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to not understand why Christians think Jesus died for our sins?

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switcheroooo · 20/04/2025 10:06

If Jesus died for everyone's sins, does that mean people are not accountable for their actions? You can kill people, steal and lie but have a protected status because Jesus died for your sins.

How does this work? Why are people not responsible for their own sins? Where is the justice?

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bridgetreilly · 20/04/2025 21:08

BunnyLake · 20/04/2025 20:23

So until this judgement day heaven and hell must be empty yes? No one can enter either until this day comes and people are either worthy of heaven or deserving or hell?

So no one is in heaven as we speak?

Sort of. God is there in heaven. The souls of those who have died are with Christ or not, but it’s not physical existence and it’s not in time the way that we are. The new creation (heaven) and hell will be physical, when we are resurrected to eternal life. Christ’s resurrection, which is what we celebrate today, is the promise of what we will all experience on that day.

localnotail · 20/04/2025 21:11

switcheroooo · 20/04/2025 19:54

So what happens to the non believers?

Whatever you believe in? Like, if you believe that there is nothing after death - then, probably, this is what you are going to get?

Elsvieta · 20/04/2025 21:13

switcheroooo · 20/04/2025 21:05

Thank you. I just had a look now.

1 Corinthians 4:5
5 Therefore judge nothing before the appointed time; wait until the Lord comes. He will bring to light what is hidden in darkness and will expose the motives of the heart. At that time each will receive their praise from God.

Ecclesiastes 12:14
14 For God will bring every deed into judgment, including every hidden thing, whether it is good or evil.

Hebrews 9:27
27 Just as people are destined to die once, and after that to face judgment,

Matthew 12:36
36 But I tell you that everyone will have to give account on the day of judgment for every empty word they have spoken.

The Christians I have spoken to do not mention the day of judgment. But this explains it is an important concept, thank you.

And that's before you get started on the Book of Revelation, which can be quite a bit harder to interpret and understand, with a lot of symbolism. This also mentions the Tribulation, a time of worldwide chaos and persecution of Christians at the end of time. Theologians differ on whether the texts are saying this will happen before the Rapture (when living Christians will be removed from the Earth), or after, or kind of both / in the middle.

bridgetreilly · 20/04/2025 21:14

@switcheroooo, those verses are very good ones to help understand it. One day, Christ will return in a very different way from how he came the first time. Everyone will recognise that he is God, and will be subject to his judgment on everything we have ever said or done or thought. Sounds terrifying, right? And it will be, except for those who can look at Christ and know that he is their saviour as well as their judge.

That’s the main reason Christians want to tell other people about their faith, to warn them of danger and show them how to escape it. If people don’t want to hear it and don’t want to believe, that’s up to them. But if we don’t even tell people, that’s on us.

bridgetreilly · 20/04/2025 21:16

localnotail · 20/04/2025 21:11

Whatever you believe in? Like, if you believe that there is nothing after death - then, probably, this is what you are going to get?

There is absolutely no evidence or logic to support this view. If there is nothing after death, it is much more logical to assume that is true for all of us.

switcheroooo · 20/04/2025 21:19

bridgetreilly · 20/04/2025 21:14

@switcheroooo, those verses are very good ones to help understand it. One day, Christ will return in a very different way from how he came the first time. Everyone will recognise that he is God, and will be subject to his judgment on everything we have ever said or done or thought. Sounds terrifying, right? And it will be, except for those who can look at Christ and know that he is their saviour as well as their judge.

That’s the main reason Christians want to tell other people about their faith, to warn them of danger and show them how to escape it. If people don’t want to hear it and don’t want to believe, that’s up to them. But if we don’t even tell people, that’s on us.

Are you saying Jesus will be judging people not God?

Will Jesus not be the saviour to those who do not believe in Christianity? What if people believe in God but not the version you believe in? They have lived good lives - what will be their outcome?

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localnotail · 20/04/2025 21:22

bridgetreilly · 20/04/2025 21:16

There is absolutely no evidence or logic to support this view. If there is nothing after death, it is much more logical to assume that is true for all of us.

