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to not understand why Christians think Jesus died for our sins?

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switcheroooo · 20/04/2025 10:06

If Jesus died for everyone's sins, does that mean people are not accountable for their actions? You can kill people, steal and lie but have a protected status because Jesus died for your sins.

How does this work? Why are people not responsible for their own sins? Where is the justice?

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Leafy3 · 20/04/2025 23:46

BlaBlaBla87436780087 · 20/04/2025 23:31

I mean the bible is literally just a fiction book so I wouldn’t put much time and effort into understanding something made up. No different to Harry Potter / Gruffalo etc

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Well, no, that's not strictly accurate. There is a lot of myth in the Bible but we also have significant scientific and historical evidence for some of the things which occurred.

E.g. Both scientists and historians agree that there was an enormous flood in one part of the world (roughly the middle east) in ancient history, which accounts for the flood stories in the Bible (re Noah) and other religions.

They're also fairly unanimous that a man called Jesus did exist at the time the Bible claims, was a radical religious teacher who was executed by Pontius Pilate. Those are pretty objective facts.

Even for those of us who aren't religious / Christian, its pretty remarkable that 2000 years ago that a man who preached compassion and forgiveness has been such a hugely significant figure and whose teaching of compassion for everyone is still pretty radical today.

Leafy3 · 20/04/2025 23:48

@Grammarnut thank you, that's really interesting

bridgetreilly · 20/04/2025 23:58

Leafy3 · 20/04/2025 23:11

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Unitarianism

A bit about Unitarianism for those who are curious. It's considered a denomination of Christianity rather than a belief system with Christian roots.

On another note, I wish my phone would stop trying to autocorrect 'denomination' to 'demonisation' 😳🙈

From that Wikipedia page: Also mainstream trinitarian Christians dispute labeling nontrinitarian groups as members within Christianity.

Generally they consider themselves Christian but no one else does. Unlike all the trinitarian denominations who recognise each other as Christian even if we disagree about some things.

sunnydayswim · 21/04/2025 00:00

@switcheroooo@switcheroooosome people have recommended speaking to others and I’ll add another idea as it sounds like you still have a lot of unanswered questions - you can read what Jesus said about himself and a lot of these questions on this thread direct in his own words in the book of John in the Bible https://john.bible/
The book of John is short to read and a good summary that covers off all the big stuff. There’s some accurate and some inaccurate stuff on this thread; I always think it’s best to get it direct from the source.

Leafy3 · 21/04/2025 00:06

@bridgetreilly that was my question to another poster: did they consider other denominations of Christianity to be Christian. 👍

It's interesting though, so many denominations now have achieved a recognition of Christianity from more traditional and orthodox churches, where once they were considered heretical.

BlackeyedSusan · 21/04/2025 00:06

Unsquaredancer · 20/04/2025 11:07

So it's fine to insult Christians on their most holy day rightho!

Love how to see how that pans out for Muslims at Eid, Jews at Passover and Hindus at Diwali.

No wonder Reform is gaining traction.

I didn't take it as an insult. People believe different stuff. Different Christians believe different stuff to each other even. (Hence the million and one different denominations) it's fine to ask things, disagree, etc. It's interesting to read other points of view.

Thriwit · 21/04/2025 00:07

Grammarnut · 20/04/2025 23:02

I am an Anglican. Anglicans believ the church to be 'one holy catholic and apostolic' church. The term 'catholic' here means 'universal', so that Jesus died for all humanity. A reading of the OT will show that the God of Israel is a universal god, this is repeatedly said, she/he* is not just the God of Israel, though in some aspects he/she acts in ways that favour Israel. However, the salvation offered is on offer to everyone.

*the spirit of God is often seen as female and in its personification as 'wisdom' is frequently called 'she' or spoken of as a woman, so in this sense God is she/he (if we can attribute sex to a spiritual being).

Ah thank you! I can’t remember who told me this - I just remember I’ve spoken about it with people before. Somebody’s basically told me that you still have to behave in a Christian manner. I’m sure at a different point somebody else told me that Jesus dying for our sins meant the original sin, and that from then onwards each human started with a clean slate in the eyes of God.

Truthfully, I find religion quite fascinating, although will admit that I find the different denominations a bit confusing at times! Over the years I’ve enjoyed talking to people about their faiths though. I was brought up completely atheist & still am. My parents have both been atheist for my entire life, but their families were/are Irish Catholic and Methodist.

mumda · 21/04/2025 00:13

switcheroooo · 20/04/2025 19:23

God is eternal, so a long time for us isn’t long for him.
But also, he’s made it clear that there will be an end point, when there will be final judgment day for everyone. After that, no more judging, just eternal life or eternal hell.

