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To think Starmer is utterly reprehensible

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Thegreyhound · 12/05/2025 20:31

I know everyone will disagree, that’s ok- But I just have to say that Starmer today seems to have sunk lower than I ever believed he would with his incendiary ‘island of strangers’ and ‘incalculable damage’ rhetoric.
I find it particularly shocking because he has calculated this and decided it’s worth it to throw immigrants under the bus and essentially give all the ground in the debate to Farage, Tommy Robinson and Enoch Powell types.
Policy can be altered without making statements that are designed to impact race relations and make life even more difficult for people who are just trying to get along and make a living here.
Starmer is vile. This country does indeed feel like an island of strangers these days but the strangers are not the immigrants :(

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Sabire9 · 13/05/2025 12:55

Frequency · 13/05/2025 12:50

It happened in our town, too. They turned Santa's Grotto into Cinderella's Castle a mosque. People on Faceache were idiots "fuming".

You're offering this as evidence that Christmas is being officially 'erased'?

😂

Oh good grief that's pitiful.

CantStopMoving · 13/05/2025 12:57

TheFastTraybake · 13/05/2025 12:49

Most of the UK is not built on.

yes Because most is used for farming and national parks. Out of the developable area most is now built on and over time bits of greenbelt are being built on so there is slow urban creep. I think it should be illegal for any greenbelt land to ever be developed now and in the future .

i also think residential buildings over 5 stories should be banned except in very extreme circumstances

Frequency · 13/05/2025 13:04

Sabire9 · 13/05/2025 12:55

You're offering this as evidence that Christmas is being officially 'erased'?

😂

Oh good grief that's pitiful.

It was my, clearly very poor, attempt at sarcasm.

Santa's Grotto was not a mosque. It was very obviously Cinderella's Castle. There were mice and pumpkins outside it, but the rage about it being a mosque and the boycotts of the charities and businesses which paid for it got so out of hand that the local council had to issue a statement explaining it was a Disney castle and we were indeed still allowed to say Merry Christmas.

The original Grotto made a return the following year, but many local's still remember the time that "Muslims stole Christmas" in our town Hmm

IJustAte · 13/05/2025 13:06

DonkeyDumpling · 12/05/2025 20:36

This country does indeed feel like an island of strangers these days but the strangers are not the immigrants :(

I take it you don’t live in an area with a lots of immigrants who don’t speak English and make no attempt to integrate?

Starmer’s a prick but not for the reasons you’ve stated.

I agree with you @DonkeyDumpling I like in east London and as an ethnic Indian myself this doesn't even feel like I'm living in England.

I remember once a woman being unable to speak English and this being unable to deal with the receptionist at the GP. If you cannot speak the language you cannot integrate well into society.

QueenQueef25 · 13/05/2025 13:06

CantStopMoving · 13/05/2025 12:57

yes Because most is used for farming and national parks. Out of the developable area most is now built on and over time bits of greenbelt are being built on so there is slow urban creep. I think it should be illegal for any greenbelt land to ever be developed now and in the future .

i also think residential buildings over 5 stories should be banned except in very extreme circumstances

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Agree. There's loads of planning applications going through.
Probs the same everywhere but the developers targeting farm land. The flat useful accessible bits for shite pixel housing no garden ifcourse but you get to look out of your light tax window at a hill until they develop that next month.

justasking111 · 13/05/2025 13:07

HeatonGrov · 12/05/2025 21:02

Visit Bradford.

No don't seriously. Relative, police officer who did that beat says the police have basically withdrawn for the sake of peace.

CautiousLurker01 · 13/05/2025 13:08

KT1113 · 13/05/2025 12:16

Clearly! We have a large number of immigrants in the closest town to me. None of them have ever asked me to cover up or be subservient to them. I cannot genuinely imagine a scenario in which that would occur. And if it did, where you couldn't politely respond with "I'm dressed perfectly fine thank you"

Are people in other areas of the UK being forced into modest clothing against their will then? I'm confident that would've made the daily mail at the very least

Yes, they are and yes it has been referenced in the DM on numerous occasions in the last few years. Girls dressed for clubbing, girls walking holding their girlfriend’s hands (whether lesbian or not) suffer extraordinary harassment from young Asian men in London. My DD and her friends have witnessed and experienced it. Especially around Brick Lane. I haven’t, because I’m an older woman, rarely out after 11pm and usually always accompanied by my husband… doesn’t mean that I disbelieve it.