I think you decide yourself what you believe in. How is that is not logical?

bridgetreilly · 20/04/2025 21:24

switcheroooo · 20/04/2025 21:19

Are you saying Jesus will be judging people not God?

Will Jesus not be the saviour to those who do not believe in Christianity? What if people believe in God but not the version you believe in? They have lived good lives - what will be their outcome?

Jesus is God.

He will judge completely justly, with all the evidence and no one will be judged unjustly. He knows our hearts, not just outward appearances. He knows our circumstances and opportunities. We will not be able to say it is unfair.

We know that he has promised to save all who trust in God. We also know that you can trust God without precisely knowing all about Jesus, like the people in the Old Testament. But we also know that our idea of ‘good’ is never perfectly good. So, I can’t possibly tell you what will happen to everyone. Some people will be saved and some won’t. But the only way to be certain is to know and trust Christ as saviour and Lord.

bridgetreilly · 20/04/2025 21:25

localnotail · 20/04/2025 21:22

I think you decide yourself what you believe in. How is that is not logical?

Of course. But it is not logical to assume that those beliefs are all true, or that they all come true for us on death.

It is much more logical to assume that when people believe different things, one or more of them is wrong.

localnotail · 20/04/2025 21:26

I think the problem here is people forget that religion is not a science/ evidence based thing. Its based of faith and faith alone. Either you believe, or you dont believe? Its not compulsory, and you decide for yourself what you chose to accept.

localnotail · 20/04/2025 21:27

bridgetreilly · 20/04/2025 21:25

Of course. But it is not logical to assume that those beliefs are all true, or that they all come true for us on death.

It is much more logical to assume that when people believe different things, one or more of them is wrong.

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But there is no way of testing this, right? At least for now. So its basically based on faith.

Smallmercies · 20/04/2025 21:28

Jesus died of apoplexy after receiving an email about Easter from Brora.

Leafy3 · 20/04/2025 21:29

localnotail · 20/04/2025 21:26

I think the problem here is people forget that religion is not a science/ evidence based thing. Its based of faith and faith alone. Either you believe, or you dont believe? Its not compulsory, and you decide for yourself what you chose to accept.

Personally, I don't think belief is black and white. A lot of us fall somewhere inbetween.

bridgetreilly · 20/04/2025 21:30

localnotail · 20/04/2025 21:27

But there is no way of testing this, right? At least for now. So its basically based on faith.

Of course. The point is just that not all faiths can be correct because they are contradictory. And although you can choose what to believe (though there is plenty of relevant evidence to bear in mind), that doesn’t determine what will actually happen.

localnotail · 20/04/2025 21:30

Also, we could assume that reality after death can be different. We can assume, for example, for those who believe in afterlife, it exist. And for those who dont, it doesn't.

localnotail · 20/04/2025 21:31

bridgetreilly · 20/04/2025 21:30

Of course. The point is just that not all faiths can be correct because they are contradictory. And although you can choose what to believe (though there is plenty of relevant evidence to bear in mind), that doesn’t determine what will actually happen.

Like I said, why cant it be that your faith actually determines what happens to you in the afterlife?

switcheroooo · 20/04/2025 21:33

bridgetreilly · 20/04/2025 21:24

Jesus is God.

He will judge completely justly, with all the evidence and no one will be judged unjustly. He knows our hearts, not just outward appearances. He knows our circumstances and opportunities. We will not be able to say it is unfair.

We know that he has promised to save all who trust in God. We also know that you can trust God without precisely knowing all about Jesus, like the people in the Old Testament. But we also know that our idea of ‘good’ is never perfectly good. So, I can’t possibly tell you what will happen to everyone. Some people will be saved and some won’t. But the only way to be certain is to know and trust Christ as saviour and Lord.

If Jesus is God, why did he die? Surely God would never die.

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localnotail · 20/04/2025 21:35

Leafy3 · 20/04/2025 21:29

Personally, I don't think belief is black and white. A lot of us fall somewhere inbetween.

