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Are Europeans 'pathetic European free loaders'?

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ImmediateReaction · 25/03/2025 09:59

WhatsApp chat released today from the US calling Europeans 'pathetic European free-loaders'.

One of our closest allies! What about support from European countries after September 11th?

AIBU to expect more professional language?

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CandlePrick · 25/03/2025 15:43

YABU to expect more professionalism from Trump and his band of loons.

But also the leaked WhatsApp’s from the Tories and Cummings referring to people as ‘cunts’ wasn’t any better.

thepariscrimefiles · 25/03/2025 15:48

JHound · 25/03/2025 15:25

It’s only being called “undemocratic” by those for whom the result did not go their way.

It by was a clear case of direct democracy.

What about the Brexit election interferance by Arron Banks with his links to Russia?

It was undemocratic because nobody actually knew what sort of Brexit they were voting for. We ended up with the hardest Brexit of all which has been disastrous for the economy as we have lost out biggest trading partners.

BeSpoonyFatbaII · 25/03/2025 15:48

JHound · 25/03/2025 15:16

Brexit was many things but it was not “undemocratic”.

And insisting that it was just about racism is a good part of the reason the Remain side lost.

I'll simply say that the two groups most affected by Brexit, legal EU immigrants and those British people living long term in Europe were excluded from your very democratic referendum. A vote was held to decide my fate after I'd lived here legally and paid taxes for years that I could not take part in. So, no, not democratic and yes, whole heartedly racist if you read any of the comments from Brexiters. I'm very sorry if they're offended by being called racist though.

WestwardHo1 · 25/03/2025 15:52

ohdelay · 25/03/2025 11:33

They said the quiet bit out loud, this is what they (some of them) think. France must be feeling pretty good this morning. They own their own nukes and means to deploy them (we rent our missiles from the US, India and Pakistan also make their own). France are energy independent and have a mature nuclear power system providing cheap energy to fund infrastructure (We have a bunch of shitty windmills that are usually stationary as too windy and its nearing warm season so just stop oil idiots sticking themselves to stuff and throwing paint around). There is no way we can become AI leaders without cheap, reliable energy to support the infrastructure. France are close to being food independent (we were unable to feed ourselves in the 40s and there are more people now).
We are tag alongs and posers. We are a very, very, soft power and our recent "posing and posturing" is being called out. We send foreign aid (bribes) to countries with space programs (we've never been ourselves) and hold lots of meetings and sign 100 year deals with Ukraine while squealing for US backup and assurances. We need to start being more like France and stop relying on others.
www.gov.uk/government/news/uk-and-ukraine-sign-landmark-100-year-partnership-to-deepen-security-ties-and-strengthen-partnership-for-future-generations

All true though not everything is rosy in France surely? Such as being more or less broke.

Puzzledandpissedoff · 25/03/2025 15:53

Snorlaxo · 25/03/2025 11:49

Do Americans use or hear phrases like “Special Relationship” or is that a term used by UK media to make the UK seem more diplomatically significant to the US?

I obviously don't move in government circles, but in many years spent in the US I've never heard it except in reference to what's said in the UK

As you suggested it seems more "our" thing, largely based on our shared language and with a hefty dollop of "If we pretend we're best buddies they'll hopefully be nice to us"

BeSpoonyFatbaII · 25/03/2025 15:55

Puzzledandpissedoff · 25/03/2025 15:53

I obviously don't move in government circles, but in many years spent in the US I've never heard it except in reference to what's said in the UK

As you suggested it seems more "our" thing, largely based on our shared language and with a hefty dollop of "If we pretend we're best buddies they'll hopefully be nice to us"

There is a bit of it, but not as much as here. Ironically I'd have said our truly special relationship had been with Canada. But Trump has clearly burnt that bridge to the ground and then pissed on the ashes.

ErrolTheDragon · 25/03/2025 15:57

Araminta1003 · 25/03/2025 14:38

I disagree. Our Governments let Amazon, Meta, Tesla, X exploit our markets pretty much unfettered and in some cases, with long term negative implications.

So depends on how you define “freeloading” - those companies freeloaded off us.

