05/2025 10:34

He cheated, failed to pay ANY support for over a year and forced the whole family out of the home the girls grew up in and felt safe. Now he is forcing them to move AGAIN. Who would want to see a father who does that to his family?

Have you read any of the evidence of how the mum behaves in front of the children?

There's no evidence anywhere he cheated and I'm pretty sure the court documents show how he has been paying support for his children.

WatchAnXFilesWithNoLightsOn · 17/05/2025 10:40

@TheRosesThe court documents actually say he OVERPAID to the tune of $300k I believe. Where has all that money gone…

radishgate · 17/05/2025 10:43

TheRoses · 17/05/2025 10:34

He cheated, failed to pay ANY support for over a year and forced the whole family out of the home the girls grew up in and felt safe. Now he is forcing them to move AGAIN. Who would want to see a father who does that to his family?

Why are you making things up AGAIN!? Most of us by now have seen all the court documents and all financials. We know how you Alice had over 80k in the bank when she started scamming her deluded followers with her fraudulent GoFund Me. We know much he OVER PAYED by over 400k!!! That’s 400k EXTRA Alice spunked up the wall on expired make up from ebay, frozen fish and Colombian marching powder!

radishgate · 17/05/2025 10:43

TheRoses · 17/05/2025 10:34

He cheated, failed to pay ANY support for over a year and forced the whole family out of the home the girls grew up in and felt safe. Now he is forcing them to move AGAIN. Who would want to see a father who does that to his family?

Why are you making things up AGAIN!? Most of us by now have seen all the court documents and all financials. We know how you Alice had over 80k in the bank when she started scamming her deluded followers with her fraudulent GoFund Me. We know much he OVER PAYED by over 400k!!! That’s 400k EXTRA Alice spunked up the wall on expired make up from ebay, frozen fish and Colombian marching powder!

stomachamelon · 17/05/2025 10:46

@TheRosesbut he did pay maintenance and support. This has been proven in court.
And if Alice is so reliant on his dollar (a man she clearly despises) why not go to work and cut your cloth accordingly.
She really is a shambles….

MereNoelle · 17/05/2025 10:50

TheRoses · 17/05/2025 10:34

He cheated, failed to pay ANY support for over a year and forced the whole family out of the home the girls grew up in and felt safe. Now he is forcing them to move AGAIN. Who would want to see a father who does that to his family?

There is something spectacularly unhinged about someone who continues to tell the same lies over and over (for 5 years!) in the belief that at some point everyone will believe them, despite all evidence to the contrary. I almost admire the sheer delusion.

MoominUnderWater · 17/05/2025 11:01

MereNoelle · 17/05/2025 10:50

There is something spectacularly unhinged about someone who continues to tell the same lies over and over (for 5 years!) in the belief that at some point everyone will believe them, despite all evidence to the contrary. I almost admire the sheer delusion.

A true narcissist i believe will rewrite history to such an extent that they genuinely believe their rewritten version.

Onlyhereforthebeer · 17/05/2025 11:07

I used to think surely nobody can be that bad. Then unlike Alice's sycophants I read the court documents. And realised they actually can and she is. The abuse continues even now. Online and in person. The fact she thinks he should get a 'normal' job to support her who won't get a 'normal' job is mind boggling.

Caligirl80 · 17/05/2025 11:13

TheRoses · 17/05/2025 10:34

He cheated, failed to pay ANY support for over a year and forced the whole family out of the home the girls grew up in and felt safe. Now he is forcing them to move AGAIN. Who would want to see a father who does that to his family?

Oh dear. You don't get it do you? 1) What is your evidence that he "cheated"?
2) California is a no-fault divorce state - so whether or not he cheated has absolutely nothing to do with what support he should have to pay. You may wish that weren't the case, but if you want to penalise someone for cheating then get a prenup that does that.
3) What evidence do you have that he did not pay any support??
4) What evidence do you have that he "forced" anyone out of a home? Marital breakdown often requires people to sell the house the couple previously shared - particularly where, as here, the parties signed a prenup and California law encourages the parties to have a "fond fiscal farewell" - it would be ludicrous for a court to force someone to continue to pay a mortgage for a home when the prenup says they aren't required to do so, and the support ordered - $4,500 per month - is more than enough to provide a nice place to live - are you seriously suggesting that all people who are getting divorced should have to continue to pay for a house that they aren't living in? That's ridiculous!
5) No one is "forcing" anyone to be homeless. She gets $4.5k a month!!! And should be contributing her own wages to providing housing money for the children!

