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AAAAGH Reform. Are people ignoring the racist?

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Peasnbeans · 02/05/2025 23:01

And that he's no economist skills yet promising the impossible. And a racist. And mysoginist.

If Mumsnet is full of women, how is no-one talking about Reform and limiting women's rights?
I know I'll get flamed for this, but it is a boiling frog situation! Jump out!
And I didn't choose the AIBU board but I looked down all the Current Threads and this didn't feature.

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Fourpawsblack · 03/05/2025 08:36

Personally I don’t believe that allowing unskilled immigrants with no financial backing can bring any positives to the country. It’s already in enough of a mess.

taxguru · 03/05/2025 08:37

IhaveanewTVnow · 03/05/2025 08:33

Pay decent wages, offer apprenticeships for youngsters and I’m sure there are enough people in the UK looking for work who would love to work in the NHS.

Also increase the number of training places at medical schools, stop the BMA from dictating/influencing numbers just to keep their members in high demand and remuneration high.

MasterBeth · 03/05/2025 08:39

OneAmberFinch · 03/05/2025 08:15

The core problem that people have is that they see their communities and culture disappearing around them. Any party in theory could address the economic issues but Reform is the only one even trying to grapple with the cultural issue in and of itself.

Look at that councillor in Burnley who wants to "prevent free mixing" between Muslim men and women in public areas!

Imagine living there as a white British person - your culture isn't just what spices you put on your food. It's about your core way of life, including your view of the fundamental role of women in society. I don't think it's a coincidence that a lot of the places that just elected Reform councils also are areas where "Gaza independents" (read: Muslim ethnic bloc voting, standing for extremely conservative religious policies) also were elected. Because the people living in those areas don't want to get to 2029/onwards and have even more MPs who want to vote for segregation, radical religious fundamentalism, and their own ethnic interests.

The core problem that people have is that they see their communities and culture disappearing around them.

No, the core problem is when politicians hijack legitimate concerns about economic poverty and lack of opportunity into religious and ethnic tension. We live in a world of global economic and political turmoil. The poverty in the high street of an ex-mining town or the prohibitive cost of a home in rural Devon has not been caused by people arriving on the Kent coast in small boats.

All the research shows that people are far more comfortable about immigration in areas with lots of it and more suspicious of it in areas with little of it. Most people rub along pretty well with people who are "not like them" once they get to know them. In fact, they realise that they are "quite like them", even if they speak a different language or worship a different god.

There are poisonous, evil, controlling people in all communities and of all religions. There are misogynistic Muslims and feminist Muslims. A nutter Muslim cleric or councillor in Burnley is no more or less concerning that a nutter Christian cleric or councillor in Belfast.

I abhor what the councillor said and I despise Nigel Farage saying he wouldn't want Romanians moving in next door. Their bigotry is not down to their race or culture. It's because they are both poisonous authoritarians.

soupyspoon · 03/05/2025 08:39

CappuccinoChocolate · 03/05/2025 08:36

I've noticed they like to copy the states now and call it DEI.
Problem is ...when you get rid of the championing of equity and equality then everyone suffers apart from the richer white male.
I've just spent three months on work writing about impacts of inequality including low socio-economic class in my area, amongst others. I won't be able to do this under Reform power according to their policies.

Let me be clear positioning equity policies and work as unnecessary is dangerous to all of us including white working class males.
The rich white male will just get richer and they have no intention of letting you share their wealth ...whatever they say.

It hasnt worked educationally though has it because the biggest disadvantaged group within education is white working class boys.

Tatemoderndrawyourown · 03/05/2025 08:39

Pollqueen · 03/05/2025 08:03

That's extremely offensive. So "brown people, women and gays" have no independent thinking and can be "used" as a front by white male racists? Do you realise how ridiculous that sounds?

Are you kidding me. I have a very important brown female banker friend and she’s the first to tell everyone that she’s asked to speak at all sorts of events so the company can look good. They keep her because she’s exceptional in what she does. They use her in other ways too.

Apreslapluielesoleil · 03/05/2025 08:39

BlondiePortz · 03/05/2025 04:22

So basically people are scared their benefits are being taken of them, never mind funding themselves they want the government to do it for them

No, because there is just not enough money to go round.

