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Mother's Day - should school do more?

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inquisitiveinga · 28/03/2025 20:39

Disclaimer: I am absolutely not going to complain regarding this matter, I understand that teachers may have completely valid reasons for the below. My child's teacher is also FANTASTIC, she doesn't have children, and I can't help but think that due to this she perhaps doesn't understand the value of a handmade card?

My child has come home from school today and it's very clear that nothing has been prepared for Mother's Day, at least where their class is concerned. Usually a "beautiful" card comes home and it really makes my day.

Personally, I'm not bothered. I'm fortunate enough to have a husband who will not doubt ensure I have something from my 7 year old, and 1 year old (although I'm not really sure anything from her is warranted!). However, I can't help but think about single mothers in the class who may not receive anything (and who absolutely should).

AIBU to even be having this thought process?

OP posts:
Calliopespa · 31/03/2025 15:52

Has anyone seen the thread today : gutted her DH didn’t mention her first MD on his socials. This is exactly what I fear MD has been reduced to .

Doingtheboxerbeat · 31/03/2025 17:34

Calliopespa · 31/03/2025 15:52

Has anyone seen the thread today : gutted her DH didn’t mention her first MD on his socials. This is exactly what I fear MD has been reduced to .

I said as much a few pages back - it suddenly dawned on me that this was all about looking good on SM.

Calliopespa · 31/03/2025 17:41

Doingtheboxerbeat · 31/03/2025 17:34

I said as much a few pages back - it suddenly dawned on me that this was all about looking good on SM.

Agreed. Why else would you be checking on Friday - unless wanting to know what you had to “work with” when curating. Surely otherwise you’d just let them surprise you?

Aworldofwonder · 31/03/2025 17:56

Hi OP,

My DC is Y2. She came home with a handmade card for me and also one for her granny. We made a video for her godmother.

It was all gorgeous and I loved it.

I did wonder how the teachers currently navigate situations like outlined above.

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