It seems you just want to punish someone for alleged cheating (which is irrelevant to court determinations of spousal and child support), totally ignore the terms of the prenup, and totally ignore California law. The ex-husband very clearly isn't a multi millionaire - you may wish he had been one, but wishing only works in Disney movies. In the real world the way to get the house you want and the lifestyle you want is to work for it. Not to expect other people to pay for it for you.

Zone2NorthLondon · 17/05/2025 11:18

AE was paid maintenance by IG despite protestations to contrary, he actually overpaid. AE sustained abuse lead to a DVRO her behaviour demonstrably met threshold for DV. She’s stalked and hounded her ex and his new wife

AE left Olivier Picasso for another man IG whom she met on film set(102 Dalmatian if you’re at all interested) She subsequently lost her shit when she was left by ex for someone he met on film set

shes spaffed huge amount money in legal fee and vexatious claims - boom! Money gone

she refuses to works and spends beyond her means. Unfortunately she’s in a mess she’s created

Lilahblu · 17/05/2025 11:22

Onlyhereforthebeer · 17/05/2025 11:07

I used to think surely nobody can be that bad. Then unlike Alice's sycophants I read the court documents. And realised they actually can and she is. The abuse continues even now. Online and in person. The fact she thinks he should get a 'normal' job to support her who won't get a 'normal' job is mind boggling.

Many knew she would react to Ioan getting married, but were unsure as to which way she would blow … and here she is claiming to be on the verge of being homeless with her precious ‘babies ‘ 🤦🏽‍♀️ the idiots who fall for her lies and donate to what imo is a fraudulent gofundme are clearly desperate for attention from a former Z list actress . The amount of child and spousal support is more than adequate to support accommodation & living expenses & the fact she’s using her fake situation as a weapon yet again is shameful.
The photo of Alice stood at the school gate blocking Ioans ( in court Documents to apply for an extension to the restraining order he had to take against her ) way speaks volumes . She looks menacing & aggressive & that’s the photo, imagine having to face that in real life .
I love that Ioan & his new bride are getting on with their lives , enjoying married bliss & letting the legal system take care of AE . Hopefully soon they will be finally rid of her & the court process, maybe start a family of their own .
Will the children eventually realise who is in the wrong in all this , imo maybe the youngest, but the eldest sadly it seems is ‘like mother like daughter’ … not surprising considering she is clearly encouraged to take part in the abuse of her father & his wife and it seems she does so on a very regular basis 😔

Zone2NorthLondon · 17/05/2025 11:25

TheRoses · 17/05/2025 10:34

He cheated, failed to pay ANY support for over a year and forced the whole family out of the home the girls grew up in and felt safe. Now he is forcing them to move AGAIN. Who would want to see a father who does that to his family?

You’re making stuff up. He paid and overpaid maintenance
why are you so over invested

Laoise542 · 17/05/2025 11:27

Slightly off topic but does anyone find it disconcerting and baffling for Alice to be constantly describing her kids who are well into their teens as "babies"? She seems to treat them as anything but the whole "my babies" line she pulls feels rather vomit inducing. I'd have died of mortification if my mum was still referring to me as a baby in my teens.

GranofBagpuss · 17/05/2025 11:29

TheRoses · 17/05/2025 10:34

He cheated, failed to pay ANY support for over a year and forced the whole family out of the home the girls grew up in and felt safe. Now he is forcing them to move AGAIN. Who would want to see a father who does that to his family?

I wouldn’t have minded the father of my children paying what he has especially the £400,000 overpayments. And I wouldn’t have minded him fighting so hard to see his children either. He didn’t have to fight as I never stopped him seeing them despite him paying nothing for their upkeep. Do you know who did keep a roof over their heads, clothed and fed? Me and my family. You know why? Because I don’t have a 1950s mentality or believe that I’m so precious I can’t work despite having a diagnosed disability . At one point I had three jobs but also took classes to increase my earning power.We chose to have our children who are well adjusted, hard working adults who have a healthy relationship with their father. As much as possibly they were never privy to the money side of things as children, they were never used as weapons between us because despite our issues we were adults about it. To make a child hate either parent is an anathema to me as after all they are made from both of us.
Trying to make a new partner jealous by discussing a previous sex life is crass and vulgar and smacks of teenage angst to me. And arrested development.
It’s time to take a step back, Alice, reevaluate and smell the coffee and not the matching powder. And stop using your children to save your own lazy, entitled, arse.

