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to not understand why Christians think Jesus died for our sins?

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switcheroooo · 20/04/2025 10:06

If Jesus died for everyone's sins, does that mean people are not accountable for their actions? You can kill people, steal and lie but have a protected status because Jesus died for your sins.

How does this work? Why are people not responsible for their own sins? Where is the justice?

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SixtySomething · 21/04/2025 12:45

MasterBeth
You're completely changing the subject here.
I come from another, non British Empire culture. Exactly the same happened to my family too in recent history.
I don't hold it against any one, and don't want any apologies or reparations from anyone.
Now can we get back to the topic please.

SixtySomething · 21/04/2025 12:50

Parker231 · 21/04/2025 12:20

The good values I have are ones taught by my parents and grandparents. Not by religion or ‘British’ values - not sure what they are - are they good?

British ie Christian values could be the ones taught you by your parents and Grandparents whether they were aware of it or not.

Parker231 · 21/04/2025 12:54

SixtySomething · 21/04/2025 12:50

British ie Christian values could be the ones taught you by your parents and Grandparents whether they were aware of it or not.

I had to look up what Christian values are. Too much religious stuff for me. I’ll stick with my own values (my parents and grandparents aren’t British or Christians).

Christian values are principles based on the teachings of Jesus and the Bible, guiding how Christians live and interact with others. Key values include love, compassion, forgiveness, humility, and faith. These values are often described as the foundation for a moral and ethical life within the Christian faith.

Here's a more detailed look at some core Christian values:
Love:
The greatest commandment is to love God and to love your neighbor as yourself. This love is also extended to enemies and those in need.

Compassion:
Showing empathy and concern for others, especially those suffering or in need. This involves acting to alleviate suffering and help others.

Forgiveness:
Extending grace and mercy to others, even when they have wronged us. This is also seen as a reflection of God's forgiveness towards humanity.

Humility:
Recognizing one's own limitations and needs, and valuing others above oneself. Humility is seen as a sign of spiritual maturity and a way of living in harmony with others.

Faith:
Trusting in God and His promises, even when things are difficult or uncertain. Faith is seen as a vital part of the Christian life and a way of connecting with God.

Honesty:
Living a life characterized by truthfulness and integrity. This involves being truthful in words and actions, and avoiding deception or dishonesty.

Respect:
Treating everyone with dignity and consideration, regardless of their background or beliefs. Respect is seen as a way of honoring the image of God in all people.

Kindness:
Demonstrating gentleness and compassion in interactions with others. Kindness is often seen as a way of expressing love and empathy towards others.

Patience:
Waiting calmly and with understanding, especially when facing challenges or difficulties. Patience is seen as a way of persevering through trials and trusting in God's timing.

Generosity:
Sharing one's resources, time, and talents with others, especially those in need. Generosity is seen as a way of expressing love and a desire to help others.

Grammarninja · 21/04/2025 13:00

WhySoManySocks · 20/04/2025 10:37

I’m a dedicated atheist but raised Catholic and will try to answer seriously.

Every is still responsible for their sins. You kill someone, steal and lie, you go to hell. However, if you kill someone, steal and lie, and later HONESTLY regret it and confess it, it’s forgiven.

The “sin” that Jesus died for was the original sin, which everyone is born with. It is a remnant everyone carries of the fact that Adam and Eve ate from the tree of knowledge. Before Jesus died, everyone who hd lived a righteous life and deserved to go to Heaven had to wait in Purgatory until this sin was forgiven. After, this sin is cleansed by baptism.

So, it’s not quite as simple as you say, that everyone’s sins are automatically forgiven. However, there is still a lot in the above story that is really problematic:

  1. The idea that desiring knowledge is such a bad sin it deserves all descendants forever to suffer;
  2. The idea that we are born dirty and sinful and need to be cleansed by baptism;
  3. The idea that a baby who dies at birth will not be admitted into Heaven as they are unbaptised;
  4. The vast amount of money the Church has extracted from grieving relatives over centuries, for candles, prayers, and sin forgiveness for their dead relatives who might be helped out of Purgatory by a priests for a suitable donation.

There might be differences if you’re talking about Anglican, Orthodox, Protestant etc versions.

This isn't true. I'm not a practising Catholic but I know the belief system very well.
Jesus didn't die with original sin, he was baptised by his cousin so that's not what's being discussed.
Jesus died so that he could be resurrected and therefore show his followers what they couldn't believe without proof - that God existed, he was his son and that the way he was asking them to live (in kindness), was God's wish.
If he hadn't died and been resurrected, people would have gone on in ignorance. Jesus died so that others could recognise their sins and repent, knowing that there was a God.
If they hadn't been sinning all around them and not understanding the importance of being kind, he wouldn't have had to die to show them the error of their ways.