But being a Christian requires a certain believes: that there is a Trinity and that Jesus died for our sins and was resurrected. You cant be a Christian if you dont believe in these main postulates. There is not "in-between" regarding these.

LoremIpsumCici · 20/04/2025 21:36

switcheroooo · 20/04/2025 11:21

I am not sure why people think I am insulting Christians on their holy day. Do religions not encourage questioning? Surely questioning can lead to understanding.

To begin to understand any religion, you should really be approaching your local priest, rabbi, imam, lama, swami, shaman, etc. Mumsnet AIBU isn’t the place to learn.

BunnyLake · 20/04/2025 21:36

bridgetreilly · 20/04/2025 21:08

Sort of. God is there in heaven. The souls of those who have died are with Christ or not, but it’s not physical existence and it’s not in time the way that we are. The new creation (heaven) and hell will be physical, when we are resurrected to eternal life. Christ’s resurrection, which is what we celebrate today, is the promise of what we will all experience on that day.

I’ll pass thanks.

bridgetreilly · 20/04/2025 21:36

localnotail · 20/04/2025 21:31

Like I said, why cant it be that your faith actually determines what happens to you in the afterlife?

I guess it could, but it doesn’t work that way for anything else. People can believe that the earth is flat, but that doesn’t stop it being round. Facts aren’t generally affected by whether we believe them. So I would find it really hard to understand how what happens when we die is determined by what we believed when we were alive. What if you have believed several different things - which one would come true?

bridgetreilly · 20/04/2025 21:38

switcheroooo · 20/04/2025 21:33

If Jesus is God, why did he die? Surely God would never die.

Because that is how much he loves us.

But also, that hits on one of the most complicated parts of Christian theology. Jesus is fully, completely God, but also fully, properly human. He died in his human nature. God did not die.

localnotail · 20/04/2025 21:40

bridgetreilly · 20/04/2025 21:36

I guess it could, but it doesn’t work that way for anything else. People can believe that the earth is flat, but that doesn’t stop it being round. Facts aren’t generally affected by whether we believe them. So I would find it really hard to understand how what happens when we die is determined by what we believed when we were alive. What if you have believed several different things - which one would come true?

Because, as I said previously, religion is not based on the fact, but on FAITH. Its up to you if you chose to believe or not, there are no facts or proofs...It would have been easy and simple if there were?..

SixtySomething · 20/04/2025 21:40

Lisapieces · 20/04/2025 11:10

I live in a family that proports to be Christian. There are two priests in the extended family. All the family are deathly silent on the incest and carpet sweeping of incest that has gone on in my family.

One of the priests advised his brother (both my uncles) who rang him up to seek his counsel on the issue to never mention the abuse to keep the family relationships smooth. In his view (the priest) the abuse is solely the abusers issue and there is no context to why it happened but that simply is not true my parents have deep seated issues themselves and are my brothers prime enablers. When I called out my uncle on his behaviour of advocating for carpet sweeping he completely cut me off. Childlike hypocrites who have neither the wisdom nor the insight into themselves and their own limitations and faults to be able to advise anyone on anything. Yet they are full of hubris. Dealing with them has put me off religion for life.

The family also weaponise forgiveness so that the victims of abuse who want accountability are the problem in the family not abusers nor the enablers of abuse, it is all a crock as far as I am concerned.

Does this answer OP's question?
I'm sorry you have this experience in your family but it seems a bit random to post about it on this thread?

LoremIpsumCici · 20/04/2025 21:41

bridgetreilly · 20/04/2025 21:25

Of course. But it is not logical to assume that those beliefs are all true, or that they all come true for us on death.

It is much more logical to assume that when people believe different things, one or more of them is wrong.

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Is it?
What if one person believed they’d be born as royalty and live a rich life to 96 and another that they’d be born in a tent and killed by a bomb within hours…

If entry into this life can be different for every human, then why can’t death and the afterlife be different for every human?

We can all believe different things and all be right. What is or will be true for one, can indeed only be true for that one.

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