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Trans protest- sharing for balance

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Tandora · 20/04/2025 11:47

There’s a thread sharing some really awful images from the protest, so I wanted to share some positive ones for the sake of some perspective/ balance.
A lot of people are really understandably incredibly angry and overwhelmed by the events of the last few days. But most people who support trans rights absolutely don’t condone fighting oppression and injustice with misogyny.

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Riaanna · 20/04/2025 14:28

Tandora · 20/04/2025 14:25

It erases / denies their existence as a trans person. A society that organises itself around this belief (an transwoman is a man) and enforces it , is a society in which it is impossible for a trans person to live as a trans person.

Trans people exist. Trans women exist. They exist like an anorexic. I’m denying an anorexic is fat. I’m not denying they exist.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 20/04/2025 14:29

Love the “balance” of posters calling women misogynistic slurs for objecting to male threats of violence.

All great sunlight, do carry on. 🌞

andtheworldrollson · 20/04/2025 14:30

So transowmen have always existed but they can’t exist in a society that is arranged around the biological definition of man and woman - so they have never existed until now ?

BePlumRaven · 20/04/2025 14:30

Photos to share on balance would be signs demanding their own sports category, own toilets, own wards within prisons (such as a trans woman ward within men’s prisons).
I suspect there are no such photos.

DrPrunesqualer · 20/04/2025 14:30

aylis · 20/04/2025 14:28

Now apply to women.

Ooo @aylis I think that might be too tricky !

andtheworldrollson · 20/04/2025 14:30

Any update on the meaning of the word woman yet?

Allergictoironing · 20/04/2025 14:31

Tandora · 20/04/2025 14:25

It erases / denies their existence as a trans person. A society that organises itself around this belief (an transwoman is a man) and enforces it , is a society in which it is impossible for a trans person to live as a trans person.

I happily accept that a trans person is a trans person, that isn't erasing them at all. However as long as there are things that are split by binary functions rather than allowing for this third "state" of "trans", then there needs to be one thing to divide them. And in this case, as clarifies by the Courts, it's biology. If you can think of a more black and white definition then many of us are all agog to hear what it is.

ThisFluentBiscuit · 20/04/2025 14:31

aylis · 20/04/2025 13:20

Even if they have gone through all that, they didn't just start using women's spaces at that point did they? They have been breaching boundaries well before that stage. They are still male, unilaterally deciding that they are more important than women.

I don't know when TW are likely to start using female changing rooms. But if they were using them post-hormone therapy and social transition (like growing hair long, wearing makeup and female clothing) but before surgery, and same after surgery, then they were never a threat, right?

If men want to attack women, most of them don't choose to dress up as women and access female spaces in daytime. They stay as men and attack women walking in the dark alone.

VickyEadieofThigh · 20/04/2025 14:31

Alondra · 20/04/2025 14:22

Yeah, because they have breast tissue and massive doses of estrogen. It's self inflicted.

Absolute nonsense. A dear male friend - who had taken zero oestrogen and wasn't remotely trans - goy breast cancer and died from it. Please stick to facts.

Scentbird · 20/04/2025 14:31

Tandora · 20/04/2025 14:14

Trans women are women. Are they exactly the same in all aspects as cis women? No. Are there circumstances in which it might be legitimate to treat these groups differently due to physical (or potentially other ) differences ? Yes.
In so far as this is all the judgement said then I don’t object to the judgement.

But the way that the judgement has been interpreted as mandating the exclusion of trans women - and anyone who doesn’t conform to some unspecified definition of “biological female” - from all women’s spaces- is a dangerous new variety of fascism.

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So you accept transwomen are different to women.

So not women. So you don’t disagree with the clarification made the SC then? And must disagree with the protests? So where’s all the distress that women aren’t causing transwomen coming from?

Are you suggesting the protests happened because some trans women don’t like the way women have interpreted the ruling?

really? There aren’t protesting the ruling itself? Are you sure?

A whole protest because some women have interpreted a ruling in a way they don’t like. Seems like an over reaction.

BreatheAndFocus · 20/04/2025 14:31

But the way that the judgement has been interpreted as mandating the exclusion of trans women - and anyone who doesn’t conform to some unspecified definition of “biological female” - from all women’s spaces- is a dangerous new variety of fascism

It’s not the way it’s been interpreted, it’s what it actually said, Tandora. Sex in the EA means biological sex not (GRC) certificated sex. The definition of biological female is very simple and not in dispute.

So you think that women are just being nasty and mean to want to exclude TW (biological males) from their single sex rape centres? Can you not conceive of why they might want to? Of the trauma they’ve suffered?

TheCatsTongue · 20/04/2025 14:31

TheCatsTongue · 20/04/2025 13:13

@Tandora Can you define trans for me please? What is the minimum requirement for being trans?

Don't think I've had a response yet.

@Tandora I would like a definition of your understanding of trans, and what is the minimum requirement to be trans.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 20/04/2025 14:31

Lurkers are being treated to quite the whistle stop tour of the “trans movement” across Mumsnet today.

DrPrunesqualer · 20/04/2025 14:32

LadyBracknellsHandbagg · 20/04/2025 14:23

Blah blah blah fascism, blah blah blah trans erasure blah blah blah endless whataboutery.

One thing I will say is that the people that follow this ideology are amongst the most humourless people I have ever encountered, so far up the backside of this nonsense that they bore people to tears.

👏👏👏

MyNameIsX · 20/04/2025 14:32

The Supreme Court ruling was the right one.

The protestors need to live with the ruling, and move on with their lives.

