If it were say, Anne’s birthday and Anne had received a card from her MIL, would you expect
- MIL to message Anne first on her birthday to say HBD?
- Anne to message MIL first to say thanks for the card?
I’ll not say whether I am Anne or MIL, just trying to settle a conversation with
- DH because MIL should send message to say HBD and Anne claims she then would’ve said thanks for the card
- DS because Anne should message MIL to say thanks for the card and MIL claims she then would’ve said HBD
First world problems I know so fairly lighthearted and trivial, just wanted to see the general consensus as one person thinks the other was rude.
Wanted to change the poll question and responses but it won’t let me, so I’ll randomly assign
You are BU as MIL messages first
You are not BU as Anne messages first