SixtySomething · 21/04/2025 13:03

Parker231
Well I'm glad we've sorted that one out then!
You aren't British and you aren't Christian so you're not planning to live by British or Christian values . That all sounds fine to me.
Thanks also for AI update on Christian values. Personally, I didn't spot so much specifically about God/ Jesus there.
The information is useful in case anyone feels unsure what Christianity involves.

Parker231 · 21/04/2025 13:11

SixtySomething · 21/04/2025 13:03

Parker231
Well I'm glad we've sorted that one out then!
You aren't British and you aren't Christian so you're not planning to live by British or Christian values . That all sounds fine to me.
Thanks also for AI update on Christian values. Personally, I didn't spot so much specifically about God/ Jesus there.
The information is useful in case anyone feels unsure what Christianity involves.

The AI (I love it) quotes have frequent references to God in it . Christian values = Christian religion.

Less than half of the British population state they are Christians.

SixtySomething · 21/04/2025 13:15

So what Parker231?
Is this a new discussion?
I thought it was all wrapped up?

Parker231 · 21/04/2025 13:22

SixtySomething · 21/04/2025 13:15

So what Parker231?
Is this a new discussion?
I thought it was all wrapped up?

You’ve been full of criticising my values - what are yours?

SixtySomething · 21/04/2025 13:27

Parker231 · 21/04/2025 13:22

You’ve been full of criticising my values - what are yours?

I wasn't aware of criticising your values. I didn't think you said what they were, only that they're your parents and grandparents values.
My values aim at being Christian values.
If you adhere to another mainstream religion I'm more than happy to about that, if that's the issue.

Parker231 · 21/04/2025 13:36

SixtySomething · 21/04/2025 13:27

I wasn't aware of criticising your values. I didn't think you said what they were, only that they're your parents and grandparents values.
My values aim at being Christian values.
If you adhere to another mainstream religion I'm more than happy to about that, if that's the issue.

My values - being a good person and having a good life. Straightforward and uncomplicated. No other mainstream religion - am an atheist.

Leafy3 · 21/04/2025 13:37

MasterBeth · 21/04/2025 12:21

That values that you try and claim as British or Christian values are pretty much the same as most religions and philosophies the world over:

Do you others as you would be done to.

Try and reduce the amount of human suffering in the world.

There's nothing uniquely Christian about them. They predate Jesus. And they have no need for any supernatural supervision or judgement to put them into practice.

We don't need to be told what shellfish we can eat or what day is special.

I don't think they do predate Jesus, actually. Which isn't to say people were not kind or compassionate beforehand , but that the established societies, pagan religions and civilisations were built on other principles.* It's easy to point to other ancient religions which teach consideration, but they don't all predate Christianity and they weren't always so prevalent. Ancient societies were greatly shaped by religions and belief systems that have died out.

Tom Holland has a fascinating summary of how Christianity has shaped the world, all over.

*obviously not all cultures

SixtySomething · 21/04/2025 13:38

Great stuff Parker231.
Now we're back to the beginning again.
Let's leave it at that?

Kardamyli2 · 21/04/2025 13:41

switcheroooo · 20/04/2025 10:06

If Jesus died for everyone's sins, does that mean people are not accountable for their actions? You can kill people, steal and lie but have a protected status because Jesus died for your sins.

How does this work? Why are people not responsible for their own sins? Where is the justice?

Some people are quite gullible and will believe anything, particularly if it's rammed down their throats from birth.

Leafy3 · 21/04/2025 13:45

Kardamyli2 · 21/04/2025 13:41

Some people are quite gullible and will believe anything, particularly if it's rammed down their throats from birth.

A great example of being offensive about other people's beliefs

Kardamyli2 · 21/04/2025 13:47

Unsquaredancer · 20/04/2025 11:07

So it's fine to insult Christians on their most holy day rightho!

Love how to see how that pans out for Muslims at Eid, Jews at Passover and Hindus at Diwali.

No wonder Reform is gaining traction.

I'm quite happy to say that I think all religion is a crock of shit. Also happy to do so at any time of year.

Kardamyli2 · 21/04/2025 13:50

Leafy3 · 21/04/2025 13:45

A great example of being offensive about other people's beliefs

It's not offensive to say religions are a load of nonsense, or that only the brainwashed or deluded would believe any of it. Religions are just ancient cults, or not so ancient in the case of Scientology.

Leafy3 · 21/04/2025 13:53

Kardamyli2 · 21/04/2025 13:50

It's not offensive to say religions are a load of nonsense, or that only the brainwashed or deluded would believe any of it. Religions are just ancient cults, or not so ancient in the case of Scientology.

Of course it's offensive to call people deluded for having religious beliefs.

Its also pretty ignorant to write off everything about every religion as nonsense, when that is objectively untrue.

To take a pertinent example - it isn't nonsense to say don't murder, or to encourage people to treat others with respect.

