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Neighbour bbq smoke

303 replies

Heathershimmerwinner · 11/05/2025 15:54

Hi. My neighbour round the back has a raised bbq area. He has bbqs twice a day, not kidding. It’s getting a bit too much. The smell of the smoke is making me feel sick. We don’t get on with him as it is. So speaking to him is out the question. My washing constantly smells of smoke. I wouldn’t bother if he barbecued now and again. But it’s twice a day.

OP posts:
UndermyShoeJoe · 11/05/2025 18:09

Yes the nuisance vs annoying.

It’s a bit like a dog barking for 5 minutes every hour is annoying but ok technically. A dog barking for an hour solid at 2am that’s an issue.

faerietales · 11/05/2025 18:09

Rosscameasdoody · 11/05/2025 18:08

Because the former is necessary and washing hung on a line doesn’t impact anyone. The latter is unnecessary and impacts others. I wouldn’t be arsed with a neighbour who barbecued a few times a week but twice a day is a nuisance.

Edited

It's not necessary to dry washing outside at all. It might be useful and free, but given that people manage when we have non-stop rain for weeks, it's clearly not a necessity.

faerietales · 11/05/2025 18:10

Heronwatcher · 11/05/2025 18:07

The issue is that in order for something to be classed as a nuisance, legally, it has to be quite a lot worse than something people find annoying. The interference has to be “substantial” and more than a mere inconvenience. It will depend on the facts but this guidance does specify that smoke from cooking will not usually count as a nuisance. It will be for the OP to convince the council otherwise.

www.gov.uk/guidance/nuisance-smoke-how-councils-deal-with-complaints

Yes, exactly. Too many people on this thread think "annoying = legal nuisance". That's not the case at all.

FatherFrosty · 11/05/2025 18:11

trailmx · 11/05/2025 18:06

I never need to hang washing outdoors, it dries really quickly when hung on airers over the bannisters, chairs etc indoors in warm weather.
Open the windows opposite side of barbecue to avoid smoke and clothes dry in a few hours

A friends son had asthma attacks so bad he was hospitalised multiple times. The doctors eventually narrowed it down and advised not to dry washing inside.

Ddakji · 11/05/2025 18:12

faerietales · 11/05/2025 17:56

I haven't said otherwise.

But everyone has different definitions of what is and isn't acceptable. Unless there's a law or restriction on when/how often people can BBQ in their gardens, OP isn't going to get far with a complaint, and will likely just cause more issues for herself long-term as you need to declare neighbour disputes when you sell (and if she rents, it could cause issues with her landlord).

You haven’t said otherwise but that’s exactly what you have repeatedly implied - that it’s for those who are being imposed on to suck it up or change their ways because that’s what they should expect living near others. Not that those whose anti-social behaviours impact others should change their ways.

If she complains and gets a result she’ll have done something to make her community a bit more pleasant for the majority. Your way wouldn’t make anyone’s life any better.

SatsumaDog · 11/05/2025 18:13

Twice a day every day does seem rather a lot. Generally if we see our neighbours have washing out, we wait to barbecue until the evening when they have taken it in. On the rare occasion we can’t (if we have friends round for lunch) then I give them prior warning that we have plans and there may be some smoke in case they want to take their washing in. It’s having consideration for people around you ans some give and take. It’s not always a case of do what you please and fuck everyone else.

snowmichael · 11/05/2025 18:17

LoafofSellotape · 11/05/2025 16:00

Why does washing trump cooking outside?

Because hanging washing outside doesn't release clouds of smoke stinking the place out

Zone2NorthLondon · 11/05/2025 18:17

faerietales · 11/05/2025 18:10

Yes, exactly. Too many people on this thread think "annoying = legal nuisance". That's not the case at all.

Absolutely, there is a threshold to what constitutes nuisance and it is not that someone is irked

faerietales · 11/05/2025 18:18

Ddakji · 11/05/2025 18:12

You haven’t said otherwise but that’s exactly what you have repeatedly implied - that it’s for those who are being imposed on to suck it up or change their ways because that’s what they should expect living near others. Not that those whose anti-social behaviours impact others should change their ways.

If she complains and gets a result she’ll have done something to make her community a bit more pleasant for the majority. Your way wouldn’t make anyone’s life any better.

It may well be annoying and anti-social to live next to someone like OP's neighbour - but that doesn't mean it qualifies as a nuisance that the council can take action on.

The reason I suck it up when my neighbours are irritating is because I know I probably do things that piss them off as well. Unless they're going massively OTT and causing a real long-term issue, I just live with it. Just like they live with our dog barking sometimes, or us using a fire-pit, or DH using powertools to do DIY.

snowmichael · 11/05/2025 18:18

Heronwatcher · 11/05/2025 16:06

He’s not doing anything wrong. No one “official” will give a monkeys, unless he’s burning car tyres or animal carcasses! You can theoretically do a BBQ for breakfast, lunch and dinner in your own garden if you want.

Honestly I think you might just need to have a chat and see if you can agree a couple of days when he doesn’t BBQ, or, if you’re not prepared to do that, make alternative arrangements for very nice weather (use a heated airer or front garden?).

> He’s not doing anything wrong.

ConfidentallyIncorrect
There are plenty of laws preventing inconsiderate arsehole spoiling other peoples' 'quiet enjoyment' of their property

Zone2NorthLondon · 11/05/2025 18:22

snowmichael · 11/05/2025 18:18

> He’s not doing anything wrong.