@bridgetreilly can you explain more about the day of judgement? I don't hear this mentioned by Christians.

Seth Rogen is in the apocalyptic comedy film "This Is the End

It explains it well.

TakeMyLifeAndLetItBe · 21/04/2025 00:27

Grammarnut · 20/04/2025 23:45

It's in the Bible. I am rubbish at chapter and verse, but wisdom is personified as a woman who runs her household, in Isaiah, for example. God is described as mothering her people in some of the psalms and various OT quote God as pointing out that he/she has looked after Israel just as a mother cares for a child. The example most often quoted is Jesus' parable of the woman looking for a lost coin, a straight personification of God as female. He also compares God's care for humanity as that of a hen gathering her chicks.

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With respect, that does not mean that the Holy Spirit is feminine. He is referred to very much in masculine terms, as is the whole Holy Trinity.
This explains it better than I can:
www.gotquestions.org/Holy-Spirit-gender.html

TempestTost · 21/04/2025 00:28

bridgetreilly · 20/04/2025 23:58

From that Wikipedia page: Also mainstream trinitarian Christians dispute labeling nontrinitarian groups as members within Christianity.

Generally they consider themselves Christian but no one else does. Unlike all the trinitarian denominations who recognise each other as Christian even if we disagree about some things.

This really is a category question. Obviously Unitarians, Mormons, and other groups like that have a historical relationship to Christianity as a whole.

But when you try and get some consensus of what the central beliefs on Christianity are, you tend to get the bare minimum as a Trinitarian view of God, Jesus as fully God and filly human, and the necessity of baptism.

But the reason for that type of definition is for answering questions that occur within a Christian context, like is the groups baptism valid. So a Lutheran or Catholic would typically accept the baptism of an Anglican or (usually) a Baptist as being real, even though it happened outside their own church. But not that of a Mormon or Unitarian - if a member of those groups converted they would be baptized again.

If you were writing a book on the history of Christianity though there is no reason you would be obliged to leave those groups out, it would make sense to include them if you wanted to.

LittlerCharlotte · 21/04/2025 00:33

I'm a Christian and basically God forgives sinners who truly repent. Jesus died so that we could have eternal life, if we repent of our sins, and He's going to know if you're faking it!

QuaintShaker · 21/04/2025 00:33

bridgetreilly · 20/04/2025 23:58

From that Wikipedia page: Also mainstream trinitarian Christians dispute labeling nontrinitarian groups as members within Christianity.

Generally they consider themselves Christian but no one else does. Unlike all the trinitarian denominations who recognise each other as Christian even if we disagree about some things.

It's a bit strange to me that belief in the trinity is a "dealbreaker" (re. whether someone is or is not a Christian) when it's existence is not make explicit by the Bible.

The idea of the the Trinity did not become popular among Christians until several centuries (3-5) after Jesus' death, and largely seems to have been motivated by Constantine the Great's political aims, as Roman emperor.

LittlerCharlotte · 21/04/2025 00:35

coldcallerbaiter · 20/04/2025 20:37

I have a lot of time for Jesus. He was ahead of his time and a good person I think. However, the story of his life was embellished by his followers after his death and it took hold as a religion, partially by
chance and luck. If he had been portrayed as just a man with no Heavenly Father, his teachings might not have hit the same high.

Interestingly though he never claimed to be the Son of God. He called Himself the Son of Man.

He was a good chap whether you believe He was holy or not, and very brave.

LittlerCharlotte · 21/04/2025 00:37

This is an extraordinary book, about the Bible and its creation. Immensely readable and fascinating!

amzn.eu/d/dfH3Jtm

LittlerCharlotte · 21/04/2025 00:40

MasterBeth · 20/04/2025 12:19

But many religious people don't believe that their religion is some metaphorical pondering on the meaning of life. They posit that the stories in the Bible are true. That, 2000 years ago, a human man, who was also in some sense both God and the son of God, was murdered but then came back to life.

That's preposterous.

I don't think it is. 🤷‍♀️

LittlerCharlotte · 21/04/2025 00:42

Pandimoanymum · 20/04/2025 11:47

Yes, Oestre was an Anglo-Saxon goddess, and during April feasts were held in her honour. This pagan tradition was subsumed into the Christian celebration of Easter way back when Christianity was slowly becoming the organised religion in Britain, as the church found it easier to convert people to the new religion by incorporating their existing rituals rather than banning them outright. It's the same with Christmas- that's a mix of pagan and Christian rituals too. The Yule Log was originally a pagan ritual. A massive wooden tree trunk that was brought in and lit in the hearth to burn continuously for about two weeks around the time of the winter solstice , as part of the old festival of Yule, to celebrate the return of longer daylight hours. And Saturnalia was a roman festival that took place at the same time of year, and celebrated a similar thing with feasting, games etc.

