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to not understand why Christians think Jesus died for our sins?

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switcheroooo · 20/04/2025 10:06

If Jesus died for everyone's sins, does that mean people are not accountable for their actions? You can kill people, steal and lie but have a protected status because Jesus died for your sins.

How does this work? Why are people not responsible for their own sins? Where is the justice?

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BunnyLake · 20/04/2025 21:41

switcheroooo · 20/04/2025 21:33

If Jesus is God, why did he die? Surely God would never die.

It’s just more stuff that doesn’t make sense. If Jesus is god then he didn’t die, he can’t die, it was just performative (or another one of those metaphors).

BashfulClam · 20/04/2025 21:42

The thing I can’t get my head round is that God let them kill his son. Free will or not if someone was whacking your child up on a cross and you were omnipotent you’d be sending down a lot of lightning bolts.

SixtySomething · 20/04/2025 21:46

switcheroooo · 20/04/2025 21:19

Are you saying Jesus will be judging people not God?

Will Jesus not be the saviour to those who do not believe in Christianity? What if people believe in God but not the version you believe in? They have lived good lives - what will be their outcome?

I think Jesus is one aspect of God. Like you can be yourself, a mother and a lawyer. They are all aspects of you.

localnotail · 20/04/2025 21:48

BashfulClam · 20/04/2025 21:42

The thing I can’t get my head round is that God let them kill his son. Free will or not if someone was whacking your child up on a cross and you were omnipotent you’d be sending down a lot of lightning bolts.

Holy Father, Jesus and Holy Spirit is one God in Christianity. So, basically, God himself died on the cross.

SixtySomething · 20/04/2025 21:48

BashfulClam · 20/04/2025 21:42

The thing I can’t get my head round is that God let them kill his son. Free will or not if someone was whacking your child up on a cross and you were omnipotent you’d be sending down a lot of lightning bolts.

IMO God isn't a person and doesn't behave like one.

switcheroooo · 20/04/2025 21:49

bridgetreilly · 20/04/2025 21:38

Because that is how much he loves us.

But also, that hits on one of the most complicated parts of Christian theology. Jesus is fully, completely God, but also fully, properly human. He died in his human nature. God did not die.

He loves us so he died? He is God but God did not die? I don't understand.

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SixtySomething · 20/04/2025 21:49

BunnyLake · 20/04/2025 21:41

It’s just more stuff that doesn’t make sense. If Jesus is god then he didn’t die, he can’t die, it was just performative (or another one of those metaphors).

Jesus is one aspect of God, when he was made man. It was God the man who died.

localnotail · 20/04/2025 21:50

switcheroooo · 20/04/2025 21:49

He loves us so he died? He is God but God did not die? I don't understand.

He loves us so he died for our sins. In the form of Jesus.

Leafy3 · 20/04/2025 21:52

localnotail · 20/04/2025 21:35

But being a Christian requires a certain believes: that there is a Trinity and that Jesus died for our sins and was resurrected. You cant be a Christian if you dont believe in these main postulates. There is not "in-between" regarding these.

Well I never said I was Christian 😉

And actually there is some debate about the Trinity isn't there, not all denominations believe in it (the Unitarians, famously).

Thirdly, if you believe one cannot be Christian without believing these main tenets of the established Church then what about Christians who experience doubt? Doubt, after all, is common when following Christianity - even vicars and priests will admit to it (and Jesus himself of course). Does a person experiencing doubt cease to be a Christian until the doubt is resolved in favour of the established teachings?

I would also argue that no one should blindly follow a faith, so doubt is integral to leading a faithful life.

Finally, in response to your post, I suggest that surely what really matters in Christianity are the teachings of Jesus himself?

localnotail · 20/04/2025 21:53

God came to earth in the form of a man, Jesus. He suffered and died as a man would on the cross. He accepted the suffering and death as punishment for our sins. Even if he was a God and could have avoided this.

switcheroooo · 20/04/2025 21:53

localnotail · 20/04/2025 21:50

He loves us so he died for our sins. In the form of Jesus.

Which sins? What about the sins people commit after his death? If God is the Almighty, why would he change form into a man and make himself die for sins if others?

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localnotail · 20/04/2025 21:55

Leafy3 · 20/04/2025 21:52

Well I never said I was Christian 😉

And actually there is some debate about the Trinity isn't there, not all denominations believe in it (the Unitarians, famously).

Thirdly, if you believe one cannot be Christian without believing these main tenets of the established Church then what about Christians who experience doubt? Doubt, after all, is common when following Christianity - even vicars and priests will admit to it (and Jesus himself of course). Does a person experiencing doubt cease to be a Christian until the doubt is resolved in favour of the established teachings?

I would also argue that no one should blindly follow a faith, so doubt is integral to leading a faithful life.

Finally, in response to your post, I suggest that surely what really matters in Christianity are the teachings of Jesus himself?

I do not have doubt. I came to Christianity late in life and I accept its teachings. I'm Orthodox Christian.