I am also an adoptee into an Iranian family. A liberal muslim one who sought asylum from the oppressive regime there so that my aunts might have the freedom to have an education and not be forced into marriages at a young age. Yet, nonetheless, there were totally different expectations for girls. For example, if I (and/or my aunties) was sat on a large sofa and a male relative entered the room, I/we would be required to leave the seat and seat myself on the floor unless invited to join him. I was prohibited from wearing jeans and tees once my periods started/I wore a bra as ‘such revealing clothing’ was ‘sexually provocative’. I was petrified of men for a long while after that talk with my adoptive dad. And, like I say, this was an educated, liberal family. An aunt took to wearing the burka when her father was murdered by white youths in N London and still wears in 20 years later. Despite being a lawyer, she regularly kneels at my uncles feet to remove his outdoor shoes/socks and replace them with slippers.

I think you are lucky that you have not gleaned this side of muslim culture, but it’s there.

strawberrybubblegum · 13/05/2025 13:08

KT1113 · 13/05/2025 12:07

I wouldn't say Christianity is the most tolerant of religions and Britain certainly doesn't seem to have a culture of tolerance at the moment, so that aside, I'm absolutely not being disingenuous.

It's fine to say - other cultures don't fit well with my ideas/beliefs of what British culture is. But you absolutely can't say with a straight face 'other cultures don't share our values of tolerance for other people's beliefs, their right to hold them and express them.'

If you have tolerance for someone's beliefs, it doesn't have to be fundamentally compatible with yours.

You're being deliberately obtuse.

It is UK law and practice that people can follow their own beliefs so long as it doesn't contravene UK laws or impact unreasonably on others. The core value that leads to this is that an individual is considered more important than any belief system or religion.

Other cultures believe (as a core value) that the only right way to run a society is in accordance with the laws of their god. The core value that leads to this is that their god's laws are more important than any individual.

The first value system is very clearly more tolerant of different beliefs and people's right to hold them and express them than the second.

It's not in any way inconsistent to say that our culture is in general more tolerant; that we believe it's a better way to run a society; and that we will not tolerate immigrants giving precedence to their religious laws over our country's laws, or trying to change the UK's value system to reflect their own (ie to give precedence to religious laws and the expectations - around eg women's role in society - which have come from them)

Nigelshotfrenchwife · 13/05/2025 13:12

mummytoonetryingfortwo · 13/05/2025 11:46

Because it’s quite frankly not enough. Why should her husband sit at home and claim benefits?

Do you understand that immigrants on temporary visas, which would apply to this person, are not entitled to state benefits?

BeanQuisine · 13/05/2025 13:12

Seems like a reasonable speech from Starmer, an attempt to acknowledge longstanding public concern, while positioning his government as the calm centrist voice amongst the usual screaming and moaning from left and right.

Let's hope it does actually result in a more sensible immigration policy.

Clavinova · 13/05/2025 13:13

Tractorcrisis · 13/05/2025 06:04

Anyone who supports a ‘stop the boats’ type view.
Should the Mayflower have been stopped? Or The Endeavour?

Native Americans and Indigenous Australians are still complaining hundreds of years later!

southerngirl10 · 13/05/2025 13:13

The racism card gets pushed in front of your face if you're white British, so it's refreshing to see the amount of second and third generation non white British people standing up against the invasion - thank goodness the racism card can't be used against them. I'm so pleased someone is allowed to stand up for this country!

OneLemonGuide · 13/05/2025 13:13

Bumpitybumper · 13/05/2025 12:00

I think you are being disingenuous! You do realise that some cultures and religions don't have tolerance built into them in the same way that British culture currently does? This isn't racist or xenophobic but a matter of fact. British culture is built on Christian Western ideals that are fundamentally incompatible with some belief systems. We need to be very very careful that we don't forget this and assume that everyone has equal capacity to be tolerant. Religious and cultural rules and norms means this simply isn't the case

Absolutely. I think many on the Left are actually very narrow-minded, condescending and (ironically) imperialist when it comes to their cultural values.