And we’ve foolishly allowed the Americans to buy up too much of our technology eg ARM and DeepMind.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 25/03/2025 15:59

Who cares what the Americans think?

Most Europeans have called Trump far worse.

GasPanic · 25/03/2025 15:59

WestwardHo1 · 25/03/2025 15:52

All true though not everything is rosy in France surely? Such as being more or less broke.

Well it is rosy.

Apart from the much touted nuclear power stations being knackered from decades of service, and it being horribly expensive to replace them.

Along with the fact welfare reform seems next to impossible because people riot everytime the government tries to make changes to the system. Which will probably lead to systemic collapse within the next 10-20 years.

And the fact that there seems to be some sort of major riot in the streets once a year or so with the police charging barricades and hurling tear gas.

Apart from that France is absolutely fine.

Notonthestairs · 25/03/2025 16:03

I agree that Vance and friends are as bothered - if not more bothered - by the EU and UK stance on money laundering and proposed digital services taxes as NATO spending.

Whats the point of the EU if they cant make 'enough' money from it?

And I don't believe for one moment that Vance wants to see a militarily strengthened EU (unless we buy everything from the US which clearly wont happen now).

They are already grumbling about nuclear proliferation - ie they dont want EU countries to start co-ordinating on this stuff.

SerendipityJane · 25/03/2025 16:03

Qmalrg · 25/03/2025 15:31

Nothing to do with speech, free or not. The balloon wasn't talking.

It was visually offensive, and designed to be so, and we were wrong to do/allow it.

I don't support Trump, but I can see that our behaviour isn't OK as well.

It was visually offensive, and designed to be so, and we were wrong to do/allow it.

Speak for yourself. I was more than happy with it.

I politicians want respect, there is a really really easy way to get it.

Act in a way that deserves respect.

It amuses me how sensitive folks are these days. 21st century political discourse is positively Shakespearian compared to the 1700s and 1800s.

SerendipityJane · 25/03/2025 16:05

They are already grumbling about nuclear proliferation - ie they dont want EU countries to start co-ordinating on this stuff.

see also: Pan-African congress.

Crikeyalmighty · 25/03/2025 16:13

@JHound not particularly democratic when the leave campaign constantly spouted that there would be frictionless trade, less red tape and some kind of customs union would be there - lots of the ‘we too could be like Norway’ - as someone with a business dealing with the EU and physical goods-nothing could be further from the truth - so whilst it wasn’t an undemocratic vote as such the vote was based on a great deal of bullshit that many believed would be the case.

JandLandG · 25/03/2025 16:17

Absolute ignorant CF-ers.

This fella Hegseth is an absolute charmer; paid a woman off for one of his infractions - plenty of other stuff about him.

They've been bailing us out?

That macho 'Murca gung-ho, bullshit attitude they've always had is why they've spent billions upon billions feeding their own military-industrial complex; they love it.

Starting wars that don't need starting, fermenting wars by proxy, elongating wars that suit them politically - we know how they behave, so don't start telling us civilised Europeans that you've just been charitable over the decades.

The US (under this regime) has proved itself to be an unreliable ally, if not an outright enemy.

Siding with their white-nationalist authoritarian mates in Russia.

They can fuck off.

SerendipityJane · 25/03/2025 16:22

Just for the pathetic.

Are Europeans 'pathetic European free loaders'?
Allthegoodnamesarechosen · 25/03/2025 16:25

Virtually every single ‘leader’ in Europe took great delight in insulting and ridiculing the Now POTUS. Are you really surprised that he doesn’t actually like them/ us much?

user1471516498 · 25/03/2025 16:28

On paper, the Brexit referendum was democratic, in that we voted. However, the fact that nobody had a clue what Brexit meant made a mockery of the whole thing.
And for the benefit of non Brits, it wasn't people being lazy or stupid and not researching it.The government did not in fact have a plan for if the people voted to leave.

Qmalrg · 25/03/2025 16:29

SerendipityJane · 25/03/2025 16:03

It was visually offensive, and designed to be so, and we were wrong to do/allow it.