Burntt · 20/04/2025 21:55

at any other time of year I might engage with this and try to answer. I’m not even going to read the thread because it will be full of people insulting my religion and me for believing what is believe. These threads always are.

did it even occur to you the tone you use in the op and how that might come across to Christians? How others will pile on and insult a group of people when they really are not interested in the answers to your questions as they have decided Christianity is stupid. Google could have answered you. It’s our most special time, normally I’d not react but honestly what are you trying to achieve here?

switcheroooo · 20/04/2025 21:56

Can't one believe in God without the complicated Jesus part?

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SixtySomething · 20/04/2025 21:56

Leafy3 · 20/04/2025 21:52

Well I never said I was Christian 😉

And actually there is some debate about the Trinity isn't there, not all denominations believe in it (the Unitarians, famously).

Thirdly, if you believe one cannot be Christian without believing these main tenets of the established Church then what about Christians who experience doubt? Doubt, after all, is common when following Christianity - even vicars and priests will admit to it (and Jesus himself of course). Does a person experiencing doubt cease to be a Christian until the doubt is resolved in favour of the established teachings?

I would also argue that no one should blindly follow a faith, so doubt is integral to leading a faithful life.

Finally, in response to your post, I suggest that surely what really matters in Christianity are the teachings of Jesus himself?

I think the doubt point is a red herring.
A mother loves her child, but sometimes she doubts her love for the child eg if the child has a tantrum. But that's just a normal blip and the same goes for religious doubt IMO.

Leafy3 · 20/04/2025 21:56

@localnotail but you haven't answered my questions

I'm not posing them to challenge your beliefs - please don't misunderstand and think I am being adversarial.

localnotail · 20/04/2025 21:57

switcheroooo · 20/04/2025 21:53

Which sins? What about the sins people commit after his death? If God is the Almighty, why would he change form into a man and make himself die for sins if others?

If you are a believer who wants to know more, speak to your spiritual father/ priest. If you dont believe, why bother?

Abracadabra12345 · 20/04/2025 21:57

switcheroooo · 20/04/2025 21:19

Are you saying Jesus will be judging people not God?

Will Jesus not be the saviour to those who do not believe in Christianity? What if people believe in God but not the version you believe in? They have lived good lives - what will be their outcome?

It’s great that you are asking questions so please speak to your local priest or find an Alpha course or something

DrinkReprehensibly · 20/04/2025 21:58

To be fair to Jesus, in the story, he came back to life which is pretty special and godly. Sadly he popped up to heaven so quickly that only a few people realised he was risen and most people at the time assumed he stayed dead like a normal human would. Pity that.

I was raised in quite a devout Christian family and tried to believe lots of times as I wanted to join in, but it's like I physically can't. Belief doesn't feel like a choice to me. God apparently knows my true heart so no matter how hard I try, he'll know that I just can't. I have a very logical brain and it just doesn't click for me. I go to church with mum at Christmas and easter these days but have given up the rest of the time. Ultimately, I feel, if there is a God, he doesn't want me.

switcheroooo · 20/04/2025 21:59

Burntt · 20/04/2025 21:55

at any other time of year I might engage with this and try to answer. I’m not even going to read the thread because it will be full of people insulting my religion and me for believing what is believe. These threads always are.

did it even occur to you the tone you use in the op and how that might come across to Christians? How others will pile on and insult a group of people when they really are not interested in the answers to your questions as they have decided Christianity is stupid. Google could have answered you. It’s our most special time, normally I’d not react but honestly what are you trying to achieve here?

Feel free to report the post if you are not happy with the tone and how it comes across to Christians.

Many Christians here have been more than helpful in their explanations and I have had a look at parts of the Bible as a result.

Do you care if people think Christianity is stupid? Be firm in your faith and don't let people's opinions bother you.

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switcheroooo · 20/04/2025 22:00

Abracadabra12345 · 20/04/2025 21:57

It’s great that you are asking questions so please speak to your local priest or find an Alpha course or something

I am finding it helpful here but thank you.

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Fleur405 · 20/04/2025 22:01

switcheroooo · 20/04/2025 21:56

Can't one believe in God without the complicated Jesus part?

Well yes but then you are not a Christian.

I am an atheist but was raised a catholic. Respectfully, you don’t seem to be trying all that hard to understand. If you really want to understand then you need to do some basic research - if you are just wishing to make the point that you don’t agree with Christianity… well ok.

Tryingtokeepgoing · 20/04/2025 22:01

Smallmercies · 20/04/2025 21:28

Jesus died of apoplexy after receiving an email about Easter from Brora.

He was back again by Sunday, so he didn’t so much die as give up a weekend for us ;)

SixtySomething · 20/04/2025 22:02

switcheroooo · 20/04/2025 21:56

Can't one believe in God without the complicated Jesus part?

You can do what you like but ultimately you can't be a Christian really without a belief in Jesus, However ,it's not complicated. Jesus is there to interpret God for us and show us the way to a good life. I think that's what defines Christianity.
I guess you ca make up your own God and believe in him/her and presume that's what millions do when they say they are 'spiritual but not religious' but IMO it's a bit inward looking and ultimately rather pointless and self-serving. Christianity is meant to draw you outwards towards an understanding of your fellow human being.IMO it's a form of idolatry to worship your own subjective prejudices and preferences.

Supersimkin7 · 20/04/2025 22:03

Where’s the Eid rude thread?

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