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AAAAGH Reform. Are people ignoring the racist?

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Peasnbeans · 02/05/2025 23:01

And that he's no economist skills yet promising the impossible. And a racist. And mysoginist.

If Mumsnet is full of women, how is no-one talking about Reform and limiting women's rights?
I know I'll get flamed for this, but it is a boiling frog situation! Jump out!
And I didn't choose the AIBU board but I looked down all the Current Threads and this didn't feature.

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jasflowers · 03/05/2025 07:34

bellsanddogwhistles · 03/05/2025 07:29

@jasflowers Reforms Ben Habib suggested putting them into more robust dinghies, whilst at sea and if they scupper this boat, let them drown.

So please tell me when and where he said this?

Mr Habib made his remarks in response to questions around government efforts to deter people crossing the channel in small boats.
He told Talk TV: "We could, as an idea, provide them with another dinghy into which to climb and then go back to France.
"If they choose to scupper that dinghy, then yes, they have to suffer the consequences of their actions."

You of course could easily find this out for yourself?

unn · 03/05/2025 07:35

How to frighten people who vote for Reform?

. You support Trump
. Farage is Hitler without the tache.

FruityCider · 03/05/2025 07:35

MasterBeth · 03/05/2025 07:32

People need to see multiculturalism doesn’t work and people who live amongst this are seeing it doesn’t work

London is by far Britain's most multicultural and most successful city.

I live and work in London and am surrounded by immigrants and asylum seekers every day as part of my job. We all get along fine. It's a great community. My life is currently being saved by the NHS (Something else Farage wants to dismantle) and most of my care team are immigrants. Immigration is vital.

Seymour5 · 03/05/2025 07:35

jasflowers · 03/05/2025 07:07

I'll try again, Do you think that brown people cannot be racist?

Of course they can. Anyone of any ethnicity can hold racist views.

soupyspoon · 03/05/2025 07:35

MrsEverest · 03/05/2025 06:59

You were racist as a teenager?

I think most teens do silly things with the potential to harm themselves.

A racist teen would have to work very hard as an adult to undo their previous ingrained beliefs.

Its probably not a good comparison to Farage, I dont know what he was like at school for example, but I work with a lot of children who say horrifically racist things. Some do have LD/SEN to some degree (these are not children who are open to children with disabilities teams, so not severe) and some dont.

Some Im not sure really understand some of what they're saying, some very much do because they're just picking up the difference and dont like it.

Many of those children will change hugely as they mature and develop, I wouldnt like for the ones that change to be continually referred back to their childhood

Unless you work with kids you probably dont understand the sort of things they say to each other. Often its meaningless. But society is such that one sort of slur is much worse than another and will travel with that child throughout their life.

WomensRightsRenegade · 03/05/2025 07:35

Even if ‘he’ were racist, why would that be any worse than Labour’s misogyny? Is it because racism also affects men?

SummerDaysOnTheWay · 03/05/2025 07:36

MasterBeth · 03/05/2025 07:32

People need to see multiculturalism doesn’t work and people who live amongst this are seeing it doesn’t work

London is by far Britain's most multicultural and most successful city.

Yup. Speaking as a born and bred Londoner, I’d take living in our beautiful, vibrant, multicultural city over a village full of angry, gammon faced , racist nimbys ANYDAY!

Oh, and we will all need the NHS at some point in our lives too. So I’d suggest being extremely wary of anyone who wants to dismantle it 🙄

ItsOoooon · 03/05/2025 07:37

I think they’re great. Bring it on.

they’re not racist. They just want decent border control. Are Australia and Canada racist? No. They just realise that letting anyone in is fucking stupid, and they’re a lot bigger than us.

rwalker · 03/05/2025 07:38

jasflowers · 03/05/2025 07:26

The problem here is business needs the 100s of 1000s of migrant workers each year that come here, not least in Care.

X Channel migrants make up a relatively small part of the the numbers coming here.

Reform, like Labour and the Tories before them, can say what they like but stopping people crossing the channel, since leaving the EU, which of course Farage was responsible for, is extremely difficult.

Legal and illegal immigration are 2 completely different things and need to be seen as this

100% we need immigration but we need controls

IcyPlumOtter · 03/05/2025 07:38

Syuni · 03/05/2025 07:10

Do people think Australia (which has a strong policy against illegal immigration) is racist?

