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to not understand why Christians think Jesus died for our sins?

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switcheroooo · 20/04/2025 10:06

If Jesus died for everyone's sins, does that mean people are not accountable for their actions? You can kill people, steal and lie but have a protected status because Jesus died for your sins.

How does this work? Why are people not responsible for their own sins? Where is the justice?

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Judgejudysno1fan · 20/04/2025 14:45

Thanks for your response. Yes, I struggle with that concept, I don't put jesus on same level of God. I love him and he's important to me, dearly. And I believe in his miracles, his life and his way is very important. And I believe he will come back and kill the antichrist and rule on earth in the end of times. But I don't see him as God or Son of God. He prayed to God , in the bible it states so. And God doesn't pray to a God.

Leafy3 · 20/04/2025 14:48

So much of what people hate about Christianity is Church dogma - made up by humans for a variety of reasons, and stemming from attempting to answer complex theological questions in a way acceptable to the different time periods.

Which is why it's important to remember that what Jesus actually taught was compassion and kindness, irrespective of a person's status, circumstance, past etc.

People so frequently conflate the corruption of Jesus' teachings by humans with what the fundamentals of Christianity, as taught by Jesus, was.

The Christian / Abrhamaic God, Jesus of any of the prophets recognised in Abrahamic religions aren't responsible for war, murder, rape, oppression etc. People are.

Redorangehaze · 20/04/2025 14:49

My understanding of the history of Christianity was that Jesus dying on the Cross presented a bit of a challenge for the early Christians and they needed to find a way to understand why this happened. The idea of Jesus dying for our sins was born out of trying to make sense of the crucifiction, in theological terms.

Leafy3 · 20/04/2025 14:59

*were

MasterBeth · 20/04/2025 15:01

YourFunnyTiger · 20/04/2025 14:39

I didn't insist my beliefs were true.
I don't know why you're so angry at me.

Edited

I am not especially angry at you.

However, you are not the only person on this thread

BunnyLake · 20/04/2025 15:01

Redorangehaze · 20/04/2025 14:49

My understanding of the history of Christianity was that Jesus dying on the Cross presented a bit of a challenge for the early Christians and they needed to find a way to understand why this happened. The idea of Jesus dying for our sins was born out of trying to make sense of the crucifiction, in theological terms.

Dying for our sins just doesn’t make any sense so I think early Christians should have done a better job in making it make sense. How can Jesus have died for our sins when it was someone else who ordered his death. What would have happened if Pontious Pilate decided not to kill him or never arrested him in the first place?

Leafy3 · 20/04/2025 15:02

@Judgejudysno1fan I've had a look at the AMA board to see if I could find the thread I referred to but am afraid after a dozen pages I've given up. It's there somewhere, amongst some other threads written by Anglican vicars none of which have the simple explanation I'm thinking of.

Judgejudysno1fan · 20/04/2025 15:02

DancingOctopus · 20/04/2025 12:48

The concept of Jesus' sacrifice also has to be considered in the light of the story of Abraham.
Abraham and Sarah longed for a child and Sarah became miraculously pregnant with Isaac. They were filled with Joy.
However, God asked Abraham to sacrifice this miracle child. He was heartbroken but felt he had to do as God wished and climbed up a mountain and built a funeral pyre on which to sacrifice his beloved son. God stopped Abraham at the last minute, telling him that he did not want Isaac, he just wanted Abraham to have the faith in him to give him up.
God has asked Abraham to do what any parent would refuse to do.
With the story of Jesus, here we see God willingly giving up his only son, for the people that he created. A kind of continuation of the Abraham and Isaac story, God is doing what he asked of Abraham.

Yes, I believe in that too. God wouldn't allow him to do it. It was a test of faith. And Abraham pulled through. We celebrate this in eid.

Leafy3 · 20/04/2025 15:03

so I think early Christians should have done a better job in making it make sense.
We should let them know 😄

Judgejudysno1fan · 20/04/2025 15:04

Leafy3 · 20/04/2025 15:02

@Judgejudysno1fan I've had a look at the AMA board to see if I could find the thread I referred to but am afraid after a dozen pages I've given up. It's there somewhere, amongst some other threads written by Anglican vicars none of which have the simple explanation I'm thinking of.

Thank you kindly for taking the time to look for that for me. I'm reading both bible and the quran. But I struggle as there so versions so usually stick with KJV. there's lots of things that correlate in the old testament and the quran. It's amazing to learn

Judgejudysno1fan · 20/04/2025 15:06

bridgetreilly · 20/04/2025 12:56

Because God is completely just and completely holy, as well as merciful and forgiving. It’s not justice to wipe away wrongdoing without any punishment. It’s not loving to just destroy sinners, which is what his holiness demands. So he squares the circle by taking the punishment on himself so that it is paid but we do not have to bear it. That is why Good Friday is so very, very good news. And on Easter Sunday we celebrated because it confirms that all the punishment is paid and we, like Christ, can have a new life.

