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I don't understand how this is manslaughter and not murder

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lifeonmars100 · 08/04/2025 15:15

https://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2025/apr/08/two-teenagers-found-guilty- by of-manslaughter-of-80-year-old-man-in-leicestershire-park?CMP=sharebtnurl

I am sure I am not alone in being disturbed and upset by this awful case. I can't stop thinking about this poor man, setting off for a stroll with his dog and then to be the victim of a vicious unprovoked attack of such severity that he died as a result of it. I can't understand how the boy was found guilty of manslaughter and not murder. I appreciate that a murder conviction hinges on "intent" i.e what was in the defendant's mind when they committed the offence and of course I was not in court to hear all the evidence but as a layperson I just don't get it. Maybe things will be clearer when they are sentenced. I feel so sorry for the family, the details are so awful and will surely haunt them forever. The fact that the girl filmed the attack is truly sickening but seems par for the course these days. Mr Kohli must have been terrified and in so much pain, what a terrible end to his life

Two teenagers found guilty of manslaughter of 80-year-old man in Leicestershire park

Bhim Kohli, who was walking his dog, was racially abused, kicked and punched in ‘gratuitous’ attack

https://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2025/apr/08/two-teenagers-found-guilty-of-manslaughter-of-80-year-old-man-in-leicestershire-park?CMP=share_btn_url

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Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 09/04/2025 06:19

Isxmasoveryet · 09/04/2025 00:33

Horrific this is what gentle parenting gets u I guess their mum's must be proud as punch these two should be locked up named shamed n key thrown away that poor man

This is nothing to do with 'gentle' parenting. These kids have probably been left to their own devices since they were toddlers and given no consistent boundaries. That's neglect. The other possibility is that they were completely unmanageable and the parents couldn't cope. We often see posts here from parents at the end of their tether with very young children who are violent and really hard work. 15 years of austerity has had a terrible effect on mental health services and social services, as we all know, so parents and children are not getting the help they need. Short-sighted, and we're all paying the price.

hattie43 · 09/04/2025 06:27

PassingStranger · 08/04/2025 15:17

Well done to the parents who obvs didn't raise their kids to have respect for their elders.
Name and shame them all.including the parents.
Countries fed up with the feral scum that are being churned out.

It’s about time parents were held accountable and in the dock for raising such feral kids . It’s like they have sex and then just don’t do any parenting at all and leave society to deal with their awful offspring .

ASimpleLampoon · 09/04/2025 06:31

The Justice System and courts downplay male violence. Also there is institutional racism, so the racism is not taken as seriously as it should be

happyhermione · 09/04/2025 06:37

Disgusting if they were lenient. This case is the most upsetting I have seen in some time.

Toddlerteaplease · 09/04/2025 06:48

Genevieva · 08/04/2025 15:25

I agree. If they intended to harm then it’s murder, even if they didn’t intend to kill. What they did was sickening.

But that’s the point. It’s not murder if they didn’t intend it to end in death.

CurlewKate · 09/04/2025 06:55

We have laws in this country. Murder and manslaughter have definitions. However much you want it to, this did not meet the criteria for murder.

Smallmercies · 09/04/2025 06:58

TulipBlooms · 08/04/2025 20:49

How do you know they are white?

Because if they weren't, it would have featured - ethnicity is only ever not mentioned when the criminals are white.

Morph22010 · 09/04/2025 07:12

A couple of things stood out to me when i read some local coverage yesterday after the verdicts

  1. a family member of mr kohlis posted on a local newspaper fb page that he’d been in court everyday and they’d found it extremely difficult the way the families of the accused behaved, he said they were high fiving each other during the court case when evidence appeared to be going their way

  2. mr kohlis daughter released a statement which included thanks for all witnesses and she particularly thanked the children who had given evidence and their parents and commented how brave they were. Until then I hadn’t even realised they’d been children giving evidence and it’s good to hear some parents still do the right thing

Morph22010 · 09/04/2025 07:17

TheGrimSmile · 08/04/2025 21:30

Murder requires intent to kill, or to commit serious bodily harm. So of you intend to seriously hurt someone and they die as a result of that, it's murder - even if you didn't actually intend to kill them.

I don't know the details of this case. If they pleaded guilty then they probably did some kind of plea bargain ie CPS drop the charge from murder to manslaughter on understanding that they admit to it and plead guilty.

They didn’t plead guilty to manslaughter either. Boy was on trial for murder and manslaughter got found not guilty of murder but guilty of manslaughter, girl was “just” tried for manslaughter

Keepingthingsinteresting · 09/04/2025 07:22

caringcarer · 08/04/2025 15:24

Courts in the UK are always bending over backwards to let offenders off, give them shortest sentences possible and then if they go to jail sentences are reduced to half for so called good behaviour.

