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AAAAGH Reform. Are people ignoring the racist?

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Peasnbeans · 02/05/2025 23:01

And that he's no economist skills yet promising the impossible. And a racist. And mysoginist.

If Mumsnet is full of women, how is no-one talking about Reform and limiting women's rights?
I know I'll get flamed for this, but it is a boiling frog situation! Jump out!
And I didn't choose the AIBU board but I looked down all the Current Threads and this didn't feature.

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TheCatsTongue · 03/05/2025 09:12

The only party I'm aware that said anything about women's rights in these elections were the Green Party who said that they want to remove all single-sex protections.

SatsumaDog · 03/05/2025 09:12

It doesn’t surprise me that more people have voted Reform. When you back people into a corner, they will vote for the only alternative as they see it. Many feel they aren’t being listened to, by the Conservatives in the past or by Labour now. They are panicking and voting Reform because they think they are listening to people’s concerns and will take action. Shouting them down and calling them racist does nothing to remedy the situation. It just makes them feel more determined to force change the only way they see possible.

OutandAboutMum1821 · 03/05/2025 09:13

So all of my extended family are die hard Labour voters, always have been. My Step-Dad was even a Labour councillor, so all I knew growing up was my family supporting his own campaign. Massive Tony Blair fans, etc.

However, even my Mum and sister, who will never have any criticism of Labour, are absolutely disgusted by their recent moves re. the winter fuel allowance and disabled people. They can’t get their heads around it, ‘no, these are not Labour policies’. My Mum is proudly working class, and absolutely expects Labour to fund our public services and basically make life more pleasant for poor people and go after the super rich.

I haven’t caught up with yet about how they voted, but should they defect to Reform now/in the future then that would really show up how for me how badly Labour have let them down.

bellsanddogwhistles · 03/05/2025 09:13

MasterBeth · 03/05/2025 09:03

You don't seem to understand the basics of economics or migration policy. Most migrants come to work. Workers pay taxes. Taxes fund services. People are the drivers of successful economies, not a drain on them.

Around 40% of migrants coming to the UK cite work as their primary reason for migration. This means that, on average, one in four people migrating to the UK for at least a year has a primary reason related to employment.

So what are the other 60% doing ??

localnotail · 03/05/2025 09:13

Reform might "limit immigration" by doing something horrendous like letting people drown in the channel - they are definitely would not look at making the process more efficient to make sure the process of assessing people is quicker and that there is no need for hotels and barges full of desperate people who are not allowed to work.

Re: "they cant be racist as they have brown people in position of power" - erm, Suella Braverman anyone? One of the most racists fuckers in the last Tory government, so what is it about her that I think makes this argument nil and void?...

And no, Reform would do fuck all for ordinary people. They will pocket all the money, reduce the services, privatise the NHS and make sure you have zero rights - maybe have a look at sick leave, maternity pay and worker's right in the US. This is what will happen here is we disengage completely from EU regulations and follow the route Farage is so eager for us to go on.

Also, please tell mw what Farage has done for his constituency. He doesn't even live in UK, and most of the time he is in the US cosying up to Trump. Real man of the poeple, he is.

SoftlyWatchObserve · 03/05/2025 09:13

randomchap · 03/05/2025 00:13

They're just another populist party, promoting simple solutions to complex problems. Solutions that won't actually work.

They have realised that there is a significant proportion of the UK population who have failed at life. People with poor education, dead end jobs, and limited means.

They are aggressively targeting these people, telling them that it's not their fault. It's the immigrants, the woke, the lgbtq, who are the cause of their misfortune.

With the fptp system, if you can get these people to vote for you then you may be able to get power.

The cynical part of me thinks that they will be delighted to get so many councils under Reform control. Not so that they can try to improve people's lives, but so that they can do massive damage. Damage that they can say is the fault of the Labour government.

In my area one of their candidates promised to fix all potholes, and go back to weekly bin collections. When they fail in this, they will simply blame central government, and tell their acolytes that voting in Reform in the GE will fix it. It's obvious but very hard to counter.

