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Are Europeans 'pathetic European free loaders'?

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ImmediateReaction · 25/03/2025 09:59

WhatsApp chat released today from the US calling Europeans 'pathetic European free-loaders'.

One of our closest allies! What about support from European countries after September 11th?

AIBU to expect more professional language?

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Notonthestairs · 25/03/2025 12:53

The US has certainly forcefully told the EU to increase NATO spending in the past.

But there was never a suggestion that the US would ally itself to Russia. American officials now parrot Kremlin talking points as a matter of course. Russian spokespeople celebrate that.

No previous President would have said that he admired Erdogan or Putin,

It is a striking difference with previous US administrations.

ImmediateReaction · 25/03/2025 13:08

I don't think Trump actually knows what his incompetent idiots are doing. It was new to him.

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JHound · 25/03/2025 13:18

Epli · 25/03/2025 10:26

Yes but we have been pulling our weight when it comes to dealing with a societal consequences of US invasions in Middle East in form of refugees from the region. The US invades and fucks back to their land with a convenience of being separated from the mess they create by an ocean, whilst we have to deal with over million of people and increased risk of terrorism.

Fair point. We deal with the consequences far less than neighbouring countries but far more than the USA.

DuncinToffee · 25/03/2025 13:19

He is not in charge then?

His WH Chief of Staff, Susie Wiles, was on the chat

JHound · 25/03/2025 13:29

Puzzledandpissedoff · 25/03/2025 10:57

That's a very valid point about Americans who are foolish enough to believe that savings will trickle down to them, Jabtastic - it doesn't work that way and never has

I can't entirely agree that the American Dream's a con though; it still exists for those able and prepared to put in the personal effort, and while far from perfect it's certainly better than systems where folk expect the state to bankroll absolutely everything

But the American Dream is largely a myth. It has one of the lowest (if not the lowest) rate of social mobility in the developed world. “The American Dream” is more possible for more people in many European countries.

SerendipityJane · 25/03/2025 13:34

Snorlaxo · 25/03/2025 11:49

Do Americans use or hear phrases like “Special Relationship” or is that a term used by UK media to make the UK seem more diplomatically significant to the US?

I think it is abundantly clear that to the US "special relationship" means with Russia.

LizzieSiddal · 25/03/2025 13:35

Whatsinanamehey · 25/03/2025 10:19

I wonder what Keir Starmer thinks of this? It's time he stops ass licking to the Trump administration and realises the unique relationship we once had, is no more.

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Well the fact we’ve isolated ourselves from our closest neighbours via Brexit, makes that a little difficult.

However rejoining the customs union will fix that.

SerendipityJane · 25/03/2025 13:36

JHound · 25/03/2025 13:29

But the American Dream is largely a myth. It has one of the lowest (if not the lowest) rate of social mobility in the developed world. “The American Dream” is more possible for more people in many European countries.

Except Britain. Good luck rising to head of state here.

PenneyFouryourthoughts · 25/03/2025 13:38

In a small quarter of American politics (and their voters) that Europeans have been sucking America dry since the first world war, and that "if it wasn't for us y'all be speaking German now".* It's like they haven't moved on in 100 years.

*I heard a Yank say this to a Belgian on a train in Belgium once, loudly & very proud.

JudgeJ · 25/03/2025 13:42

ImmediateReaction · 25/03/2025 10:08

I agree. Elected by millions

And were he eligible, he would be re-elected in 2028 because he is saying what appeals to large swathes of Americans who have little knowledge of what goes on in the next State over, never mind across the Atlantic.

southerngirl10 · 25/03/2025 13:45

JudgeJ · 25/03/2025 13:42

And were he eligible, he would be re-elected in 2028 because he is saying what appeals to large swathes of Americans who have little knowledge of what goes on in the next State over, never mind across the Atlantic.

Flippin 'eck, those millions and millions of Americans must be so thick, mustn't they? Like the BBC regularly points out only the stupid ones vote for Trump, all the educated ones voted for Biden.

DuncinToffee · 25/03/2025 13:45

Press secretarty Leavitt has taken to X for lying her way through it

JudgeJ · 25/03/2025 13:47

PenneyFouryourthoughts · 25/03/2025 13:38

In a small quarter of American politics (and their voters) that Europeans have been sucking America dry since the first world war, and that "if it wasn't for us y'all be speaking German now".* It's like they haven't moved on in 100 years.

