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Silliest place you’ve seen a dog owner take their dog

539 replies

Soddingcat · 21/04/2025 07:51

To ask where the silliest / most inappropriate place you’ve seen a dog taken by the owner

Inspired by recent posts complaining about dogs being everywhere in cafes etc

Yesterday in our local Cathedral Easter service , a dog was taken up to the altar for communion with its owners. I’ve seen it all now 😃
I was unfortunately unable to see if they attempted to snaffle a bit of bread for the dog , but it honestly wouldn’t have surprised me
Just why ?

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Whistonia · 21/04/2025 09:29

Sisuu · 21/04/2025 09:06

I’ve never seen any ‘anti trans’ (isn’t the word du jour ‘transphobic’?) people on MN.

Seen lots of pro women people though.

Who knew?

Unfortunately I have.

SnoozingFox · 21/04/2025 09:30

we were recently at St Fagans open air museum near Cardiff, there was a woman who had taken a break in the big building at the entrance and had lifted her two muddy dogs up onto the sofas with her. Just ridiculous.

Isobel201 · 21/04/2025 09:30

JasmineAllen · 21/04/2025 08:49

John Lewis and it wasn't any sort of support dog either.

John Lewis do allow pet dogs in.
We have had dogs for years before lockdown, and when I read stories on the 'anti dog' threads, we are obviously in the minority group of well behaved dogs and owners who take responsibility. We leave the dog at home when going to supermarkets, and even clothes shops because we know he'll be bored and whiny. If we do find ourselves out with him somewhere and we need a drink, then we'll find a suitable cafe that allows dogs. And Ted just sits down quietly without any problems.

MrsSkylerWhite · 21/04/2025 09:31

EveryFlavourJellyBeans · 21/04/2025 08:12

Any clothes shop really. They all look really stressed being in there and it's completely unnecessary. I expect the poor things would much prefer the park.

Ditto little kids strapped into pushchairs 😁

Tootiredtowhat · 21/04/2025 09:32

MrsSkylerWhite · 21/04/2025 09:31

Ditto little kids strapped into pushchairs 😁

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ToffeeRabbit · 21/04/2025 09:33

Soft play!

dEdiCatEdFeliNeEntHusiAst · 21/04/2025 09:33

LuvACustardCream · 21/04/2025 08:18

Why is mumsnet suddenly anti dog?

This ^

Wahl111 · 21/04/2025 09:33

Peripeteia · 21/04/2025 09:27

@Wahl111 but again it’s common courtesy and consideration of other people. Don’t let your children wander and wipe their germs over restaurant/cafe tables where others have to sit and eat and don’t let your dog sit at it and lick crumbs off it either.

Have seen an awful lot more anti social behaviour from children than dogs in cafes.

Dumbdog · 21/04/2025 09:34

waltzingparrot · 21/04/2025 08:52

Saw a dog on the Tube the other day. Didn't think they'd be allowed. Woman had it in a large bag on her knee. It was quite a long journey too and of course I spent the whole journey wondering where it would go to the loo if caught short and who would have to clean it up.

My dog hates the tube but sometimes it’s unavoidable. You see loads of dogs on all parts of London’s public transport. Why would it need the loo? They can go several hours without needing it.

I did see a dog throw up in a station once. Poor owner was cleaning it up but the station staff told her to leave it and they got the cleaners in. I guess it’s no different to a sick child or drunk adult.

Sisuu · 21/04/2025 09:35

Dumbdog · 21/04/2025 09:25

I have, lots of times.

Where? Can you give a screen shot please?

DontJumpInTheFountain · 21/04/2025 09:36

WowIlikereallyhateyou · 21/04/2025 09:18

I didn’t say that. I said in a roundabout way that there may have been a reason why. Most parents want to take their kids to open days and sometimes things don’t go to plan, and it is better to take the dog than leave it for a long period of time. Or maybe your life always runs perfectly?!

My life never runs perfectly (I can but dream). Apologies if I came across as snippy.

I suppose what I was trying to say was that I think the balance has shifted. When we had a dog there were things we didn't do because we had a dog. In your example either one of us would have stayed at home or we'd have arranged for a dogsitter, not least because going to an open day involves touring departments and/or attending talks and we'd have wanted to focus on that rather than faffing about with the dog.

I feel that people use the fact that a dog cannot be left as justification to take them everywhere rather than adjusting what they can or cannot do. And I think that in some cases that results in dogs being in places that aren't appropriate for them.

finaldestination55 · 21/04/2025 09:36

LuvACustardCream · 21/04/2025 08:18

Why is mumsnet suddenly anti dog?