...although judging by your posts, perhaps you do believe that respect for others is nonsensical!

Thejazzz · 21/04/2025 13:53

Kardamyli2 · 21/04/2025 13:50

It's not offensive to say religions are a load of nonsense, or that only the brainwashed or deluded would believe any of it. Religions are just ancient cults, or not so ancient in the case of Scientology.

It would have been in the 1700’s and we’d probably be hanged for it. Worse is giving what I’m seeing now some do these people want us going back to the 1700’s

Grammarninja · 21/04/2025 13:55

Leafy3 · 21/04/2025 13:37

I don't think they do predate Jesus, actually. Which isn't to say people were not kind or compassionate beforehand , but that the established societies, pagan religions and civilisations were built on other principles.* It's easy to point to other ancient religions which teach consideration, but they don't all predate Christianity and they weren't always so prevalent. Ancient societies were greatly shaped by religions and belief systems that have died out.

Tom Holland has a fascinating summary of how Christianity has shaped the world, all over.

*obviously not all cultures

Jesus was apparently sent because organised religion at the time was missing the point. Everyone was so hellbent on following 'God's law' (dietary requirements and keeping certain days holy) that they'd forgotten the true message - kindness. People thought it would be wrong to save a drowning man on the sabbath because you weren't supposed to do any work. People were confused. He came to set everyone on the right path again as we'd lost our way. That's how the story goes

Kardamyli2 · 21/04/2025 14:03

Leafy3 · 21/04/2025 13:53

Of course it's offensive to call people deluded for having religious beliefs.

Its also pretty ignorant to write off everything about every religion as nonsense, when that is objectively untrue.

To take a pertinent example - it isn't nonsense to say don't murder, or to encourage people to treat others with respect.

...although judging by your posts, perhaps you do believe that respect for others is nonsensical!

I find religions and religious people very offensive at times. I despise the way they use membership of a cult to try and force others to do/not do various things and their attempts (some more succesful than others) to control societies.

Do you really think any pre-religious society has condoned murder or allowed it to go unpunished? No society which did would last long as they'd all be dead. As for respect, show me the religion that has the utmost respect for atheists.

Grammarninja · 21/04/2025 14:05

Kardamyli2 · 21/04/2025 14:03

I find religions and religious people very offensive at times. I despise the way they use membership of a cult to try and force others to do/not do various things and their attempts (some more succesful than others) to control societies.

Do you really think any pre-religious society has condoned murder or allowed it to go unpunished? No society which did would last long as they'd all be dead. As for respect, show me the religion that has the utmost respect for atheists.

According to Jesus, a true follower would have an incredible amount of respect and love for an atheist.

Grammarnut · 21/04/2025 14:08

Leafy3 · 20/04/2025 23:13

@Grammarnut it's been a long time since I had links to the CofE but I don't recall coming across the feminisation of God's spirit. Can you point me to examples? Is this in the Bible or in the language used by the church?

I think I did this? The CofE is more open to feminism these days and there are instances in the OT where 'wisdom' aka the Holy Spirit is depicted as a woman e.g. Isaiah speaks of the Holy Spirit as a woman who looks after her household well. Jesus at least twice likens God to a female: as the woman looking for the lost coin and as a hen gathering her chicks.

switcheroooo · 21/04/2025 14:09

Parker231 · 21/04/2025 12:22

I agree - nothing bad is going to happen to me because of my lack of religious beliefs. Better to just enjoy life.

Enjoy for a little while on earth for sure. You cannot say for sure nothing is going to happen to you though in the afterlife.

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Grammarninja · 21/04/2025 14:13

switcheroooo · 21/04/2025 14:09

Enjoy for a little while on earth for sure. You cannot say for sure nothing is going to happen to you though in the afterlife.

I think Jesus' message got totally misconstrued. He talked about creating the kingdom of God here on earth. I think he was trying to say that if we're all incredibly kind to each other, we will be creating heaven here on earth and an afterlife is not relevant. Life will be heaven in a society where everyone is loving, accepting and kind.

Grammarnut · 21/04/2025 14:15

bridgetreilly · 20/04/2025 23:58

From that Wikipedia page: Also mainstream trinitarian Christians dispute labeling nontrinitarian groups as members within Christianity.

Generally they consider themselves Christian but no one else does. Unlike all the trinitarian denominations who recognise each other as Christian even if we disagree about some things.

Belief in the Trinity is not an absolute requirement of Christianity, though most branches do so believe. What is required is belief that Jesus the Christ died and was resurrected and that his sacrifice enabled humankind to enter into God's kingdom i.e. Jesus is Saviour. Afaik JWs and Unitarians believe in Jesus as Saviour, so they are Christians, but not Trinitarians (which means that for most other Christians these branches are schisms - as is the Orthodox church which has a different view of how Jesus is related to the Godhead: this is the Great Schism of 1054).

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