Caligirl80 · 17/05/2025 11:32

Zone2NorthLondon · 17/05/2025 11:25

You’re making stuff up. He paid and overpaid maintenance
why are you so over invested

The username should really be "TheRosé"

There are more socks on this thread than there are in a Stance factory!!! Unhinged doesn't begin to cover this kind of behaviour. Apparently this is what people do when they get $54k a year in freeeeeee money and exist in a delulu world of thinking that they should get to live in a Beverly Hills mansion for free just because they want to. The level of narcism that permits someone to think that way AND create a load of fake accounts to push their delusional agenda really is scary. I feel sorry for those kids - they must spend so much time walking on eggshells.

Caligirl80 · 17/05/2025 11:34

Laoise542 · 17/05/2025 11:27

Slightly off topic but does anyone find it disconcerting and baffling for Alice to be constantly describing her kids who are well into their teens as "babies"? She seems to treat them as anything but the whole "my babies" line she pulls feels rather vomit inducing. I'd have died of mortification if my mum was still referring to me as a baby in my teens.

Eh, I think that's one of the least concerning issues about this situation. Having to live with someone who has zero respect for California law/agreements they have signed/orders not to bad mouth their ex (or cause others to do so) etc etc etc etc etc and being given the impression that getting married = someone else should pay for you to live for free for the rest of your life is way more troubling.

Zone2NorthLondon · 17/05/2025 11:36

AE is trilingual UCL graduate
actor
familiar with movies
she could work. Chooses not to

although in fairness she’d have moderate her demeanor

GranofBagpuss · 17/05/2025 11:38

MoominUnderWater · 17/05/2025 05:50

You’re so funny Alice, and totally deluded.

I couldn’t imagine anything more boring than watching a washed up has been, never was, pseudo Miss Havisham festering in a bed stew of her own making only venturing from her bed to stalk her husband and his new wife. I tell you what I would watch though-Alice at a British job centre being interviewed as to why she refuses to work and arguing why she shouldn’t be sanctioned! Job centre staff would make mincemeat of her. 😆

Lilahblu · 17/05/2025 11:38

GranofBagpuss · 17/05/2025 11:29

I wouldn’t have minded the father of my children paying what he has especially the £400,000 overpayments. And I wouldn’t have minded him fighting so hard to see his children either. He didn’t have to fight as I never stopped him seeing them despite him paying nothing for their upkeep. Do you know who did keep a roof over their heads, clothed and fed? Me and my family. You know why? Because I don’t have a 1950s mentality or believe that I’m so precious I can’t work despite having a diagnosed disability . At one point I had three jobs but also took classes to increase my earning power.We chose to have our children who are well adjusted, hard working adults who have a healthy relationship with their father. As much as possibly they were never privy to the money side of things as children, they were never used as weapons between us because despite our issues we were adults about it. To make a child hate either parent is an anathema to me as after all they are made from both of us.
Trying to make a new partner jealous by discussing a previous sex life is crass and vulgar and smacks of teenage angst to me. And arrested development.
It’s time to take a step back, Alice, reevaluate and smell the coffee and not the matching powder. And stop using your children to save your own lazy, entitled, arse.

She should maybe pay her utilities, you know set a good example for the daughters she professes to care about so much. It’s 2025 young people need to learn life skills , budgeting, paying your own way , working hard , planning for the future etc . What they do not need to learn is how to try and scam for a living whilst abusing others in RL & the media so you can sit on your fat backside & do f all . Frozen fish in dry ice , constant orders of way too small old designer clothes and make up , copious bottles of lady petrol & other stimulants, head shots with a professional photographer, should be paid for by one’s self … not by an ex or begging fraudulently on a go fund me . MOO

radishgate · 17/05/2025 11:38

Zone2NorthLondon · 17/05/2025 11:36

AE is trilingual UCL graduate
actor
familiar with movies
she could work. Chooses not to

although in fairness she’d have moderate her demeanor

I think I read there was no evidence of her actually being a graduate anywhere. Presumably another of her lies.

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