ConfidentallyIncorrect
There are plenty of laws preventing inconsiderate arsehole spoiling other peoples' 'quiet enjoyment' of their property

Yes there are laws and there is a threshold to be met as to what is nuisance
Annoyance is subjective. There need to be a demonstrable frequency,duration and level of nuisance before one can pursue legal route

SmudgeButt · 11/05/2025 18:22

Well I love a bbq and would happily use it more than my OH wants me to. And I use it year round. We did use it for making breakfasts when our kitchen was being done. But twice a day is a bit OTT. Twice, three times a week is fine by me. Our neighbours have built their own outdoor heater to burn wood. They said once that they hoped it didn't bother us too much be frankly I think it's a great smell so don't even mind when I've got laundry on the line.

But that's me. If it was someone next door smoking cigars regularly I'd likely be ticked off.

trailmx · 11/05/2025 18:25

FatherFrosty · 11/05/2025 18:11

A friends son had asthma attacks so bad he was hospitalised multiple times. The doctors eventually narrowed it down and advised not to dry washing inside.

Of course, house could get damp if washing dried indoors in cold/wet weather. But we're talking about unusually warm weather when most people would have windows open.

Heathershimmerwinner · 11/05/2025 18:26

It’s not just the washing is it, I can’t open the windows as the smoke gets in. It’s a lovely day. We all like our windows open when the weathers nice .plus sitting outside is a nightmare as the smoke is annoying. Just had thoracic surgery so the last thing I want is to breath in his mingling bbq fumes. That’s been 8 hours today it’s been burning. 🥵

OP posts:
faerietales · 11/05/2025 18:29

Heathershimmerwinner · 11/05/2025 18:26

It’s not just the washing is it, I can’t open the windows as the smoke gets in. It’s a lovely day. We all like our windows open when the weathers nice .plus sitting outside is a nightmare as the smoke is annoying. Just had thoracic surgery so the last thing I want is to breath in his mingling bbq fumes. That’s been 8 hours today it’s been burning. 🥵

I can totally see why you're annoyed - honestly, I can - but finding something annoying doesn't make it a legal nuisance that can be dealt with by the council.

You can ask, by all means.

snowmichael · 11/05/2025 18:32

Zone2NorthLondon · 11/05/2025 18:22

Yes there are laws and there is a threshold to be met as to what is nuisance
Annoyance is subjective. There need to be a demonstrable frequency,duration and level of nuisance before one can pursue legal route

And twice a day polluting the air with BBQ smoke is demonstrably unreasonable

I'm fortunate enough to live in an old smokeless zone (almost none were ever revoked)
OP should check if they are, too

FatherFrosty · 11/05/2025 18:32

trailmx · 11/05/2025 18:25

Of course, house could get damp if washing dried indoors in cold/wet weather. But we're talking about unusually warm weather when most people would have windows open.

That you can’t open because the twat neighbours sausages are trumping multiple people’s need to dry washing or air their house

NancyBellaDonna · 11/05/2025 18:33

BBQ cooking is a very unhealthy choice.

Carcinogenic chemicals called Polycyclic Aromatic Hydrocarbons (PAHs) are generated when organic substances are burned. On a barbecue this includes the fats dripping down onto the wood or charcoal, as well as flames reaching the surface of the meat. The smoke from the burning heat source also covers the surface with PAHs, and build-up can occur in smoked foods at any temperature.

Heterocyclic amines (HCAs) are chemicals created when any meat — or poultry or fish — is cooked at a high temperature. Cooking food close to the coals, in a smoky environment or for prolonged periods, can create high levels of HCAs and PAHs in your food. In lab experiments, these chemicals have been found to be mutagenic — that is, they cause changes in DNA that may increase the risk of cancer.

TheHerboriste · 11/05/2025 18:33

Can you purchase a large fan that would blow the smoke away from your washing?

faerietales · 11/05/2025 18:36

snowmichael · 11/05/2025 18:32

And twice a day polluting the air with BBQ smoke is demonstrably unreasonable

I'm fortunate enough to live in an old smokeless zone (almost none were ever revoked)
OP should check if they are, too

Lots of things are unreasonable but that doesn't mean they're a legal nuisance -there's a big difference.

LaughingCat · 11/05/2025 18:38

Don’t worry, OP, it’ll be winter soon enough and you won’t have to deal with it anymore 🙃

CoubousAndTourmalet · 11/05/2025 18:47

LaughingCat · 11/05/2025 18:38

Don’t worry, OP, it’ll be winter soon enough and you won’t have to deal with it anymore 🙃

Sadly, not soon enough.

Didshejustsaythatoutloud · 11/05/2025 18:47

ThejoyofNC · 11/05/2025 15:58

I do the majority of my cooking outside in this weather. Don't like it, don't put your washing out.

Bet your neighbours love you

TortolaParadise · 11/05/2025 18:58

HotHoney · 11/05/2025 15:54

Well if you’re not willing to speak to him you’ll have to try and communicate telepathically.

Smoke signals lol😁.

Franpie · 11/05/2025 19:00

Heathershimmerwinner · 11/05/2025 16:01

HotHoney · Today 15:54
smart ar**! Why would I communicate telepathically? 🙄 I’d obviously speak to the environmental health

Not sure environmental health are going to do much about your neighbour barbecuing in his back garden on sunny days.

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