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to not understand why Christians think Jesus died for our sins?

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switcheroooo · 20/04/2025 10:06

If Jesus died for everyone's sins, does that mean people are not accountable for their actions? You can kill people, steal and lie but have a protected status because Jesus died for your sins.

How does this work? Why are people not responsible for their own sins? Where is the justice?

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localnotail · 20/04/2025 22:04

Leafy3 · 20/04/2025 21:56

@localnotail but you haven't answered my questions

I'm not posing them to challenge your beliefs - please don't misunderstand and think I am being adversarial.

I think I said before - Christianity is a FAITH, not a science based set of facts. I find it very comforting and I believe in what it says. I'm a believer and a Christian. If you have questions, you need to ask yourself why? I'm not a theologist, I can't answer your questions in detail. I can only state the facts - you cant be a Christian unless you believe in Trinity and unless you believe Jesus died on the cross for our sins and was resurrected. This is a fundamental difference between Christians and, for example, Jehovah's Witnesses (who are a non-Christian cult).

Leafy3 · 20/04/2025 22:05

I fundamentally disagree that to learn about any religion one should look only to religious leaders and Google (or text books!).

It's so important that people experience and learn about a religion through others: those who follow it, those who doubt it, those who disagree wholeheartedly and those for whom they cannot but believe with their entire being.

Otherwise, people's only experience and understanding of a religion will be through religious leaders, dogma and reputation. Any faith is much more than that.

Supersimkin7 · 20/04/2025 22:06

Jesus’ death is about being renewed and starting afresh.

Gives you the chance to shed all your earthly woes and carry on growing.

It’s also a great reminder of how humans (well, men) kill good and innocent people all
the time.

3ormorecharacters · 20/04/2025 22:10

I find this video really helpful in understanding the meaning of the resurrection/ the overall storyline of the Bible

Leafy3 · 20/04/2025 22:11

localnotail · 20/04/2025 22:04

I think I said before - Christianity is a FAITH, not a science based set of facts. I find it very comforting and I believe in what it says. I'm a believer and a Christian. If you have questions, you need to ask yourself why? I'm not a theologist, I can't answer your questions in detail. I can only state the facts - you cant be a Christian unless you believe in Trinity and unless you believe Jesus died on the cross for our sins and was resurrected. This is a fundamental difference between Christians and, for example, Jehovah's Witnesses (who are a non-Christian cult).

I'm afraid I must disagree that you cannot enter into a discussion about the various aspects of Christianity unless you're a religious leader.

I understand however you are uncomfortable with doing so and will only point out that there are many accepted denominations of Christianity which don't all agree on the various tenets of Christian faith.

I will also point out that much of the accepted dogma of established and orthodox christian churches has evolved through asking these same questions- and many more.

One question for you, though, if I may and which I hope you will answer: I don't know which Christian denomination you are part of (Orthodox Christianity is different in different parts of the world), but do you believe that only your denomination of Christianity is right? That the followers of all others aren't actually Christians, even if they call themselves so?

CraneBeak · 20/04/2025 22:11

switcheroooo · 20/04/2025 21:56

Can't one believe in God without the complicated Jesus part?

Yes. Specifically, Jewish people.

bridgetreilly · 20/04/2025 22:11

switcheroooo · 20/04/2025 22:00

I am finding it helpful here but thank you.

I do think, though, that you are at the stage where it would be really helpful to try reading one of the gospels to see how it all fits together. And someone to have a real conversation with as well. You can be really upfront about just wanting to understand it better and they will be glad to help.

switcheroooo · 20/04/2025 22:23

SixtySomething · 20/04/2025 22:02

You can do what you like but ultimately you can't be a Christian really without a belief in Jesus, However ,it's not complicated. Jesus is there to interpret God for us and show us the way to a good life. I think that's what defines Christianity.
I guess you ca make up your own God and believe in him/her and presume that's what millions do when they say they are 'spiritual but not religious' but IMO it's a bit inward looking and ultimately rather pointless and self-serving. Christianity is meant to draw you outwards towards an understanding of your fellow human being.IMO it's a form of idolatry to worship your own subjective prejudices and preferences.

