DH will no longer do joint posts on Instagram

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As per the title - Easter Sunday is off to a dreadful start with ‘D’ H and I already having had an argument.

Some background, we have individual insta’s but for any major ‘announcements/events’ as such we will use the collaboration feature so the post appears on both our grids. Think engagement, wedding, pregnancy-gender reveal/birth, anniversary etc.

It’s our DD’s first Easter so I’ve got her a brilliant outfit, some props and of course eggs. I’ve also got a personalised sort of sign which says it’s her first Easter.

I said to H I’ll get the photos done after breakfast and we can joint post. He says it’s stupid to do this and doesn’t warrant all the effort as it’s ’only Easter’ so he won’t be putting it on his grid.

AIBU to feel pissed off with him? It will look strange if it’s only on my page.

You are definitely the Mother’s Day and birthday poster. She said a very similar thing, practically word for word

Knowing your worth has nothing to do with Instagram

This all sounds like something the trollop woman who slept with Kyle Walker would do. Staged photos with props for the Insta followers.

Narcissist

This is Grade A top-drawer trolling.

It reminds me of when trolling was a respected artform - before the clueless legacy media redefined it as waging an online hate campaign.

Any comments on our standards?

Well, he's right about that, surely, isn't he?

Glad I don't have to know my worth from my partner of 18 years through likes or validation from the Internet.

So you chose to taint your Easter Day to get your insta posts up and pretend it is all happy families rather than focusing on making it a good day. I feel sorry for your DH who no doubt has relented for an easier life. Social media really isn’t important! It not worth pissing your other half off for!

I think people are being unnecessarily unkind. Whilst this isn’t something I would do, you are free to do it. If he would do it before and now won’t, I can understand why you’d find this confusing and maybe feel insecure about it. Hope you both figure it out.

Maybe he had finally started to grow up.

Sorry but this is absolute bollox. "Women supporting women" boils my blood. I won't stand by someone doing something I think is batshit crazy just because she has a vagina!

Social media will be the bane of this society 😭

Stop posting your children on the internet. It’s full of pedos, weirdos and general wrong uns. Anyone still doing this in the year 2025 is painfully self absorbed.

Sorry, have to disagree here. This is 100% millennial flavour fizz.

Hi OP - are you really Amanda from Amandaland? Sounds like her kind of Co-lab….🤣🤣🤣

Why is it "really really sad". Having a vagina doesn't automatically meanyou are not to be criticised by other women. It also doesn't earn you their immediate and unquestioned support either.

It really isn’t. They’re not varying their threads enough, it’s pretty much the same as their previous two. Very formulaic, imo.

Even us Millennials want nothing to do with it. Got to be under 30 to care I think

Where did he bring it from? Was it one of the props?! What were the rest of the “props?”

37 pages of replies is pretty impressive.

I quite agree.
Formulaic or not, it had the desired effect!

There seems to have been a lot of posts in the last few days about other people not being willing to post on social media. Is there an epidemic?

Me too - I also saw the Mother’s Day one

OK, l’ll edit my post just for you -

Just because someone records things or celebrates differently to you, or thinks different things are important - it doesn’t make it wrong, or silly, or worth taking the mick about. Just nasty.

You’re not sorry though, are you. But I do feel sorry for you, feeling so intensely about the way someone else chooses to celebrate seems like a strange way to spend your energy.