*I heard a Yank say this to a Belgian on a train in Belgium once, loudly & very proud.

I've had this diatribe in the US, how they were the saviours of the world, especially in WW2. When I told them 'Had not America sat on its arse for three years during WW2, millions would have been saved' they were furious, how dare anyone contradict them!. T
hey also don't like being told that their space programme existed because of all the Nazi scientists they took to America to work on it, the skills were not there before, the Nazis had been experimenting by bombing the UK.

DuncinToffee · 25/03/2025 13:49

ImmediateReaction · 25/03/2025 13:08

I don't think Trump actually knows what his incompetent idiots are doing. It was new to him.

A journalist now knows more about US national security than the President

JudgeJ · 25/03/2025 13:50

southerngirl10 · 25/03/2025 13:45

Flippin 'eck, those millions and millions of Americans must be so thick, mustn't they? Like the BBC regularly points out only the stupid ones vote for Trump, all the educated ones voted for Biden.

Your interpretation, not mine. If the Democrats don't get their act together, and it's probably too late for 2028, then America will have Trump-the-sequel for 8 years in the form of Vance.

SinnerBoy · 25/03/2025 14:16

JudgeJ · Today 13:47

And that's not to mention the Japanese germ and chemical warfare scientists, who killed millions of Chinese and other nationalities, with their evil "experiments."

FaithFables · 25/03/2025 14:34

ImmediateReaction · 25/03/2025 10:11

They are turning in, very insular. Europe needs to come together and sort itself out and the next time the US expect support offer words but not actions.

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Yes, just send them "thoughts and prayers" in the same way their government do when there is yet another school shooting.

mizfit416 · 25/03/2025 14:35

You can't believe everything the supposed media says. I'm in the US and I LOVE YOU! 😍

Crikeyalmighty · 25/03/2025 14:37

@JudgeJ and if it wasn’t for the fact the gvt and individuals have access to seemingly vast amounts of credit a lot of them would be in massive schtuck too - I was amazed when I read what the average family credit amounts were-

Araminta1003 · 25/03/2025 14:38

I disagree. Our Governments let Amazon, Meta, Tesla, X exploit our markets pretty much unfettered and in some cases, with long term negative implications.

So depends on how you define “freeloading” - those companies freeloaded off us.

u3ername · 25/03/2025 14:47

He’s a bully and checking how provocative he can be. Sadly not with just words but also actions.

I think the next world war is inevitable unless he dies or something some time soon. And I am sure people who voted him in (as well as supporting him from other countries) will still not connect the dots.

Swirlythingy2025 · 25/03/2025 14:51

Pathetic European freeloaders"? A harsh label, certainly but the question it raises is one of power dynamics and dependency. The United States has long viewed itself as the dominant force, bearing the weight of global responsibility, and now, in a moment of shifting tides, frustration bubbles to the surface.

Europe’s contributions to global stability after events like September 11th cannot be dismissed. It's high time for the continent to evolve beyond passive reliance and assert a more independent, robust presence on the global stage. Allies should contribute, yes but true strength lies in self-sufficiency. It’s a lesson everyone needs to learn, even the so-called "greatest" powers.

SerendipityJane · 25/03/2025 14:52

mizfit416 · 25/03/2025 14:35

You can't believe everything the supposed media says. I'm in the US and I LOVE YOU! 😍

Sometimes the clothes do not make the man.

Qmalrg · 25/03/2025 14:59

Anyone high up in US govt shouldn't be describing Europe/Europeans this way. We are supposed to be allies.

That said, when trump visited London in 2018, Sadiq Khan gave permission for a giant orange helium balloon of a baby Trump, naked but for a nappy. I thought at the time that this was an utterly disgraceful action for a mayor to condone. Highly disrespectful to a long time and very strong ally - regardless of the political beliefs of anyone.

So on balance, why should we be able to dish out disrespectful behaviour and not expect to be called pathetic freeloaders in return?

And before we start on about strengthening our ties with Europe, defence, and whatever - let's not forget that our idiotic population voted for Brexit.

So yes, the actions of the US govt are disgraceful. But our actions are disgraceful as well. So seems all square to me.

Qmalrg · 25/03/2025 15:03

DuncinToffee · 25/03/2025 13:49

A journalist now knows more about US national security than the President

To be fair to Trump, his instructions were to "get it done". He didn't give a shit about the specifics or want to be on that chat.

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