Imagine your life with two children, two parents working. It’s expensive in the early days but in time you’ll expect to have the money for children’s hobbies, family holidays, be able to repair your home or car when necessary.
Now imagine you have 11 children on the same income. Not such a rosy future for you or your children. You can cast out the big loving family picture but hard economics tell you two wages won’t go far amongst 13 people.

By next week there’ll be a few thousand more people needing a home, food, health care, dentistry, social services assessment, maybe unaccompanied children who need care. All these services are already stretched and an elastic band eventually breaks.

taxguru · 03/05/2025 08:40

Fourpawsblack · 03/05/2025 08:36

Personally I don’t believe that allowing unskilled immigrants with no financial backing can bring any positives to the country. It’s already in enough of a mess.

I agree. We need the "right" kind of immigrants - those with high level skills/qualifications who will be net contributors to the UK (also bearing in the mind the costs of their dependants they bring with them). We certainly don't need more dodgy blokes looking threatening outside Turkish Barbers nor young adults hanging around outside hotels smoking weed and being aggressive/threatening to locals walking past.

Multi-culturalism in a "naice" area where your immigrant neighbours are doctors, accountants or IT consultants, is very different to "multi culturalism" in Bradford where your neighbours are money launderers, drug dealers and other kinds of criminals.

HellsBalls · 03/05/2025 08:40

To want limited immigration is not racist.
People voting Reform can see the difference between NHS workers and illegal immigrants.

They can also see that importing tens of thousands of IT workers will lower the salaries for IT. These guys are NOT skilled IT workers on the whole, it will be one good guy to four inexperienced guys.
Repeat against a whole raft of occupations. Race to the bottom.

IcyAzureMoose · 03/05/2025 08:41

MrsEverest · 03/05/2025 06:59

You were racist as a teenager?

I think most teens do silly things with the potential to harm themselves.

A racist teen would have to work very hard as an adult to undo their previous ingrained beliefs.

I was, it was how I was brought up, I lived in a working glass old mining town, it wasn’t uncommon. I have worked really hard as an adult to unlearn that awful belief since moving areas and progressing in my life.

taxguru · 03/05/2025 08:42

HellsBalls · 03/05/2025 08:40

To want limited immigration is not racist.
People voting Reform can see the difference between NHS workers and illegal immigrants.

They can also see that importing tens of thousands of IT workers will lower the salaries for IT. These guys are NOT skilled IT workers on the whole, it will be one good guy to four inexperienced guys.
Repeat against a whole raft of occupations. Race to the bottom.

Nail on the head. And we really shouldn't be giving work permits for an immigrant to come in and work in a Kebab shop which is probably a money laundering front anyway.

MasterBeth · 03/05/2025 08:42

AngelinaFibres · 03/05/2025 08:19

Oh like the Italians do then.

You do realise Italy has a far-right government whose leader has spoken of her admiration for Mussolini?!

bellsanddogwhistles · 03/05/2025 08:43

jasflowers · 03/05/2025 07:21

Returning Migrants to France:
Reform UK wants to pick up migrants intercepted at sea and return them to France

How would that work when France refuses them? where would they go? back to the UK or left at sea, what would you want?

Reforms Ben Habib suggested putting them into more robust dinghies, whilst at sea and if they scupper this boat, let them drown.

He later said his comments were taken out of context lol

Reform UK wants to pick up migrants intercepted at sea and return them to France

How is this a problem?

At the moment migrants are picked up and taken to UK, so why not return them to where they came from? If it's safe to take them to UK then it must be safe to take them back to France, surely?
France is a "safe country", as the last time I read the news there wasn't a Coup d' Etat or a Civil War in progress

And why are they even crossing in the first place? UK have bunged France £millions to stop launches. That isn't working obviously.

And I'm still waiting to be told when & where Ben Habib said this Reforms Ben Habib suggested putting them into more robust dinghies, whilst at sea and if they scupper this boat, let them drown. 🤔

Idontgiveashitanymore · 03/05/2025 08:43

Moveanymountain · 03/05/2025 04:16

Because people cannot stomach 500+ “migrants” coming to the UK illegally every day but getting food, housing, health care etc while citizens pay more and more tax for poorer services.

i know this is going to come across as a racist, hateful post but we are a small island and we cannot just keep endlessly shelling out for illegals.

that’s why right wing groups are gaining all over Europe .

I agree with this. Nothing is being done and this country is being drained of our future every day.
other countries are shutting borders why can’t we?