God took the punishment on himself? So God is jesus and jesus/God punished themselves? Please explain this for me.

x2boys · 20/04/2025 15:07

Judgejudysno1fan · 20/04/2025 14:45

Thanks for your response. Yes, I struggle with that concept, I don't put jesus on same level of God. I love him and he's important to me, dearly. And I believe in his miracles, his life and his way is very important. And I believe he will come back and kill the antichrist and rule on earth in the end of times. But I don't see him as God or Son of God. He prayed to God , in the bible it states so. And God doesn't pray to a God.

Maybe your beleifs are more aligned to either judism or islsmic religions ?
Both beleive he existed and was a preacher / prophet but not the son of Hod

Judgejudysno1fan · 20/04/2025 15:08

Leafy3 · 20/04/2025 13:21

Which doesn't exist - Hell, that place of fiery damnation doesn't even exist in Christianity. It's an interpretation and invention by humans, so even the myth of hell is not down to God, should God exist.

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You don't believe in hell???? So where is Hitler, child rapists, Jimmy Saville????

WinterKitchen · 20/04/2025 15:15

Parker231 · 20/04/2025 13:22

Your religion is threatening me with hell - hardly a nice belief to have for someone who has done nothing wrong.

You've never, ever, ever done anything wrong at all in your whole life? You must be Jesus himself then.

Judgejudysno1fan · 20/04/2025 15:18

BunnyLake · 20/04/2025 14:13

Has anyone answered my query of what happened to people before Jesus arrived?

They've gone straight to the burning depths of hell. Apparently.

Judgejudysno1fan · 20/04/2025 15:25

x2boys · 20/04/2025 15:07

Maybe your beleifs are more aligned to either judism or islsmic religions ?
Both beleive he existed and was a preacher / prophet but not the son of Hod

Edited

Yes, I am a Muslim revert. :)

FearistheMindKillerr · 20/04/2025 15:31

Judgejudysno1fan · 20/04/2025 15:25

Yes, I am a Muslim revert. :)

Just wondering why it is called “reverting” when Christianity was established 700 years before islam?

whathaveiforgotten · 20/04/2025 15:32

Judgejudysno1fan · 20/04/2025 15:08

You don't believe in hell???? So where is Hitler, child rapists, Jimmy Saville????

Many people believe that when we die, our loved ones remember us and in that way our memories live on but we are simply dead. There not being an heaven or hell isn’t a horrifying thought to everyone.

Also in many religions, including Islam, sincere repentance can be enough for god to forgive any sin even those of the monsters you mention in your post. The god you worship would offer entrance to paradise for those men if he believed they were sincerely sorry and believe in him. Surely you know that as a revert?

PowderMonkeys · 20/04/2025 15:34

FearistheMindKillerr · 20/04/2025 15:31

Just wondering why it is called “reverting” when Christianity was established 700 years before islam?

Muslims think everyone is really born Muslim, hence peiole ‘revert’ to their original state, rather than ‘convert’.

Hiddenmnetter · 20/04/2025 15:40

Judgejudysno1fan · 20/04/2025 15:06

God took the punishment on himself? So God is jesus and jesus/God punished themselves? Please explain this for me.

Please go and read some actual books on this. No one in a mumsnet post can explain to any degree of sceptical satisfaction the mystery of the trinity, the homousious, the mysteries of evil, freedom and suffering. Unless the question is just to be provocative.

TakeMyLifeAndLetItBe · 20/04/2025 15:41

Maxorias · 20/04/2025 13:58

Excuse me ?!!! I wasn't going to comment but this one is too rich to let it go. Should I mention the many, MANY situations where religious people have tried to impose their views on others ? Isn't that what Isis was all about ? Never mind the Inquisition, cursades, etc. You'll be hard pressed to find atheists killing people in the name of atheism.

I'll leave it there as it wasn't the point of the thread in the first place but wow, the levels of delusion and self-victimisation are astounding !

https://www.wordonfire.org/articles/contributors/does-modern-secularism-have-a-memory-problem-2-2/

"The reality is that both secular and religious ideas can be dangerous, but when secularism has turned militant, it has been far deadlier."

YourFunnyTiger · 20/04/2025 15:41

MasterBeth · 20/04/2025 15:01

I am not especially angry at you.

However, you are not the only person on this thread

Well obviously I'm not but you seem to paint us all with the same brush. I'm sorry there are some on here who say they're Christian and can't just let others believe what they want and let it go.

Parker231 · 20/04/2025 15:50

WinterKitchen · 20/04/2025 15:15

You've never, ever, ever done anything wrong at all in your whole life? You must be Jesus himself then.

I can’t think of anything I’ve done wrong or that my friends and family have. You don’t have to have the threat of religion to be a good person.
What did Jesus do which was so good?

Allwillbewell2 · 20/04/2025 15:55

switcheroooo · 20/04/2025 11:21

I am not sure why people think I am insulting Christians on their holy day. Do religions not encourage questioning? Surely questioning can lead to understanding.

AIBU isn't really the place to ask, is it though? You look like you're stirring. You have a whole internet full of knowledge to research this, local churches who would be happy to answer your questions, YouTube videos on this exact topic - but no, Mumsnet is the place you choose to ask this question - baffling!

Judgejudysno1fan · 20/04/2025 15:57

PowderMonkeys · 20/04/2025 15:34

Muslims think everyone is really born Muslim, hence peiole ‘revert’ to their original state, rather than ‘convert’.

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Correct.

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