Maybe one could be someone who submits to God? So still a believer.

The Jesus part is complicated as @bridgetreilly explained.

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BunnyLake · 20/04/2025 22:26

SixtySomething · 20/04/2025 21:49

Jesus is one aspect of God, when he was made man. It was God the man who died.

Died and rose again so didn’t stay dead? I’m confused. It confused me as a child and I still can’t make sense of it. It just seems like tall tales to me. I don’t think I’ll ever change my mind but I find it an interesting subject nevertheless.

Leafy3 · 20/04/2025 22:30

BunnyLake · 20/04/2025 22:26

Died and rose again so didn’t stay dead? I’m confused. It confused me as a child and I still can’t make sense of it. It just seems like tall tales to me. I don’t think I’ll ever change my mind but I find it an interesting subject nevertheless.

That's interesting...Just curious, how does it feel different to you from someone who dies from a heart attack, say, but we manage to bring back to life through CPR?

It's not unusual these days for people to come back to life after being declared clinically dead. In light of this I would have thought the part of the resurrection which is hardest to believe is Jesus' ascendancy to Heaven?

MaybeItsTimeForMeNow · 20/04/2025 22:33

BlondiePortz · 20/04/2025 10:48

I am still trying to work how Joseph did not start a thread on MN

This made me spit out my wine.

Brilliant.

Dappy777 · 20/04/2025 22:54

Human beings are good at inventing stories. The human imagination is limitless. Christianity, to me, is no more true or false than Father Christmas, King Lear, or the Rocky films. It’s just stuff humans have made up.

Facts are different. It’s a fact that we are animals (a Chimpanzee in genetically closer to humans than it is to a gorilla). Did Jesus’ death wipe out the sins of the other primates? When there is a resurrection, will the other extinct species of human also be resurrected, like Homo Neanderthalis and Homo Florensis?

QuaintShaker · 20/04/2025 22:56

You shouldn't try to make sense of it, OP.

If it made sense, or was well-evidenced, believers wouldn't need to have faith.

To those of us without faith, it's just nonsensical (and a bit unpleasant).

God is, purportedly, all-knowing, all-powerful, benevolent (all-good) and, of course, created everything. This means that, when he made the world, he not only knew that Adam and/or Eve would commit the original sin - it was God's choice that they would do so (if he hadn't wanted them to, then he could have just make them or the world a little differently).

God knew about every subsequent sin that everyone would commit and, given that he chose to create the world and it's people that way, he essentially chose for every sin that had ever occurred, to occur. Free will isn't really reconcilable with Christianity, to my mind (though some have tried to offer explanations).

He also always knew that humanity would "need to be saved" from its (his) sins. Despite being all-powerful, meaning he could have waved the sins away, the specific way he decided to do this saving was by having his son (who is also him) killed.

It's very hard to understand if you're not coming from a starting point of believing it regardless.

QuaintShaker · 20/04/2025 22:56

MaybeItsTimeForMeNow · 20/04/2025 22:33

This made me spit out my wine.

Brilliant.

Wait, I thought you'd taken a swig of water???

Grammarnut · 20/04/2025 23:02

Thriwit · 20/04/2025 10:40

Does Jesus dying for people’s sins only really apply to Christians though? And if you set out to kill/steal/lie etc, then you’re not behaving in a Christian manner, so it wouldn’t apply to you.

(caveat: I’m a born & bred atheist so may be completely wrong)

I am an Anglican. Anglicans believ the church to be 'one holy catholic and apostolic' church. The term 'catholic' here means 'universal', so that Jesus died for all humanity. A reading of the OT will show that the God of Israel is a universal god, this is repeatedly said, she/he* is not just the God of Israel, though in some aspects he/she acts in ways that favour Israel. However, the salvation offered is on offer to everyone.

*the spirit of God is often seen as female and in its personification as 'wisdom' is frequently called 'she' or spoken of as a woman, so in this sense God is she/he (if we can attribute sex to a spiritual being).