I am not racist I have many friends from around the world who live and WORK in this country and add to our society .

marshmallowmix · 03/05/2025 08:44

OneAmberFinch · 03/05/2025 08:15

The core problem that people have is that they see their communities and culture disappearing around them. Any party in theory could address the economic issues but Reform is the only one even trying to grapple with the cultural issue in and of itself.

Look at that councillor in Burnley who wants to "prevent free mixing" between Muslim men and women in public areas!

Imagine living there as a white British person - your culture isn't just what spices you put on your food. It's about your core way of life, including your view of the fundamental role of women in society. I don't think it's a coincidence that a lot of the places that just elected Reform councils also are areas where "Gaza independents" (read: Muslim ethnic bloc voting, standing for extremely conservative religious policies) also were elected. Because the people living in those areas don't want to get to 2029/onwards and have even more MPs who want to vote for segregation, radical religious fundamentalism, and their own ethnic interests.

Spot on @OneAmberFinch !!

Communities being changed beyond all recognition and not hearing anyone speak a word of English.

Livelovebehappy · 03/05/2025 08:47

TimeFlysWhenYoureHavingRum · 03/05/2025 00:03

I imagine many people vote for them BECAUSE of the racism and misogyny. It reflects their views and they wish to support it. Its very sad. I always thought the UK was better than this.

Oh do bore off. This is repeated over and over again. It really isn't racist to want to stop uncontrolled immigration. Maybe you're lucky enough to live somewhere not affected by it. Try speaking to people who are. Like those in Kent. I support Reform on this issue. If you want to call me a racist on the back of that, because you mistakenly think it closes debate down, crack on. Beyond caring....

MasterBeth · 03/05/2025 08:47

taxguru · 03/05/2025 08:40

I agree. We need the "right" kind of immigrants - those with high level skills/qualifications who will be net contributors to the UK (also bearing in the mind the costs of their dependants they bring with them). We certainly don't need more dodgy blokes looking threatening outside Turkish Barbers nor young adults hanging around outside hotels smoking weed and being aggressive/threatening to locals walking past.

Multi-culturalism in a "naice" area where your immigrant neighbours are doctors, accountants or IT consultants, is very different to "multi culturalism" in Bradford where your neighbours are money launderers, drug dealers and other kinds of criminals.

What a thoughtful, nuanced and informed view of Bradford you have. Have you ever been to Bradford? Do you think there are no doctors, IT consultants or accountants in Bradford or is it the city economy powered only by "multi-cultural" drug dealing?

luckylavender · 03/05/2025 08:48

AndImBrit · 03/05/2025 07:38

Also I’m not a Reform voter, but I’ve just read their manifesto/contract again - and it is eminently sensible. Many of their policies would work a lot better than those Labour are currently imposing.

Because you don’t like Farage, doesn’t mean that the broader party doesn’t have some good ideas. And if you can’t appreciate why people want to vote for that, I actually think you are part of the problem - not the people voting Reform.

And to reiterate, I have never and will never vote Reform. I just understand that some people are desperate for any sort of change.

Farage is Reform. The Party is created in his image. It was UKIP then The Brexit Party now Reform. Democracy allows us to vote for who we want, we should cherish that. Personally I don't understand why anyone would vote for someone who has shown us who he is repeatedly. Brexit is a car crash, it's making us far poorer than any refugees. It's making the rich richer though.
We need to look at our media far more closely. Yesterday morning on GMB they had 3 political guests, Labour, Tory & Reform. The Reform person (Alex Phillips - ex Brexit Party MEP, lied about working for Cambridge Analytica) took the whole slot. The other 2 were not asked a single question & left before speaking. Shameful.

OldGothsFadeToGrey · 03/05/2025 08:50

Syuni · 03/05/2025 07:10

Do people think Australia (which has a strong policy against illegal immigration) is racist?

Only absolutely anyone who is aware of the ongoing policies and disproportionate action towards indigenous people there.

luckylavender · 03/05/2025 08:51

@bellsanddogwhistles - Ben Habib is no longer a member of Reform. They fell out a good while ago.

MasterBeth · 03/05/2025 08:51

bellsanddogwhistles · 03/05/2025 08:43

Reform UK wants to pick up migrants intercepted at sea and return them to France

How is this a problem?