They believe that every culture is fundamentally the same as their culture, and that the differences are merely superficial.

The fact is that certain cultures (especially some in the Islamic world) are implacably opposed to democracy, tolerance and individual freedoms, and are built on very different foundations. But those on the Left either can’t or won’t see this. They assume everyone is really just like them. It’s actually incredibly prejudiced in an inverted way…I was one of them until the last year or two.

skymagentatwo · 13/05/2025 13:14

HeatonGrov · 12/05/2025 21:02

Visit Bradford.

Add this to your list.

To think Starmer is utterly reprehensible
Yellowbluemonday · 13/05/2025 13:14

Thegreyhound · 12/05/2025 20:31

I know everyone will disagree, that’s ok- But I just have to say that Starmer today seems to have sunk lower than I ever believed he would with his incendiary ‘island of strangers’ and ‘incalculable damage’ rhetoric.
I find it particularly shocking because he has calculated this and decided it’s worth it to throw immigrants under the bus and essentially give all the ground in the debate to Farage, Tommy Robinson and Enoch Powell types.
Policy can be altered without making statements that are designed to impact race relations and make life even more difficult for people who are just trying to get along and make a living here.
Starmer is vile. This country does indeed feel like an island of strangers these days but the strangers are not the immigrants :(

please be more clear no idea what u trying to say.

FiremanDan · 13/05/2025 13:15

Rainbow1901 · 13/05/2025 12:15

It's more likely that the payments from the benefits system are too high. If benefits were set at a lower threshold then working will pay. As it is now - there are too many bonuses for being on benefits as you can often add in housing benefit, free prescriptions and a host of other benefits which often means in their eyes that working does not pay.

Maybe we should adopt something that other countries employ which is that benefits can only last a finite amount of time.
Or maybe there are plenty of people who work for NMW and still pay their way so should we tax benefits too?
I have no idea but something needs to change but it seems daft to bring in immigrants to do jobs that citizens in the country are capable of doing and get them off their reliance on the state to provide everything.

Will disabled people just stop being disabled after a finite period of time then?!

Working does pay. Use a benefits calculator to work that out.

Re: wages, the minimum wage has just been put up. But that provoked public commentary that “small businesses will now go under as they can’t afford it”.

Care work is hard work and takes skill. Workers need qualities that many don’t have. Care companies are actively recruiting in areas such a Ghana, and offering sponsorship to the UK. British nationals are not doing these jobs because they do not want to, so there is a health and social care crisis.

mummytoonetryingfortwo · 13/05/2025 13:19

FiremanDan · 13/05/2025 13:15

Will disabled people just stop being disabled after a finite period of time then?!

Working does pay. Use a benefits calculator to work that out.

Re: wages, the minimum wage has just been put up. But that provoked public commentary that “small businesses will now go under as they can’t afford it”.

Care work is hard work and takes skill. Workers need qualities that many don’t have. Care companies are actively recruiting in areas such a Ghana, and offering sponsorship to the UK. British nationals are not doing these jobs because they do not want to, so there is a health and social care crisis.

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Then people need to start doing jobs they don’t want to. Simple as.

CantStopMoving · 13/05/2025 13:19

FiremanDan · 13/05/2025 13:15

Will disabled people just stop being disabled after a finite period of time then?!

Working does pay. Use a benefits calculator to work that out.

Re: wages, the minimum wage has just been put up. But that provoked public commentary that “small businesses will now go under as they can’t afford it”.

Care work is hard work and takes skill. Workers need qualities that many don’t have. Care companies are actively recruiting in areas such a Ghana, and offering sponsorship to the UK. British nationals are not doing these jobs because they do not want to, so there is a health and social care crisis.

Edited

Again it isn’t that British people won’t do these jobs (bear in mind many British people are children/grandchildren of immigrants). They just won’t do them for minimum wage because it a very difficult job. we have been taught through our education system that those sorts of jobs have a higher value. If someone has been educated to the age of 18 and potentially done a degree, if they move into social care, they want a higher wage. Pay what the job is actually worth and you will get British people applying no need to go to Ghana to bring them over to pay them below market value for the job.

