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To think the school could do more to accommodate working parents

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Eastie77Returns · 19/04/2025 11:04

By working I mean parents who do so out of the home (don’t want this to turn into a SAH/ working parents debate, I know all parents do work of some nature)

DD is going on a residential trip next week. Parents are asked to drop children off at the venue at 12.30 and collect them at the end of the residential “sometime between 12 and 3pm, we will let you know what time exactly on the day”

It’s pure bad luck that I have all day work meetings/training on both days. The residential venue is a short walk from the school and a number of teachers will be going from the school to the venue mid morning. I spoke with some parents who are also a bit stuck due to work commitments and we collectively e-mailed and asked if our children could be dropped of at school in the morning and then walk with the teachers to the venue. We were told no (no reason given). We asked if we could get some clarity around pick up time on the final day as 12 - 3 is quite a window of time and were told no as it depends on the weather and if the children do an outdoor activity on that day or not. We are to keep our phones on and look out for a text from the school. The school also often schedules meetings at 3.45 for example and there are other instances where they have organised events mid morning/afternoon.

I am very lucky to work for a flexible employer and I will somehow have to adjust my work schedule but some parents I spoke to work in retail, medical settings etc and do not have that option. AIBU to think the school could do more to take into account there are parents who cannot just start work in the middle of the day or up and leave at short notice to pick up their child?

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whippy1981 · 28/04/2025 12:59

Eastie77Returns · 27/04/2025 12:03

Well as an update, the pick up was a lot of fun (not)😂 The weather was nice on the last day so the kids got to do the outdoor field activity. The text arrived just after 1.30pm requesting pick up between 2.30 and 3pm.

I had obtained permission to pick up DD’s 2 friends. Arrived to a scene of bedlam. Uppn approach there was a huge tailback of traffic because there is a single, one way track to access and exit the venue so cars trying to enter backed up whilst other cars were leaving. Unfortunately they backed up onto a narrow lane so it was chaos as there were cars wanting to drive past the residential venue in the jam with their drivers beeping and understandably fuming.

The most ridiculous aspect of all this is the kids could have walked via a field footpath, in the opposite direction to the road, and walked home or back to school to be met by parents if they had been allowed to leave alone.

Or the parents could've walked up from the bottom of the lane to meet them! More fool them for trying to drive up when they could walk!

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