Plenty of people said Australia was racist for years over its no pathways for immigration for 'illegal' boat arrivals policy. Some still do.

The BBC is covering the Australian election today; over one third of Australian citizens are born overseas, the only countries which have a higher rate of foreign born citizens are tax-havens. Around 20% of Australians are of Non-European heritage, mostly from Asia and according to the UN it has the highest rate of migrant-citizen participation in politics in the world - in voting, as candidates and as elected politicians. So immigrants are part of the political land scape and the boat policy was / is often very popular with immigrants who came legally to Australia.

bellsanddogwhistles · 03/05/2025 07:38

Datgal · 03/05/2025 07:25

Reform voters are thick as pig shit. If they honestly believe immigrants are causing all the woes in this country....
Absolutely barking. They just believe everything they read in the right wing press.

Makes me angry they can publish lies so the knuckle draggers just soak it all up.

Q.Where do you think all the "new" Reform voters are coming from?

A. From supporters of existing parties such such as the Tories and - shock ! horror ! Labour.

Must be a lot of of pig-shit thick Labour ex-labour supporters out there then 🙄

AndImBrit · 03/05/2025 07:38

Also I’m not a Reform voter, but I’ve just read their manifesto/contract again - and it is eminently sensible. Many of their policies would work a lot better than those Labour are currently imposing.

Because you don’t like Farage, doesn’t mean that the broader party doesn’t have some good ideas. And if you can’t appreciate why people want to vote for that, I actually think you are part of the problem - not the people voting Reform.

And to reiterate, I have never and will never vote Reform. I just understand that some people are desperate for any sort of change.

WomensRightsRenegade · 03/05/2025 07:39

FruityCider · 03/05/2025 07:35

I live and work in London and am surrounded by immigrants and asylum seekers every day as part of my job. We all get along fine. It's a great community. My life is currently being saved by the NHS (Something else Farage wants to dismantle) and most of my care team are immigrants. Immigration is vital.

Most of the patients in London are also immigrants. And it’s now very hard for newly qualified British nursing students (of all races) to get a job because so many foreign nurses have been imported into the NHS. It’s not all as hunky dory as you claim. Housing is another massive issue, as well as crime.

Either way most people have no problem at all with immigration. Uncontrolled mass immigration, lack of assimilation and illegal immigration are the issues. When immigration was at sensible levels integration was no problem, and the focus was on what everyone had in common. It’s the polar opposite now.

Createausername1970 · 03/05/2025 07:40

DeafLeppard · 03/05/2025 07:27

I think people do think Reform will improve public services. They don’t want to pay for disability benefits to families reaching hundreds of thousands of pounds a year, don’t want the council’s social care and SEND bills to mean there’s no money for roads, public transport, bin collection or parks. So “better public services” is very much in the eye of the beholder.

And I don’t know anyone who’s going to lose sleep over EDI coordinators losing their jobs.

As they now have control of some councils, the proof will be in the pudding!

They will either be successful and be voted back in, or they won't and be voted out.

A friend lives in Brighton who had a Green council for a while. She didn't vote Green but thought a Green council could be beneficial. In her opinion they didn't live up to people's expectations, nothing really changed apart from more cycle lanes and bus lanes, and that the bus lanes are definitely designed to be revenue generators for the Council in fines. And the Greens were gone a few years later.

Time will tell for Reform.

AndImBrit · 03/05/2025 07:40

FruityCider · 03/05/2025 07:35

I live and work in London and am surrounded by immigrants and asylum seekers every day as part of my job. We all get along fine. It's a great community. My life is currently being saved by the NHS (Something else Farage wants to dismantle) and most of my care team are immigrants. Immigration is vital.

Reform’s keystone policy - the first in their manifesto - is smarter immigration with a focus on recruiting more international healthcare workers. So you’re in support of their policies.

CaptainMyCaptain · 03/05/2025 07:41

ItsOoooon · 03/05/2025 07:37

I think they’re great. Bring it on.

they’re not racist. They just want decent border control. Are Australia and Canada racist? No. They just realise that letting anyone in is fucking stupid, and they’re a lot bigger than us.

Countries that are populated almost entirely by immigrants whose ancestors killed most of the original inhabitants? You want to use them as an example?