FiremanDan · 13/05/2025 13:21

mummytoonetryingfortwo · 13/05/2025 13:19

Then people need to start doing jobs they don’t want to. Simple as.

Would you want someone caring for your elderly parent, or disabled child, when they didn’t want to do that job?! It takes a tremendous amount of patience at the best of times. As an employer, would you employ someone who didn’t want to be there?!

There is nothing simple about it.

Hwi · 13/05/2025 13:22

DonkeyDumpling · 12/05/2025 20:36

This country does indeed feel like an island of strangers these days but the strangers are not the immigrants :(

I take it you don’t live in an area with a lots of immigrants who don’t speak English and make no attempt to integrate?

Starmer’s a prick but not for the reasons you’ve stated.

Bravo

mummytoonetryingfortwo · 13/05/2025 13:23

FiremanDan · 13/05/2025 13:21

Would you want someone caring for your elderly parent, or disabled child, when they didn’t want to do that job?! It takes a tremendous amount of patience at the best of times. As an employer, would you employ someone who didn’t want to be there?!

There is nothing simple about it.

Did I want to work when my daughter was six months old? No. But I did. Sometimes you have to pick yourself up and do a job, like it or not.

FiremanDan · 13/05/2025 13:23

CantStopMoving · 13/05/2025 13:19

Again it isn’t that British people won’t do these jobs (bear in mind many British people are children/grandchildren of immigrants). They just won’t do them for minimum wage because it a very difficult job. we have been taught through our education system that those sorts of jobs have a higher value. If someone has been educated to the age of 18 and potentially done a degree, if they move into social care, they want a higher wage. Pay what the job is actually worth and you will get British people applying no need to go to Ghana to bring them over to pay them below market value for the job.

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And how will care companies run? How will adult social care pay for care? (Councils already bankrupt or close to it)

Who will do minimum wage jobs? (Once you’ve removed immigrants). By your reasoning, no-one should work for minimum wage.

You can’t just make things up as you would like them to be. Basic economics plays a part.

QueenQueef25 · 13/05/2025 13:23

thenoisiesttermagant · 13/05/2025 12:40

Yes this, people who have other options generally choose not to continue to work in those conditions.

I'd love all the people saying 'why don't British citizens work in care' go and do a couple of shifts and then see how easy / rewarding it is.

I've worked in a professional managerial job and I've also worked in a working class job (not care, which is even harder) and despite the crappy pay the latter was harder, far less rewarding and enjoyable.

People who stick the care sector and truly look after their patients (not all do) deserve really decent salaries. They should be trained to understand the conditions they are dealing with and have professional standards.

There are some terrible things happening in care homes and the people they are happening to cannot speak out nor can the workers. We need journalists to focus on this and do some proper investigative journalism on an ongoing basis as well as 'follow the money' type investigations rather than constantly being obsessed by Trump and Farage.

There are some people who will really not be suited to these roles and should not do them for the safety of the people they're caring for.

And the regulators like the CQC are basically completely useless and turn a blind eye. We all know how shit conditions are. It's not a mystery.

Such good points.

Clavinova · 13/05/2025 13:24

@ Sapana
I'm from Bradford and went to school in Manningham

April 2025
Manningham in Bradford has the second highest rate of child poverty in the UK, with nearly three-­quarters, 72%, of children living below the ­poverty line, according to the latest data from the Department for Work and Pensions, released earlier this month. This compares with a national average of 22%.

https://www.theguardian.com/society/2025/apr/20/child-poverty-bradford-easter

PiggyPigalle · 13/05/2025 13:25

BeardofHagrid · 13/05/2025 12:28

So you want vulnerable people to come here from third world countries and work like slaves doing jobs British people won’t do on a grey, dank, miserable island?

That’s true racism. Nice.

"Vulnerable people"? The pure definition of the over used word racism, is to treat those from a different race as less than you. By saying immigrants are vulnerable, is doing just that.
"Third World countries"? No, the term is Developing countries. By saying Third World, you imply they are not as good as us.

There's racism, right back at you. You see how you need to check your own speech, before lobbing that word at others?

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