Delightful. I’ve had a reasonable education, can’t seem to get out of a poorly paid job, and have limited means.
I am in the North. Thanks

bellsanddogwhistles · 03/05/2025 09:17

@lljkk "Do we want France to have right to pick them up & take them to UK shores?
Think !!"

That happens already !

Boomer55 · 03/05/2025 09:23

Moveanymountain · 03/05/2025 04:16

Because people cannot stomach 500+ “migrants” coming to the UK illegally every day but getting food, housing, health care etc while citizens pay more and more tax for poorer services.

i know this is going to come across as a racist, hateful post but we are a small island and we cannot just keep endlessly shelling out for illegals.

that’s why right wing groups are gaining all over Europe .

This. 👍. Screaming racist, and ignoring the current reality doesn’t change a thing. 🤷‍♀️

Mere1 · 03/05/2025 09:24

INeedAnotherName · 02/05/2025 23:11

I have no idea what/who you are talking about. I know certain areas have had local elections but mine hasn't, so can you expand your post a little?

The news was full of information days before Thursday’s election, on Thursday and the day you were writing this.

Bollindger · 03/05/2025 09:24

I don't think I ever remember the UK being so off kilter. I read my friends post on Facebook and they are spouting all the same things as I have read on this thread.
Don't you all think there is a reason people are upset, no party seems able to sort the mess and don't blaim Brexit, this is about our country not being run for the people, but just reacting instead of planning.
Well it does mean at the next Election there will have to be a manor redirection for the good of the country...

marshmallowmix · 03/05/2025 09:24

So far Labour have alienated OAP’s, farmers and business with their NI hikes…Starmer has all the appeal of a used tea bag he ain’t cutting it.

Plus their two tier policing…it’s disgraceful…

At the end of the day you can’t polish a turd and that is what this Labour government are.

Labour won’t even acknowledge their mistakes the winter fuel allowance was a catastrophic error by Labour…

Starmer won’t meet Farage head on as Farage would wipe the floor with him.

Watching the news and the elections is the main topic people are sick to the back teeth of how things are being run …hence Reform are now the main opposition party …

bellsanddogwhistles · 03/05/2025 09:25

Winter2020 · 03/05/2025 07:46

I saw an interview about this.

The interviewer kept pushing him that the immigrants would stab the boat to sink it and he said "give them another boat" and the interviewer kept on "what if they stab and sink that boat" and he said something like "eventually people need to be responsible for their actions".

He said he regretted getting drawn into the trap that the journalist goaded him into.

I didn't see that interview.

However, as Ben Habib says people do have agency. If people choose to commit suicide then why should our mariners risk their lives?

The French have tried to rescue people from sinking dingies but the migrants have refused. They say they want to wait for Border Force. When the French try to take them on-board they threaten to throw the children overboard.
They have been told to do this by the traffickers.

You'll notice that there is always at least one women & child on each dingy.

Lighteningstrikes · 03/05/2025 09:26

Keirawr · 03/05/2025 03:34

You are not making any sense, try again.

But let’s see…

As far as being an economist goes, everyone is an economist if the Mickey Mouse chancellor who lied on her CV, plagiarized books and was accused of fiddling her expenses while working in the private sector is anything to go by. The bar is so low, that anything would be an improvement on that.

And wanting to limit immigration is not racist. You are behind the times. Squealing that people are racist for perfectly valid views is no longer enough to shame them and shut them up.

This in spades.

Auroraloves · 03/05/2025 09:28

BlondiePortz · 03/05/2025 04:22

So basically people are scared their benefits are being taken of them, never mind funding themselves they want the government to do it for them

it’s not about benefits. It’s about diluting down what we are receiving for our tax money. I work for the nhs, waiting lists are ridiculous, people can’t access the care they need.

rockstarshoes · 03/05/2025 09:28

I’ll just leave this here!

