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Silliest place you’ve seen a dog owner take their dog

539 replies

Soddingcat · 21/04/2025 07:51

To ask where the silliest / most inappropriate place you’ve seen a dog taken by the owner

Inspired by recent posts complaining about dogs being everywhere in cafes etc

Yesterday in our local Cathedral Easter service , a dog was taken up to the altar for communion with its owners. I’ve seen it all now 😃
I was unfortunately unable to see if they attempted to snaffle a bit of bread for the dog , but it honestly wouldn’t have surprised me
Just why ?

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Rastyopolis · 21/04/2025 09:19

Pandacrazedchild · 21/04/2025 09:16

John Lewis are a dog friendly shop though, so if you don't like it don't go.

@Pandacrazedchild I know they’re a dog friendly shop, but a lot of owners don’t consider if there dog is department store friendly.

SummerIce · 21/04/2025 09:19

LuvACustardCream · 21/04/2025 08:18

Why is mumsnet suddenly anti dog?

MN is not suddenly anti dog. Any anti dog sentiment correlates with the sudden rise in dogs everywhere. There is no need for dogs to be in restaurants, clothing stores and supermarkets.

Wahl111 · 21/04/2025 09:20

Peripeteia · 21/04/2025 09:16

I don’t think this thread is anti dog at all (or the one the other day about dogs in cafes). I adore dogs and have had them all my life. I used to be delighted to find a dog-friendly cafe or pub where I could sit with them after a walk but since lockdown and the rise in dog-ownership, there is also a rise in the level of entitlement of some thinking they should be able to take their dogs everywhere.

Most places including shops, restaurants, attractions etc have always limited entry to service-dogs only for many sensible reasons - hygiene, allergies, comfort of everyone etc.

These rules are now being disregarded by some (not all) incompetent and selfish dog owners. I saw a dog sitting at a cafe table the other day licking crumbs off it. That is disgusting by anyone’s standards and how any dog owner can think that’s acceptable I don’t know.

It’s just about common courtesy to others and considering carefully what’s appropriate and also fair to the dog.

It’s not owners disregarding rules some cafe encourage dogs for the extra business. If you don’t like it there are plenty of dog free cafes to choose. I don’t like children being left to roam and wipe their germs over tables in cafes so I choose places they are unlikely to go to. Establishment owners make the decisions as to the clientele they allow not entitled dog haters.

Dumbdog · 21/04/2025 09:20

TheNightingalesStarling · 21/04/2025 08:27

People are anti badly trained dogs and owners.

Worst I've seen is taking them on the school run despite being asked not to. And then tying a distressed dog up outside the gates.

But for those of us who walk to school (especially through parks) it’s an efficient way of getting the dog walked before work. At our school, teachers are at the gates, and happy to keep an eye on any dogs tied up to make sure they don’t get stolen whilst you nip in and see the kids away.

OlympicWomen · 21/04/2025 09:21

In a field of sheep with young lambs. Big notices asking people "please keep your dog on a lead" completely ignored.
Why?
I genuinely don't get it.

Tootiredtowhat · 21/04/2025 09:21

January2015 · 21/04/2025 08:07

To a funeral.

Really you think this is unusual? I’ve taken ponies, dogs, and an alpaca to funerals at the wishes of their owners.

Tootiredtowhat · 21/04/2025 09:22

SummerIce · 21/04/2025 09:19

MN is not suddenly anti dog. Any anti dog sentiment correlates with the sudden rise in dogs everywhere. There is no need for dogs to be in restaurants, clothing stores and supermarkets.

Business owners disagree, which is why they allow it.

FeelingLessTired · 21/04/2025 09:22

HangingOver · 21/04/2025 08:07

Our solicitors let us bring ours in the sign our wills! He was a brand new rescue at the time and didn't handle been left alone so we were going to wait outside in turn but they said bring him in and made a huge fuss of him. When the solicitor reads out the bit about who gets the dog if we both die in a fireball he even looked at DDog as of to check he was okay with it.

I like that story. Smile

My last two workplaces we had staff members dogs come in (always senior staff though- no dogs belonging to the lowly).

In my past workplace the dog- a lovely soft lab bit another staff member and that was that. The job role of the staff member who was bitten? Safeguarding officer.

NotMyRealAccount · 21/04/2025 09:23

I wish I could claim to have seen a dog on the Inaccessible Pinnacle on Skye with my own eyes, but I'd be fibbing. There are credible reports out there, though.

OlympicWomen · 21/04/2025 09:23

SummerIce · 21/04/2025 09:19

MN is not suddenly anti dog. Any anti dog sentiment correlates with the sudden rise in dogs everywhere. There is no need for dogs to be in restaurants, clothing stores and supermarkets.