Don’t be so ridiculous, where is your evidence for this statement. Courts work within the law.

OonaStubbs · 09/04/2025 07:32

The law is wrong and needs changing.

CurlewKate · 09/04/2025 07:44

Such a depressing thread. And not because of the verdict.

TheGrimSmile · 09/04/2025 07:48

Toddlerteaplease · 09/04/2025 06:48

But that’s the point. It’s not murder if they didn’t intend it to end in death.

That's not strictly correct. They have to intend death or grievous bodily harm (which then results in death) So the Mens Rea of murder is actually intent to cause death or serious harm.

I suspect the reason the jury convicted them of manslaughter and not murder is down to their age. And also, in cases like this, where the jury are offered a choice of both, and it's not premeditated, they are often inclined to go for manslaughter.

TulipBlooms · 09/04/2025 07:52

Smallmercies · 09/04/2025 06:58

Because if they weren't, it would have featured - ethnicity is only ever not mentioned when the criminals are white.

You really believe this? Can you give any examples of child criminals where their ethnicity was revealed?

TheGrimSmile · 09/04/2025 07:52

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 09/04/2025 06:19

This is nothing to do with 'gentle' parenting. These kids have probably been left to their own devices since they were toddlers and given no consistent boundaries. That's neglect. The other possibility is that they were completely unmanageable and the parents couldn't cope. We often see posts here from parents at the end of their tether with very young children who are violent and really hard work. 15 years of austerity has had a terrible effect on mental health services and social services, as we all know, so parents and children are not getting the help they need. Short-sighted, and we're all paying the price.

Precisely. It's not gentle parenting at all. At best its likely to be neglect, at worst, abusive parenting.

It feels like mumsnet has been taken over by the Daily Mail sometimes.

Smallmercies · 09/04/2025 07:53

TulipBlooms · 09/04/2025 07:52

You really believe this? Can you give any examples of child criminals where their ethnicity was revealed?

Edited

Axel Rudakubana

WhenYouSayNothingAtAll · 09/04/2025 07:54

happyhermione · 09/04/2025 06:37

Disgusting if they were lenient. This case is the most upsetting I have seen in some time.

If who was lenient?

Smallmercies · 09/04/2025 07:54

TulipBlooms · 09/04/2025 07:52

You really believe this? Can you give any examples of child criminals where their ethnicity was revealed?

Edited

Leaked, revealed whatever; no one ever leaks a white child criminal's ethnicity

gattocattivo · 09/04/2025 07:55

Extract from what the boy wrote:

” I feel like my case is evil. I ain’t that type of person. I kinda just needed anger etc releasing.”
He continued: “I feel like I have let my mum down so much. I am nervous, well scared and worried. I accept I did it and I am doing time. I am just scared about how long I have to do.”
The prosecution said at no point in the letter did the boy say he was acting in self-defence or in someone else’s defence. When told the letter would have to be disclosed, he responded: “That’s my manslaughter plea gone.”

No remorse, no respect, just disgusting concern for himself.

I hope both criminals are named.

OonaStubbs · 09/04/2025 07:55

Bad parenting is bad parenting, regardless of whether it be "gentle", "neglectful" or whatever. And there are too many bad parents out there today. Hence we have so many cases of children killing others. It needs to be stopped.

Yaaaassssssqueeeeeennnnnslay · 09/04/2025 07:56

In this case it makes little difference to the sentence. As children they are likely to be let out when they become adults as long as they aren’t seen to pose danger to anyone.

TulipBlooms · 09/04/2025 07:57

Smallmercies · 09/04/2025 07:53

Axel Rudakubana

Well yes but we also know the ethnicity of James Bulger’s murderers so I don’t think one example really makes your case.

TheGrimSmile · 09/04/2025 07:58

Toddlerteaplease · 09/04/2025 06:48

But that’s the point. It’s not murder if they didn’t intend it to end in death.

This is not true. You have to intend death or GBH.

Smallmercies · 09/04/2025 07:59

TulipBlooms · 09/04/2025 07:57

Well yes but we also know the ethnicity of James Bulger’s murderers so I don’t think one example really makes your case.

We know their ethnicity because we know who they are - their ethnicity was never a feature of the case. You're being disingenuous.

thepariscrimefiles · 09/04/2025 08:02

asrl78 · 08/04/2025 15:22

It comes down to what can be proved beyond reasonable doubt in court. To convict a defendant of murder requires proof of intent to kill. Without that manslaughter is the only option.

It is not about respect, or lack of, for elders, it is about respect for people and life in general. Elderly people do not automatically deserve more respect than others just because they have existed for longer.

Older people aren't deserving of more respect just because they have existed for longer. However, their age does make them more vulnerable than a younger adult and much less able to fight back or even run away. The same would be true if they had attacked someone with disabilities.

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