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AIBU?

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Would this be rude or is DH right?

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Dreco · 07/05/2025 10:13

Currently in southern Italy in a beautiful small town in the mountains. Airb&B. The locals are clearly not used to tourists but have been so incredibly kind and welcoming.
The only problem is there isn’t a whole lot to do around here without driving for hours on death trap mountain roads 😂 it’s lovely and we’ve had a few lovely days out but DH is getting tired of all the driving and his suggestion is we leave here two days early and book two nights in Naples were we can explore Naples and Pompei.
Im worried about upsetting the host here who had gone way above and beyond to try and make this stay special for us. Part of me knows he’s making sense. We fly home from Naples on Sunday so we’d already be near the airport two days in advance.

YABU - you’ll upset the host and you should make the most of where you booked
YANBU - the host will understand and you’ll get more out of the holiday

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LionAndEmperor13 · 09/05/2025 13:51

90swithcigarettesandalcohol · 08/05/2025 20:28

Naples seems marmite - people either think it's brilliant or a dump on this thread, I'm intrigued now!

It's both! I lived there for several years and I can totally understand people hating it. Like any big city it can be dangerous, noisy, overcrowded etc. but it's also an incredible and unique place. I absolutely loved my time there!
(I wouldn't recommend trying to drive in the city though)

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