Simples.

Riaanna · 20/04/2025 14:32

TheCatsTongue · 20/04/2025 14:31

Don't think I've had a response yet.

@Tandora I would like a definition of your understanding of trans, and what is the minimum requirement to be trans.

They’ve also not told me the biological differences between a man and a trans woman.

or the similarities between a woman and a trans woman.

VickyEadieofThigh · 20/04/2025 14:33

ThisFluentBiscuit · 20/04/2025 14:31

I don't know when TW are likely to start using female changing rooms. But if they were using them post-hormone therapy and social transition (like growing hair long, wearing makeup and female clothing) but before surgery, and same after surgery, then they were never a threat, right?

If men want to attack women, most of them don't choose to dress up as women and access female spaces in daytime. They stay as men and attack women walking in the dark alone.

The pushing of self-id, however, meant no man HAD to dress up to enter women's spaces and the pushing of the nonsense by Stonewall meant women could never object lest we be called "bigots" and worse.

Nanny0gg · 20/04/2025 14:33

Tandora · 20/04/2025 11:53

I’m in very fine company ❤️‍🔥🌈

Picture No 2

How do we know which men are predatory until it's too late?

andtheworldrollson · 20/04/2025 14:33

If you look at the number of transgender people in the prison population I think you might revise your opinions of how much a threat these people are

last year a girl got into the car of a “woman” because she though the woman would be safe
the girl was abducted
lucjiky she managed to alert the police whilst he slept

so don’t tell me transowmen never harm anyone

ghey harm women at the same rate as any if he type of man

Peony1897 · 20/04/2025 14:34

Ladies - you cannot rationalise somebody out of a position they did not rationalise themselves into

Please remember that before wasting energy typing long and logical explanations to a person who does not want to understand

FlirtsWithRhinos · 20/04/2025 14:34

Tandora · 20/04/2025 11:47

There’s a thread sharing some really awful images from the protest, so I wanted to share some positive ones for the sake of some perspective/ balance.
A lot of people are really understandably incredibly angry and overwhelmed by the events of the last few days. But most people who support trans rights absolutely don’t condone fighting oppression and injustice with misogyny.

Nice sexism is still sexism.

Women are not a feeling in someone's head that sits outside of and indepent from a physical embodied existence. We are not something that men can observe or reason their way into becoming. We are not a metaphor, a protest, a costume or an energy.

We are female humans, embodied and complete in our own right, and our individual personalilties are the sum of the ongoing intersection of and interaction between our inner emotional and mental world and the experiences of our sexed bodies in the physical outer world. The story of women and the rights we have is the story of the needs and oppression of female people and our fight against that to have equal power and agency in society.

It is not positive, nice or progessive to deny us our existence and voice in history, law, social spaces and language even if that oppression comes with smiles, hugs and rainbows.

aylis · 20/04/2025 14:34

ThisFluentBiscuit · 20/04/2025 14:31

I don't know when TW are likely to start using female changing rooms. But if they were using them post-hormone therapy and social transition (like growing hair long, wearing makeup and female clothing) but before surgery, and same after surgery, then they were never a threat, right?

If men want to attack women, most of them don't choose to dress up as women and access female spaces in daytime. They stay as men and attack women walking in the dark alone.

In reality they do whatever it takes to access their chosen group. Often whatever they want, enabled by people who close ranks around them.

Tandora · 20/04/2025 14:34

DucklingSwimmingInstructress · 20/04/2025 14:27

Right back atcha.

You are a perfect example of the falseness of most the trans movement. Not interested in any dialogue except forcing your opinion on others; unwilling to recognise the difference between someone disagreeing with you and fascism; profound intellectual dishonesty and most of all, a desperate desire for attention and forcing people to your own will, no matter the consequences or costs to them as long as you get your own way.

There's no point talking to a brick wall whose only desire is to topple women and crush them into compliance.

There's no point talking to a brick wall whose only desire is to topple women and crush them into compliance.

it’s truly insane. There’s no arguing with it

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juldan · 20/04/2025 14:34

Tandora · 20/04/2025 14:03

It’s got nothing to do with your consent. You don’t get to consent or not to the reality of someone else’s existence

@Tandora
Nobody is trying to stop trans people existing. They can peacefully exist along us. But women have every right not to consent to sharing single sex spaces with biological males.
You seem to love the word fascism. Obviously you don’t understand what this word means, because if you did, you would know that women fighting for their rights is opposite of fascism.
But I will play along with you. One of the characteristics of fascism is “forcible suppression of opposition” Here are some examples of this:
A woman losing her job for objecting to sharing changing facilities with a biological male.
Women not allowed to object when they lose a sports competition to a biological male.
A woman being raped at a hospital ward and that gaslight that there was no man on the ward.
Lesbians being forced to accept biological males in their groups.
Women from ethnic minorities, who for religious or cultural reasons want single sex spaces, being pushed out from sport activities as they are no longer single sex.

All these were inflicted on women by trans ideology. So it is NOT women who are fascist.

PastIsAnotherCountry · 20/04/2025 14:34

ThisFluentBiscuit · 20/04/2025 14:31

I don't know when TW are likely to start using female changing rooms. But if they were using them post-hormone therapy and social transition (like growing hair long, wearing makeup and female clothing) but before surgery, and same after surgery, then they were never a threat, right?

If men want to attack women, most of them don't choose to dress up as women and access female spaces in daytime. They stay as men and attack women walking in the dark alone.

Why don’t you try googling a counterfactual to your assumptions before making such a falsifiable assertion?

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