Grammarnut · 20/04/2025 23:04

localnotail · 20/04/2025 22:04

I think I said before - Christianity is a FAITH, not a science based set of facts. I find it very comforting and I believe in what it says. I'm a believer and a Christian. If you have questions, you need to ask yourself why? I'm not a theologist, I can't answer your questions in detail. I can only state the facts - you cant be a Christian unless you believe in Trinity and unless you believe Jesus died on the cross for our sins and was resurrected. This is a fundamental difference between Christians and, for example, Jehovah's Witnesses (who are a non-Christian cult).

Would you include Unitarians as a non-Christian cult? This has never been suggested afaik. They do not believe in the Trinity.
Jehovah's Witnesses believe in the sacrifice Jesus made and that he is their/our saviour. They do not accept the Trinity, having a literal interpretation of the Bible on this point. A less literal interpretation sees God, the spirit of God (sometimes called 'wisdom') and Jesus as the Son of God. I am not theologian, but if you read any of the creeds accepted e.g. by the C of E (Nicene, Apostles, and Athanasian) they all say that God is one (I believe in one God) and then list the persons of the Trinity, which can be read as aspects of the same God e.g. God as Creator, God as wisdom (the Spirit of God/Holy Spirit), and God as the Word (the Word made flesh is Jesus).
It looks to me as though Jehovah's Witnesses are a schism of Christianity, not a non-Christian cult, as the core belief is that Jesus is Saviour (if you do not believe that then you are not a Christian). Same goes for Unitarians.

switcheroooo · 20/04/2025 23:07

Unitarianism has roots in Christian tradition and many Unitarians hold Jesus in high regard but they reject the Trinity.

This is belief without the complex Jesus part.

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Leafy3 · 20/04/2025 23:11

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Unitarianism

A bit about Unitarianism for those who are curious. It's considered a denomination of Christianity rather than a belief system with Christian roots.

On another note, I wish my phone would stop trying to autocorrect 'denomination' to 'demonisation' 😳🙈

Unitarianism - Wikipedia

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Unitarianism

Leafy3 · 20/04/2025 23:13

@Grammarnut it's been a long time since I had links to the CofE but I don't recall coming across the feminisation of God's spirit. Can you point me to examples? Is this in the Bible or in the language used by the church?

BlaBlaBla87436780087 · 20/04/2025 23:31

I mean the bible is literally just a fiction book so I wouldn’t put much time and effort into understanding something made up. No different to Harry Potter / Gruffalo etc

BashfulClam · 20/04/2025 23:31

localnotail · 20/04/2025 21:48

Holy Father, Jesus and Holy Spirit is one God in Christianity. So, basically, God himself died on the cross.

That makes fuck all sense. So glad my family have never been believers.

Squirrelsnut · 20/04/2025 23:33

Jesus died for somebody's sins
But not mine
(Patti Smith)

Ihopeithinkiknow · 20/04/2025 23:37

Love all the posts that say “go online and research if you are interested” or “can’t wait to see the posts attacking other religions on their holy day”
it’s almost as if some Christian’s know it’s nonsense and see any question as an attack about what they believe in because it can’t be explained in a logical way so just look over there everyone at other religions

WinterKitchen · 20/04/2025 23:41

Matthew 12:36
36 But I tell you that everyone will have to give account on the day of judgment for every empty word they have spoken

God's going to be busy with all the Love Islanders and influencers. .

Grammarnut · 20/04/2025 23:45

Leafy3 · 20/04/2025 23:13

@Grammarnut it's been a long time since I had links to the CofE but I don't recall coming across the feminisation of God's spirit. Can you point me to examples? Is this in the Bible or in the language used by the church?

It's in the Bible. I am rubbish at chapter and verse, but wisdom is personified as a woman who runs her household, in Isaiah, for example. God is described as mothering her people in some of the psalms and various OT quote God as pointing out that he/she has looked after Israel just as a mother cares for a child. The example most often quoted is Jesus' parable of the woman looking for a lost coin, a straight personification of God as female. He also compares God's care for humanity as that of a hen gathering her chicks.

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