SummerDaysOnTheWay · 03/05/2025 07:41

ItsOoooon · 03/05/2025 07:37

I think they’re great. Bring it on.

they’re not racist. They just want decent border control. Are Australia and Canada racist? No. They just realise that letting anyone in is fucking stupid, and they’re a lot bigger than us.

I’ve not ben to Canada. But Oz its pretty racist yes.

unn · 03/05/2025 07:44

FruityCider · 03/05/2025 07:35

I live and work in London and am surrounded by immigrants and asylum seekers every day as part of my job. We all get along fine. It's a great community. My life is currently being saved by the NHS (Something else Farage wants to dismantle) and most of my care team are immigrants. Immigration is vital.

I bet most of the Reform supporters won't be able to fund their healthcare if Farage wants to ditch NHS and go to a US style health system.

I bet most just look at immigration - nowt else.

soupyspoon · 03/05/2025 07:44

rwalker · 03/05/2025 07:38

Legal and illegal immigration are 2 completely different things and need to be seen as this

100% we need immigration but we need controls

What controls do you think we dont have?

I see this all the time that people are voting this way due to uncontrolled immigration? In what way do we have uncontrolled immigration?

MeetMyCat · 03/05/2025 07:45

Moveanymountain · 03/05/2025 04:16

Because people cannot stomach 500+ “migrants” coming to the UK illegally every day but getting food, housing, health care etc while citizens pay more and more tax for poorer services.

i know this is going to come across as a racist, hateful post but we are a small island and we cannot just keep endlessly shelling out for illegals.

that’s why right wing groups are gaining all over Europe .

Yep, and this is why I voted Reform. Wanting to reduce immigration isn’t racist, the ethnicity of the people coming in is neither here nor there, it’s the sheer weight of numbers, squishing our local services.

Our local Reform candidate wants to support British sovereignty, which is probably why they got a landslide win in my area

DeafLeppard · 03/05/2025 07:45

MasterBeth · 03/05/2025 07:30

Maybe the women, disabled people, LGBTQ+ and people of colour that equality legislation has been put in place to protect i.e. most of us.

Making sure a company complies with equalities law does not need a team of people handing out rainbow lanyards and newsletters, it needs a good HR team and is well within the remit and competencies of that team. I don’t see our finance teams banging on about procurement and tax rules with pop up stands, yet that’s another piece of legislation my workplace needs to comply with.

Despite a large spend on EDI grifters, it’s made no difference to our large organsiation’s success or failure rate when it comes to dealing with discrimination claims in the workplace.

Winter2020 · 03/05/2025 07:46

bellsanddogwhistles · 03/05/2025 07:29

@jasflowers Reforms Ben Habib suggested putting them into more robust dinghies, whilst at sea and if they scupper this boat, let them drown.

So please tell me when and where he said this?

I saw an interview about this.

The interviewer kept pushing him that the immigrants would stab the boat to sink it and he said "give them another boat" and the interviewer kept on "what if they stab and sink that boat" and he said something like "eventually people need to be responsible for their actions".

He said he regretted getting drawn into the trap that the journalist goaded him into.

Dontcallmescarface · 03/05/2025 07:47

Katemax82 · 03/05/2025 07:22

I've read their manifesto and nowhere does it say about limiting women's rights

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"Replace the 2010 Equalities Act The Equalities Act requires discrimination in the name of ‘positive action’. We will scrap Diversity, Equality and Inclusion (DE&I) rules that have lowered standards and reduced economic productivity"

That, right there, would be the starting point. Or did you think scrapping DEI rules would only affect the Transgender community?

unn · 03/05/2025 07:47

I live in a city where Asians have been living there since the 1950s. Hear people who voted Brexit and Farage's parties due to them. These Asians have been in the UK for a good 15-18 years before UK entered the EEC, what the EU was called in those days.

The Asian families that have been in the UK for 70 years have 3-4 generations born in the UK.

Hate pig ignorant racist people.

MasterBeth · 03/05/2025 07:49

MeetMyCat · 03/05/2025 07:45

Yep, and this is why I voted Reform. Wanting to reduce immigration isn’t racist, the ethnicity of the people coming in is neither here nor there, it’s the sheer weight of numbers, squishing our local services.

Our local Reform candidate wants to support British sovereignty, which is probably why they got a landslide win in my area

We have sovereignty. We are a free independent nation. We make our own laws. We have our own money. We choose our own migration policies. Your local Reform candidate sounds ignorant.

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