AAAAGH Reform. Are people ignoring the racist?
JackJarvisEsq · 03/05/2025 09:29

Having power at local level will allow them to take the SNP stance of success = their policies and work but failure = big bad Westminster

OneAmberFinch · 03/05/2025 09:30

CaptainMyCaptain · 03/05/2025 09:02

Totally. If people are given housing, education, medical care and benefits or a job they are not 'illegal' they have been granted asylum. Those not yet granted asylum are living in poor conditions in hostels with a minumum of cash for necessities. On my council and local newspaper Facebook pages any information about new housing developments is greeted with 'Oh that will be for the illegals coming on boats' - if they really believe that people arrive on the beach and are immediately given a 5 bedroom detached house then they are stupid, there is no other word for it. If it's a town centre development of apartments made out of unused offices then maybe some who have claimed asylum will get to live there but by this time they will not be illegal immigrants. calling human beings 'illegals' is disgusting phraseology anyway.

People talk past one another on this issue and use terms in colloquial ways.

I walked through a beautiful housing development the other day in a very posh area of London that I could never in a million years afford despite having a HHI of £250k+. Clean, safe, amazing facilities, private gated gardens etc.

It was the middle of a weekday and I saw a woman, maybe Somali? in a hijab, carrying in Aldi bags and talking to her son? aged in his 20s/30s? who was sitting on the steps.

Now maybe this woman's husband was a hedge fund manager and they paid for that house with his bonuses but let's be honest, it was a new development and this was almost certainly a social housing case.

I don't know anything about their situation. They could be recent refugees, immigrants from a few years ago, heck they could be second generation and born here. But either way my taxes are going to give them this life which is way beyond charity and is a luxury I can't afford for me and my children, and the only reason their family is in the country at all is because of immigration from at some point in the last 10/20/50 years.

Now I don't post on Facebook. I'm an immigrant myself, on a skilled worker visa. But how is it hard to understand that it's not a myth that a lot of resources DO go to support immigrants, and that the UK's current system is very bad at selecting for immigrants who will be self-supporting, and that people can use the evidence of their own eyes to see it?

Sophistry about definitions of "illegals" is irrelevant when the question isn't "are these people technically here via a legal route" but "should that route exist?"

bellsanddogwhistles · 03/05/2025 09:30

@localnotail Also, please tell mw what Farage has done for his constituency

His voting record is here ;

https://members.parliament.uk/member/5091/voting

TranceNation · 03/05/2025 09:31

It seems you are either a woke or a racist in these politics debates. Hence why I haven't voted in the last two or three elections. Politics just brings out the worst in everyone. I want nothing to do with it, but it is quite amusing watching you lot lock horns every now and then.

springbirdss · 03/05/2025 09:32

MrsMappFlint · 03/05/2025 08:56

But is that because more and more people are using the health system?

It's a bit of a silly argument isn't it: over the past few years, immigration has soared-that means more people use the NHS-that means more workers-some of them immigrants-now work in the NHS in order to service the growing number of immigrants who use it.

If we didn't have as much immigration, we wouldn't need to employ as many immigrants in the NHS.

It's not rocket science, even for the achingly right on to understand-although maybe it is as it seems you can feed them any old shite about how progressive and intelligent they are and how everyone who disagrees with them is stupid. They swallow it down happily, enjoying the afterglow!

I vote Reform. I'm not ashamed of it.

Shame was the big false barrier that people were made to feel for even admitting this. Now it seems that barrier has fallen, although the hard of thinking on the far left still forlornly try to push this idea.

Yesterday shows that no-one need feel ashamed of supporting Reform and that will make a bloody big difference. Indeed, it already has. Hoo-fucking-ray!

UK immigration laws are extremely strict. You cannot stay here or work here (or use the health system) unless you have a valid visa or are granted asylum. Less than half of asylum seekers are granted asylum in the UK. Illegal immigrants CANNOT access welfare services or NHS treatment.

So that means only people living here legitimately (and contributing to the economy) are using the NHS. I don't understand what the issue is? These people are paying taxes and NI, just like you.

The UK's population is ageing. Migrant workers help to boost our working-age population and support public services. Removing them would literally be a disaster for us.