Speak for yourself. I was more than happy with it.

I politicians want respect, there is a really really easy way to get it.

Act in a way that deserves respect.

It amuses me how sensitive folks are these days. 21st century political discourse is positively Shakespearian compared to the 1700s and 1800s.

It’s not about being sensitive. He probably didn’t personally give a fuck about the balloon. But I don’t know why we would expect him to treat us (as a nation) well after that. Why would he? If someone is rude or mean to me, I don’t give much of a shit and I won’t be upset by it - but I won’t be seeing them or helping them after that. Not because I’m upset, but because they aren’t worth my headspace/time.

DuncinToffee · 25/03/2025 16:30

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Are Europeans 'pathetic European free loaders'?
EasternStandard · 25/03/2025 16:33

Allthegoodnamesarechosen · 25/03/2025 16:25

Virtually every single ‘leader’ in Europe took great delight in insulting and ridiculing the Now POTUS. Are you really surprised that he doesn’t actually like them/ us much?

Pretty much. Plus anti US rhetoric has been around for a while. In the end their voters think you pay then.

Mirabai · 25/03/2025 16:34

BeSpoonyFatball · 25/03/2025 15:15

I'm an American/European who has lived in the UK for many years including the lovely Brexit time.

No Europeans are not pathetic. Yes Trump is an idiot.

No, this is not a uniquely American problem. Brexit was a fucking racist undemocratic nightmare for legal EU immigrants. We then got the indignity of watching the Asshole who helped lie and usher it in become the Prime Minister.

Boris called Muslim women "letter boxes" and people still loved him. Huge percentage of the UK voted for Brexit despite the damage it would do to people in NI because they only care about getting rid of foreigners

Laughingly those people are now talking about the ties they share with Europe.

The world is a shit show, everywhere. We just ride this shower out until the next one.

Yep.

SerendipityJane · 25/03/2025 16:34

Qmalrg · 25/03/2025 16:29

It’s not about being sensitive. He probably didn’t personally give a fuck about the balloon. But I don’t know why we would expect him to treat us (as a nation) well after that. Why would he? If someone is rude or mean to me, I don’t give much of a shit and I won’t be upset by it - but I won’t be seeing them or helping them after that. Not because I’m upset, but because they aren’t worth my headspace/time.

You see I really wasn't expecting Trump to treat us well in 2016. And he didn't disappoint.

Also, the tone of debate hasn't really changed in over 40 years. I can remember Spitting Image and Not The Nine O'Clock News. If you think Trump has been badly treated, checkout how Reagan got both barrels in the 80s.

Crikeyalmighty · 25/03/2025 16:35

@Allthegoodnamesarechosen well maybe if he hadn’t gone around with the unprofessional spiel of ‘you know that horrible liberal lefty person xyz ‘ and constantly badmouthing his opponents or past opponents or indeed anyone criticising him or faking his wealth to keep him out of gaol and paying off hookers - the list is endless of distrustworthy unprofessional shit in fact - then there would have been nothing much to ridicule. Other leaders were not ridiculing Biden or Obama Or even Bush senior or junior- he is quite unique in uniting every major leader who isn’t in his own mirror image.

StandFirm · 25/03/2025 16:37

Havanananana · 25/03/2025 10:13

But they have been busy supporting some of their placemen and women in Europe too - AfD in Germany, FPÖ in Austria, Reform in the UK, DF in Denmark and many others who all spout the same garbage as though they're all reading from the same playbook.

Yes, it's what I would call franchised politics. Like McDonald's, or a successful TV show with local versions in 50 countries....
The irony is that those claiming to be nationalists are in fact playing a globalist game.

Mirabai · 25/03/2025 16:40

JHound · 25/03/2025 15:16

Brexit was many things but it was not “undemocratic”.

And insisting that it was just about racism is a good part of the reason the Remain side lost.

Oh yes referendums - the easily manipulate mob vote beloved of dictators to convince the gullible of a thin veneer of democracy.

There’s a reason why they were banned in Germany post WWII.

And this naivety/ignorance is precisely how we ended up with Boris and the US ended up with Trump.

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