Interestingly there's evidence that Saturnalia isn't so closely with Christmas. I listened to a fascinating podcast about it all
Will try to find it.

Leafy3 · 21/04/2025 00:46

LittlerCharlotte · 21/04/2025 00:35

Interestingly though he never claimed to be the Son of God. He called Himself the Son of Man.

He was a good chap whether you believe He was holy or not, and very brave.

I was just reading the first verses of John in the link that a pp shared a few posts up, and was intrigued to read, in which John the Baptist seems to allude to the trinity:

18 No one has ever seen God, but the one and only Son, who is himself God and1:18 Some manuscripts but the only Son, whois in closest relationship with the Father, has made him known.

Probably getting a bit detailed for this thread, but I'm really enjoying this discussion!

LittlerCharlotte · 21/04/2025 00:47

BunnyLake · 20/04/2025 12:22

I was brought up a Catholic (now athiest) and not a lot made any sense to me. What happened to all the people who lived and died before Jesus?

The Harrowing of Hell. In the 3 days between death and resurrection, Jesus went into hell and saved everyone who'd been there before He died for us. Including Judas.

LittlerCharlotte · 21/04/2025 00:48

Leafy3 · 21/04/2025 00:46

I was just reading the first verses of John in the link that a pp shared a few posts up, and was intrigued to read, in which John the Baptist seems to allude to the trinity:

18 No one has ever seen God, but the one and only Son, who is himself God and1:18 Some manuscripts but the only Son, whois in closest relationship with the Father, has made him known.

Probably getting a bit detailed for this thread, but I'm really enjoying this discussion!

Edited

It's fascinating on a historical level even if you're not a believer.

I'm a believer and having an absolutely shocking time. Easter 's message has given me renewed hope.

Leafy3 · 21/04/2025 00:50

@LittlerCharlotte I'd like to listen to that if you manage to find the podcast episode.

Like many things which I have been accepted by popular culture, the standard lines about how Christianity straight-up adopted certain pagan festivals (and Saturnalia became Christmas) isn't as strictly accurate as often made out

Leafy3 · 21/04/2025 00:51

@LittlerCharlotte I'm sorry you're going through such a difficult time and glad you've found some hope this weekend, sending good thoughts and wishes your way. I hope you have plenty of support Flowers

ForTheNightOrTheRestOfTime · 21/04/2025 01:06

PhilippaGeorgiou · 20/04/2025 16:32

Try not to take this personally, but if you read my post I was agreeing with you and addressing ALL people who have made nasty comments - including those that say it is a fairy tale. You may believe that. You may not. It doesn't make it true or nice to mock others who do believe it. Please don't pretend that comments like that are intended to be polite or not mocking others. And don't pretend that some of those comments have not been removed for exactly that reason. Whilst I didn't complain, obviously some people were offended by posts that I saw earlier and found to be downright nasty.

It's interesting how much fun people find in poking fun at Christians on their holy days, which are very few. Watch how quickly MN would shut down the entire debate if people did this to any other faith on their holy days.

I think if someone says that they think of it all as a fairy tale or they believe it is nonsense, then they are entitled to that opinion and it isn’t mocking. If they called someone stupid or similar for believing it, then that would be mocking and unacceptable.

ForTheNightOrTheRestOfTime · 21/04/2025 01:08

Fridgetapas · 20/04/2025 16:33

Calling it a fairy tale is mocking.

I disagree. It’s an opinion.

Kinkyroots · 21/04/2025 01:09

Unsquaredancer · 20/04/2025 11:07

So it's fine to insult Christians on their most holy day rightho!

Love how to see how that pans out for Muslims at Eid, Jews at Passover and Hindus at Diwali.

No wonder Reform is gaining traction.

Asking questions shouldn’t be an insult. Jesus loved debate. He also said ‘do not judge’ and yet here you are ‘Christian’.

HappydaysArehere · 21/04/2025 01:10

The bible was written by men of faith. They were attempting to understand the world they were in. Because you don’t understand the words doesn’t mean that a persons faith is any the less.The important thing is and has always been the teachings of Christ. How to treat each other and lead a decent life based on consideration of others. So stop your nitpicking. No one is asking you to go to church. My faith is now between God and me. It has so many times supported me in bad times and led me through them.

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