When you look at UK immigration statistics, maybe bare in mind that one of the top three countries people are coming from is Australia. Somehow I bet it's not them you have an issue with.

OutandAboutMum1821 · 03/05/2025 09:33

TranceNation · 03/05/2025 09:31

It seems you are either a woke or a racist in these politics debates. Hence why I haven't voted in the last two or three elections. Politics just brings out the worst in everyone. I want nothing to do with it, but it is quite amusing watching you lot lock horns every now and then.

My DH couldn’t agree more. He has completely opted out of voting at all, he thinks all politicians are a bunch of liars, and morally people he would want nothing to do with IRL.

Do you ever think it is a worry though if increasing numbers do entirely opt out? It’s certainly up to the individual, I just worry that people like you and my DH still have the same right to heard…

localnotail · 03/05/2025 09:33

bellsanddogwhistles · 03/05/2025 09:30

@localnotail Also, please tell mw what Farage has done for his constituency

His voting record is here ;

https://members.parliament.uk/member/5091/voting

This is him sitting in London voting on various issues, which is his job and what he is being paid for. How many times he met people in his constituency and how many local MP surgeries he attended?

Dontletthebedbugsbite2 · 03/05/2025 09:34

I think it's very clear that people have had enough of immigration & none of the other parties are willing to be open and tackle it. I feel desperately sorry for the people risking their lives to get here, but it is unsustainable for us. The pressures on this country are immense, and it's also not helping them settle here when they surely must feel so unwanted. I think it's easy to sit in a nice MC area where you are unaffected by housing shortages and 500 people in a hotel next to you hanging around all day with literally nothing to do and think people are all terrible racists. The reality is the UK is currently a boiling pot where in some areas people are really angry. Some of our own customs and traditions are being erased in the name of being accepting and kind. Do people honestly think if we turned up in the middle east seeking asylum we would be welcomed in, given free health care, housed & given food and money. Absolutely not. People are fed up of being told we just have to accept that we need to help everyone, all the time, to our own detriment.

MojoMoon · 03/05/2025 09:35

OneAmberFinch · 03/05/2025 09:30

People talk past one another on this issue and use terms in colloquial ways.

I walked through a beautiful housing development the other day in a very posh area of London that I could never in a million years afford despite having a HHI of £250k+. Clean, safe, amazing facilities, private gated gardens etc.

It was the middle of a weekday and I saw a woman, maybe Somali? in a hijab, carrying in Aldi bags and talking to her son? aged in his 20s/30s? who was sitting on the steps.

Now maybe this woman's husband was a hedge fund manager and they paid for that house with his bonuses but let's be honest, it was a new development and this was almost certainly a social housing case.

I don't know anything about their situation. They could be recent refugees, immigrants from a few years ago, heck they could be second generation and born here. But either way my taxes are going to give them this life which is way beyond charity and is a luxury I can't afford for me and my children, and the only reason their family is in the country at all is because of immigration from at some point in the last 10/20/50 years.

Now I don't post on Facebook. I'm an immigrant myself, on a skilled worker visa. But how is it hard to understand that it's not a myth that a lot of resources DO go to support immigrants, and that the UK's current system is very bad at selecting for immigrants who will be self-supporting, and that people can use the evidence of their own eyes to see it?

Sophistry about definitions of "illegals" is irrelevant when the question isn't "are these people technically here via a legal route" but "should that route exist?"

Go on then, name the development and it will be very easy to confirm if this really was luxury social housing or not.

OneMintWasp · 03/05/2025 09:35

I actually think it may be a good thing (read on before you judge!). They've got in in my county council and I'm hoping it will be a wake up call to both people like myself who forgot to vote this time until 10 minutes after closing time and other parties who realise they do need to seriously regain trust in their people if they stand a chance of staying in. We need more dynamic and trustworthy policitical parties and of we want to make sure Reform don't win a general election we must make sure we make our vote count.

Reform are going to do an awful job in my county, not just in terms of their political views but in terms of the depth of their policies and their lack of administrative skills. They intend to do a Trump and cut anything they don't like. I think they will prove their incompetence well before the next general election.

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