I don’t get it either 🤷‍♀️

rosemarble · 21/04/2025 09:37

Rastyopolis · 21/04/2025 09:19

@Pandacrazedchild I know they’re a dog friendly shop, but a lot of owners don’t consider if there dog is department store friendly.

I don't appreciate having my hand licked by a dog in John Lewis.
Can someone explain why people need (or want) to take their dogs around large department stores?

Swanchaser · 21/04/2025 09:37

My (reasonably well behaved) dog loved a walk round our local homebase until it closed recently. - partly because she knew the checkout staff had dog treats by the tills! It was a good way to develop her social skills around people as she looked forward to a reward at the end.

Sisuu · 21/04/2025 09:39

Peripeteia · 21/04/2025 09:27

@Wahl111 but again it’s common courtesy and consideration of other people. Don’t let your children wander and wipe their germs over restaurant/cafe tables where others have to sit and eat and don’t let your dog sit at it and lick crumbs off it either.

And don’t change your babies’ nappy on a cafe table. 🤮 I’ve been there and almost vomited. Was a big family who were intimidating so I just left.

It seems that what we’re concluding is that adults are the issue. Be they terrible owners of dogs, or bad parents. It always comes back to this.

Peripeteia · 21/04/2025 09:40

Wahl111 · 21/04/2025 09:33

Have seen an awful lot more anti social behaviour from children than dogs in cafes.

And I don’t necessarily disagree. Considering others is important whatever we’re doing and whoever we’re with. Nobody likes antisocial behaviour whatever form it takes.

But as this is a thread about dogs, the point I made was about that.

OlympicWomen · 21/04/2025 09:40

Dumbdog · 21/04/2025 09:29

They’re standing there saying good morning and most of them love the regular dogs. I’ve never asked them to look after my dog - but often they’ll say ‘I’ll keep an eye on him’ unbidden.

They would only have anything to do if someone tried to steal the dog, which seems very unlikely.

We used to be allowed to bring them in, but as usual the bad owners ruined it by having poorly trained dogs and letting them wee everywhere and bark at small kids.

There are 2 school dogs, so it’s overall very pet friendly.

Ok. I just always baulk at so many parents asking teachers to do them extra favours and extra bits of responsibility,. Just bear in mind it's hard for a teacher to say no in those circumstances.
However, if you're saying it's fine, then it must be.

Wahl111 · 21/04/2025 09:41

finaldestination55 · 21/04/2025 09:36

I don’t get it either 🤷‍♀️

The frothers like something to hate 🤷‍♀️

Sisuu · 21/04/2025 09:41

Wahl111 · 21/04/2025 09:33

Have seen an awful lot more anti social behaviour from children than dogs in cafes.

*and adults

Sgreenpy · 21/04/2025 09:42

chakrakkhan · 21/04/2025 08:19

Off topic sort of - Our local cathedral does a service for pets once a year OP! It’s an actually lovely. Someone bought a mini pony once. And they have a donkey and sheep at the crib service on Xmas eve.

My local church also has an animal service every year.

mindutopia · 21/04/2025 09:42

I once met a woman on a walk who had her dog in the same sling as I had my baby in. 😂 Like literally, we were matchy-matchy except she was carrying around a dog. I tried really hard not to laugh a lot.

rosemarble · 21/04/2025 09:43

finaldestination55 · 21/04/2025 09:36

I don’t get it either 🤷‍♀️

For me it's because some dogs impact my life in a negative way. They never used to or at least not so often.

Out running, selfish owners not keeping their dogs in leads and then telling me the dog 'just wants to play' or if I stopped running the dog would stop chasing me.

My young son being told that the dog would stop chasing his football if he stopped playing with it - on a park with signs that say dogs on leads only.

Having to swerve around unhappy dogs who've been tied up outside shops.

Being licked in a city centre department store.

MOST dog owners are not twats, but there way more entitled, selfish owners than there used to be. I choose not to have a dog and don't wish other people to impose their own on me as I go about my day.

OlympicWomen · 21/04/2025 09:43

Also, why dismiss people as "frothers"? Maybe discuss the concerns.

Sisuu · 21/04/2025 09:44

Whistonia · 21/04/2025 09:29

Unfortunately I have.

Can you screen shot an example please?

OlympicWomen · 21/04/2025 09:45

@rosemarble I think that's the point. Your dog's behaviour shouldn't negatively impact someone else.