Yes. That's really the issue. It's a recent thing to have dogs in cafes, shops etc. the numbers and situations have increased. A well behaved dog is no problem, but sadly many are not, and it just seems amplified with numbers.

Mylovelygreendress · 21/04/2025 09:23

The hairdresser a couple of weeks ago . Dog barked every time a hairdryer started !

DBSFstupid · 21/04/2025 09:24

HelenaWaiting · 21/04/2025 08:28

It's nice that they treat us to standard dog owner baiting thread from time to time. Saves us doing a welfare check.

😂Hilarious!

foreverbasil · 21/04/2025 09:25

Off lead in open fields when it’s very obviously lambing season 🙄

O2HaveALittleHouse · 21/04/2025 09:25

SuchGreatFun · 21/04/2025 08:26

University open days.

Only the ones with a reputation for being posh in my experience. The dog count at Exeter was very high (mostly spaniels, poodle mixes and labradors), and absolutely none at London universities.

OlympicWomen · 21/04/2025 09:25

Dumbdog · 21/04/2025 09:20

But for those of us who walk to school (especially through parks) it’s an efficient way of getting the dog walked before work. At our school, teachers are at the gates, and happy to keep an eye on any dogs tied up to make sure they don’t get stolen whilst you nip in and see the kids away.

That's fine to an extent, but I do think it's a bit cheeky to give a busy teacher an extra bit of responsibility.

Dumbdog · 21/04/2025 09:25

Potnoodly · 21/04/2025 08:46

I haven’t seen that on here though. Which is what the op referred to

I have, lots of times.

OlympicWomen · 21/04/2025 09:25

foreverbasil · 21/04/2025 09:25

Off lead in open fields when it’s very obviously lambing season 🙄

Yes, I just said that upthread, and I found it absolutely astonishing.

OMGitsnotgood · 21/04/2025 09:26

We have a monthly market in our town centre. It is always really busy and difficult to get past people. So many people take their dogs and I am always really nervous that I am going to step on some paws, especially the little ones you can’t see easily. I’m not a dog owner but love dogs and can’t understand why you would risk your pet being trodden on in crowds?

Charlize43 · 21/04/2025 09:26

When I was growing up in the 70s that was much more awareness that dog poo can cause blindness in children and therefore dog access was restricted.

That all seems to have gone out the window and you often see smelly dogs lifted up onto the seats on the tube, leaving their hairs all over the upholstery and whatever else...

These type of inconsiderate dog owners seem to be completely oblivious to the fact that some people might have allergies to dogs; that you might not want dog hairs and doggy stink (they are quite smelly animals) all over your clothes...

OlympicWomen · 21/04/2025 09:26

Mylovelygreendress · 21/04/2025 09:23

The hairdresser a couple of weeks ago . Dog barked every time a hairdryer started !

Poor dog. Surely they can't be happy being treated as quasi humans? Isn't it stressful for them?

Peripeteia · 21/04/2025 09:27

@Wahl111 but again it’s common courtesy and consideration of other people. Don’t let your children wander and wipe their germs over restaurant/cafe tables where others have to sit and eat and don’t let your dog sit at it and lick crumbs off it either.

Dumbdog · 21/04/2025 09:29

OlympicWomen · 21/04/2025 09:25

That's fine to an extent, but I do think it's a bit cheeky to give a busy teacher an extra bit of responsibility.

They’re standing there saying good morning and most of them love the regular dogs. I’ve never asked them to look after my dog - but often they’ll say ‘I’ll keep an eye on him’ unbidden.

They would only have anything to do if someone tried to steal the dog, which seems very unlikely.

We used to be allowed to bring them in, but as usual the bad owners ruined it by having poorly trained dogs and letting them wee everywhere and bark at small kids.

There are 2 school dogs, so it’s overall very pet friendly.

handsdownthebest · 21/04/2025 09:29

Selfridges. I look forward to seeing one cocking a leg up against a bit of Chanel.
Bloody pooches about every where these days.

Nettleteaser101 · 21/04/2025 09:29

Coffeeishot · 21/04/2025 08:55

Dog coming out of a changing room of a Fatface in Cornwall! It didn't bother me just surprised me,

Everyone in Cornwall has a dog. I saw a women quite upset there once when she was told ahe couldn't take her dog in Morrisons.

OlympicWomen · 21/04/2025 09:29

Peripeteia · 21/04/2025 09:27

@Wahl111 but again it’s common courtesy and consideration of other people. Don’t let your children wander and wipe their germs over restaurant/cafe tables where others have to sit and eat and don’t let your dog sit at it and lick crumbs off it either.

Absolutely. Why is everything polarised. Concern isn't "hate". Plus why always the comparison with children? We live in a very highly populated nation. It's best to consider how we act in public spaces.