At the moment migrants are picked up and taken to UK, so why not return them to where they came from? If it's safe to take them to UK then it must be safe to take them back to France, surely?
France is a "safe country", as the last time I read the news there wasn't a Coup d' Etat or a Civil War in progress

And why are they even crossing in the first place? UK have bunged France £millions to stop launches. That isn't working obviously.

And I'm still waiting to be told when & where Ben Habib said this Reforms Ben Habib suggested putting them into more robust dinghies, whilst at sea and if they scupper this boat, let them drown. 🤔

Edited

I'm not saying all Reform voters are too dumb to do a simple Google search but... Just for you ..

www.theguardian.com/politics/2024/apr/24/dont-rescue-people-who-scupper-their-channel-boats-says-reform-uk-deputy

Nevertrustacop · 03/05/2025 08:51

Why people so amazed that people who have no hope and no investment in society want to smash it?
That people who have little opportunity break out of poverty financial and cultural want to give their betters the do gooders who are doing them no good at all, a bloody nose? People who call others stupid and racist and gammon and thick are not capable of representing their interests. And millions of people are fucked off with it.

CappuccinoChocolate · 03/05/2025 08:52

soupyspoon · 03/05/2025 08:39

It hasnt worked educationally though has it because the biggest disadvantaged group within education is white working class boys.

I'm not sure you read my post ..

and actually the most disadvantaged group is boys from the GTRB community ...some how they don't get discussed.

How is anything going to get better where it needs to if people aren't allowed to analyse and respond to inequality happening in our society. You can't want equality and equity for just one group it has to be all and we have to be allowed to continuously iterate and be fair to everyone in society.
Eg.White working class boys deserve to go to uni too less and less of them are. There are other pathways that they are choosing ...on those pathways are they leading to equitable success for all?

If we limit university entry for only as Reform want to do what will the impact be on white working class boys. What will the impact be on girls getting on to science courses. Why? Is it our education system? Why ? None of those questions about what wrong with our education system could be answered.or won't be acted upon.

Equality and equity work helps those from disadvantaged backgrounds.

Thisismetooaswell · 03/05/2025 08:52

thepariscrimefiles · 03/05/2025 05:52

I assume that because Nigel Farage is a big supporter of Trump who says he’s ‘proudly responsible’ for the reversal of Roe v. Wade, but he’s not stopping there – he thinks ‘there has to be some form of punishment’ for women who access reproductive care and would allow states to punish doctors who provide abortions. Nigel Farage has previously said that he would like a debate on lowering the time limit for an abortion from 24 weeks.

So would I. Medical improvements mean a baby is viable earlier and 24 weeks is very late.

Nominative · 03/05/2025 08:53

Keirawr · 03/05/2025 03:34

You are not making any sense, try again.

But let’s see…

As far as being an economist goes, everyone is an economist if the Mickey Mouse chancellor who lied on her CV, plagiarized books and was accused of fiddling her expenses while working in the private sector is anything to go by. The bar is so low, that anything would be an improvement on that.

And wanting to limit immigration is not racist. You are behind the times. Squealing that people are racist for perfectly valid views is no longer enough to shame them and shut them up.

But then, you know that their immigration views stem from racism more than anything else, don't you? Otherwise why do they spread so much misinformation about immigration?

luckylavender · 03/05/2025 08:54

Katypp · 03/05/2025 07:52

I've said this on another thread, but I am afraid this is entirely on Labour.
The Tories were always going to lose out to Reform at this election, but it's the swing from Labour which has caused this massive shift.
Instead of dismissing Reform voters as stupid and uneducated, engage critical thought why they moved from Labour.
I know MNetters have a justification for everything Labour has done thus far, but in the real world, people feel they have been misled by Starmer.
Because Labour had spent the previous 14 years carping at literally everything the Tories did, people assumed they would be different and are aghast to discover they are not.
'The Tories were worse' is not really a balanced reason to justify everything Labour has done wrong nearly a year in.
MN is very left-wing and supportive of Labour generally and every thread criticising Labour always ends up with the OP being accused of being a bot or AI. Die-hard Starmer fans will justify anything the party does, but they don't seem to be able to get their head round the fact that a lot of Labour's decisions so far are absolutely not what people thought they were voting for, hence the disillusionment.
So who are the thick ones really?

You can criticise Labour all you want and they certainly have made mistakes. But it's ridiculous to think that they could undo 14 years of Tory failure in 10 months.

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